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maki-mallows · 15 hours

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Coining some tereage terms!

Teredeseroage: A tereage term for those whose age is affected by one's neglect and/or abandonment-related trauma.

Desero is Latin for desert/abandon.

Tereforniage: A tereage term for those whose age is affected by one's sexual trauma.

Forni comes from fornicatio, which is a Latin word for sex.

Terevaletudoage: A tereage term for those whose age is affected by one's medical trauma.

Valetudo is a Latin word for health/illness.

Teredolorage: A tereage term for those whose age is affected by one's grief-related trauma.

Dolor is a Latin word for grief/sorrow.

Tererelliage: A tereage term for those whose age is affected by one's religious trauma.

Relli comes from relligio, a Latin word for religion.

Teredomusage: A tereage term for those whose age is affected by one's familial trauma.

Domus is a Latin word for home/family/household.

#transid #radqueer #rq 🌈🍓#transid coining #maki coins #radqueer community #pro transid #transage #transage coining #tereage

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radq-polls · 3 days

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#radqueer #rq 🌈🍓#polls #transage #transid

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she-is-ovarit · 7 months

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Identifying as.

This is Rachel Dolezal, who legally changed her name to Nkechi Amare Diallo. Dolezal is a white woman who identifies as black and insists that she is transracial. Growing up, her religious white parents adopted four black babies, claiming that they "saved them from being aborted", and routinely delivered strict punishments to their kids including Dolezal. Dolezal does not seem to have a good relationship with her parents and, based on interviews, wanted to distance herself from them and distance herself from rural white culture.

"I've never questioned being a girl or woman, for example, but whiteness has always felt foreign to me, for as long as I can remember. I didn't choose to feel this way or be this way, I just am. What other choice is there than to be exactly who we are?"

She apparently "passed as black" for several years before her parents came out and said that she was white and is identifying as a black woman, and she was asked in a TV interview if she was African American and responded with "I don't understand the question". She taught Africana Studies at Eastern Washington University. She crafted a fake story in growing up as black and has argued that she experiences race-based related hate crimes. She darkens her skin and gets perms and started using hair products she observed her adopted black sibling to use. She lied about her father being black and lied that her black adopted brother was her son.

I hope that as details of Dolezal's story are read about, we are able to understand that tanning white skin does not make someone a black person, that blackface is wrong and racist. I hope we recognize that what makes someone black isn't a collection of racial stereotypes, isn't based on feeling a kinship with black people more than with white people, and that being black isn't based on not feeling a connection with white culture. I hope we understand that a black person cannot identify out of racial oppression, and that a white person cannot identify out of white privilege.

Jewel Shuping, age 38 now, was born healthy but dreamed of being blind since age 13. She stated her mother would tell stories about finding her walking down dark hallways at age 3, and mentioned that by age 6 the thought of being blind comforted her. When she was a teenager, Shuping bought a white cane and learned to read braille, becoming fluent in it by age 20.

She claims to have asked a psychologist to pour bleach in her eyes so she could fulfill her lifelong dream of being blind, and that the psychologist "understood her" and agreed to do so after giving her numbing eye drops to help with the pain (which was not ultimately helpful). She deliberately waited to seek medical attention so doctors were unable to save her eyesight. Gradually, over the course of six months, she became blind.

What Shuping has is considered a real mental health condition called Body Integrity Identity Disorder (BIID), a rare condition in which people who are born without disabilities believe with conviction that the should be disabled. There is another name for this in political activist circles, termed "transableism".

"I went blind on purpose, but I don't feel it was a choice."

Several other people with BIID are pretending to be paralyzed to use wheelchairs, with many not being driven to the point of causing harm to themselves to become disabled but instead living full lives faking being disabled.

I hope that as details of the stories of people pretending to be disabled are read about, we are able to understand that feeling like oneself should be disabled is an incredibly serious mental health condition and does not really mean that a person is "disabled inside". I hope we recognize that identifying as disabled does not make someone disabled, and that feeling a kinship with disabled people or a comfort in the thought of being disabled does not mean a person truly is or should become disabled. I hope we understand how people with mental health disorders claiming to be disabled can place further strain on resources and accommodations provided to disabled people. I hope we understand that inflicting pain, disfigurement, or physical altercations on healthy people to "help them physically match how they feel" is an inhumane way to treat a mental health condition.

Paul Wolscht, who changed his name to Stefonknee Wolscht, was married to a woman for over 20 years and fathered 7 children before deciding to live life identifying as a six year old little girl. Living as a six year old little girl allows Wolscht to escape depression and suicidal thoughts because Wolscht gets to now play - even when in jail in solitary confinement for nine days for an undisclosed reason.

“If I’m six-years-old, I don’t have to think about adult stuff.”

Wolscht still drives and drinks coffee, but does so feeling and identifying as a six year old.

Emile Ratelband, age 69, petitioned the courts to allow him to change his age to 20 years younger because he "does not feel" 69 years old. Ratelband has argued that he did not feel comfortable with his date of birth, that age 69 did not accurately reflect his mental state, and that at age 69 he experiences limits.

“When I’m 69, I am limited. If I’m 49, then I can buy a new house, drive a different car,” he said. “I can take up more work. When I’m on Tinder and it says I’m 69, I don’t get an answer. When I’m 49, with the face I have, I will be in a luxurious position.”

Ratelband even asserted that doctors have told him he has the body of a man 20 years younger, and he said that he was willing to renounce his right to a pension. He argues that if people are able to legally change their sex on documents, there is no reason why he should not be able to change his age.

I hope that as we read these stories of people identifying as a different age, we are able to understand that feeling like you are 20 years younger or 40 years younger does not really make you that age. I hope that we understand that even though identifying as a different age might help avoid suicidal thoughts, being discriminated against on dating apps, or denied resources, it does not really change biologically what is. I hope we understand that there are also broader societal and legal consequences to being able to legally change one's age. That an adult might identify as a certain age to trick kids into trusting them so they can sexually abuse them, and/or that allowing an adult to legally consider themselves a different age would make it easier for adult predators to gain legal access to kids in environments in which they would normally be socially and legally discouraged from being in.

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maxrqstuff · 2 months

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#LGBTQIAAPX+ Coined by Me >:3

#Lesbian (includes: WLW, WLG, GLG, GLW, Sapphic, etc)

#Gay (includes: MLM, MLB, BLB, BLM(not the movement XD but still black lives do matter !!), Achillean, Vincient, Cinthean, etc)

#Bi (includes: Poly, Pan, Omni, Multisexual, etc)

#TransID (includes: Transgender, Non-Binary, Trace, Transabled, Transage, Transbody, Transpecies, Transtime, Transharmed, Transharmful, etc)

#Queer (includes everyone who is not Cis-Hetero-Allo-Human)

#Inter*sex

#A-Specs (includes: Aromatic, Aro-Spec, Asexual, Ace-Spec, AroAce, Aromid, Acemid, Amid, Aplatonic, Apl-Spec, Aemotional, Aemo-Spec, Aphysical, Aphy-Spec, Agender, Agin-Spec, Aracial, etc)

#Alterhumanity (Otherkinnity, Fictionkinnty, Factkinnity, Copingkinnity, Theriantropy, Vampiric, Dragonic, Otherlinkism/Choicekin, Copinglinksm, Otherspin, Otherhearted/Otherkith, Otherkinth, etc)

#Parasexuality (includes: 🤳🥀🌼α,🥀🌹β, 🌷🌺, 🕰️🍾, ☕️υτ, 📜🔖Σ, 🫖🍵, 🥤υτ, 🧑‍🍼μ, 🥃🍶🍹🥂, 🍸🗺️μ, ⌛️⚰️🪦💀🧟🍷🫗νθ, 🍼μ,🧃μυ, 🌟💫✨τ, 🍺🍻🔦🗝️, 🪶🐾🍋ζ, 🍭🍬🐚, 🥃🐚, etc)

#XenoID (includes: Xenogender, Xenoabled, Xenorace, erc)

#plus

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transx-mogai-cafe · 7 months

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This is the "you can do whatever you want forever" site until you're trans in a way they don't like. 🤷

#transx #transid #transage #transabled #transspecies #trace #etc #this is about being transx/transid #in a non-gender way

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thornantiradqueer · 8 months

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This is for anyone doomscrolling this tag:

It's ok. These people will never be accepted into society. You don't have to keep looking at it. Eventually the shock factor will wear off and it'll just be disturbing and painful.

#radqueer #transautism #idfc if I'm crosstagging #TransADHD #transrace #transage #transx #transabled #transid #pro transx

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thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra · 11 months

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Hey. If you’re doomscrolling in this tag, stop. Drink some water. Go look at something you actually want to. Remember, no one in their right mind is going to accept these people, so stop subjecting yourself to racism, ableism, transphobia, etc when you could be doing something better. These people are against recovery, so if you really want to piss them off, the best way is to be kind to yourself.

#radqueers piss off. idc if i’m crosstagging your community literally should not exist #radqueer #transabled #transrace #transracial #transage #transid #transx

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littlemelonberry · 6 months

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I think the biggest appeal for the rq/transid community is the fact that it lets you put a name to some complicated emotion you're facing and move on.

"I'm transrace!" usually means "I have some complicated family history or trauma that leaves me feeling out of place even my 'own' people, and this word helps me feel more at peace"

"I'm transabled!" usually means "I am already disabled and that disability doesn't feel severe enough to warrant my accomodations so I feel guilty"/"I wish my disability was less severe"/"I have some disorder that makes me wish my mind or body was more broken in some way"

So on, so forth. Even the labels I do cling to (transage and transplural, as well as some secret ones ;P) have some deeper, important meaning or nuance behind them. This isn't a case of "white people wanting to say slurs" or people who want to fetishize disability, this is people with really complicated problems that, for all the activism the mainstream has accomplished, still aren't being taken seriously or getting the attention and care they need.

I don't care what your label is, I don't care about your reasoning. You're safe here, you always will be. That, at least, will never change.

#transid #transrace #transplural #transage #transharmful #transharmed #transid safe #rq safe #this too shall pass #this is all from my experience at least #i'm sure there's SOMEBODY out there who just really wants to be a different race #but from what i've seen it's almost exclusively the generalization listed here

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npdblythe · 4 months

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Citrusqueer (🌈🍋💚)

Citrusqueer is a blankqueer label that focuses on minding your business and letting people be who they want

It is pro:

-letting people be de/elusional if it isnt truly hurting them or someone else

-letting people use whatever language or labels they want to describe themselves or their identity (mspec lesbians, boygirls, "contradictory" labels etc)

-transid and para

-therian, otherkin, kff, otherhearted, transspecies, etc

-sex positivity and all expression through fiction/roleplay/de/elusion

-letting everyone have a community, even if you dont agree with their beliefs or lifestyle

-willo/endo/tulpa/transplural

It is anti:

-harassment

-mass reporting/spamming

-hypoharmful

-policing who uses what labels/having a dni on coining posts or labels

-abuse

This label is not inherently pro or anti c, however i, the creator of it, am anti c leaning comp c. Anyone can use this label, as acceptance and letting people have differences is sort of the whole point of it

-eóghan 🍋🟩

#citrusqueer #🌈🍋💚#diaracial #transage #transid #transharmful #rq 🌈🍓#radqueer #blankqueer #blankqueer coining

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radqueer-zim · 17 days

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A bit back I saw a anti transage flag and It gave me a dumb idea..

What if I turn it and the transage flag into bears?

Anti transage is the one in blue and transage is in the pink.

I kinda wanna make them siblings but I also wanna make them date too.. What about.. Both?? >:3

#transid #radqueer #pro rq 🌈🍓#pro transid #rq community #rqc🌈🍓#rq safe #rq 🌈🍓#pro radqueer #transage #transid coining #rq zim ocs #Idc what y'all do with these two. Just have fun!#Btw i think the anti transage flag isn't that good looking..

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problematic-surveys · 1 month

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Pro-Para Pro-Transid Flag

A flag for anyone who is both pro-para and pro-transid! You do not have to identify as radqueer or anything else to use it

We love a selfish coin, I've been hanging in the general radqueer vicinity for a few years now but have never once felt connected to the label or felt like a part of the community despite the things I've done within the community

I believe that the diverse experiences I've heard about are real and deserve acknowledgement, I'd be a hypocrite to say I'm not therefore 'pro' the existence of these identities as much as I'm aware of the criticism pro-transids especially get

But oh well! This is Tumblr and by definition, I am pro-para and pro-transid, so here's my silly flag that says I could say radqueer but I don't >:D

#rq 🌈🍓#radqueer #pro transid #trace #transabled #transage #transid #transid safe #transx #radqueer community #pro transx #pro para #pro para flag #pro transid flag #flag coining #transid flag #para flag #radqueer flag

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lucyvelvett001 · 20 days

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Do you want to date me??

#trans sissy #transharmful #trans hrt #transhumance #trans hc #trans hunter #trans harry potter #trans happiness #trans horror #trans history #trans ana #trans are beautiful #trans angel #transage #trans sex worker #trans switch

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super-secret-account-yippee · 3 months

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hey guys, serious conversation, apparently there's someone who's undercover in the radqueer community and gathering information on us. be careful out there (this is a very much rushed post because i have to sleep in a few minutes)

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narcvamp · 23 days

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Why are we so accepting of chrono adults being transminors but not chrono minors being trans-adults ? Why can we treat Chrono adults like Children but draw the line at treating Chrono Minors as adults ? I am not talking in a legal sense . I wish to be treated the as my age . As my actual age and not my "Chrono"/body age . That is exactly why I've never actually mentioned how old I am chronologically .

#†talking. 🐦‍🔥#pro rq 🌈🍓#rq 🌈🍓#rq community #rqc🌈🍓#pro radq #transage

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bug-queer · 6 days

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permapup !! a transspecies and/or transage term for those who are pups/puppies & always will be. see my permakit flag here. coined for a friend :3 flag descriptions in alt text <3

if this has already been coined i couldn't find it but do lmk!

winterqueers & zionists do not use and do not interact. transbigots feel free to use but please dni with my blog. otherwise, do what u want! credit not necessary

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kidcoric · 3 months

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🧁 — ♡ cutesy permakid

silly lil themed flag i did in m spare time cuz i don really like da main permakid flag >< me thinks its looks a lil like da crutchian flag by mistake hehe (⁠꒪⁠꒳⁠꒪⁠) but any permakid can use dis flag !!

#🍦 — ♡ little sister doodles #transid #pro transid #transid safe #transid pride #transid please interact #rq safe #rq 🍓🌈#rq please interact #rq community #rqc🌈🍓#pro rq 🌈🍓#rq 🌈🍓#radqueer safe #radqueer #radq #permakid #transage #altage

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