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ix-c-999 · 2 months

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for system whose system mates love each other! inclusive of all kinds of love.

[this post has no dni other than not to involve it in discourse, mockery, or other harassment]

#.txt #[venn]#flashing /#blinkies #blinkie #spacehey #web graphics #our blinkies #our content #system tag #systemposting #in system relationship #in system dating #system blinkies

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goodnews-diary · 1 month

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In system relationships can be very beautiful and healing, but most of the time it leaves me yearning for a person whose warmth I'll never get to know. It's like long distance but worse.

#actually did #actuallydid #osddid #sysblr #endos dni #in system relationship #in system dating #insys relationship #phil

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fruix-collective · 2 months

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happy valentine’s day to all the insys couples out there! :D hope everyone had a great day

#i personally spent the day in headspace with my partners :)#& kinda. made the only single frequent fronter front all day lmao #sorry clockwork #- Jp #in system relationship #in system dating #plural #pro endo

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the-sun-system · 1 month

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Screaming crying throwing up/postive

I cannot believe I've been with my in-system husband for 7 years in a couple days. I love him so damn much and it hasn't always been easy but now every second we spend together proves to me that you really do "just know when it's right", and that it can and should be easy eventually, because nothing has ever seemed more right and natural than being with him now. Being married for 4.5 years has been the best and healthiest romantic relationship in my life and I would not give him up for anything in the world. This man has held me together when I thought I had no way to avoid falling apart. I've known from the first hours I knew him that I needed him in a way I'll never fully be able to describe, that I couldn't lose him, and needless to say he is amazing even though he will never understand or believe how great he is to me. I've never been treated as well as he treats me. I cannot imagine anyone ever will, and that's just fine with me because he is perfect.

Of course I love all my in-system partners very much, and they are all very okay with my stronger attachment to him.

If/when you see this you big old doof I love you more than anything or anyone and you gotta stop getting down on yourself because no one has ever loved me like you and no one will ever be more important to me. Check the tags my love there's more down there.

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tommyssupercoolblog · 3 months

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TODAY i was really mad about something and i was rambling to seán about it, so mad i couldn't even contain it in our head i was like out loud in meatspeace complaining and I was SO PISSED like rambling and pacing and then i turn to him and i'm like "I don't know how you can be so calm!!! You're always calm..! And soothing and relaxing and like, so cool...." and then i wasn't even mad anymore I was just gay as fuck and appreciative of the peace of mind he gives me when hes around

love wins

#i made a textpost #system #plural system #plurality #plural #endo safe #in system relationship #in system dating #in system marriage #insys dating #insys relationship #insys marriage #we do be gay married on main

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sophieinwonderland · 1 month

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heyy hii have a (maybe very weird) question that i am Not posting on our account and u seem to know a lot

is it possibly for members to like. get pregnant in-sys? i heard of natalgenic (n ik thats not like. born From pregnancy) and now im wondering but no one has an answer

also have a good day ! take it easy yknow , have a cookie or smth sometime :3

In short, yes! 😁

The inner world is definitely capable of simulating pregnancy to an extent, and I've even heard of in-sys couples using tulpamancy to make baby headmates in one headmate's womb.

Remember though that this isn't an actual biological pregnancy. The mind may be adept at simulating many symptoms of pregnancy but it's not a one-for-one, and it can only simulate how your brain thinks a pregnancy would be. And some rules that are true for biological pregnancy just won't apply to in-sys pregnancy.

While some may carry a baby the full mine nine months, for instance, it's not a requirement. A headmate won't die or be harmed if it comes out "premature." And it can theoretically never be born and simply stay in the womb forever.

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One thing I'm curious about for those who have experienced in-sys pregnancy is if they've experienced symptoms of it bodily while fronting. I think it would be logical if they did. After all, Couvade syndrome exists. But I've never heard any systems speak on this before.

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You have a great day too! 💖😊

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callieplush69 · 21 days

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i think it would be hysterical if i started making ship stuff for me and my insys partner's source but like. not specifying it's a fictive thing

like yes tumblr my otp is actually alastor hazbin hotel x callie squid sisters Unironically and i am now going to write fanfic about it

#sysblr #in system relationship #in system dating #fictive #introject #fictional introject #splatoon fictive #traumagenic system #dissociative system #plural system #system stuff #pluralgang #system things #hazbin hotel fictive

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mizuirolawliet · 6 months

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What they don’t tell you about being a system is the weird crossover ships that happen. Tell me why I’m in love with an ancient Egyptian?

#just system things #just plural things #in system relationship #in system dating #system things #plural system #plural things #plurality #actually plural #system stuff

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strikes-in-boots · 2 months

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𝓗𝓪𝓹𝓹𝔂 𝓥𝓪𝓵𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓮𝓼 𝓓𝓪𝔂!

🩷 🌸 🩷 || 🕊 🤍 🕊 || 🩷 🌸 🩷

This was my gift to Chaz ♡

Am I taking this holiday as an excuse to post bout my bf? Depends, you a cop?

#helluva boss #helluva boss fictive #helluva boss chaz #straz #viziepop #stim gifs #stimboard #visual stim #helluva boss stimboard #in system relationship #in system dating #fictives #introject #valentines day #valentines gifts #valentines aesthetic

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intuspluric-culture-is · 22 days

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Blog Introduction

Hello! Welcome to our very own "___ culture is" blog. We hadn't seen any for this topic yet, so here it is! In this post, we'll explain what this is all about and the rules we have in place before you can think about sending anything.

So, what is this about?

An intuspluric or intra-system relationship refers to relationships, attractions and connections between headmates of the same system. This is often understood within a romantic context, but can apply to any sort of relationship, be it platonic, queerplatonic, familiar or anything else. Definition adapted from the following Pluralpedia pages:

The purpose of this blog is to share culture (AKA relatable situations, moods or personal anecdotes) by any system who experience those kinds of relationships! If this sounds interesting, be sure to read the following rules before participating:

1. Submissions must be posted in the form of asks.

This is just for uniformity's sake. Instead of sending submissions, select the option to send an ask and share your ideas through there. Additionally, all culture asks must start with "Intuspluric culture is", "In-sys culture is" or any variations that might fit the specified relationship type.

All types of relationships are allowed, and we will try our best to tag accordingly, but we don't have any strict format set in place.

2. This is not a social blog.

While it's fine to send non "culture is" asks, please still keep them on topic. We might occasionally try to answer questions related to being a system, having intuspluric relationships, etc. But don't forget that this is not the focus of our blog and we won't always be able to help you. Please look for specialized blogs, Discord servers, or r/plural for dealing with such matters.

If you want to be friends with the mods, that's great! Go follow us on our main account @kazanfamily and interact us with there!

3. No syscourse allowed.

For the sake of remaining impartial, anyone is welcome to submit an ask to this blog, regardless of their syscourse stance. If that makes you uncomfortable, simply ignore our blog or ask to be blocked. That said, avoid making references to your opinions on the topic, or bringing syscourse to the notes. I don't care which side you're on, this is not the place for it. Just keep it civil and stay in your lane.

(Flag made by us, using the symbol from the Intra-System Relationships page on Pluralpedia. The colours don't mean anything, we just chose them for aesthetic value.)

#not intuspluric culture #intro post #actuallyplural #plurality #plural system #endogenic #traumagenic #in system dating #in sys relationships #intrasystem relationship #romance #romantic #platonic #queerplatonic #system stuff #system things #pluralgang #endo safe

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septiccoffeefreak · 7 months

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Plurality win: Singlets can't be homophobic to you if they don't see you and your spouse as seperate people*

*they quite possibly will never see your relationship as real at all

#original posts #Plurality #Plural system #System #in system relationship #In system dating #Anyways I love Tommy so much and I wish people could be Normal About It #tommy

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the-terrified-dove · 8 days

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Never date other alters. When you break up you're stuck with them forever.

#Important #Did #Osdd #Plural #System #did system #osdd system #in system relationship #in system dating

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twylas-plural-positivity · 2 days

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heres a positivity post for those in in-system relationships! hope you enjoy!!!

divider by @/cafekitsune

— shoutout to alters who've known each other for years, whos bond runs deep.

— shoutout to alters who just met recently and thought dating might be a fun thing to give a try.

— shoutout to alters who've spent months or years with feelings for another alter they havent voiced.

— shoutout to alters who know their time out is limited and so confessed quickly- maybe even earlier than they would have liked, so they didn't run out of time.

— heres to alters who just cant shut up about their in-sys partner. to alters who everyone knows is with someone. (pt: someone)

— heres to alters who cant ever talk about their in-sys relationship, no matter how much they want to.

— heres to alters who can only express their relationship through art or fandom, but can't genuinely discuss it with others, as their real relationship. (pt: genuinely)

— heres to introjects in in-sys relationships who use fandom to express that relationship, whether it be through selfshipping, ocxcanon, fanfiction, fanart, reblogging every post about you and your partner you can find, etc.

— heres to partners of introjects who like their partners source, or hate it but love them. to the alters who selfship with their partners source. to the alters who have to see their partner being shipped with someone else All The Time.

— heres to non-introjects in in-sys relationships, who cant really use fandom as an excuse to talk about it.

— shoutout to introjects dating introjects! whether from different sources or the same one. heres to alters in relationships completely different than their source. and heres to ones whos relationship looks exactly the same as it did there.

— shout out for people who are going to marry their insys partners or already have!

— shoutout to the alters who have just started dating.

— shoutout to the alters dating multiple people in their system.

— heres to the alters who have relationships both in and out of their system!

— heres to the alters in complicated relationships with each other.

— heres to the alters whos relationships may be judged because of preconceived notions about the alters involved, whether its based on an alters appearance, species, source... i hope youre well!

— shoutout to nonhuman alters dating other alters!

— heres to alters in queer relationships! to lesbian alters, gay alters, bi alters, aro alters who partner with others, etc!

in-system relationships are so beautiful, to me. i wish they weren't ridiculed so much. for us; they have been essential to healing and learning to care for ourselves.

#system #pluralgang #system things #sysblr #system stuff #in system relationship #in system dating #insys dating #insys relationship #plurality #plural positivity #system positivity

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crownedrottenthorns · 20 days

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There is nothing like watching your darling love be their usual dumbass self and sipping a warm drink from a mug. It's quite romantic truly. Never change, darling. Never change.

-Ally-

#-ally- posts #system #did system #in system dating #this is about my love for our host #what a true dumbass #I love them #fictive #alter #system romance #in system relationship #-ally- posting #system stuff #did osdd #ec did #hc did #did alter #actually did

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tommyssupercoolblog · 6 days

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What if we were both YouTubers but not ACTUALLY YouTubers just recreations of them made in the frenzied mind of a body previously traumatized at a young age but we were still very poggers and inside our headspace we were kissing and got headspace-married, and we do like daily life tasks in the body but we are literally sharing the body we live in so I can feel the air you breathe and we can think to each other about goings-on and laugh at jokes no one else can hear, and through talking to each other we both process our (different) traumas and memories that we inherited from the body we're in thus healing our system as a whole while growing as individual people, and we also are still able to sense headspace while fronting just enough to be gay about it, and then I made drawings of us kissing and posted them to my Tumblr along with drawings of YOU captioned "babygirl!!!" Because you like it when I call you that. And we were both boys. but you were also a girl because you're on that next level gender shit.

((cough cough, very targeted post here.))

#i made a textpost #endo safe #it mentions truama but that's because again this is targeted towards one specific blog.#you'll never be able to guess who /sarcastic #(it's my husband /gen)#plural #system #in-system relationship #insys relationship #in system relationship #in system dating #insystem dating #insys dating #in-system dating #plurality #plural system #multiplicity #factive #factives

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0the-anomaly-system0 · 1 month

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i NEED to RAMBLE TO SOMEONE ABOUT MY GIRLFRIEND

#🍷#🦷#♦️#no one knows abt her bc i made her profile for her :(#she's so pretty and sweet #did stuff #did osdd #did system #endos dni #dissociative identity disorder #traumagenic system #actually did #plural community #did #dissociative system #did alter #in system dating

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