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sophieinwonderland · 1 day

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do you think plurality will become widely accepted any time soon? i fear that my plurality will have to be hidden from most people my whole life. i wish i could tell our parents but i feel like they would immediately take me to a mental hospital..

i wish plural education could move faster lol

Widely accepted? I wouldn't count on it anytime soon. Sorry.

As Ghandi never said: "first they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”

While the quote isn't from Ghandi, it is still a pretty accurate one for how movements tend to go. And the problem is, we're still in the ignoring stage with a side of mockery.

Before we can get widespread acceptance, we need widespread awareness. And when we get widespread awareness, the biggest roadblock we'll encounter is direct opposition. Because then we'll be a threat. We'll be trying to change things. We'll be demanding our headmates be acknowledged as individuals and called by their names, and that's going to make certain people, especially on the Right, extremely uncomfortable. I'm sorry to say that they will lash out.

When Tulpamancers are being smeared not by randos on Tumblr or r/systemscringe, but by Sean Hannity, that's when you can know that the real fight for plural acceptance has started. And everything we've gone through before that has just been a prelude.

And then it will probably drag out for years after that.

But while that prospect is scary, I think it will be necessary for getting to where we need to be.

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But just because society isn't there yet and won't be for a while, that doesn't mean your parents won't be. Plenty of people have come out to their parents successfully. Others came out unsuccessfully, and then their parents warmed up to the idea later.

I would advise waiting until you're an adult if you aren't already, because parents have a lot of power over minors in their care, and things could go very badly. Best not come out, if you think they would react badly, while they have power over you. Additionally, I don't know if your system is traumagenic or not, but if it is, coming out to parents who may have been involved in that is probably a bad idea. Caution is advised.

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One more thing, while that quote wasn't from Gandhi, I really love the speech it's believed to have originated from.

Plural acceptance may not come quick! It may not come easy! But it will come, and we are all a part of it just by being here and being ourselves!

The future is plural!

No matter how far off that future may seem!

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the-transid-gacha · 21 hours

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What is Zuesophilia, Angelophilia, and Hybriphilia? I don't think ive heard of those ones before yet and I cant seem to find definitions for them! :0

Zuesophilia - attraction to gods

Angelophilia - attraction to angels

Hybriphilia - attraction to worshipping

Hope this clears things up for you dear-

-Vex

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theswiftheartsystem · 2 months

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Plural culture is thinking you’re just genderfluid and abrosexual, and fluid with pronouns, and change interests back and forth very quickly, and just randomly changing names because you just decided you don’t like that other one and this one’s so much better, then changing it back, and-

(even without these things you are still valid💙)

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sawyer-is-eepy · 20 days

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>be me

>decide to change your name and pronouns

>tell your friends

>they are supportive and try their best

>a week later you suddenly dislike being called that name or the pronouns and the gender doesnt suit you anymore

>"i must be genderfluid!"

>actually, you're plural

>you idiot

>what have you done

#endo safe #plurality #pro endo #multiplicity #plural system #endogenic system #soulbond #endogenic #pro endogenic

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snowyapricity · 3 months

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this is your friendly reminder that faking is a conscious choice. you can’t fake unintentionally.

you can be mistaken, and that’s ok! there’s no shame in that. you chose the label that best fit the information you had at the time. that’s just part of life, and that means you’re growing and learning more about yourself.

it’s ok to be unsure, don’t be too hard on yourself. you’ll figure it out, in time. <3

#plural system #system #plural community #actually plural #plurality #sysblr #plural #system positivity #plural positivity #plural help #pluralgang #system community #endo safe #endo friendly #endo system #pro endo #pro endogenic

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dolleriumfluffle · 15 days

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anyway, never listen to what antis have to say about "DID isn't quirky and fun!!!" because DID/OSDD or not, traumagenic or not, you are allowed to love your system. you are allowed to have a good relationship with your headmates and to enjoy being plural and to embrace yourself as a system. suffering is not a requirement of plurality, and being miserable is not required to be a more valid system.

#dollerium speaks #🎠 | reona (he/she/doll/bun/eld/spell)#plural things #plural community #actually plural #plural system #actually did #did osdd #osddid #did system #system things #system thoughts #endo safe #pro endo #pro endogenic #endo safe blog

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wafflecreamcat · 15 days

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( Non-canon accurate art because we can do as we please. This is a personal piece our CatNap fictive made of him and his friend DogDay that's in another system. You may treat this like any other fanart, I don't really care as long as you acknowledge it's of real people. )

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aura-dragonfly · 3 months

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Remember y’all, Median Systems are valid. When people say all systems are valid, they’re usually talking about endogenic systems. While yes, that’s true of course, I don’t know where to place Median Systems at along the spectrum. We’re not plural per se nor endogenic. We’re stuck in the middle. Our parts or facets are us and we’re them. We’re a breed of our own. I wish there would be more info out there about us. Endogenics please don’t forget your cousins so to speak hehe. 😄😅

#median system #median #plurality #median plurality #endogenic positivity #endo positive #endogenic systems #endo positivity #endogenic safe #pro endo #pro endogenic #endo system #endogenic system #endogenic #endo friendly #endo safe #all systems welcome #all systems are valid

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userbabies · 2 months

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This user is pro endo. Please follow your own dni.

#pro endo #pro endogenic #anti endo dni #pro endo userboxes #endo safe #endogenic #endo friendly #endo positivity #endo system #actually endogenic #endogenic friendly #endogenic positivity #endogenic plurality #endogenic system #endogenic safe #userboxes #userbox #system userbox #system userboxes

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sophieinwonderland · 3 days

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Questions for Sophie and Ghost. The first one for him: Do you ever feel guilty for identifying with the body and being able to go by your name when your systemmates cannot? In the real world, people get to experience you as yourself but your systemmates can't have that in most circumstances. Now for Sophie: Do these circumstances upset you? How do you cope? Our body's frontrunner always feels bad about this fact. Systemmates have to mask as HER irl for safety reasons because she is in meatspace most of the time and as such people are used to her personality/name/mannerisms/etc. She---and all of us---wish there was a world where we didn't have to hide themselves.

Ghost: I've felt guilty for Soph not getting much time sometimes. But I try not to feel guilt for things that are out of my hands. I feel bad that she doesn't have a body of her own to be part of the world, but not guilt.

Sophie: It is what it is.

To be honest, we don't really have many IRL social ties outside of the family. And that's something we're totally fine with. Maybe our brain is wired weird, but we don't have much desire to make physical friends. Aside from that, I feel my social needs are met on the internet.

There have been times when I wished I could interact with the family a bit. But then, it's my own fears holding me back. The family knows I'm here. And they seem accepting enough. I'm just not comfortable with it. My host has severe social anxiety when dealing with other people, and it feels a bit like I got something like that with his family.

So the only people outside of the system I want to interact with as myself, I could... if I were stronger. But I'm not.

If I'm honest, I sometimes feel like a hypocrite. Because for all the time I spend trying to spread awareness of plurality so that we can eventually get to that world where plurals won't have to hide anymore... I don't think I would be brave enough to be fronting and be myself even then.

But with that said, I think I'm comfortable with how things are for the most part.

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As for you all, I just want to add that singlets are probably not as observant as you think they are. Even if you have to mask and use her name, unless they know you're plural, you can probably get away with a lot before they notice anything off. And if they do say anything about it, it's easy to brush it off, and they'll probably accept whatever explanation you give. "I'm just not feeling like myself" is a fun one. 😜

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stray-syst3m · 18 days

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I need more pro endos to follow y'all, I see too much hate and bs

#star meows🌟#plurality #plural system #endogenic safe #pro endo #pro endogenic #endo positivity #endogenic #traumagenic system #traumagenic but we are pro endo

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theswiftheartsystem · 2 months

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Guide to Pluralkit

So pluralkit is a tool used very commonly for plural systems. Basically what it does is proxy who’s speaking (this can have an alters name, pronouns, a custom profile picture, ect.) it’s very easy to use once you get the hang of it!

Step 1. Make yourself a private discord server. The reason why is because that way it’s easier to edit and save what you need in the server.

after this you will need to add pluralkit to the server. You can do this by going to the website (https://pluralkit.me) or clicking the bot in a server you share with it, and adding it to your server.

Okay so after that, set up your server. All it needs is the channels you guys need. Obviously general can be whatever, we use it for bot commands. Would recommend a system chat channel, especially if you cannot speak internally. Other channels that might be helpful, or channels to store picrews and things of that nature, we have one for storing alter intros, if you don’t want to have a psychical diary, you could start one in the private server, and basically anything you need. The idea is that this server only has you guys in it

Step 2. Okay so you’ll need to set up a system now. To get started you’ll need to do pk;s new keep in mind you can only have one system per discord account, and only 1k members (we have heard you can request more in the discord server, but we haven’t tried it ourselves)

Most system servers require a system tag. To set one you do pk;s tag (tag here) tags can be anything in a character limit. Ours is 💙. Some servers don’t like when people have the same tag, so if you need to change it in a server you can do pk;s server tag (tag here)

After setting up your system to add a member you do pk;m new (members name) keep in mind you want it to be one word with no spaces or hard to use symbols. This is so it’s as easy as possible to edit. Also would like to add, if you throw in a image while doing this command, it will set that alters avatar without having to do another command (image below is a random image we had saved) if you are like us, and have alters that share names, it’s best to just add a number (no space still) infront, this makes it way easier to edit.

To set up a display name you do pk;m (members name) dn (what you want it to say, we normally have name and pronouns, and if a alter has like a specific role in the system, sometimes that gets added if the alter wants it)

If you accidentally set the wrong profile picture, or a alter wants a different one for whatever reason, the command is pk;m (name) avatar and then insert the photo

Finally to set a proxy do pk; (member name) proxy (proxy here)text (the text can also be behind the poxy, it just has to be behind or above) proxys can be anything basically! We usually use emojis, although whatever you do, make it something you don’t use. For emojis we have one or two emojis typically that represent the alter, and then the blue heart emoji in front that way if it’s a emoji we use a lot, it isn’t going to proxy us by accident. You can either do the proxy everytime you speak, or do a few commands.

Pk;ap latch this latches to the last used proxy. Good when one alter is having a conversation, but others aren’t.

Pk;ap (name) this latches to the alters name that is used. Does not change until turned off, or switched to a different alter, or auto proxy command.

Pk;ap front this command sets whoever is set as fronting as the auto proxy. The front is set by doing pk;switch (name) To turn off all of these the command is Pk;ap off

Step 3. With pluralkit you can add alters to groups!

To make a group you do pk;g new (groups name) like with the base names you want it to be one word, no spaces or weird symbols.

with groups you can set display names, descriptions, avatars, just for that group!

pk;g description (put the description you want with the command)

pk;g avatar (photo)

pk;g dn (name)

To add members to the group do pk;g (groups name) add (name) (name 2) you can add as many as you want, just make sure to not use commas or and, just name after name separated by a space

Step 4. To set a system/alter description and banner is pretty easy.

For system:

pk;s description (desc goes here)

pk;s banner (add image)

For Alters:

pk;m (name) description (desc goes here)

pk;m (name) banner (add image)

Step 5. Finally, some good commands to just know.

If you react with a question mark emoji on an alter using pluralkit, it gives you information about the person. (Username, ect)

If you have a member you feel needs to be private the command is pk;m (name) private

to delete a member you do pk;m (name) delete and then enter in the code it gives you

to change a alters base name, (not dn) do pk;m (name) rn (new name)

A fun little pluralkit game is going “pk;r (random silly thing here)” Pk;r randomly picks a alter, so putting a random caption over it can be fun sometimes.

if you do set a alters name as something with a space, you’ll have to edit it in qoutes. (Pk;m “Example name with a space” (command)

to look up a list of alters do pk;m list or pk;s list

Thanks for reading! Pluralkit is confusing at first, so we thought we would make a simple guide!

-Carrie + a few others

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sawyer-is-eepy · 1 month

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more proendo blackout poetry <33

inspired by @shitty-proendo-blackout-posts and @endogeniking-bad-posts !

Dear endos,

Youre loved. you need to love yourself

you just you, i love you <3

#endo safe #multiplicity #plurality #pro endo #plural memes #plural stuff #plural system #endogenic system #endogenic #endo friendly #pro endogenic #anti endo dni #anti endos fuck off

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livseses · 17 days

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Regarding this cringizen (and the sentiment that DID isn't a bunch of people sitting on a couch):

So when we discovered our system, we didn't have a headspace. We made one and communication got better. It was a table we could all sit at.

That got boring and we've always wanted a sunken couch, so we replaced the table with a sunken couch. Guess what? We used it more often and communication improved.

Recently Roki has been keeping headspace open and literally made the "group of people controlling the body from a couch" thing true for us. What we have now is this dual awareness. It's not controlling the body through a controller or something. It's just this sensation of being in two places at once (the body and headspace). We feel both. We hear other thoughts coming from the direction of where people are sitting. We turn to answer our headmates as if our body was in headspace.

And guess what? Our communication improved!

Hell, our therapist recommended we make something like that before we told her we had one.

It's just so silly that these asswagons want to tell us that what has been helping us with our DID just isn't how DID works. Like, cmon. Just fuck all the way off with that.

Hell, we might write up what we've been doing in therapy that's been actually quite helpful using the couch.

#faye post #syscourse #actually plural #actually did #plural system #pro endogenic

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3ntity56 · 1 month

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I love you endogenic systems. I love you so much. Your community helped me to realize that my experiences weren’t just eccentricity. You helped me unlock a major chunk of my identity. As a traumagenic system, I am indebted to you all. Hugs and kisses for you all (unless you don’t like that). I’ll defend you to the grave. Y’all my bros

#endo safe #endogenic #endo friendly #pro endo #pro endogenic

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council-of-the-void · 2 months

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I think map making software could be handy for plurals with innerworlds that have appearances and layouts but struggle to visualise the space fully.

I think it could help those with aphantasia also.

I think it might also just be really neat.

#pro endogenic #plural #plurality #plural community #endo safe #endogenic safe #pro endo #alterhuman

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