having played and completed Disco Elysium multiple times now I’m getting the chance to notice things that I really didn’t zero in on when I played it the first time.
like how bad Kim’s eyesight really is. when you find Cuno’s shack Kim is genuinely surprised that it was there, he didn’t even notice the thing that clued your Perception in on their maybe being a door. to him you really just walked up to a wall and a piece fell down and there was now a door there. and that puts his utter failure to shoot the corpse down into a completely different light (and why Empathy tells you that you shouldn’t show him compassion).
or just how funny Kim is. how willing he is to take part in a joke or a prank as long as it’s in the pursuit of solving the case or “doing your job” as policemen. how he’s willing to play a character for the Racist Lorry Driver. or mess with the wannabe Skulls and take their jackets. or even how he starts introducing you as Detective Costeau if you continue to stick with the name (though he is clearly trying very hard to keep his voice steady and face still). he genuinely actually has a good sense of humor (but is also very serious, which makes it even funnier).
or the specter of fear and anger that hovers around Garte. he doesn’t know if the Union will squeeze him out like they did all the other business owners, or if they’re going to start a war (I mean, there’s a literal dead mercenary hanging in his back yard). he’s got to be wondering how he can stay open if only locals can come in or out (due to the blockade) and he’s clinging to the idea that he has other places that he manages. we get glimpses of his real thoughts in the moments before he catches his tongue and realizes “no, I really shouldn’t talk to cops/the union/others like that.”
or the practiced apathy that Klaasje uses to hide her fear, how she pretends so hard not to care so you don’t suspect her. how effectively she can lay another tempting red herring at your feet. how Evrart Claire really is clever enough to play not only the characters but the player (if you haven’t stacked your skills correctly or if you just say the wrong things in the wrong ways). that you can even manage to accidentally help him is a testament to the writing they’ve done.
not to mention the pervasive and ever-present fury of Revachol as a reaction to their subjugation by the Moralintern. the sadness in Cuno’s eyes when you see past the speed in his bloodstream. the ways in which people struggle to survive in what is effectively a battlefield. the feeling of life’s daily struggle slowly drowning you under the weight of “you’ll never do better. you’ll never be better.” and the breath of fresh air in simple kindnesses from others (lamby, Kim’s compassionate moments, the old washerwoman, the salami man visiting his friend, the dance club, and so many more).
I could write a book about how much this game means to me. how much these people mean to me. how much the potential for change, even in a doomed world, means that we can all at least create a little joy before we go. and I don’t think I’d even scratch the surface of all that it means to me. this game is...a metamorphosis? it changes the structure of what I expect from video games in the future. it changes what I expect from storytelling. I cannot express how important this game is as a vehicle for storytelling, it changes what’s possible.
2K notes
·
View notes
Contents
Summary: super vague thing about making a decision and solomon trying to help
Word Count: 2.4K
A/N: Going through a lot of anxiety lately and i wanted just a bit of comfort
It’s swelling up inside you- mixing all the contents of your insides, and threatening to spill over as blood rushes through your body. You’re unable to sit properly, shifting every second, your skin feeling too tight, jaw clenched and molars rubbing against each other, heart racing, threatening to beat out of your chest and leave you in a mess of-
“I brought the snacks!” The door swings open, and you turn quickly, watching as Solomon enters with his head down, talking about the different kinds of snacks that he brought from the human world. “I brought all your favorites, and I’ll make sure to leave a spell-” he kicks the door behind him to close, head still down peering into the bag- “that way Beelzebub won’t get into them, okay?” He lifts his head and his smile, the corners of his lips pinched upwards, slowly fall into a frown. “Are you okay?”
You intake a short breath of air, and you think about lying to him. He wouldn’t believe it, but he’s good at knowing when you want to talk about it and when you don’t. But then, you think about lying to him, after he went and got you snacks, snacks that you had wanted and that doesn’t seem fair.
“I’m uh, not,” you say it in a much softer voice than you would have expected, the last word hanging in the air in front of you. “Not okay,” you quickly add, forcing the words to push further into the air.
He reacts quickly, his expression changing as he takes long strides towards you, and he mutters something under his breath, the bag disappearing from his hands and reappearing to be placed on your desk, the contents spilling out above your laptop, and you catch a glimpse of a mascot on the candy, and you’d think that you’d taste the candy on your tongue, but you’re unable to taste anything but the bile and spit that rests heavy on your tongue. There’s a pause as he's unsure whether to sit on your bed, or if he should crouch before you. You can see the hesitation, the small jerky movements of his muscles tensing and how his eyes flutter to you and to the side of the room where a chair is unoccupied. You shift, moving away from the edge of the bed where you've laid yourself , making room for him. He sits beside you, his hands going to where you’ve curled your own into the fabric of the pillow case.
“What happened?” His voice is soft, caring, and he cares so much for you and it’s too much.
There’s no easy way to say it, and maybe there is just no way to say it- all the internal back and forth that you have been doing, choices gnawing at your mind and making you second guess yourself. “I don’t like making decisions,” you mutter. It’s so dumb when said out loud, and you realize that, you realize how dumb you must sound. Tears start to well up in your eyes, and you look down, biting the corners of your lips in a shamed and nervous smile.
“Why not?” A hand leaves yours and you follow it with your eyes, losing it once it goes around you, but his hand is on your back, closed and running up and down. You shrug and fiddle with the loose thread on the edge of the pillowcase. “What makes this decision so difficult for you?”
“I don’t like disappointing people,” you say in a shaky voice. “I wish I were better at not caring.” You wish you could say that you want others to make the hard decisions for you, but even then, that would be far too much, that would make you an ill-mannered person, incapable of doing the most basic things and that type of shame makes you want to cry.
The other hand leaves yours, and the pads of his fingers touch against your jaw, turning your head towards him. “If you ask me, I love how much you care about others.” There’s a melancholic smile that graces his features, that makes him look older and wistful. “You try to do your best to please others, and I think that shows how loving you are. You want to help others, and you always have this smile on your face when you do it, you never give up on others. But-” you look up at him, brows knitted together- “you also sacrifice too much of yourself to please others. It’s like you stretch yourself thin to help others, to make sure that they’re happy before you. You feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders and you don’t want any help.”
“I don’t want to annoy people,” you croak. “I talk too much and then we just end up going in circles and it should be an easy decision but it isn’t.” You have to look away from him unless he sees the tears that start to kiss on your cheeks.
“You won’t annoy anyone. Certainly not me.” Once more, Solomon guides you back to look at him and a thumb traces under your eye, swiping at the budding tear. Another tear soon replaces the lost one. “If there’s anyone that you could ever talk to, it would be me.”
There’s a constricting sensation around your throat, and you look down, one of your hands reaching upwards, to keep his hand held against your face.
“Do you want help from me?” He asks, and you bite your tongue. He sighs, and you can see his chest take in the breath and slowly puff it out. “Do you want a hug?”
You can feel in the air how tense it’s gotten, how he’s stepping on eggshells to be around you and to make sure that you’re okay with him being so close- that you’re okay with letting him in. It feels wrong to ruin a moment, but you do so anyways, fearing that letting him see too much would only push him away. “I feel like that’s asking too much. You look up at him, a wobbly smile ticking at the corner of your lips. “Isn’t that against sorcerer and apprentice code?” You’re more than happy to let him see you happy, to see your back and to relish in that type of person, than this scared one.
He grins, and though he doesn’t age, at least not as rapidly as you do, you can see the crow’s feet that deepen with his smile. “It’ll be our secret then, hm?” The bed dips closer to your thighs as he moves closer to you. “Plus, I’d be a horrible person if I let someone as pretty as you cry.” You push yourself forward, and for a brief moment, in his arms and with your face against his chest, hearing and feeling his heart beat and echo against you, you feel at bliss, any worry gone and evaporated into the air and a part of you wonders if he had anything to do with that. “There we go,” he mutters, his arms wrapping around and leaving your face warm with his mark. “Much better, hm?” You feel his lips press against the crown of your head. Tears burn, and you feel like you’re being choked by a phantom of guilt and shame, as he holds you with a tenderness you can’t recall being given to you.
“Much better,” you agree, shifting in his arms, wrapping your own around his torso. You keep yourself pressed close to him and it feels right. There’s no lie in that sentence. You do feel better, you feel more of yourself than you have in a long time, and you know that it’s him causing this- for better or for worse. But you like feeling calm, you like being happy with him. In the time of your apprenticeship, you both have grown closer, you’ve seen just how patient he can be. He’s the best of both of you, and you’ll always stare up at him, wanting his touch, but never feeling as though that would ever be enough, that you’d always want more.
“Whatever it is that's going on-” worry settles in once more, and as if he could tell, he presses another kiss to your once more- “we’ll figure it out. You’re still here, and as long as you and I are together, we’ll figure it out.”
“Promise?” You ask, peeling away from him, tears making your vision blurry and when you blink them away, they leave trails of crystals on your cheeks.
Solomon nods his head. “Promise.” A kiss is pressed to the tip of your nose, and your eyes scrunch at the feeling, your smile coming back. “I’d never break a promise to you, not ever.” He pulls away and moves himself onto the bed, lifting a hand and you watch as the blanket folded on the edge of your bed lifts and curves around you, trying to nudge you close to him. You laugh lightly, getting the message and crawling over to him. “There you are,” he says in a whisper, pulling you close to his chest, his limbs entangling into yours as he hides himself into your neck, his breath warm and lips soft as they kiss against your pulse. “Whatever it is, I’ll take good care of you.”
“Solomon,” you say softly, and his name feels so heavy on your tongue. He hums in response, and his hand grabs yours to hold to his chest. You’re silent for a moment too long and he twitches- his legs straightening and you’ve ruined the comfortable pose he was already in. “Thank you,” you add quickly. “I don’t think I could have ever been this version of me without you.” You’re scared, but you know that he’s here. You know that he’s helping you, letting you take comfort in him and letting you rely on others. He’s allowing you to be soft and clingy like a child, letting you take no shame in it, and only encouraging it. You walk on shaky legs like a fawn, voicing your worries, and you hold onto him in a tight grip. “Without sounding so sappy,” you add, “you really, really-” you emphasize the word- “mean a lot to me.”
“Hate to tell you this, my love-” you look up at him and he’s given you a particularly mischievous grim- “but that sounded really sappy.” You open your mouth, a snide remark already on your tongue, when he continues. “But if it helps, you really mean a lot to me as well. Much more than I could have ever thought.” You press yourself closer to his chest, hands twisting into the fabric of his shirt. “Do you want to talk about it?”
“Maybe? I don’t want to bore you-” he clears his throat and you cringe upon yourself. “I already made the decision a bit ago, and it’s been finalized, but I can’t help but worry if it was the right thing to do or to say, and it sucks and-” tears return and there’s a harsh crack in your voice. “What if I regret it?”
Solomon stays quiet for a moment. “I’ve lived for a long time, and there are a lot of things that I regret, both from actions that I’ve done and actions that I chose not to do. But-” you can tell that he’s choosing his words carefully, letting them form on his tongue and roll out- “at the end, they didn’t seem to matter. I’m here with you and whatever decision led me here, was a good one.”
“Despite all the sadness?” You ask in a meek voice.
“I've learned that there are always going to be some type of negative feelings and while I wish that there wouldn’t be any sadness around, that feeling will always linger. You just have to let that feeling roll off of you, if the decision has been made and finalized, that’s it. It’s out of your hands now. There’s no need to worry about it. You can’t let it consume you. I know that you think you’ll regret it, but maybe it was for the best. It’ll work out. Whatever it was for, I doubt this will be the last opportunity that you’ll have. There will always be more things that will come your way.”
The words help, if only for a moment, and you cling closer to him, worry washing off of you for a brief moment and letting your body feel heavy. “And you’ll be there?” You ask in a soft voice, vulnerability etched into your words, that it’d be impossible to untangle the feeling and words. “To hear me out and stuff?”
“I’ll be here till you grow tired of me,” he says earnestly. “For stuff and all.” He presses his lips to the top of your head once more.
It’s silent for a moment, and your hands have loosened from a fist to just curving around his sides. The conversation is done, and you know that if you wanted to open it again, you could, but you want to spend time with him that isn’t so worrisome. “You brought candy?”
“I did!” He sounds so proud of himself, so chipper, that you smile. “From that store in your hometown? The one that you were telling me a while ago?”
Your eyes widen and you lift yourself up, and your face breaks into a smile. It’s wide and stretched, and his smile is so much softer, his eyes looking upwards at you, and hands pulling back towards him to lay flat on his stomach. “Really?” You ask in an incredulous voice. He gives you a sharp nod. “Solomon,” you gasp out, “you’re the best.” You lay back down, peppering his face with short and fleeting kisses and he’s giggling the whole way through, his arms wrapping around you and holding you to him.
“I’m glad that I could be of service,” he says through a fit of laughter. You sit down beside him, your hands tapping on your thighs. “If I had known that that would’ve been the reaction, I would’ve said something much sooner.” You roll your eyes and he starts to pull himself upwards into a sitting position like yours. His hands grab yours, long and thin fingers wrapping around yours. “Whatever you need from me, you only have to ask.” His hand lifts yours to press a kiss to the back of your hand.
125 notes
·
View notes
Please, if you can, take a moment to read and share this because I feel like I'm screaming underwater.
NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) stigma is rampant right now, and seems to be getting progressively worse. Everyone is using it as a buzzword in the worst ways possible, spreading misinformation and hatred against a real disorder.
I could go on a long time about how this happened, why it's factually incorrect (and what the disorder actually IS), why it's harmful, and the changes I'd like to see. But to keep this concise, I'll simply link to a few posts under the cut for further reading.
The point of this post is a plea. Please help stop the spread of stigma. Even in mental health communities, even around others with personality disorders, in neurodivergent "safe" spaces, other communities I thought people would be supportive in (e.g. trans support groups, progressive spaces in general), it keeps coming up. So I'm willing to bet that a lot of people on this site need to see this.
Because it's so hard to exist in this world.
My disorder already makes me feel as if I'm worthless and unlovable, like there's something inherently wrong and damaged about me. And it's so much harder to fight that and heal when my daily life consists of:
Laughing and spending time with my friends, doing my utmost best to connect and stay present and focused on them, trying to let my guards down and be real and believe I'm lovable- when suddenly they throw out the word "narcissist" to describe horrible people or someone they hate, or the conversation turns to how evil "people with narcissistic personality disorder" are. (Seriously, you don't know which of your friends might have NPD and feels like shit when you say those things & now knows that you'd hate them if you knew.)
Trying to look up "mental health positivity for people with npd", "mental health positivity cluster bs", only to find a) none of that, and b) more of the same old vile shit that makes me feel terrible about myself.
Having a hard time (which is constant at this point) and trying to look up resources for myself, only to again, find the same stigma. And no resources.
Not having any clue how to help myself, because even the mental health field is spitting so much vitriol at people with DISORDERS (who they're supposed to be helping!) that there's no solid research or therapy programs for people like me.
Losing close friends when they find out, despite us having had a good relationship before, and them KNOWING me and knowing that I'm not like the trending image of pwNPD. Because now they only see me through the lens of stigma and misinformation.
Hearing the same stigma come up literally wherever I go. Clubs. Meetings. Any online space. At the bus stop. At the mall. At a restaurant. At work. Buzzword of the year that everyone loooves loudly throwing around with their friends or over the phone. Feels awesome for me, makes my day so much better/s
I could go on for a long time, but I'm scared no one will read/rb this if it gets too much longer.
So please. Stop using the word "narcissist" as a synonym for "abusive".
Stop bringing up people you hate who you believe to have NPD because of a stigmatizing article full of misinformation whenever someone with actual NPD opens their mouth. (Imagine if people did that with any other disorder! "Hey, I'm autistic." "Oh... my old roommate screamed at me whenever I made noise around him, and didn't understand my needs, which seems like sensory overload and difficulty with social cues. He was definitely autistic. But as long as you're self-aware and always restraining your innate desire to be an abusive asshole, you're okay I guess, maybe." ...See how offensive and ignorant that is?)
Stop preventing healthcare for people with a disorder just because it's trendy to use us as a scapegoat.
If you got this far, thank you for reading, and please share this if you can. Further reading is under the cut.
NPD Criteria, re-written by someone who actually has NPD
Stigma in the DSM
Common perception of the DSM criteria vs how someone may actually experience them (Keep in mind that this is the way I personally experience these symptoms, and that presentation can vary a lot between individuals)
"Idk, the stigma is right though, because I've known a lot of people with NPD who are jerks, so I'm going to continue to support the blockage of treatment for this condition."
(All of these were written by me, because I didn't want to link to other folks' posts without permission, but if you want to add your own links in reblogs or replies please feel free <3)
7K notes
·
View notes
TO BE SAFE. EDDIE MUNSON
synopsis: you ask to sleep over at eddie’s for the first time, and he undoubtedly is head over heels for you
word count: 1.2k
authors notes: somebody requested this before i started my blog over! if this finds u, im sending you a cookie and a kiss, as promised x
warnings: fem!reader, use of gendered pet names (princess, pretty girl), dialogue is…….cheesy cringe a little😔, clueless eddie, kissing !!!
“Goddamit.”
Eddie hisses beside you at the jumpscare on screen. It was the quietest sound, drowned underneath the blood-curdling screams in the film. It probably would’ve gone completely unnoticed. Unluckily for him, it didn’t. Luckily for you, your legs were draped over his lap, so the mechanical jolt of fright sent your own legs jumping into the air.
His head is thrown against the back of his couch as he slaps his free hand over his eyes. You giggle as you watch his skin flush scarlet underneath your stare.
“Eddie, it’s okay,” you coo, voice shaky in between your laughter.
The embarrassment doesn’t quite subside, but the sound of your infectious giggle and the feeling of you moving into his lap to pry away his fingers is enough to have his chest rumbling with mirrored joy. He gazes up at you as you hold his hands.
“You scared, Eds?”
You don’t mean for it to sound like you’re teasing, but he laughs anyway. With a grin, he shakes his head wildly and clasps his hands around your back.
“Nope, I’ve got a princess to protect me.”
He pushes you down into the couch so that he’s hovering above you, and you respond with a squeal. Your legs are locked around his waist as his hands dig into the plush of the cushion beside your head. He leans down with a proud smile to press a kiss to your mouth.
The kisses are sloppy. He litters your face and neck in open-mouthed love bites, none hard enough to leave any mark. When he reaches your lips, it’s more smiles and spit than any real kiss, but neither of you seem to mind. Not when the smell of his citrusy shampoo wraps around your figure to make you dizzy. Not when your hands roam along his biceps and up to the nape of his neck like you’re the only thing keeping him from floating away.
It’s a mess of hushed teasing and giggles and clashing teeth, and it’s perfect.
As he pushes himself up for a moment of air, he looks off to the side before releasing a displeased sigh. “Shit, it’s getting late,” he observes solemnly.
He sits back on his heels, just far away enough for you to hold yourself up. You follow his line of sight and find that the digital clock on the shelf reads 11:15. Your shoulders deflate and your heart sinks.
“It is kinda late, isn’t it?”
Once you turn back to him, his eyes are stuck on you. Gorgeous, dilated pupils run across the high points of your cheekbones and back down to your lips. His gaze commands a rush of heat to caress your skin until your insides are set ablaze and your mouth is painfully dry.
The utter lack of urgency may as well have been a weighted blanket.
One of his arms snakes around your waist to pull you into him further. He leans forward, tilting his head ever-so-slightly to catch your lips.
This one is less playful than the ones you shared just seconds before. His movements are languid, purposeful. Like all the air had been stolen from his lungs and you were oxygen.
Your elbows threaten to buckle underneath your weight. Though, you’d happily sink back into the couch cushions and let them swallow you whole, if it meant you got to kiss him all night. And he’d just as eagerly take up the opportunity to have you underneath him for as long as he could entertain.
But he’s pulling away. Your foreheads rest together as you wear matching expressions of bliss: eyes closed, and slick, kiss-bitten lips parted. His thumb sinks underneath the hem of your shirt to dance across your skin. Another weighted blanket.
“I’ll drive ya,” he whispers reluctantly.
You watch as Eddie stands to stretch, and the warmth follows. A pensive wrinkle makes home between his brows as he slowly moves to grab his jacket. This, along with the nagging feeling in your chest, was routine whenever you spent the day at his place.
It’s not that he hasn’t offered for you to spend the night before, because he’s suggested it quite a few times. It was just so scary. The nerves bubble and spill over and it’s just all a mess inside your head whenever you want to ask.
Today is something different, though. All that occupies your mind is Eddie, Eddie, Eddie and suddenly, you think it’d be impossible to spend the night without him.
“Really? You’re not tired?” The questions run off your tongue without a second thought.
“Well, I’m wide awake now,” he jests, running the metal of his rings over his bottom lip. He pats the pockets of his jacket for his keys, and when he comes up empty, he searches the kitchen counter.
The fear creeps back into your head as you watch him rifle through drawers. It makes you shrink in on yourself as you trudge over to your shoes that lay haphazardly by the door.
“Are you sure? I don’t want you to drive if you’re tired,” you ask softer.
Noticing a change in your demeanor, he looks up at you to see your teeth worrying at your lower lip. “I’m sure,” he insists sweetly, “Can’t let my pretty girl drive alone in the dark.”
He finally finds his keys and moves over to where his own pair of shoes rested beside yours. He sends you an easy grin and it makes it all the harder to swallow down your anxieties.
“It’s foggy out,” you mention faintly. You don’t know what the weather is like outside. It was merely you grasping at straws to freeze him in his motion. You’re sure it’s blatantly obvious at this point, expecting a light tease from the wavy-haired boy.
But oblivious as he is, Eddie peeks out the blinds anyway to scan the trailer park. He hums. It’s a little gloomy, but hardly anything to worry about. Just as he’s about to reassure you again, he pauses when he spots your fingers fidgeting with a loose seam in your sleeve. You’re staring down at your shoes — which you’ve purposely done a poor job of putting on, as they’re only halfway on your feet — with your tongue bitten between your teeth.
“Maybe…” you pause to take a deep inhale. “It’s probably better if I stay? If that's okay with you, I mean.”
Then, does Eddie freeze. And he feels like an absolute fool.
He feels like an absolute fool for being the one to get up first. For not getting the totally conspicuous hints you’ve been trying to give him for the past minute and a half. For being so focused on trying to find his damn keys that he hoped he’d lost in the first place. And for standing in shocked silence for so long that you’ve begun to frown and properly shove your ankles inside your shoes.
“Yeah,” he replies abruptly, reaching out for your arm.
“Yeah?” The hopeful rise in your inflection makes him gently squeeze your elbow.
“Yeah, of course you can stay. I want you to.”
You nod. You duck your chin to your chest to hide the shy smile on your lips, but to no avail. Eddie can spot your bright grin from a mile away and makes him go weak in the knees with a blush that he’s sure is making its way to his cheeks.
“Just to be safe, ya know,” you add before toeing off your shoes and pushing them closer to the wall.
“Right. To be safe.”
4K notes
·
View notes