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singular-almond · 10 months
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i am unsure where else to go about my sexuality confusion at the moment. Maybe it’s just too late at night but I might be debating aromanticism?? I do not know. I still think I am asexual, which is turning me off from a lot of relationships.
Sex in a relationship is so important for a lot of people and I completely understand that but it is not super important for me but then I don’t know how to distinguish a relationship from a platonic friendship without sex being a part of it.
If anyone wants to chat with me about this stuff just for fun, shoot me a message :)
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loonysnuffles · 2 years
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Wise aces 💜
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super-ace · 10 months
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I’ve been watching Brooklyn 99 for the first time and just got to the series where Rosa comes out as bi and I just love her so much and all the characters are just so supportive and it’s really great! We stan a bi queen 🩷💜💙
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ineffectualdemon · 2 years
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Kiddo: I've made a really cool friend and they recently came out to me as bisexual
Me: *gasp* the asexual found their emotional support bisexual! The Alliance continues!
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Sometimes bi people ARE confused. Although usually it turns out they're not bi at all and what they were confused about wasn't what homophobes say they're confused about.
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waywardsalt · 1 hour
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so. i've had an idea for a warrior cats fanfiction story, and have spent the last few years hammering out characters, the clans, how they work, the story... a whole lot of stuff. i've tried writing it before, and right now i don't have a current draft of early chapters, but I did recently write out a scene from much later in the story, and i'm pretty happy with it, soooo... here! a warrior cats fic scene i wrote in like an hour a week ago
By the time she led ShadeClan to the Gathering site, Emberstar felt her anxieties lessen. Her foreleg ached from the effort of the journey, but she kept her head high. Beside her, Acornfall glanced back at their clan, then nodded over to Emberstar. He led the clan down into the Gathering hollow, and Emberstar padded over to the slope up to the leader’s perch. PineClan and CliffClan cats were already quietly milling about in the hollow, and up on the overhang she could see Lakestar and Wolfstar waiting. There was no MoorClan scent among the gathered cats.
              Emberstar made her way up the slope she’d seen Gorsestar and Froststar before her traverse. It was a thin path, slowly becoming steeper and steeper as she slunk closer to the overhang, finally reaching the steep, gravelly slope that led up to the leaders’ perch. Down at the base of the cliff, she could see Acornfall joining the other deputies with a polite nod of his head, and Troutfoot was carefully weaving her way through the crowd to meet with the other healers. Emberstar twitched her whiskers when Lakestar and Wolfstar noticed her. She crouched and tensed her back legs and leapt up the slope.
              It wasn’t enough to reach the top, but she reached out with her forepaw and sunk her claws into the loose gravel and dug her back paws into the ground to keep from slithering back down. She slowly inched forward, moving a kittenstep at a time, but she kept her eyes fixed on the other leaders, more determined than ashamed of herself. Emberstar forced herself up the slope, but her heart skipped a beat when the gravel under her paw proved too loose to get a good enough grip- so close to the top, too. What a shame she had no other forepaw to lash out and find a grip with.
              Emberstar felt herself begin to slide back down the slope, but a pair of jaws grasped her by the scruff and hoisted her up onto the overhang. She clawed at the grass and stumbled a step when let go and turned to meet Wolfstar’s amused gaze. “Careful there, three-paw,” the CliffClan leader gruffly purred. “It’s bad luck to fall at your first Gathering as leader.” She brushed past Emberstar to sit back down next to Lakestar.
              With a huff, Emberstar followed her with a shake of her pelt. “I appreciate your help, but I would have been fine on my own. I suppose I owe you now?”
              Wolfstar’s whiskers twitched. “Are you saying ShadeClan is now in CliffClan’s debt?”
              The young leaders stared at each other, then broke out into amused purrs. Lakestar rolled her eyes and wrapped her tail around her paws. “So, you are ShadeClan’s leader now, Emberstar? Or is it still Emberblaze?”
              “It is Emberstar now. I visited the Moon Cavern for my lives only a few sunrises ago.”
              “May StarClan light your path as leader, then.” Lakestar stiffly dipped her head. Despite the brusque words, there was genuine respect in her pale eyes.
              Wolfstar’s own eyes were still bright with humor. “You’ll be great, I know it. What happened to Froststar, then?”
              Emberstar narrowed her eyes and turned her gaze to the gathered cats. “I’ll explain that once the Gathering begins. MoorClan is late tonight.” She surveyed the crowd of cats, peering straight down at the huddled healers. Sitting with her back to her PineClan clanmates, Flarelight was sitting close to Troutfrost. After a moment, she gazed up at the overhang, and her eyes met Emberstar’s. Her eyes grew wide and she stared at her littermate for a long moment until another healer got her attention. Then, as if she’d seen nothing, Flarelight flicked her tail and joined the conversation. Her twitching tail-tip was the only hint that she was distracted. Emberstar blinked. She’d become leader so recently that not even the other healers knew, much less the other clans’ warriors. In the crowd of CliffClan cats, she spotted Sunscorch, sitting with his fur brushing Moonwhisper’s, his eyes wide and his body stiff while he stared at his sister up on the overhang.
              Poor Sunscorch, so softhearted under those honed claws and strong limbs- he was likely to take the news of Froststar’s death the hardest. Emberstar held his gaze, blinked slowly, and turned her head to the sky. The moon was nearly overhead, and still MoorClan was absent.
              “You ought to start the Gathering now,” Wolfstar growled to Lakestar. “It’s newleaf, after all, and if MoorClan’s late then they’re late.”
              “We should wait,” Emberstar sharply mewed. “This is my first Gathering as leader, so it would be disrespectful to me as well as MoorClan if we begin without them. It may anger StarClan as well,” she finished in a murmur, flicking her tail-tip up at the sky. Wolfstar just bushed out her stormy gray fur and huffed.
              Lakestar gazed up at the sky. Emberstar looked over at her. For so long, as an apprentice, as a warrior, as the deputy, she’d never dared to be so close to the cold PineClan leader. But now, she was barely a tail-length from the sleek silver tabby, and they sat as equals in standing. Lakestar was likely at less than nine lives and Emberstar was without a right foreleg, but they were equals nonetheless.
              She was knocked from her thoughts by Wolfstar headbutting her. The larger cat nearly shoved her off-balance. “Glad to see that we’re both finally up here. I was waiting to see when you’d catch up, three-paw.”
              Emberstar licked Wolfstar’s ear. “You know I must take things slower than you.”
              “Who’d you pick as deputy?” Wolfstar leaned over the edge to inspect the group of deputies. “Hm- Acornfall?”
              “He’s a good warrior. Older than me by four seasons, so I trust his advice and his skill.”
              “I thought you would have picked Lavenderflash. Or maybe Darknose, you two always seemed close.”
              Emberstar gazed down at Lavenderflash, spotting the pure-black molly quickly- she was almost certain there was obvious fondness in her eyes as she looked at her former apprentice. “Lavenderflash is… young and still training her first apprentice. She is a good, loyal warrior, but not fit to be deputy or eventual leader in my mind. And Darknose…” The tom was sitting at the edge of the crowd, alone. “He is a possibility, but he still mourns his brother even all these moons later, so I don’t know if he would be the best choice.”
              Wolfstar made a sniff of approval, then her gaze snapped to the far hill. A yowl rang out, and the three leaders pricked their ears and the cats in the hollow turned to see MoorClan finally arrive, led by Applestar. Emberstar sat stiffly until she spotted Glowflame in the crowd, side-by-side with Orangeclaw. He joined the cats in the hollow with his clan while Applestar broke off to climb up to the overhang, and he seemed to murmur something to Orangeclaw before she angled her ears up at Emberstar. Glowflame looked up and spotted her, and his jaw dropped open. Emberstar couldn’t help but let out a purr of affection for her brother as he gaped in amazement at her.
              Applestar greeted the other leaders when he finally joined them, nodding briefly at Emberstar, and hurriedly sat down next to Lakestar, his mottled fur standing up along his spine. The leaders gave the cats in the hollow a few moments to settle down. In that time, Emberstar saw her littermates make their ways through the crowd towards each other. By the time Lakestar threw back her head and yowled to signify the beginning of the Gathering, Flarelight, Sunscorch, and Glowflame sat huddled together with their eyes trained on their sister. Emberstar met their gazes for just a heartbeat and felt the final icicles of her anxiety melt away.
She then turned her head to watch Lakestar as she began to announce her clan’s news for the moon, and reminded herself of what she had to announce when it was her turn. She was ShadeClan’s leader, now. StarClan had approved of her. Emberstar lifted her chin and, with a deep breath, finally settled into her place at the head of her clan.
#woe warrior cats fanfiction be upon ye#my writing#fanfiction#warrior cats#hmmm...#waywardsalt's warrior cats#yeahhhh#anyways a few things abt this related specifically to whats in here#emberstar and wolfstar are not in any kind of relationship theyre just longtime friends n rivals tho at some point wolfstar had a crush#emberstar is meant to be aro/ace and otherwise has no interest in taking a mate at all but she loves her clanmates#glowflame and orangeclaw are mates and sunscorch and moonwhisper are mates idk if flarelight will be in a relationship#the map for this fic (clan territories and camp layouts and moon cavern/gathering spot) is based on a minecraft world i have its v helpful#i have a full alliances list for the living cats at the very beginning of the story but it lacks cats outside the clan bc uhhhh i dont#think there are too many that are present that early and also loners arent usually a big thing its mostly cats passing through#emberstar is mostly dark ginger and black flarelight is mostly just dark ginger sunscorch is gold/yellow and glowflame is yellow and white#all four of them have ice blue eyes and black ear tips i am getting funky with cat designs i do not care. they have teh most unique designs#calling med cats healers bc of. reasons you may know why. and she cats are mollies bc like. why not#emberstar is a tripod cat she is missing a foreleg and she is the primary primary protag she is the most frequent pov#so i have thought a lot abt how she would need to be trained and assessed differently and what she cannot do and how she does warrior dutie#ember flare sun and glow all grew up together but separated into the different clans for Reasons ember stayed in shadeclan bc she was deput#it was also for those Reasons but dw abt it. sunscorch is gay glowflame is bi flarelight is a lesbian#gorsestar and froststar (the previous shadeclan leaders emberstar thinks of) were both mollies and were mates. frost mentored emberstar#its a little bit of nepotism but ember was frost's like. third deputy so its whatever. i picked acornfall as deputy as a placeholder#and bc i couldnt fucking remember anyone else except nobodies in shadeclan but now that i think about it he's actually a good choice#aaaand emberstar is my oldest warrior cats rp character shes been with me a long time- second oldest is sunscorch#emberstar began as emberheart and sunscorch was an edgy murder rogue named sun i roleplayed them in a specific mc server
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camptv-era · 1 year
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Ace-Aro DJ
I was starting to skim Island for headcanon proof and I didn't even have to go far for it!
"Not So Happy Campers Part 1" has this:
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Duncan's remark of "She's all yours, man." Makes DJ give this face.
Yeah, the point of this scene could be 'blah, blah. Eva is undesirable' but we were just shown that Cody was trying to flirt with her too, and Duncan himself was turned off by her attitude/strength.
Then, Justin is announced! Everyone's surprised or delighted to see him. Everyone except...
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Even Duncan whom I headcanon as closeted bi is surprised.
DJ is the only one who makes two faces in this scene-- confused and then frowning. (Coincidentially, I'm also an aromantic Justin truther, but he's not who this post is about.)
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Now this scene!
In "X-treme Torture", the way Bridgette disproves DJ is the one who wrote that mystery haiku is... him deflecting.
...now that I'm typing this out, it feels like I can't word this well, but I hope you guys feel the same aro vibes I do in that particular interaction.
(We also need more smug DJ and DJ with bite moments tbh!)
No pictures for these next two examples of proof, since they're dialogue-based.
In "Up The Creek" DJ offers romantic advice to Geoff by comparing it to something he knows, that is, luring in a rabbit to feed.
In World Tour's Japan episode, he compares Alejandro's smooth moves being irresistible to his mom's gravy.
I think DJ is romance+sex repulsed, but he clearly has a thorough understanding of it. He was raised by two people in love!
He's emotionally mature and well rounded in physical activities too. His moms raised him well! He just feels uncomfortable when people make romantic remarks/advances toward him.
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He has no qualms in affectionate touches or contact. (See also: my DJ+Lindsay Friendship post!)
Except, when there's a romantic or sexual layer added to it:
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In this case (Action's "Aftermath II"), Geoff suggested off-screen that Gwen was being cozy with DJ when he just saved her life! He's clearly bothered by it, even though he was just talking pleasantly with Gwen.
In "Newf Kids on the Block" there's also that hot dog scene. (I've hit the picture limit TwT,) When Owen hits on DJ for Noah to try and get him into a alliance with Team Chris, DJ makes this face again.
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Yeah, yeah there's the gay joke here, but given DJ's character we know thus far: chill, kind and soft-hearted. He wouldn't be homophobic.
(Again, even if it was accidental or fanon, he has two moms. Plus, he's been shown to accept things more easily than others, like being on good terms with Gwen in Action after the Trent ordeal. I highly doubt someone's sexuality would deter DJ from being nice, if morality or social pressure doesn't.)
Anyway, though. It serves to add to my point. He's made that face (or one similar to it) when it comes to romantically suggestive situations!
He's also one of the only campers (if not the only one, I'm not really thinking hard about the other 99 contestants.) whose storylines have never revolved or included attraction in any way.
In conclusion: aro/ace DJ. 💙
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lale-txt · 2 years
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✂️ One Piece characters and their recent search history (pt. 1/?) ➳ w/ Ace, Roger, Law, Shanks, Whitebeard, Sabo, Sanji & Kid
➳ pt. 2 w/ Marco, Doflamingo, Smoker, Nami, Zoro, Garp, Kaido & Killer
a/n: you know how intimate your recent search history can be, right? it's like a micro character study and i think that's beautiful.
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Ace
“daddy issues help”
“does loving a bird make me furry”
“where to buy weed on Grand Line”
“i love my 1.600 brothers bumper sticker”
“restraining order against my father and his partners”
“chaps with flame pattern”
“WikiHow roll a weed”
“giant scam on Grand Line”
“can u smoke Basil”
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Roger
“gentle parenting methods”
“my son hates me help”
“Grand Line polycule”
“Silvers Rayleigh OnlyFans”
“Monkey D. Garp OnlyFans”
“Road Poneglyphs scans leaked”
“dilf maid cafe application”
“cool patterns for trimming your bush”
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Law
“AITA for misuse of devil fruit”
“hot topic new collection”
“best concealer against dark circles”
“alliance meaning”
“GoFundMe bread ban”
“is it gay to steal 100 hearts” 
“lint roller giant pack polar bear hair”
“tattoo on ass cheek pain scale”
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Shanks
“how not to pay child support”
“alimonies help when broke”
“am i a deadbeat test”
“how to change pirate crew name”
“shower how often”
“20-in-1 shower gel maxi pack”
“ugliest pants where to buy”
“fashion faux-pas Grand Line 2022”
“Dracule Mihawk book of poems release date”
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Whitebeard
“how many sons too many”
“how to adopt son from your rival”
“son bites what do”
“sexy nurse uniforms”
“honk if you love dilfs bumper sticker”
“dilf to gilf when”
“lube big pack groupon”
“dick appointment urban dictionary”
“silly little meow meow meaning”
“why does date call me babygirl”
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Sabo
“why capitalism bad”
“dragon claw skull kink”
“burgoisy”
“borgoysie”
“bourgeoisie spelling”
“hot [redacted]”
“how to [redacted]”
“[redacted]”
“how to apply becoming a dilf”
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Sanji
“All Blue where”
“best feminist pick-up lines RESPECTFUL”
“zoro x reader smut”
“am i gay test”
“how to come out to your crewmates”
“cheese of the year”
“how to end nose bleed before it ends me”
“best playlist to kiss boys, girls, theys and gays to”
“bi disaster booty shorts”
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Kid
“best kiss-proof lipstick in shade of my enemy's blood”
“diy glitter grenade kit”
“am i Florida man test”
“is it gay to brush your first mate’s hair”
“how to become pirate king”
“why do i need a plan b in life”
“how to become beauty influencer”
“cool names for a boat”
“list of cool one-armed redheads”
“breaking bones ASMR”
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cosmic-kaden · 3 months
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New oc Colby Walker
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New original character - Colby Walker - Vampire -
Basics -
Character’s full name: Colby Walker (Not his birthname!)
Character’s nicknames: Bee, Coco, Cole
Birth date: 02/14/???
Species: Vampire
Gender: Male
Sexual Orientation: Ace/bi
Physical appearance -
Age: Over 500 years old
How old does he appear: 34
Height: 6'1"
Eye color: Red
Skin tone: Pale
Predominant features: Hair, eyes (When visable), fangs
Hair color: Light Pink
Type of hair: Long
Hairstyle: Wild
Voice: Normally gravelly but can turn honeyed when luring a victim.
Usual fashion of dress: Street/grunge/formal-casual
Favorite outfit:
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Jewelry or accessories:
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Personality -
Good personality traits: Intelligent, Courageous, charismatic, Adaptability, and a sense of humor
Bad personality traits: Manipulative, bloodlust, cunning, sadistic
Mood character is most often in: Either Melancholic or angry when he is alone. Will "act" happy around others to seem more alluring.
Sense of humor: Dark, playful teasing, clever repartee
Character’s greatest joy in life: Cultural and Historical Immersion
Character’s greatest fear: Immortality Boredom:
Why?: The idea of living forever and experiencing an endless stream of time might lead to a fear of eternal boredom.
What single event would most throw this character’s life into complete turmoil? Loss of immortality, Captured by vampire hunters, force-feeding on a loved one, and loss of supernatural abilities.
Character is most at ease when: When he is under the cover of darkness, hidden in plain sight, in the company of those he trust, and when he is at home
Most ill at ease when: he has to be in sunlight, blood deprivation, around hunters/enemies
Enraged when: A direct threat to his life, harm to a loved one, and violation of territory
Depressed or sad when: Loss of his loved ones, when he feels lonely, reminiscing about how he'd been betrayed by allies in the past
Priorities: survival, secrecy, feeding, forming alliances, avoiding exposure, adapting to change and protecting his loved ones. Life philosophy - Embracing the Moment - Acknowledging the fleeting nature of human existence, Colby savors each moment. He finds joy and meaning in the present, appreciating the beauty of life and the world around him Eternal Learning - With centuries at his disposal, Colby adopts continuous learning. he seeks knowledge, engages in intellectual pursuits, and embraces opportunities for personal and spiritual growth.
If granted one wish, it would be: Peaceful Coexistence with Humans
Why? Colby wishes for a world where vampires and humans can coexist peacefully, without fear or animosity, allowing him to live openly without the need for secrecy.
Character’s soft spot: The person he loves.
Greatest strength: his wisdom/experiences and strategic thinking.
Biggest regret: Unintended Consequences of his actions. He's sparked conflicts with others and influenced events and inadvertently caused suffering of others.
Minor regret: Building such a big wall around himself. He has missed opportunities for genuine connections with humans because of this.
Biggest accomplishment: Development of Protective Havens. Colby has created secure havens for vampires and his allies where they can retreat during daylight hours or escape threats.
Minor accomplishment: Learning and adapting to technology. Colby has embraced and adapted technological advancements
Past failures he would be embarrassed to have people know about: Misunderstanding slang and pop culture references.
Why? Colby attempted to fit in with humans and he's had moments of confusion and misinterpretation when faced with slang, memes, and pop culture references.
Character’s darkest secret: Identity Theft and Masquerading as someone else to hide his real identity. He conceals his age, origins and their supernatural abilites.
Does anyone else know? Nobody knows.
Past
Hometown: New Brunswick Canada
Type of childhood: Before becoming a vampire, Colby had a typical human childhood. He experienced a range of emotions, formed relationships, and underwent personal development.
Pets: a cat named Porkchop
Dream job: To live forever (accomplished) Wants to try bartending
Present
Current location: ????
Currently living with: No-one
Pets: None
Occupation: Bartender
Family
Mother: Morgana Walker
Relationship with her: Close when she was alive
Father: Tristan Walker
Relationship with him: distant when he was alive
Siblings: Sister named Selene
Relationship with them: Close when she was alive.
Spouse: none
Children: none
Favorites
Color: Mauve, light blue, pink
Least favorite color: Green
Music: Classical/Jazz
Food: Blood and lollipops (He likes the sweet taste and it helps with his oral fixation)
Literature: gothic literature, romantic literature, and classic poetry
Form of entertainment: nightlife/clubs, reading literature, Games of strategy like chess, and observing humanity
Habits
Hobbies: Collecting art and antiques, photography, and exploration,
Plays a musical instrument? Violin
Smokes: No
Drinks: Occasional alcoholic beverage, more so to blend in with others as he cannot get drunk.
Traits
Optimist or pessimist? optimist
Introvert or extrovert? extroverted
Daredevil or cautious? daredevil
Logical or emotional? Logical unless it involves someone he scares for then his thinking can be led more by emotions
Disorderly and messy or methodical and neat? neat
Prefer working or relaxing? both
Confident or unsure of himself? Confident
Animal lover? yes
Relationships with others
Opinion of other people in general: He is interested in humans not just because they are a food source for him but also because they are fascinating creatures.
Does the character hide his true opinions and emotions from others? Absolutely not. He always speaks his mind.
The person character most hates: Vampire hunters.
Best friend(s): n/a (be his friend)
Love interest(s): n/a (Or love on him lol)
Person character goes to for advice: His books
The most important person in the character’s life before the story starts: His sister.
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twyla19 · 9 months
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I have seen a lot of stuff about heartstopper. many videos and posts here where people talk about how say it's cringe for Nick to constantly correct people about being Bi. It's fully valid for him to correct. He knows who he is, and those people saying he is gay or any other biphobic remarks are making assumptions. I relate to Nick in how he was figuring out his sexuality (mine was both) and being ace many people want to tell me "you just haven't found the right person" which is said to Isaac in the series. There's a true alliance between Bi and Ace people (at least in my eyes) where both identities are invalidated for either liking both (and more) or not having any attraction at all.
If you are bisexual and see this. I stand with you in your identity. Like charlie and all his friends do in heartstopper. Cause I'd want that with being Ace.
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mlmxreader · 2 months
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Hi! I’m a COD writer and I saw your cod posts and I agree- can I ask some things though because I want to make sure I’m not part of the problem that makes this community so horrid for people.
If I write for male readers and give a character a majorly ‘bottom or submissive’ role in a piece of writting, is that pushing gay stereotypes if I’m gay myself?
do you know any better ways I could write for nikto or any good examples or links so I could learn better about how to write him and stuff
do you count dead dove or overall kind of questionable things as glorifying SA etc even when it’s more so stuff like toxic characters and such?
I’m sorry if these questions are weird! And of course you don’t have to answer them since it’s not your job- I just want to be a good writer and not make anyone feel uncomfortable with the work I do
I think these are fair enough questions to ask, tbh! like, genuinely, more than fair enough! so I'll do my best to give you as much information as I can!
if you're a queer man yourself (whether that means you're gay, bi, demi, omni, pan, ace, whatever), then no. it doesn't. if you're a queer man, you're fine lmao
yeah, so one of the BETTER resources to check out is @schizopositivity - they post a lot about schizophrenia and psychosis SPECIFICALLY, which will help a lot. but outside of social media, there is also: the national alliance on mental illness, stamp out stigma, and mind - now, bear in mind, these are only from the top of my head rn bc it's 0230 BUT I can always ask my psychiatrist if he's got any extras next time I talk to him or the other 2 I work with!
yes, absolutely. regardless of if there's a toxic relationship, it's all in the INTENT of how it's written. so, the example I like to give is easy: JAWS, 1975. Jaws was written and MADE with the intent of demonising sharks and glorifying the killing of sharks, right? and DDNE, noncon, etc is written in a similar manner - it's written to portray these things as desirable, as attractive, as something to WANT, even if the character(s) in question do have dubious or abhorrent morality. it's wank material, at the end of the day, regardless of what they claim.
again, your questions were perfectly valid and I'm happy to oblige!! I understand completely wanting to DO and to BE better tbh, I get it! and I'm glad that you're actually WILLING to put in the work in order to do so!!
of course, if you DO have any further questions, please don't hesitate to come back! I can't promise to be an expert on EVERYTHING, but I'll help where I can!!
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super-ace · 1 year
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The bi / ace alliance is so precious 🥰
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segasister · 2 years
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Pansexuality is an inherently biphobic label. Pan people think bi people are only attracted to two genders and they're the only people capable of being attracted to NB people, which erases lived bi experiences and history. Pan people have enbyphobia and biphobia baked into their identity, you can't be a safe space for both those assholes and bi people, because by siding with pan people you're invalidating bi people by default.
I literally have never met a single pan person, either personally or in passing, who thinks this way. In fact, the only place I’ve seen this harmful mindset is in fucking Big Mouth of all shows. Honestly, this mindset you yourself are presenting reads as queerphobic in and of itself. It’s like saying that asexual people are homophobic just for being ace, or binary transgender people are enbyphobic just for falling into the binary gender spectrum. (Hell, I myself faced this while I identified as pan.)
I’m not one to debate a person’s own labels, so if they choose to use it, then I won’t argue. However, if they do have those views, then their label isn’t at fault. Just like you, I don’t doubt, have had an experience just like you’ve described, perhaps they have met a single bi person who was transphobic or enbyphobic, and that’s also not okay.
What I’m saying is that attacking each other isn’t the answer. That’s just what TERFs want, what the LGB Alliance wants, what any exclusionist wants. They want us to be divided and fight with each other so we’re too distracted to notice actual harm being done. The generalization of people identifying with a label isn’t the problem; the queerphobia is.
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fierceawakening · 1 year
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@cumulativechaos I wasn’t at the center of Ace Discourse, and I held some opinions back in the day I don’t hold now (I thought that the ace and queer communities should be separate but closely allied, often but not always hosting joint events. I’ve since come to see that as wrongheaded, most principally because the people who were very into exclusion wouldn’t have been willing to ally with ace people and likely would have acted to make sure ace people couldn’t get enough resources to create fully independent spaces that could form robust alliances with other sexual minorities anyway.) But from my recollection:
Many people who were for excluding ace people were terfs, though these were not exactly overlapping. Terfs’ objection tended to be, from what I could see, grounded in the idea that there isn’t and shouldn’t be such a thing as a “queer community,” that the idea of a broad “queer” umbrella simply meant that people who are in “opposite gender” relationships (bi people, heteroromantic aces, heterosexual aromantics) would come to outnumber gays and lesbians, and that this would fundamentally change the nature of supportive spaces like gay and lesbian bars and events.
I don’t think the concern that a broader “queer umbrella” might mean people in gay and lesbian relationships are less focused on is purely a terf concern, but they were definitely loud about it. As well as loud about the idea that the word “queer” meant demeaning ourselves or admitting there is something wrong with us.
Where the people who like the term (of which I am one) tend to see it differently. Our idea is that sometimes, you don’t respond to bullies by saying “I’m not that awful thing you called me!” Sometimes, you respond to bullies with “I’m exactly what you just called me. You wanna make something of it? Come on, motherfucker, let’s see it then.”
Sometimes you should refuse to let someone call you a bad name. But sometimes you should ask “why is that a bad name? It’s a perfectly good thing to be. You’re the bad one for saying otherwise.”
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writingmoth · 1 year
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fantasy romance wip, a project by @writingmoth
yes i still dont have a title for this
His sharp intake of breath yanks Rowan from his thoughts. The god’s mouth is full of too many sharp teeth, his now gray eyes shimmering with a cold, devouring anger that sends a shiver of fear down Rowan’s spine. The blood staining his black shirt is too dark to be red, the crimson arrow buried deep into his shoulder. Rowan’s arrow.
Thirteen years ago, the god of the forest saved Rowan's life.
The world has been wrong ever since.
The Marrow is rotting. It's been rotting for a long time, as is the rest of the world, but now the signs are intensifying, the cracks starting to show: flowers that never bloom, fruits that burst open to reveal hollow cores, cattle that are born too weak to survive to adulthood. Even the village's small houses are buckling under their own weight, the wood soft and feeble to the touch.
Some say it's his fault. He made a mistake and the fey claimed him as theirs, but the god of the forest plucked him from their fingers, giving him a second chance at life. Except his family is now destroyed, the village is dying and the god themselves is barely seen anymore, their once constant, distant presence a vacancy that echoes and aches.
Some say it's the god's fault. What the first forest is owed can't be denied, they say, not even by their lord.
They are all wrong. Rowan doesn't belong to anyone - not to the fey who claimed him, not to the god who saved him, much less to the villagers who now deem him cursed. But when animals turn up mauled and the very earth cracks open under their feet, Rowan knows he must do something to save his home.
His investigation leads to an unlikely alliance with the very god who saved his life - and couldn't care less that they did. Through them, Rowan is forced to see the Marrow, the first forest and the night that almost doomed him through new eyes; there are secrets hidden deep beneath the Marrow's bones, promises made in blood still remembered in the branches of the first forest's monstrous trees, vows that should never have been broken etched into flesh, iron and wood, bonds that even now refuse to disappear. Debts that still need to be paid.
Some things should never be allowed to fester.
details — third person limited pov (rowan's) / present tense / romance, fantasy, a touch of horror and thriller. / themes: isolation, dealing (or not) with grief, loneliness, being a monster, being human, strength in community, fear of the unknown, the importance of platonic relationships, vows, promises, secrets, self-determination, change. / target word count: 80k-100k. / adult / cw: death, violence, light body horror, memory loss, some gore. / prepping & drafting (at the same time bc i fear no god) / gray ace/aro & bi mc, nonbinary li, bi side character. / aromantic undertones because i can't be stopped / queer romance
notes — i'm attempting nano this year with fantasy romance wip, though my goal is only 20k. i'm not rushing this story but i do want to get something done / i'm kind of pantsing this so who knows what might change / i will find it a title i swear
links — nanowrimo profile / twitter
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memietroubadour · 1 year
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Please info dump about your OCs!
Aight Going full throttle on this then! Some haven't been posted here So I'll try my best! I also have some chapters written if you're interested! Alan is my main character. He's an alien from the Alliance faction that gets stranded on Earth in 2080 something after a battle with the other faction, the Empire. He ends up befriending a group of Earthlings/Terrins that take him in and make sure he's okay, and they end up going on an adventure to get him back to his people.
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Medb is a main character that ends up going with the party to reunite Alan with his comrades. She works in the medic's house along with Tamil and Tadhg. She believes in the good in the world, and in the good in Alan as well. She hopes that with the journey she'll see more of the world that she hasn't had the chance to do. Also posting some concept art of Medb riding a hoverbike! She also has 4 adoptive siblings which I'll talk about next!
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Sibling chart that's kinda confusing sorry it's old In order of age it's Grainne > Anne > Eldwyn > Medb > Edan They all consider each other like blood siblings, still playing around with the idea Edan and Grainne are actually related but not sure how to incorporate that yet. Let me do a text version of this mess since my handwriting is AWFUL
Also quick pronouns/sexaulity guide for them: Grainne: She/Her: Pan Anne: She/They: Ace
Eldwyn: He/Him: Idk yet Medb: She/Her: bi/pan
Edan: He/Him: straight probably Grainne <> Anne: Grainne relies on Anne to take care of the others (since Grainne is out doing work for weeks to months at a time) Anne is the only one of the 5 aware of Grianne's past and carries guilt because of it Anne <> Edan: These two meeting ensures chaos ensues (Edan is the prankster of the group) They do have times that they hang out like normal people though lol
Edan <> Medb: Is blank huh?
Also for Edan and Grainne so I'll do that here: Grainne and Edan get into fights with each other constantly, but only when they're not working (mainly merc work like escorting transports, etc)
Edlwyn <> Edan: Edan excludes Eldwyn from his antics, in return Eldwyn covers for him. Eldwyn only lets loose around Edan. Eldwyn <> Medb: Probably the closest pair of siblings. Also considered the most calm pair.
Eldwyn <> Anne: Almost a work relationship (because they both work the IT/ electricity department for their home, size of small city/big town I think, so very important!) Eldwyn tries to stop Anne from going overboard on forums (so basically forums are run like sites today, but are mainly filled with aliens that are basically earthaboos and some earthlings that correct them, and use VPNs <3) They also have a weekly habit to try new recipes, they always turn out good.
Grainne <> Eldwyn: Respect between the two. Not super close, but they listen to each other's stories when they reunite. Grainne <> Medb: Grainne worries for Medb the most (probably sees a lot of her younger self in Medb, and hope it doesn't end in tragedy) Medb looks up to Grainne a lot.
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Okay so next is Anne! She's probably changed the most design wise out of all my OCs. They treasure all of their siblings a lot! She's like a pseudo mother figure for the group since Grainne (and by extension Edan) aren't around much. She works in the IT/electricity department of their home called "The Safehouse" because of this, she ends up tinkering in her spare time, on old computers and game consoles. The personal favorite is the 3DS where they play lots of RPGs and other story driven games! They also enjoy cooking with Eldwyn and sometimes Medb!
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Next is Eldwyn and Edan! They only have old art sorry! Eldwyn: Is quiet and reserved around strangers, but is himself around his close friends and family (basically ambivert) He also works along side Anne in the IT/electricity department. In his spare time he likes to read books in his spare time, mainly fiction. Edan: An extrovert to his core. A trickster that has a good heart. He works as a merc along with Grainne. I think I need to flesh him out more.
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Grainne: My love needs better art, BUT ANYWAY. She's a bit of a mess: she works hard but emotionally she has a lot of baggage from past trauma that hasn't healed. She tries to handle it well around her younger siblings, but is able to open up to her foster dads and Anne. In the business she's know as the Blazing Rider.
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Meloe: A soft-spoken lady that's most comparable to JP Effie. She likes doing heavy lifting, helping others, knitting, and eating good food with friends. Been trying to draw her more lately!
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Sloane: A quiet guy with a unknown past. He showed up with a young Medb that was covered in bruises and asked for help. Other than that, he's been quiet and hardworking. Medb was never told any of this by older members of the safehouse, including her adoptive parents Nick and Adrian, or Sloane. Nick and Adrian breakdown forgive me I don't have drawings of them Nick is the easy-going leader of the Safehouse while Adrian is the stricter leader. Nick is more in charge of the people and keeping everyone happy and alive, while Adrian is in charge of upkeep of the safehouse's infrastructure. They're both loving dads to the five kiddos!
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Tamil: Son of Tadhg and a doctor in the safehouse. He works in the medic's house alongside Medb and his father. He's a chill dude, but needs more work tbh.
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Tadhg: Doctor of the Safehouse and father of Tamil. He was an alien researcher a part of a 3rd group, but since he didn't surrender to the imperial faction, he ran with his son and found asylum in the Safehouse. He's a goofy dad but has a good heart. Needs new art desperately sadly.
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Toby: An old friend of Grainne. They used to work as mercs together but he ended up leaving that life to work in a bakery. He's next in queue for new ref sheet tho!
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And now onto antagonists and people from the Imperial faction!
Wilhelm: Main antagonist. A fan favorite too lol. My mans here is what we call an Earthaboo in the business. Hi main goal in reality is to capture Alan and use him as a political prisoner against the Alliance to get them to fuck off. He has to play everything like a straightman when he isn't around his friends/retainers Elilish and Jackson.
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Jackson: An earthling that became a retainer to Wilhelm. Think FE royals hiring their retainers due to skill. He's usually goofy as hell but serious when doing his job protecting prince Wilhelm. Has a past with Grainne.
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Elilish: Daughter of an Imperial Marquess. The household's responsibility is to guard the royal family at all costs. I've played with the idea of her house being assassins that take out political rivals or smth. For now she's a solid confidante/ retainer to Wilhelm.
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Elodie: Daughter of an Imperial noble that's a little bored with her life on earth. She ends up becoming friends with Medb due to happenstance and enjoying her time more showing Medb things she never got to see. Elodie has her doubts about how the Empireruns things, especially in it's treatment in earthlings as second class citizens.
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Viola. An OC I randomly created to be a sort of supporting character. She only recently got a name BUT I'd imagine she's shy and fashionable.
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Thank you for the opportunity to talk about my OCs! I hope you enjoyed it! :)
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