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ix-c-999 · 7 hours
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diamoricplurid
a plurid in which the system collectively identifies as agender, even if not all the individual members do. this could be because, due to the variety of genders present in the system, they find it most convenient to present as non-binary and label their attraction "diamoric" as a result, but it could be for any reason.
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ix-c-999 · 21 hours
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diamoricroleic
A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves being diamoric in some way. This could include being: -a diamoric introject or identity/love holder -a trauma holder from a diamoric relationship -outside the dichotomy of "gay" and "straight" in a way that you feel represents another dichotomy outside of which you operate However, it could involve anything.
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ix-c-999 · 21 hours
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Hello this is a blog dedicated the culture of those who are plural because of some schizospec disorder, such as schizophrenia, schizoid, schizoneiform, schizoaffective, psychosis or delusions disorder etc.
Send your ask: ex deligenic culture is, or delusional plural culture is.
Blog made by @belinhagamer999 @belablog134.
Tagging special ppl: @collectivesystems-world @plural-culture-is @ix-c-999 @endo-haven @petrichorvoices
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ix-c-999 · 23 hours
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nonhumachildroleic
A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves childhood and non-humanity in some way. This could include: -being a non-human syskid or non-human caretaker for them -holding feelings of non-humanity that started in childhood -seeming or seeing oneself as childlike for reasons involving non-humanity However, it could involve anything. "Childhood" could mean the system's own childhood, childhood as a concept, or anything relating to children.
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ix-c-999 · 23 hours
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comfichildroleic
A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves childhood and comfort in some way. This could include: -holding childhood trauma, nostalgia, or memories while having a connection to comfort -being a comforter for syskids or holders of childhood trauma -coping by seeking comfort in things from childhood -being introjected from something that was comforting in childhood However, it could involve anything. "Childhood" could mean the system's own childhood, childhood as a concept, or anything relating to children.
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ix-c-999 · 24 hours
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spacechildroleic
A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves childhood and outer space in some way. This could include: -holding childhood trauma, nostalgia, or memories while having a connection to outer space -being a syskid who comes from space -holding a childhood interest in space However, it could involve anything.
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childtraumaroleic
A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves childhood and trauma in some way. This could include: -holding childhood trauma -being a syskid who holds or is affected by trauma (from any time of the system's life) -coping with trauma using things that are childlike or associated with children -having a young in-space age because of trauma However, it could involve anything. "Childhood" could mean the system's own childhood, childhood as a concept, or anything relating to children.
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ix-c-999 · 24 hours
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childhoodroleic
A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves childhood in some way. This could include: -being a syskid or a caretaker for one -holding childhood trauma, memories, or nostalgia -being introjected from something from the system's childhood -helping the system with their responsibilities involving children in the external world However, it could involve anything. "Childhood" could mean the system's own childhood, childhood as a concept, or anything relating to chidren.
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ix-c-999 · 1 day
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dogweirdplurid
A multiplurid in which the system have a collective identity involving dogs and weirdness, or in which these affect the system in a way with which everyone identifies. This could involve these things mixed with each other (e.g. doing weird art featuring dogs) or they could be separately (e.g. having a weirdcore aesthetic and being dogkin) but it could be anything.
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ix-c-999 · 1 day
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Hhh I tense up SO BAD when I read anything about asexuality that contains the information that some asexuals have sex because even though that's true, that's literally what my abuser used to justify correctively sexually assaulting me. My brother confronted him about his sexual abuse of me and he literally said, "Some asexuals have sex!" to justify what he did to me. "Some asexuals have sex" is a true statement but it can also be applied as aphobic sexual abuse apologism and I don't feel comfortable when people say it without including, in or around the same sentence, a disclaimer that asexuality is still overall about a lack of sexual attraction.
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maverigoth
A maverine gender whose autonomous nature and strongly gendered component are connected to and/or represented by goth. This can be goth music, fashion, culture, etc. and any style of goth.
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maverastric
A maverine gender whose autonomous nature and strongly gendered component are connected to and/or represented by outer space.
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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Stuart Williams: ‘Luminous Earth Grid’ (1993)
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