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imskyxx · 2 years

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Funny you should ask, by Elissa Sussman.

#thoughts #books #love #books & libraries #quotes #reading #english #romance books #romance #friends #friendship #funny you should ask #failing #failing at friendship

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mariszieleroerselen · 1 year

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Why is it that whenever something major and good happens to my friends (they get a boyfriend, they get a job, they get a house), instead of being happy for them, I start feeling so anxious that I want to cry? It makes me feel like they're so far ahead in life compared to me and like I'm a complete failure. And I hate how my first thought, when they tell me such news, is to make it about me. Towards them I of course act really nice and I congratulate them, tell them I am happy... But I'm really not. I mean, I really want to be, and my mind is aware and tells me: 'this is a really good thing for them!' but I cannot féél that happy thought, all I feel is sadness. It makes me feel like such a fake friend.

Is this even normal?

I don't think I'm jealous, I'm really just scared.

#emotions #lack of empathy #wrong emotions #failing at friendship #failing at life #why can i not be happy for others anymore #i don't want to be that person #anxiety #scared

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dapper-lil-arts · 27 days

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💪The Dash grindset 💪Never faulter💪Stay real💪

#pony posting #rainbow dash #mlp gen 4 #mlp #im on a perfect position for fail RD memes #because i don't like her very much in canon lol #my little pony #friendship is magic #meme #fuckin swagless

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elitadream · 3 months

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Reunion time! 😄💕

#I was SO happy to finally be back home that I immediately felt inspired to make a little something for the occasion 🥰#No more prolonged absence - only good vibes 😌✨#I have often entertained scenarios where Mario would be gone for a while #either going on a side mission or thoroughly exploring the realm to ensure its safety #each time returning a bit rough-looking and somewhat exhausted; but safe and content #Both Luigi and Peach would be there to greet him most enthusiastically upon his arrival 🤗#It would be a blissful moment of relief and delight for the three of them everytime #The joy of being together once more would never fail to fill them with endless warmth and delight #It's a scene I've pictured countless times before #The whole concept lives in my head rent free 🥺💗#And thanks to you guys and your AMAZING support I finally drew it! :D #I love them and I love YOU #Mario #Princess Peach #Mario x Peach #Mareach #Luigi #best bros #family #friendship #romance #group dynamic #Super Mario Bros #fanart

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coldshrugs · 23 days

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take a deep breath

vierapril day 10: breath

#io laithe #ffxiv #endwalker spoilers #azia gposes #vierapril24 #posting these out of order and at 2am T^T failing the community event #GOD. my game crashed during my first attempt of this and i wasn't sure i'd feel like redo-ing it #but tbh i've been thinking about this for a minute #what it means for her to be A Hero and still have anxiety on a good day. but on the bad days...#what it means to the people who love her most to see her break #maybe not for the first time but in a raw and scary way they haven't witnessed before #so important to me that thancred is the one who goes to her first (and who takes her inside). idk. their friendship is so special!!!#and estinien's shock is also v important to me (peep him dropping his lance). he's feeling so many things rn alkjsfdlk

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heynhay · 10 months

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you know i got halfway through this before realizing i probably subconsciously ripped the concept from an old tumblr post sorry

#and then keith would say something rude and they would get into an argument for 3 hours #klance #vld #voltron #art #my art #ok guys we're in the tags time for my character debrief that no one asked for or cares about #i imagine this as like. far enough into their friendship that lance doesnt IMMEDIATELY come to blows #but keith feels the immediate need to make his emotional constipation everyones problem. and instigates a fight.#obviously that fucker would have to be on his actual deathbed in order to speak from tjhe heart #BUT if he somehow felt the motivation to fess up before then. it would be. such. an ordeal.#lance would be scratching his head like. why is keith insulting me out of nowhere 3982 times this week. i thought we were doing better #little does he know every time is just a try and fail on keiths part #because he needs an emotional miralax.#bless his heart.#if youre writing keith and he isnt dragged kicking screaming and dyiing into his feelings #are you even writing keith?#anyway this one goes out to katie klanced #hopefully you approve

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dreamingawayyour1ife · 6 months

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Ex-bestfriend hurts more than an ex-boyfriend

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allthingsobrien · 11 months

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bob & teddy legit have the funniest arguments

#bob's burgers #bob belcher #teddy #linda belcher #this is one of my favourite scenes #their arguments never fail to make me laugh #the intensity is just insane #bob making some good points #teddy get a new phone challenge #friendship goals #i love this show so much #video

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wtfgaylittlezooid · 22 days

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besties that could blow up the world three times over but love naps and their friends :)

#overpowered kid who believes in the power of friendship >>>>#kirby #the second coming #gijinka #kirby series #animator vs animation #animation vs minecraft #ava #avm #my art #doodles #crossover #peep the absolute failed star pattern on kirbys shirt

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twilight-spargle · 1 year

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hello! startrix art would be very cool :3

i haven’t gotten far enough in the show to see them interact </3 so i’m going off of fan content and vibes sorry if it’s inaccurate lmao

#mlp fim #mlp #my little pony #mlp g4 #spargle art #my little pony friendship is magic #twilight sparkle #trixie lulamoon #starlight glimmer #startrix #asks #SORRY YOU ASKED FOR SHIP ART AND I DREW THEM DIVORCING LMAO #not a big starlight fan (hate her design tbh) but i love trixie #she is cringe fail and transgender what more does a character need

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stromer · 18 days

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call me crazy... but i think hockey belongs in the desert idk

#just like. absolutely gutted that some little kid lost their favorite hockey team today #coolest jerseys in the league... AURA that's just absolutely unmatched on all regards. gone like that #the genuine lack of empathy i've encountered reading comments and what not. these people are actual sickos.... do they even SEE IT?#and ownership ONLY TOLD THE PLAYERS/STAFF BECAUSE THE RELOCATION NEWS GOT LEAKED!!!!!!!!! waht the hell #staff/communities/families/writers/players etc etc are all losing something... like garyb can always Get Bent but these are real ppl!#pouring your heart out into a team for so many years; none of which have been easy just to get this in return #fucking utah.... to play in an arena that is literally not even built for hockey........ like we've lost the plot so incredibly bad esp whe #the top goal scorer in the league is literally from arizona LOL #say all you want abt yotes failing but they knew friendship... they knew love... they knew how to see the world in a grain of sand...#i'm not even a diehard yotes fan but this just blows and az deserves better than this

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robert-deniro · 2 years

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#my last two brain cells

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bowenoke · 3 months

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we talk a lot about how current kids, teenagers, and parents never learned internet safety in this age of social media, but i think we also gotta be honest with ourselves that most of us, adults on the internet who participate in fandom, never really learned how to engage with young people without setting them up for disaster.

might be weird to say it like this, but it's important to leave people how you met them or better. like hiking or going to a nature reserve. if you are regularly talking to people on the internet, especially teenagers, you need to consider whether your behavior with them is how another, shittier person would take advantage of them, because you have no real way of protecting them if that happens. like if you're going into discords and saying 'hey i'm mom! let me help you with your homework and irl issues. also please feel free to vent to me if you have any mental health issues or problems at home" you have to understand that the next person who says that to them may be leaving out the end of their plan; "that would make you easier to abuse."

sometimes you have to say "you seem fun and have a lot of great ideas but you are also 15, so if you wanna talk fandom, here are the boundaries we're going to follow, because these are the boundaries other adults should be following with you." or just refuse to talk to kids.

you decide what your responsibility, is but what you can't do is build an illegal fire pit on the hiking trail, if you catch my drift.

#the last post i reblogged reminded me of my longstanding vendetta against fandom parents #and while i've held this opinion for years i think i can finally verbalize it in a way that makes sense?#dont get people used to red flags!!!! do not be the reason someone things red flags are normal!!!#this is not to say you can never be friends intergenerationally. just that like...#a lot of friendships i was in as a kid were like lightening. fast and strong and over quickly #and what i learned was that it was fine to progress to very personal details quickly.#dont be lightening. be a hiker. keep a reasonable speed and dont be afraid to say 'you're walking very quickly on an unknown path. slow dow #also just. to be clear. i dont think this is a personal failing i see this as a consequence of all of US having INSANE relationships too #like many of us are still struggling to figure out boundaries with IRL people after that.#and trying to do right by the young people we see in the same shoes now is a daunting and confusing task with which we can only do our best

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accio-victuuri · 4 months

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