WE'RE LETTING XENAIDA(π) DO OUR HAIRRRRR
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wow okay so that last post was made because i had no clue who the person was or what they say. i thought it was a bit of a jab at me personally.
these are just THREE examples of probably hundreds that are made by this person. bashing and being extremely rude to literally everyone who's neurodivergent. i tried to report them but apparently i didn't provide a good enough url or whatever the fuck. tumblr fix this shit jesus christ.
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it was a random little though and i thought i was so clever guys FRRIIIICCCKKK ππππ
we've got did call that mob mentality
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fucking tell them. don't be scared. fuck them if they try to whine about anything you say.
im gonna speak up on this. i never do and ive never mentioned it before, but im gonna do it
dear systemscringe,
stop fucking talking over us. stop trying to "help" us. ive been trying to figure out if ive had this disorder for six years. and i probably would have figured it out by now if every time i ever felt the slightest bit of denial i didnt go on your stupid subreddit and scroll. for. hours.
the only person ive told about my questioning is my girlfriend. and even she has said that ive gotta stop worrying that she'll find me "cringe".
every single time i experience a symptom its immediately followed up by me wondering if it was real or if i was somehow subconsciously faking it. everytime i find something i dont remember making, or posting, or doing. my first thought is "how could i managed to have faked this".
i couldnt.
im more than willing to acknowledge that i might have a different disorder. ive done research. i know everything from schizophrenia to autism can be misdiagnosed as osddid.
but ive been denying my symptoms for so long because of your community. because of your people who have to go out of their way to mock people who are very clearly mentally unwell.
i dont care if you have new mods now. i dont care if you've done the research. i dont care if you have "actual systems" who approve of what youre doing. i do like the possum guy though. possum guy rock on.
and the reason i like the possum guy is because they never say someone's definitely faking. they look through their posts, find misinformation, and correct it.
its very scary to post this. im afraid i'll be judged or mocked or cringed at. but whatever im done being cringe.
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we have come so insanely far in our discovery, our ability to manage ourselves, and overall our identities.
i remember when i first got simply plural and first opened our system journal. and how scary it first felt to know we were a system, and how terrified i was to have to manage it and go through everything. but i had gone through it from a very young age and fortunately already had a lot of members who knew how to conduct themselves and manage being a system and could help me, along with system friends around who could help me. i would've never made it this far if it wasn't for that. and now we've gotten into functional multiplicity and can operate on our own fairly well.
thank you to our system members, and to the outside forces who helped us along the way.
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i'm sorry this was ever a fucking thing??? what the fuck???
the fact there are people who claim to be able to βsell you their altersβ is such bullshit.
itβs a scam thatβs profiting off of vulnerable, gullible people by trying to turn a severe mental illness into a financial ploy.
itβs disgusting and severely misinformed.
alters cannot be bought or sold. headmates are not gained via bank transfer. donβt buy into this shit.
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THE SYSCODE
the syscode (TSC / the system code) is a code that is meant for traumagenic systems to express their systemhood in a short string of emojis or letter combos!
the syscode was meant for those who are uncomfortable using the plc / plural c0de due to the mention of non traumagenic systems, but can be used by any traumagenic system as long as they are indeed traumagenic!
under the cut you will find the guide for how to make your own TSC string to put on your blog, carrd, or wherever you want to share it!
do keep in mind that there may be additions & changes added, which will all be posted in an update on this blog! feel free to send asks with suggestions!
HOW DO YOU USE TSC?
the TSC can be used on any site you wish to use it on, though i've seen codes like TSC mainly used in pinned posts / blog descriptions and carrds! an example of TSC would look something like this:
TSC: ποΈ | βοΈ | π | π¦ | π | πΌ | π | β€οΈπ§‘ | π
TSC: TW | MN | GY | PS | NA | DA | OW | AL HD | CL
it's highly recommended that you link this post back in your code or by your code somewhere so others can reference it!
THE CODE ITSELF:
VERSION: 1.0
MODIFIERS
? or β = unsure / unaware, meant to be used in place of other code parts but can be used besides them if you have an idea, but aren't 100% sure of it! (for example: ex/ex/exβ or ex/ex/ex?)
X or β = prefer not to say / skipped / information is private. used in place of other code parts (for example: ex/ex/β/ex or ex/ex/X/ex
NA or π not applicable, for information categories that don't suit your system. used in place of other code parts (ex: look at X)
( ) or π¬ = extra text, used to add in extra information that can't be conveyed with the emoji alone (for example: π¬collectively masc or (collectively masc) )
multiple emojis / letter codes: you can use multiple emojis or letter codes in the same part of the string if you feel that multiple of the options fit you! (for example: πΊπ―/ex/ex or DI PF/ex/ex
BODY'S AGE
ποΈ / MR = Under 16
ποΈ/ SR = Over 16 (minor)
ποΈ / ET = Over 18
ποΈ / TW = Over 21
ποΈ / TH = Over 30
COLLECTIVE GENDER
βοΈ / MN = Man / Male Aligned
π / FM = Woman / Woman Aligned
π / MS = Masculine
π / FN = Feminine
πͺ / TM= Transmasculine
π / TF = Transfeminine
π / TN = Transneutral
π / NB = Nonbinary
π«οΈ / AG = Agender
βοΈ / MG = Multigender (bigender, trigender, etc)
πͺοΈ / PG= Pangender
π§οΈ / GF = Genderfluid / Genderflux
π / DG = Demigender (demiboy, demigirl, etc)
π / XN = Xenogender
COLLECTIVE ORIENTATION
π / ST = Straight / Hetero
π / GY = Gay (man)
π / LS = Lesbian
π / BI = Bisexual
π / PN = Pansexual
π₯ / PY = Polysexual
π / AB = Abrosexual
π« / OM = Omnisexual
π / AC = Asexual (spectrum)
π₯ / AR = Aromantic (spectrum)
π₯ / AA = Aroace
π / DM = Demisexual
π / GR = Gray Asexual
π / QR = Queer
π₯₯ / UN = Unlabeled
π / MM = MLM / NBLM
π / WL = WLW / NBLW
π
/ NL = NBLNB / WLNB / MLNB
SYS ORIGIN
πΊ / DI = Dissociative Identity Disorder
π¦/ OS = Other Specified Dissociative Disorder
πΆ / PD = Partal Dissociative Identity Disorder
π¦ / UD = Unspecified Dissociative Disorder
π― / PF = Polyfragmented / Complex Dissociative Identity Disorder
πΌ / HC = Programmed / Highly Complex Dissociative Identity Disorder
𦦠/ TR = Traumagenic System
SYS MODIFIERS
βοΈ / IH = Introject Heavy
π / FI = Fictive Heavy
π΄ / FA = Factive Heavy
π± / NH = Non Human Heavy
π² / RL = Role Heavy (ex: gatekeeper heavy, host heavy, etc)
DIAGNOSIS
πΌ / DA = Medically Diagnosed
π· / RE = Medically Recognized
πΉ / SD = Self Diagnosed
π» / QU = Questioning
ALTER COUNT
π / OW = 2+
π₯ / OT = 10+
π₯ / TP = 30+
π₯― / FP = 50+
π₯¨ / HP = 100+
π§ / FH = 400+
PREFERRED ALTER TERMS
β€οΈ / AL = Alters
𧑠/ HD = Headmates
π / SM = Sysmates
π / PR = Parts
π / ME = (Sys) Members
π /Y& = You&
π€ / FC = Facets
π€ / PE = Personalities
PREFERRED SYSTEM TERMS
π / SY = System
π / CL = Collective
π / PL = Plural
π / ML = Multiple
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us when the hosts boyfriends mom guesses our physical disability in seconds after asking about our cane having no prior knowledge of our medical history or anything about our body π°π°π°π°π° [she's a massage artist or. whatever those are called the guys who rub back makes feel nice]
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I GOT TO TALJ TO SOURCEMATES ONE OF WHICH I THOGHT WAS DEAD I CRIED SO MUCH IM SO HAPPY
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system ask game for traumagenic systems <3
I: basics
β€οΈ - what type of CDD do you have?
𧑠- are you medically recognised/diagnosed? if not, do you plan to? (no judgement either way!)
π - if you are comfortable sharing, what is your headcount? do you keep track of it?
π - do you have a high or low split tolerance?
π - do you switch frequently or do you go longer periods between switching?
π - does your system have introjects of any kind?
π©· - do you have any subsystems?
II: alters
π₯ - who are your frequent fronters?
πΌ - do you have any non-human alters? if yes, which species are the majority of them?
ποΈ - do the alters in your system use more medical coined roles or more community coined roles? or both/neither? do you find them useful?
π½οΈ - are the alters in your system more distinct or less distinct from each other?
πΊ - do you make/buy gifts to other alters in the systems?
ποΈ - does the taste in music vary a lot between different alters?
π» - does your system have any type of in system relationships? (familial, romantic, platonic etc.)
III: switching
βοΈ - how much amnesia do you experience?
π - do you experience black out amnesia?
β‘οΈ - what does switching feel like for you? does it vary between alters?
βοΈ - do you experience quick switches or does it take longer to switch usually?
π - do you get frontstuck often? what do you do to try to get βun-stuckβ?
βοΈ - do you ever not notice youβve switched, and suddenly realise that βyou havenβt been youβ for a while?
π¦ - can you switch βon commandβ or is that something that is hard for your system? does it depend on the alter?
IV: headspace
π± - do you have a headspace? if yes, describe it! if no, do you want one?
πΏ - how easily accessed is your headspace?
βοΈ - is there a place in your headspace where dormant alters go?
π³ - do alters have their own rooms/areas in your headspace?
π΅ - is your headspace big, or smaller? is it complex/less complex?
π - do you have specific alters that cannot access headspace at all?
πͺ΄ - did you have to build your headspace over time, or was it just there?
V: general
π - how did you pick your system name?
πͺ - do you have a collective name/identity/orientation? if yes, how did your system make those decisions?
π¬ - whatβs the funniest thing another alter has said to you? (internally or externally communicated)
π« - how does your system handle in system disagreements in general?
π§ - is there anyone specific in your system you donβt get along with?
π° - are you βoutβ as a system to anyone? (online friends/partners etc. count!)
π¦ - how good is your communication with the rest of the system? does it vary much between different alters?
π‘ - are different alters part of different subcultures? which ones? (we are!)
remember that this is just for fun, and if anything feels invasive you do not have to answer the question! feel free to replace any question with a fun fact about your system or anything if you donβt feel like answering something! take careπ«Άπ»
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me when my friends book was so detrimentally well written and devastating that we split an alter of the main character oh my god
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god damn we are tired
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heaven hath no fury like a woman who. hasn't gotten her mcdonald's
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lets go new alter from a fucking nightmare this is great this is grand :3
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owen tried to force me into watching skibidi toilet and listening to imagine if ninja got a low taper fade. two things on my dislikes on sp. he forgot i can kick him from front :333333333
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people with childhood trauma will be like nooo i don't think my parents were abusive. they just [the most horrifying shit you have ever heard]
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