#LGBTQIAAPX+ Coined by Me >:3

#Lesbian (includes: WLW, WLG, GLG, GLW, Sapphic, etc)

#Gay (includes: MLM, MLB, BLB, BLM(not the movement XD but still black lives do matter !!), Achillean, Vincient, Cinthean, etc)

#Bi (includes: Poly, Pan, Omni, Multisexual, etc)

#TransID (includes: Transgender, Non-Binary, Trace, Transabled, Transage, Transbody, Transpecies, Transtime, Transharmed, Transharmful, etc)

#Queer (includes everyone who is not Cis-Hetero-Allo-Human)

#Inter*sex

#A-Specs (includes: Aromatic, Aro-Spec, Asexual, Ace-Spec, AroAce, Aromid, Acemid, Amid, Aplatonic, Apl-Spec, Aemotional, Aemo-Spec, Aphysical, Aphy-Spec, Agender, Agin-Spec, Aracial, etc)

#Alterhumanity (Otherkinnity, Fictionkinnty, Factkinnity, Copingkinnity, Theriantropy, Vampiric, Dragonic, Otherlinkism/Choicekin, Copinglinksm, Otherspin, Otherhearted/Otherkith, Otherkinth, etc)

#Parasexuality (includes: 🤳🥀🌼α,🥀🌹β, 🌷🌺, 🕰️🍾, ☕️υτ, 📜🔖Σ, 🫖🍵, 🥤υτ, 🧑‍🍼μ, 🥃🍶🍹🥂, 🍸🗺️μ, ⌛️⚰️🪦💀🧟🍷🫗νθ, 🍼μ,🧃μυ, 🌟💫✨τ, 🍺🍻🔦🗝️, 🪶🐾🍋ζ, 🍭🍬🐚, 🥃🐚, etc)

#XenoID (includes: Xenogender, Xenoabled, Xenorace, erc)

#plus

“Aren’t they siblings?!?” Sibling who should be aggressively making out.

“consang is bad because incestual pregnancy causes disabilities” this arguement is wrong in so many ways

(This has been edited heavily as my original first point was misleading and misinformation, along with me wanting to add some points)

yes incestual pregnancy causes disabilities but i have two counter arguments to why this shouldnt make it illegal, 1. So can pregnancy at old age but i dont see any legal protections around that and 2. Not wanting disabled people/babies to exist is a very abelist/eugenics supporting mindset!!

Ace people and people who dont want children exist, expecting sex of everyone on earth and babies of every uterus owner on earth is fucking weird and bigoted

people who dont want bio children and people who want to exclusively adopt/foster children exist, consang relationships with these people should be allowed to exist (and should be legal too but woopty doo consang is still illegal in most/probably all countries because of stigma and religious dogma being forced into politics and law) (which side note, being anticonsang is by definition against the belief of seperation of church and state!!)

when people's only argument against family members safely and consensually dating is "their kids will be born with genetic defects!!!1!!" I'm consistently just flabbergasted by the tone deaf eugenicist ass ableism. like. okay so. my mother, who is disabled by a hereditary auto immune disease that causes chronic pain , should not have had me because I would be born with genetic defects? my mom should not be loved or be in a relationship because any child she has would be born with genetic defects? what is this logic. until someone can give me a real answer as to why consensual incestuous relationships are ACTUALLY BAD I'm completely in support of them. sorry. love is love

kys = kiss your sister

Microlabel/flag idea: Someone who expriences consang attraction but is not currently in a consang relationship.

Quaesang

A consang microlabel for people who experience consang attraction but are not currently in a consang relationship!

Please credit if reposting, no credit needed for use! Please ask before adding to wikis or other databases. Hope y'all enjoy!

Feel free to rename it lol but heres the meaning:

Quae- from the latin word "Quaestus" meaning admiration (apologies if this is innacurate) -sang from consanguinamory

Today I'm sad bc every time I see consang stuff I think of the cousin I was in a really loving relationship with and how we never got to be who we wanted because our family would have disowned us and how unfair that was.

Like we were so in love, okay? We made each other so happy. And we just wanted to continue making each other happy and our family tried to keep us apart because of that.

I wish we had had more. I wish they hadn't ripped us away from each other. I wish we still spoke, and looked at each other the way we used to, and held each other the same way we always did.

(That said I will still be looking at and thoroughly enjoying any consang I come across bc it feeds me)

“we came into this world together and we're going to leave it together”

I have bits of my brother's flesh stuck between my teeth btw 🩷 (<- just finished having incestuous sex :3)

APPARENTLY, THERE'S A WORD FOR A BELIEF I HAVE?

There is nothing better than getting home from work & walking into the kitchen & snogging my mum who is my girlfriend & then seeing my 16 year old school girl sister walk up to us with her silky blonde hair wearing her juicy tracksuit & her Zavetti jacket & having my mum allow me to pull my sister in for the incest kiss she has been desiring & feeling her soft lips on mine & tasting her tongue in my mouth

for every hate anon we get, i give my brother a sloppy wet kiss on the mouth

-anon alter (she/her)

"inc*st is not cute!!"

you´re right, actually

it´s EXTREMELY cute! downright adorable, not to mention it can also be just as mutually supportive and healthy as literally any other relationship <3

do not be ashamed

do not be ashamed for having intrusive thoughts do not be ashamed for falling in love do not be ashamed for having a consensual relationship do not be ashamed because of others ignorance do not be ashamed to be your genuine self do not be ashamed to love who you love do not be ashamed to be consang!

Okay but I'd love to genuinely have a debate with someone, where everything is completely neutral and I don't have to worry about getting judged outside of the room, about why incest is bad.

Because like. Beyond the ick factor that most people feel, which wouldn't exist if it weren't so heavily stigmatized, why is it bad? I want a well thought-out, logical, neutral answer.

If it's because their kids would have mutations or whatever: first off, stikes me as kinda like eugenics. "They shouldn't have kids because their kids might be disabled", is what you're saying. Plus, the really bad stuff tends to crop up only after a few generations, and honestly I don't see that happening unless the family is specifically only marrying within itself? Like, I feel like in a world where incest is normalized, there would be equal chances of falling in love with a family member as there are falling in love with someone you aren't related to. Just because it's a possibility doesn't mean it's gonna overtake everything else. And that's not even bringing up y'know, gay couples or childless couples in general.

"It's wrong!": Why? Why is it wrong? Does the bible tell you that? (Genuinely asking, it's been a while since I've read the bible.) If it does, what about people who don't believe in the bible? Setting aside the idea of "everyone should believe in the bible", what is a non-religious reason someone should think incest is bad? Why does the bible say it's wrong? Are there explanations? Is it a case of "this was dangerous back then but now we have ways to deal with it"?

Abuse: no relationship style is inherently abusive, so I ask you this: why is incestuous abuse worse than non-incestuous abuse? Why is romantically abusing your child worse than romantically abusing someone the same age as your child? They should hold the same weight, no? And if they do, then why isn't it illegal for someone to date someone the same age as (or younger than) their child? If the person is an adult, don't they have a similar dynamic?

What about siblings? Siblings usually have a smaller age-gap right? What about twins or triplets? Why is incestuous abuse in this kind of case considered worse than domestic violence? Obviously it's not illegal to date an abuser that's similar in age to you. You can get them arrested for abuse, yes, but it's not illegal to date them, or for others to date them.

And yes, I know there are certain dynamics that are only found in families (golden child vs scapegoat, the power a parent has over a child, etc), but I think those are symptoms of other issues that should also be solved. A parent only has that much power over a child because children don't have equal rights. So give the kids more ability to stand up for themselves! And even so, in a relationship with that kind of age gap, I'd be willing to say that the older partner has that kind of power over the younger partner regardless of whether they're related or not, because often it's the older partner who has more money, a better space to live, is older so they "know better" etc which so easily allows them to control the younger partner. Just like in a parent/child relationship, the older party has to be aware of what kind of control they have, and make sure they aren't hurting the other, to be a good parent/partner.

As for golden child vs scapegoat, I think that kind of dynamic can just as easily be found outside of family structures, though for different reasons. A popular kid and someone who's bullied, for example. You get what I'm saying?

Like honestly if you can give a good, well thought out response to this I'll read it and consider it! I'll see if I agree with you or if I can find evidence to refute you! Let's make it a debate.

If you're just going to yell at me bc incest bad or whatever though, you're getting blocked.