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sapphic-boy · 3 months
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"Homoflexible is just bi with a preference!" It really isn't... its more like a type of abrosexual/abroromantic, where your orientation literally changes, bi people like two or more genders all of the time, their orientation doesn't change, they're always bi, but they might be more drawn to one gender over the others, homo/heteroflexible people like one gender all/most of the time, and then occasionally feel attraction to another gender that they normally don't feel attraction to in addition to or instead of the primary gender.
So to sum it up,
Bi=attracted to two or more genders constantly, may be more drawn to a specific gender over others but still experiences attraction to two or more genders all the time
Homo/heteroflexible=attracted to one gender all/most of the time, occasionally experiences attraction to a different gender in addition to or instead of the usual gender they're primarily attracted to
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A bi person is attracted to 2 or more genders 100% of the time vs a lesbiflexible person who is attracted only to women 90% of the time and attracted to men 10% of the time
It's not about how much you experience the attraction, but how often
There are also things such as "biflexible" that are kind of the reverse! So someone who is attracted to two or more genders most of the time, but is sometimes only attracted to one gender!
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bisexualsafespace · 7 months
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What does "homoflexible" mean
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homoflexibility or anisosexuality is a term for someone who is homosexual, but very rarely has periods of attraction towards dissimilar genders, the way these periods can play out are numerous and diverse, mine suddenly starts, becomes stronger in the middle before starting to fade out (gay attraction fades back in) and eventually completely dissapearing, some homoflexibles have very sudden spikes of attraction, some have no fading at all while others have attractions that go back and fourth before disappearing, etc, there are a million ways to be homoflexible, homoflexibility is a valid orientation, it is one of the oldest microlabels, going back into the 2000s and maybe even 90s, it’s twin heteroflexibility is often talked about more, and homoflexibility is overshadowed, many people are against homoflexibility, believing that it is biphobic, this is false, the homoflexibile experience is often different from both bi and homoinflexible experiences, many homoflexibles identify as exclusively homoflexible, some identify as bi, bi and gay, or just gay. one point that anisophobes love to bring up is that being “homoflexible is like being a vegan and sometimes eating meat” i have several posts explaining why this analogy is bad, i will link those in the comments.
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First image: Colors from a popular gay mens pride flag, Three teal/green stripes representing Community/Healing/Joy, A white stripe representing Transgender, Non binary and Gender non conforming people, Three purple/blue stripes representing Pure love/fortitude/diversity, with 7 stripes of black, gray and white representing the diversity of heterosexual attraction and relationships.
Second image: Colors from a popular lesbian pride flag, Three orange stripes representing Gender Non conformity/Independence/Community A white stripe representing Unique relations to gender, Three pink stripes representing Peace/Sex/femininity with 7 stripes of black, gray and white representing the diversity of heterosexual attraction and relationships.
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genderstarbucks · 3 months
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may i request homoflexible terms, but instead of it being flexible with the straight flag/opposite gender implications, its like.. the opposite mono orientation? Like lesbiflexible with the flexible part being gay/vincian/ect, and the other way around for vincianflexible
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Homoflexible or anisosexual is used to describe an individual who is generally gay/homosexual/homoromantic/equaric/simul- (vincian/veldian, enbian/cenelian, or lesbian/sapphic) and primarily experiences attraction to the same gender/similar genders, but has very occasionally rare tendencies to be attracted to other genders.
I swear I got another ask like this but I can't remember if I posted it or not?? So if I did then oopsies
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lesbiflexible culture is constantly ping ponging between "i've only felt attraction to women recently so theres no way i'm lesbiflexible" and then seeing a guy who fits my exact type and going "Ah, nope, still lesbiflexible" :3
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flexuality-edits · 1 year
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Lesbiflexible Variants: WLM
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Lesbiflexible is a subset of homoflexible, in which one is a lesbian flexible with another orientation.
The first flag is lesbiflexible through bennetian; a lesbian with flexibility in hetero attraction to men.
The second flag is lesbiflexible through julietian; a lesbian with flexibility in women-loving-men orientation.
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captain-crackship · 10 months
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Hi. I made this subtle change to my bio recently but I felt the need to address it here.
The first thing I should start with is that when I first joined Tumblr I identified as "androgyne" but that label never quite sat right with me as my gender identity was more of a middle ground between femboy and tomboy. I now identify as "themboy", which is the commonly used label according to Reddit.
My pronouns are she/they. I don't feel comfortable just using one or the other, it has to be both.
The second thing I should address is that I am a homoflexible lesbian. What this means is that I am primarily attracted to women and femspec genders, but there is a very marginally slim off-chance that I will experience attraction to someone on the other end of the gender spectrum. Some consider this as part of the multisexual spectrum or the abrosexual spectrum. I don't consider myself either of those things but that doesn't invalidate others who do.
I've seen some takes online claiming flexibility to be bi erasure when it really is not. Bisexuality is generalized attraction to two or more genders at all times. Flexibility is very context-specific.
That is all I felt the need to say here.
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noxwithoutstars · 2 years
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love how much of my identity is shit i doubt a lot of people irl would understand-
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strawberry-crocodile · 7 months
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i know those "bisexual means loving every woman and three men" jokes are gauche now and yeah its shitty to pretend thats the only definition of bi but it comes closest to describing my sexuality that ive seen. im lesbiflexible. i love women and i am not inherently opposed to fucking dudes if one catches my fancy.
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bilesproblems · 3 months
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Orientation and sexuality don't have to be 100% absolute. I'm almost entirely demiromantic but through a mix of extreme platonic attraction and wanting a relationship I've gotten myself a sort of crush on someone I'm just forming a friendship with (though she's been friendly to me before, we hadn't gotten close because we are both neurodivergent and terrible with people). I don't feel like this invalidates me as a demiromantic because for one, it wasn't a natural formation like my last relationship, and it's not entirely clear how I feel, and for two, this is THE first exception. The only one.
If a lesbian likes one guy in their whole life, they are still a lesbian if they identify that way. They don't even have to use the bi modifier. They could use lesbiflexible but they don't even have to do that. Sometimes there's one person who ends up an exception, or very few people who end up as exceptions. Like I'm still demiromantic even with just one girl as an exception so far.
(Of course, I believe anyone who loves women can be a lesbian, but I am talking about using it exclusively in this specific context)
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redtail-lol · 1 year
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Bi Lesbian Tidal Microlabels
Just llike lunian, bi lesbian can mean different things to different people, so here are the bi lesbian specific tidal labels! Flags based on Kenochoric's Bi lesbian flag!
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#1: Full-Moon Springtide Bi Lesbian
[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the bi lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep dark purple; the second one down is violet; the middle stripe is a bright pink; the second to last stripe is salmon; the bottom stripe is white. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes. Both flags have violet full moons. End ID.]
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a bi lesbian because they're attracted to multiple genders that are considered part of lesbian attraction! Ex: wlw and wlnb. I, OP, am a Full-moon springtide bi lesbian!
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#2: First-Quarter Neaptide Bi Lesbian
[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the bi lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a very dark purple; the second one down is purple; the middle stripe is a deep magenta; the second to last stripe is a light pink. The bottom stripe is a pale salmon. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes. Both flags have violet half moons, with the left half being obscured by shadow. End ID.]
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a bi lesbian because they are bi, but their attraction to genders considered part of lesbian attraction is much greater than their attraction to other genders, and as such they feel somewhere in between bi and lesbian; using lunian as an alternative to homoflexible or lesbiflexible
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#3: New-Moon Springtide Bi Lesbian
[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the bi lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, dark indigo that is close to black; the second one down is a lighter yet still dark, desaturated purple; the middle stripe is a dark violet; the second to last stripe is a reddish pink. The bottom stripe is a bright reddish pink. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes. Both flags have violet new moons, with the right half being obscured by shadow. End ID.]
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a bi lesbian because they use the split attraction model, and are lesbian in one form of attraction and bi in another.
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#4: Third-Quarter Neaptide Bi Lesbian
[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the lunian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, dark indigo that is close to black; the second one down is a lighter yet still dark, desaturated purple; the middle stripe is a deep violet-magenta; the second to last stripe is rosy pink. The bottom stripe is a bright tan. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes. Both flags have violet half moons, with the right half being obscured by shadow. End ID.]
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a bi lesbian because they are bi, and are reclaiming the historical definition of lesbian!
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#5: Tidalphasic Bi Lesbian
[Image ID: The original bi lesbian flag by kenochoric with its dark indigo top stripe, violet second stripe, pink middle stripe, light orange second to last stripe, and bottom pale yellow stripe, with an overlay of 4 violet moons in a small arc. From left to right, they are a full moon, a half moon with left side shadow, a new moon, and a half moon with right side shadow. The left flag also has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes. End ID.]
Meaning: Someone who's reason for identifying as a bi lesbian is fluid and changes. They go through the many phases of possibilities just like the moon and tide!
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#6: Midtide Bi Lesbian
[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the bi lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep violet; the second one down is a desaturated magenta; the middle stripe is a bright pink; the second to last stripe is peach; the bottom stripe is a pale peach. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes. Both flags have violet crescent moons.]
Meaning: Someone who's experience as a bi lesbian was not covered by this post, or a bi lesbian who's experience as a bi lesbian is a mix of the labels here. You are all valid lesbians but I don't know every way to be a bi and lesbian! Just like the tide, our experiences aren't rigid and there are times you are in between two.
Feel free to coin your own tidal labels for your experiences if they weren't captured here!
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sapphic-boy · 11 months
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back to my old url and my old self and i think ive got it figured out! im a bi lesbian, i cant be just one, neither feels right on its own, i like men but i dont know if i like them enough to want to date one if, god forbid, my gf and i break up and i feel like im right on the edge of bi and lesbian, i feel like my girl half is a lesbian and doesnt like men but then my boy half is bi and likes boys and girls, and altogether i feel like, homoflexible, or lesbiflexible but i feel weird identifying as a lesbian and not bi but then i feel weird identifying as bi but not a lesbian, its like the grass is always greener on the other side so im just going to sit on the fence and enjoy both yards :)
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neopronouns · 2 years
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barcode header for anon! flags in order are agender, loveless aro, bxy, angled aroace, nonbinary, gxrl, neoboy, kenochoric, neogirl, futch, ambiamorous, azurgirl, cupioromantic, lunian, lesboy, greysexual, rosboy, omni lesbian, trigender, fluidflux, lesbiflexible, and everique.
image id: the listed flags arranged side-by-side. they have been rotated 90 degrees so that their stripes are now vertical and have been resized so that each stripe is the same width. end id.
dni transcript here
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omg like hi i hope im doing this right uhm
so can you make a pride thingy icon for me?
demigirl and lesbiflexible flags with me (bow) as the character?
thx a bunchhhh!!! -bow
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here you go !! i didnt know what flag you wanted 4 the lesbiflexible, so feel free 2 tell me if you want a different 1 & ill make it !! :] & i wasnt sure if you meant bow or tbd, so i did both ^_^ if theres anything you want changed let me know !! :D
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catgirltitties · 1 year
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im sorta lesbiflexible
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teenbiology · 1 year
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lesbiflexible and lesbihonest are my favorite words ever and i can’t believe pauly d from jersey shore made one of them up
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