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narcissisticpdcultureis · 6 months

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Asexual npd culture is this:

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tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity · 2 years

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"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤😡"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

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aroaceconfessions · 2 years

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My mom's handling this annulment case (we don't have divorce here only annulment of marriage) but, leaving out most of the details, what she told me was that the woman was forced into the marriage by her parents after she got pregnant even if she had no romantic feelings for the guy and only saw him as a friend. In fact, age never had romantic attraction to anyone at all. The forced marriage wasn't the part that disturbed me the most about the case (although it is fucked up and absolutely no one should go through that) but the part that got me that my mom was also annoyed of was that the psychologist they got to give her a psychological exam to prove she wasn't mentally capable to fulfill her marriage diagnosed her as a narcissist because she couldn't feel romantic love which is not only arophobic but also ableist since those two cannot be equated to each other as people with npd aren't necessarily aro and aro people don't necessarily have npd. It's also pretty obvious to my mom and I that she was just diagnosed this way to dehumanize her because our culture and society doesn't believe that any normal person won't have romantic attraction therefore they must be a narcissist and narcissists obviously can't love. My mom felt awful hearing how hard she tried to change herself for the sake of her marriage and her kids but nothing ever worked for her.

My mom was super upset about the case in general because of the blatant mislabeling and also the fact that the woman reminded her of me since I've been super open about being aro to her for at least a year now while educating her about the community. I mean, I'm glad my mom understood how fucked up the situation is and how gross the psychologist was, but I'm upset that PROFESSIONALS would even say that in a LEGAL case.

This really makes me wish that there was more information about being aromantic and asexual out there especially in my country so that people have better words to describe themselves and not put themselves in situations they won't be happy with. I feel really bad for that woman since she probably thinks that there now something wrong with her just because she doesn't have the right vocabulary or information to explain her experiences. I genuinely hope the best for her after all of this.

#forced marriage #aro #aromantic #aspec #arospec #arophobia #aphobia #ableism #asexual #aroace #acespec #aroacespec #arose #internalized aphobia #internalized arophobia

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flutterbyfairy · 4 years

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❀ people i will block if i see them interacting with me ❀

[title transcription: "people i will block if i see them interacting with me". end transcription.]

if i notice anyone who falls into these categories interacting with me i will block them. this is just here to state my opinions and because some people prefer to know someones dni before interacting.

also: please don't interact if your blog has frequent nsfw/kink posts (artistic nudity or occasional tagged posts are okay).

this blog does not support:

- the obvious bigotry stuff: lgbtqia+phobia, sexism, racism, colourism, ableism, fatphobia, antisemetism.

- another obvious one: abusers and pedophiles.

including "maps", "nomaps", or any other word used to mean adult who engages in sexual activity with a child.

this includes adults who write/draw/post/engage with sexualised content of children (both fictional and nonfictional). this is not about educational content for minors or someone writing about their experiences with something like csa.

- terfs

this means people who don't include transfeminine people in their "feminism" (in quotations because terf feminism isn't good feminism); who believe that having a vulva/womb/periods/xy chromosomes are a necessary part of being a woman; who think trans women are a danger to cis women or shouldn’t be allowed in women’s bathrooms; who believe in bio-essentialism (the belief that our biology sex characteristics determine who we are).

- swerfs

this means people who don't include sex workers in their "feminism" (in quotations because swerf feminism isn't good feminism); who think sex work should be criminalised.

- people who don't support intersectional feminism.

- "pro life"/anti-abortion ideology.

- people who are anti nonbinary, anti neopronouns, anti lesbians who use pronouns other than she/her, anti people using pronouns that you believe don’t correspond to their gender, anti people who use "conflicting" labels.

- transmeds/truscums

this means people who believe medical transition or gender dysphoria is a requirement of being trans.

- the belief that genitalia determines gender.

- the exclusion of asexual and aromantic spec people from the lgbtqia+ community.

- people who blame queer people for queerphobia, such as saying "cringe" identities, "contradictory" identities, ect. are the reason for harassment or bigotry towards queer people.

- people who are anti blm (including anyone who promotes "all lives matter" or "blue lives matter"); who support the police/the idea that racist police officers are “just bad apples”; support the idea of/believe in reverse racism.

- people who support or promote diet culture; promote/believe in the “obesity epidemic”; tell people to lose weight or that they'd be prettier/healthier/better if they were thinner; harass fat people; promote the idea/believe that fatness is bad, gross, or worse than thinness.

- supporters of autism speaks or the use of ABA; those who use an autistics person's needs for support or inability to perform certain tasks to deny them respect.

- people that support/believe in the idea that people that have a personality disorder (bpd, npd, aspd, ect.) are inherently abusive; promote the idea of “narcissistic abuse”; support eugenics of people with personality disorders (or eugenics at all for that matter).

#dni

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 4 months

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NPD + asexual culture is I don’t want to have sex or be touched like that but I crave the idea of being desired

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#npd culture is #asexual npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #asexual #ace #acespec #aspec

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 4 months

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Asexual NPD adjacent culture is feeling deeply uncomfortable when others sexualise you, but you also want others to view you as the most desirable individual there is. NO, don't tell me you think I'm sexy!! And don't you dare think about having sex with me!! But you should still think I'm sexy anyways. - 💫 viscera

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 3 months

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Asexual NPD culture is the radio guy from hazbin hotel

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 4 months

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Asexual NPD adjacent culture is not wanting to have sex with other people. Of course the main reason is because that's my sexual orientation, but also, how DARE you think you could have sex with someone as perfect as me?? You should feel embarrassed thinking you'll ever be allowed to touch my body in any capacity tbh. It's too good for the likes of you. - 💫 viscera

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#npd culture is #asexual npd culture is #acespec npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #asexual #ace #acespec #aspec #-💫 viscera

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 11 months

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hey yall sorry to come back with another one of these so soon but yknow ableists are gonna fucking suck😐 @/did-is-not-real is going around and not only fakeclaiming and generally saying horrifically ableist shit to people with DID and cluster b disorders, but also say aspec people aren't valid or part of the queer community. block n shit stay safe<3

#not culture #ableism tw #aphobia tw #npd #did #bpd #asexual #aromantic

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 6 months

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aroace npd culture is getting so annoyed when people say “oh romance/sex/empathy is what makes us human” ITS LITERALLY NOT ITS YOUR FUCKING DNA IS THAT SO HARD TO COMPREHEND KAREN??????

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#mood #npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 1 month

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NPD + Aro Ace culture is thinking everyone is attracted to me, I deserve to be not just loved but obsessed over, I am everyone's romantic and/or sexual dream. . .

But I am absolutely REPULSED and DISGUSTED and UNCOMFORTABLE when someone expresses romantic feelings for me and I PHYSICALLY RECOIL at the thought of being involved in sex

Like, why can't I just be desired without being desired, y'know?

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 8 months

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Aroace npd culture is wanting people to have crushes on you because yes please attentions they love me i am so cool but at the same time ???? What would i do with that?????

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aro #ace #aromantic asexual #aromantic #asexual #aspec

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 2 months

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Npd aroace culture is alsster hazbin Hotel is only a narcissist if i say so. Stupid egotypicals with their bullshit "alastor is aroace because he's a narc and thinks he's too good for a relationship." Fucking wild. Alastor is a narcissist because of how he likes to be the most powerful demon in the room and it really frustrates him to not be the best most powerful and also he seems to need the attention for supply and fucking carmine didnt feed into that (? words-) and also i cant really explain it but how important it is to him to seem unshakeable and in control just- rahhh

I'm not saying he's not a narcissist, but i AM saying the next time someone has a bad take, im going to bite them /th

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#real as fuck #npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec #media

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 7 months

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aroace npd culture is knowing i don’t need anyone but myself

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aroace #aspec

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 10 months

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Aroace/intimacy repulsed npd culture is watching everyone you know have complex relationship drama and thinking “damn, I’m so right to not deal with that kind of closeness. They should stop falling in love with people.” And having to consciously remind yourself that it doesn’t normally work that way, and I’m just being the weird distant one again.

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 5 months

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npd + aroace culture is wanting a partner because you're jealous of your friends and fanfics but you also don't know if you'll ever be able to tell if you have/don't know if you'll ever have that feeling of romantic love again

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec

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