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lobotomidori Β· 2 days
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conabuser && conabused flags
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// pt: conabuser and conabused flags //
NOTE: THESE TERMS DO NOT SUPPORT GENUINE/NON-CONSENSUAL ABUSE. these terms/flags are not supportive of non-consensual harm in any form. these terms are specifically for dynamics that are agreed on with informed consent.
flags i made for being in conabuse/consensually abusive relationships. left is conabuser, right is conabused
these flags are loosely inspired by what i remember the transabuser and transabused flags looking like
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RADIANTQUEER
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I am quite annoyed at what I'm seeing in the radqueer community, so consider this an official alternative Radiantqueer holds all the same values as original radqueer(acceptance of all, including transids, paras, etc.) but has the following alterations; it is strictly proship, anti-abuse, against CP/CSEM, against minor x adult(Note this specifically refers to chrono minor x chrono adult with 3+ year age gaps) and human x animal relationships, anti-zionist, and overall refuses to accept anyone that does genuine, non-consensual harm into the community. Flag is below!
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radqueer-takes Β· 2 days
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"this community seems cutthroat" yeah because when were not this place is fucking crawling with people who think its okay to hurt nonconsenting people and animals to relieve dysphoria πŸ™„
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rqkin-radio Β· 3 days
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Friendly reminder, radqueers and transids are allowed in fandom spaces. <3
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rosie-rq Β· 2 days
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AmorID
An amorID is a transID which is directly affected by someone with whom you share a deep bond. This can be romantic, platonic, queerplatonic, or other forms of attraction or bond. This can be due to being within proximity of the person with whom you share a bond (such as amorgenders), due to them being extremely important to you (such as an FP or SP), due to obsession with the person, or any other reason. AmorIDs tend to mimic the ID (cis or trans) of the chosen person to the understanding of the person with the amorID. AmorIDs can be chosen or for fun; they don't have to be involuntary.
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futileshame Β· 2 days
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fuck "peace and love" in the rq community or whatever. your passivity is insulting. this community is and has always been full of dangerous people.
if you treat discourse as being equally bad as harassment, you're not a safe person.
if you preach that everyone should just get along, you're not a safe person.
if you think the worst part of the rq community is the infighting, you're not a safe person.
if you force everyone to respect the opinions of others, you're not a safe person.
if you emphasize making yourself seem safe rather than doing anything to make the community safe, you're not a safe person.
if you think benefit of the doubt is the way to go, you're not a safe person.
if you disrespect people for not wanting to be around those who shake hands with their oppressors and abusers, you're not a safe person.
if you're a centrist, you're not a safe person.
xenosatanists, abuse apologists, pro-genocide individuals, and anyone similar should not feel welcome in the community. you need to prioritize protecting people from them because they are capable of harm. you cannot accept living alongside them. baring your teeth when the danger comes is how you become a safe person for those who actually need it.
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angelivampic Β· 3 days
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transdating? like, trans dating someone
and transmarried
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ΰ­¨ΰ­§ TransDating / TransMarried
a transID where one wishes to or identifies as dating / being married to someone they are currently not
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sick--angel Β· 2 days
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Post-Radqueer flag πœ—πœš
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an alt flag for the Post-Radqueer movment !! OG flag is here , flag is eyestrain !!
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cecilnightvalepalmer Β· 2 days
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I need you all to hear me.
Man, I truly am watching as the radqueer community eats itself, aren't I?
And it really is it's own fault above all else.
No matter how many times we've told you all to ignore this shit, no matter how many times we've told you not to feed into bullshit drama, no matter how many times we've explained what to do when shit like this occurs, no matter how many times we sit you down and teach you that giving the thing you hate attention does nothing but flourish it?
A lot of you people never listen. A lot of you relish on that drama. So I'll say this:
I remain Radqueer, being Radqueer does not equal supporting everything or every ideal in the community or by people in the community. Being Radqueer simply means sharing beliefs with some or most of the community, especially on being pro-para and pro-transid.
Soon I'll recoin Dovequeer. It was my original blankqueer term and I hold it dearly, and I'll remake it with all the original things plus more in hopes some will turn to Dovequeer when losing hope for Radqueer. It is a good alternative with its basis in anti-abuse and anti-discourse
But understand one thing and one thing clearly.
Pro-para and pro-transid, radqueer or not, need a community to provide itself stability. Our ideals only go so far as our ability to bring them. If one woman could've done stonewall, she would have, but it takes an army.
It takes an army.
Don't make me say I warned you.
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lobotomidori Β· 15 hours
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there are no rules to identity. we only live once, identify however you see fit.
you're bodily white but identify as transpoc? that's amazing. i'm happy you found a label to express yourself with!
you're bodily amab but identify as a trans man? sick!! i'd love to hear more about that!
you don't tell people whether your IDs are cis or trans? good on you. i'm glad you're living your truth!
you only live once. don't let social constructs and societal norms deter you from being yourself <3
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Just so we're clear...
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Zionists are not welcome on this blog, nor are their supporters. We don't support genocide here.
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radqueer-takes Β· 2 days
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I'm pretty certain a great majority of these Hot Takes spread on anon are from antis trying to sow disruption in the community and make us distrustful and antagonistic towards eachother. The fact that so many people take them seriously and start infighting based on what a handful of losers on anon who may not even be RQ say is really disheartening
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stolasqueer Β· 1 day
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Radqueers, I need you to all shut the fuck up
Right now
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Do you fucking see how the outside sees this?
Can all of you please acknowledge this?
I think a lot of you need to see what people who hate us and think we're so evil for existing are saying for once
I need you to see it and fucking internalize it.
People who are feeling like shit and like this community is going too far, I need you to take a step back and realize people are looking at this with fucking glee
So for the love of fuck think about how you interact with people.
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rosie-rq Β· 2 days
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Amorace / Amoracial
(Amor - race)
When your race identity is affected by those you have a strong emotional bond with, be it a romantic relationship or otherwise.
Already coined? Consider it an alt flag!
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cultmaxxing Β· 2 days
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also, about the β€œyoull always step up for the people who want it but never the ones who want to do it”, people demonize dominant partners in CNC/NCCNC relationships so much?!!
the same trauma that made me long to be hurt and raped and thrown against brick walls and shit can make someone want to hurt and rape and throw someone against a brick wall.
whatever two consenting people do is none of your business and to assume that ones TRAUMA kinks will automatically lead them to/make them a bad person is inherently putting down survivors of trauma.
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silly-fckindumbboy Β· 3 days
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Today I'm sad bc every time I see consang stuff I think of the cousin I was in a really loving relationship with and how we never got to be who we wanted because our family would have disowned us and how unfair that was.
Like we were so in love, okay? We made each other so happy. And we just wanted to continue making each other happy and our family tried to keep us apart because of that.
I wish we had had more. I wish they hadn't ripped us away from each other. I wish we still spoke, and looked at each other the way we used to, and held each other the same way we always did.
(That said I will still be looking at and thoroughly enjoying any consang I come across bc it feeds me)
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