౨ৎ self-concept killers ౨ৎ
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these are things i've done that ive noticed have killed my self-concept
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✮ relating to low self-concept characters/characters who weren't what i wanted to be in life
✮ only listening to songs where singer sings about how bad or sad their life is, how miserable they are, how nobody loves them, how they always get tricked, etc.
✮ not allowing myself to imagine cute things with my celeb crushes because i had "no chance" or "they'd never like me like that"
✮ not allowing myself to imagine myself in different places of the world, like disneyland, bali, etc.
✮ not allowing myself to imagine myself driving my dream car, or any car i liked
✮ constantly imagining relationships going badly for myself (friendship, family, love)
✮ imagining myself getting canceled (LMAO)
✮ not allowing myself buying cute/expensive things for myself or my family members
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idk if this is accurate but i’ve felt like in previous seasons riz & gorgug have been one of the inter-bad kids dynamics we’ve seen the least of & this season has been so great in that aspect. gorgug having helped make some of riz’s magic gear. riz helping gorgug with his studies. the shared birthday party. gorgug’s gift to riz being something he himself made to protect riz. riz’s gift to gorgug being something he illegally grabbed to protect gorgug. gorgug who utilizes rage to put his body on the line for his friends & riz who will take deep levels of mental stress for his friends. even though it was within the context of a joke, riz calling gorgug an “absolute sweetie.” like yea they might not be in a band together or both part of a presidential campaign team or owlbears teammates, but they’d go to war for each other, because they’re best friends.
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"what the heck is affirming from lack?"
🥴☝️umm
its when you don't believe you can get your desire so you affirm harder in order to get it.
you're not accepting it as creation completed, you're treating your desires as a process (ie. "its not here right now but it will be")
this what reacting to your 3d can look like.
in contrast to these negative believes remember that:
• creation is completed once you decide it is
• manifesting isn't a process, you're not learning anything, its an immediate thing
• if you just assume it to be true, saying more or less affirmations won't change it, so don't burn yourself out or make this less fun for you ! you honestly deserve better than that imo
what can you do when you get these thoughts?
• if this happens to me i simply close my eyes, and take a deep breathe (or a few). this will helps you re oxygenate your brain which takes you back to home base (manifesting is easy and its already done) this helps me accept my desires for what they are: facts.
from then on i move onto something i enjoy clear out my mind ! either subliminals or music that makes me confident ! (rihanna, lady gaga etc)
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