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noxwithoutstars · 3 hours
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"I've been thinking recently about the first ever trans space I was ever actually a part of, Bigender.net. My experience was primarily with these forums in ~2009, but I came back to peek in later years, and am trying to regain access now. There's a lot of bigender cultural things there that would probably never be known about or archived somewhere easily accessible unless someone talked about what they saw there, and I wanted to share some things.
+ A Lot of people used two or more names that they switch up, use in different contexts, and that often align with specific genders. Names are essentially changed like pronouns are for many people.
+ Most bigender people seemed to experience some kind of fluidity or flux of gender, and it was rarer for people to feel like 100% both at all times. This seems to be more often where people label themselves androgynes.
+ The language of "en femme" and "en homme" was used to describe both how one was presenting (similar to the modern boymoding/girlmoding) and to how one felt their gender on a specific day, which is what makes it different from girlmode/boymode. It wasn't just about presentation regardless of gender, but presentation as related to gender.
+ Plurality became so common over the years as a framework of bigender expression that a whole subforum for plurality emerged on these forums. Lots of plural bigender folks would experience having a "girl side" and a "boy side" in a dual system.
+ There were just as many bigender folks who experienced a neutral/other/middle gender experience besides just being male/female. It really wasn't limited to 2 genders, even if at the time it was very male/female bigender focused."
Aster, Bigender Culture
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noxwithoutstars · 5 hours
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𝄡 Authorabomination
Gender under genderabomination related to being an abomination of an author; being an abomination in an author way; being an abomination that hides under the guise of being a author; etc.
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noxwithoutstars · 5 hours
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𝄡 Realitybendabomination
Gender under genderabomination related to being an abomination of a reality bender; being an abomination in an reality bender way; being an abomination that hides under the guise of being a reality bendee; etc.
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noxwithoutstars · 14 hours
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ppl are literally so shitty about multigender people particularly boy+girl multigender ppl and i dont think they even realize it
saying boys cant be lesbians excludes us
saying girls cant be gay dudes excludes us
saying you cant be straight and gay or straight and lesbian at the same time excludes us
saying "non-men loving non-men" and "non-women loving non-women" excludes us
saying lesbian and gay are inherently inclusive of nonbinary people while also saying lesbians cant love men and gay dudes cant love women excludes us
having "men dni" or "women dni" on ur nblw/wlw and mlnb/mlm blogs excludes us
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noxwithoutstars · 17 hours
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hello mogai community :) - share this please?
some of you may have heard from me these past few weeks! But in case you haven't, I'm researching a research paper on queer online communities and xenogenders. It would help me out a lot if you took some time to answer some questions, and maybe send it to some friends. The more data the merrier !!!!!
Also, feel SO free to hop in my DMs if there's anything you feel like I should know, any stories you want to tell about your identity, or anything you might want put in a paper for non-mogai community members to read!
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noxwithoutstars · 1 day
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Stainedglassic
PT/ Stainedglassic /PT end
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ID/ A flag with nine equal stripes. Colors middle-out are darker purple, green, yellow, darker red, and dark blue. /ID end.
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-> Stainedglassic is a REMIN gender that feels like light being scattered through a stained-glass window.
-> Requested by no one
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ID/ A white DNI with a panel of the manga Oyasumi Punpun with 5 kids doing a joint pose. Words are black on the right side: “DNI: anti- ‘contradictory’ labels, anti-mogai, terf, gatekeeper, anti-decolonization, believes ‘narc abuze’ is real, demonizes ‘scary/evil’ disorders + labels.” /ID End
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noxwithoutstars · 2 days
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Curtaincrystalic
PT/ Curtaincrystalic /PT end
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ID/ A flag with seven equal stripes. Colors middle-out are off-white pink, pale lavender, pale purple, and pale indigo. /ID end.
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-> Curtaincrystalic is a gender related strings of crystals and pears and flowers, ethereality and ephemerality, crossing thresholds, and the feeling of entering into a fairytale.
-> Requested by no one
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ID/ A white DNI with a panel of the manga Oyasumi Punpun with 5 kids doing a joint pose. Words are black on the right side: “DNI: anti- ‘contradictory’ labels, anti-mogai, terf, gatekeeper, anti-decolonization, believes ‘narc abuze’ is real, demonizes ‘scary/evil’ disorders + labels.” /ID End
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noxwithoutstars · 2 days
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[ID: A flag with seven horizontal stripes, all the same size. The colors are darker at the edges and lighter in the middle. They are, from top to bottom, faded green-teal, baby blue, indigo-lilac, white, soft light pink, faded purple, and denim. END ID]
Taurus Collector: A term for those who collect Taurus-related genders
The colors come from some associations with the related sign. There’s some disagreement on what the major color(s) are for each sign depending on what source you read, so this might be a little off. I also took a few liberties or added some colors to make a more pleasing flag
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noxwithoutstars · 3 days
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wtf is going on w tumblr rn
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noxwithoutstars · 3 days
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2020altaesin
PT/ 2020altaesin /PT end
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ID/ A flag with eleven equal stripes. The outermost stripes are dark grey that gradient to light grey. The middle three stripes are light pink and darker pink. /ID end.
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-> 2020altaesthen is an aesin gender related to the 2020 alt aesthetic, bunny hats, leg warmers, 2020 tiktok, nightcore, plushies, chunky boots, kandi, colorful hair, and being unapologetically cringe.
-> Requested by anon
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ID/ A white DNI with a panel of the manga Oyasumi Punpun with 5 kids doing a joint pose. Words are black on the right side: “DNI: anti- ‘contradictory’ labels, anti-mogai, terf, gatekeeper, anti-decolonization, believes ‘narc abuze’ is real, demonizes ‘scary/evil’ disorders + labels.” /ID End
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noxwithoutstars · 4 days
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@imoga-pride assuming you meant to reply to this post, but ty for mentioning genderslider
@ anon this!
hii !! do you perhaps know of a gender that is like genderflux except it is between male and gender neutral? i like the -flux terms however they're always between some gender and agender and i don't vibe with the absence of gender much, thanks for the help in advance !!! :D
I'm thinking some terms in the genderfluid fragment system maybe, specifically genderfaun and its subterms genderfaunan and genderfaunet. But than that'd be fluidflux?
Also, bigenderflux (or multigenderflux) might be what you're looking for -> multiple genders that fluctuate in intensity, can be one gets stronger and the other(s) gets weaker, or they both (all) get weaker/stronger, etc., could also be fluidflux.
If that's not what you're describing you can send another rq for me to coin something :>
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noxwithoutstars · 4 days
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Custocanic
PT/ Custocanic /PT end
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ID/ A flag with eleven equal stripes. Colors middle-out are red, deep red, dark yellow, green-grey, darker blue, and dark teal. /ID end.
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-> Custocanic is a gender related to loyalty, blood, knights, and dogs.
-> Requested by no one
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ID/ A white DNI with a panel of the manga Oyasumi Punpun with 5 kids doing a joint pose. Words are black on the right side: “DNI: anti- ‘contradictory’ labels, anti-mogai, terf, gatekeeper, anti-decolonization, believes ‘narc abuze’ is real, demonizes ‘scary/evil’ disorders + labels.” /ID End
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noxwithoutstars · 4 days
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hello, i made a carrd with all terms i could find that are part of the genderfluid fragment system! it's here!
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hii !! do you perhaps know of a gender that is like genderflux except it is between male and gender neutral? i like the -flux terms however they're always between some gender and agender and i don't vibe with the absence of gender much, thanks for the help in advance !!! :D
I'm thinking some terms in the genderfluid fragment system maybe, specifically genderfaun and its subterms genderfaunan and genderfaunet. But than that'd be fluidflux?
Also, bigenderflux (or multigenderflux) might be what you're looking for -> multiple genders that fluctuate in intensity, can be one gets stronger and the other(s) gets weaker, or they both (all) get weaker/stronger, etc., could also be fluidflux.
If that's not what you're describing you can send another rq for me to coin something :>
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noxwithoutstars · 4 days
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Gender related to the 2020 alt aesthetic, bunny hats, leg warmers, 2020 tiktok, nightcore, plushies, chunky boots, kandi, colorful hair, and being unapologetically cringe.
queued!
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noxwithoutstars · 6 days
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✙𓈒 Seabomination ❞
— a gender under the genderabomination system related to being an abomination of the sea, being an abomination in a sea way, etc.
@noia-archived-blog !!
@phantasverie !!!!
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noxwithoutstars · 8 days
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Transfem to Transmasc solitary must exist as much as any trans solidarity must exist.
Protect my boys.
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