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narcissisticpdcultureis · 5 months

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aroace npd culture is getting so annoyed when people say “oh romance/sex/empathy is what makes us human” ITS LITERALLY NOT ITS YOUR FUCKING DNA IS THAT SO HARD TO COMPREHEND KAREN??????

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#mood #npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec

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cluster-b-culture-is · 2 years

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Aroace npd culture is realizing you only loved people because they gave you the attention you have always wanted (which is why you only ever fell in love after they fell in love with you)

#cluster b culture is #npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #cluster b #npd #Mod Reef #anonymous #Mood #and even then it wasn't really love it was more of an obsession

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npdvelvette · 2 months

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aroacespec cluster b moment of not being able to tell if you are actually crushing on someone or if you’re just fixated on them bc they actually meet your ridiculous standards and/or give you attention

#actually npd #npd #actually bpd #cluster b #bpd problems #actually histrionic #hpd culture is #actually antisocial #aspd #bpd #aroace #actually narcissistic #actually cluster b

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aro-culture-is · 1 year

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Aroace + BPD + NPD culture is being obsessed and having an increased ego when someone has a crush on you while also being super repulsed and disgusted.

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #aroace culture #bpd aro culture #npd aro culture

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ndtransaspeccultureis · 2 years

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npd aroace culture is making that submission about the Attraction Go Yeet and being very very happy at the amount of notes it received

#npd aroace culture #npd #aro #ace #aroace #im sure i dont remember what youre talking about but good for you!

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littlest-bugz · 4 months

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. introduction post .

Hello!

My name is BUGZ ! I am a bodily 21 year old [polyfragmented] DID system. We collectively have ADHD, Autism, OCD and a few other comorbid disorders. They all affect our day to day, but we will likely only post about our experiences as a DID system. Collectively we use they/them pronouns!

Get to know us more below the cut!

[ byf and dni also below cut ]

About Us !

OUR FREQUENT FRONTERS !

Things in our system change frequently!

Currently, we collectively identify as transmasc, bigender, panalterous, omni oriented AroAce, and ambiamorous ! This is an agreed upon identity the entirety of The Crew and Co. and is essentially for the body itself. Names, pronouns, genders and sexualities all vary from alter to alter individually.

On our page, you will find. . .

Lots of reblogs on random topics and hyperfixations

System Content [Mostly Text Posts and Half-baked Memes]

Original userboxes, blinkies, stamps. [The link to my hoards are below!!!]

Stimboards and Moodboards

Worldbuilding and OC talk

. . . and more!

Layout, Stimboard, and Userbox requests; Closed until current reqs finished!!!

Before you interact. . .

Our account may not be fully SFW, but we never reblog or post explicit material. I have a bad swearing problem, and due to my trauma, I have a hard time telling what is socially acceptable in regards for entirely being SFW. It's something I'm working on, so please be weary! We don't mind agere and petre engagement, just please know my blog is more skewed for mature audiences.

We almost never tag who is posting! We try, but it causes a lot of anxiety for a good amount of us. Please don't ask us to sign off our posts, as we feel it invades our boundaries. We're willing to give pronouns, but we generally try to keep our names more private.

We are endo apathetic. We honestly do not care if endos exist or not, we are just vibing in our own space. We only care about the misinfo on CDDs that is being spread. PLUS anyone is welcome on our blog as long as they don't drag us into any discourse/syscourse, aren't promoting misinformation, and/or being a generally bad or gross person.

We block liberally and without telling the blocked party. It's a force of habit that proves handy on the world wide web. We also ask you don't bother us to be unblocked.

BPD/NPD/HPD/ASPD havers are all welcome on our blog! If u believe in narc/histronic/borderline abuse, leave!!

WE ARE PRO-EDUCATED SELF DIAGNOSIS!!!

Do not interact. . .

Basic DNI Criteria [this is a link.] [note: some of the items on this list are repeated for ease of identification]

If you intend to ask about stances on discourse. [note: I'm always willing to be open to new lines of thinking and new ideas, as well as be corrected for any misinfo I may accidentally spread, but if you're going to talk down to me because I don't know or don't believe what you believe, I will block you. Speak to me as an equal or don't speak to me at all.]

pro/comshippers and pro/comship supporters.

transid/transx/radqueer or supporters [transRAMCOA/transProgrammer blocked on sight]

“cringe culture” supporters

ageplay/ddlg [again sfw agere/petre fine, but please know this account has mature themes.]

MAPs/Pedos and Zoos

Transphobes, TERFs, Radfems, Transmeds and the likes

anti-xenogender/anti-neopronouns

anti-mspec

pro-forced birth (“pro-life”)/ anti-abortion

More will be added as time goes. . .

Tags!

#important - important posts to us!

#littlest_bugz og - my original posts,,, may not be very original tho LOL

#reblogs ?! on my feed ?! /lh /j - My reblog tag!! Everything that gets reblogged should be under this tag, but I don't always remember

#you asked we answered - My ask tag! Feel free to send in asks at anytime

#so real for this - I don't know how to describe this properly, but these posts are so real.

#original userboxes/layouts/stamps/deco/art/ect - All of our original content divided into specifics! [ note: they are not all lumped together like that, just putting them all together for the sake of space, you can find most of them tagged in this post ]

#system posting - Our experiences on system hood as well as reblogs and other stuff! Was formerly 'system stuff'

#kinito posting - I am obsessed with an axolotl virus [mostly kinitopet fanart]

#stardew posting - I'm an avid stardew valley fan!!! I reblog fanart and post abt it sometimes

#lps posting - I am/was an avid lps collector!! I reblog fanart and post original content [sometimes,,, but usually text posts]

#cat posting - I reblog a lot of cat pictures and art!! cats r a huge comfort for me

#the hoard - I hoard and collect deco. If the links don't work for some reason, just click this tag

more tba . . .

Links!

Deco Collection [new set up wip] - WARNING; FLASHING IMAGES, BRIGHT COLORS, AND MORE! PROCEED WITH CAUTION

userbox hoard - While the whole deco collection thing is in progress, the userbox hoard is uploaded! Find them all here

blinkie hoard - same as above- while the whole deco collection is in progress, here is the link to all the blinkies

pronouns.cc - has [some of] the frequent fronter's pronouns, names, and sign-offs. Only the peeps that are safe to say

personal blog - a wip but where I will post a ton of journal entry stuff! but not rn, unfortunately

art comms website - two of our hosts are artists and take comms- this is their site! comms are currently closed, except for the demented chibi heads [link]

my ko-fi - commission payments go here! The chibi head listing is on here! you can also donate if you feel inclined to, but it's 110% not expected

[note: you will probably see a linktree on some of these because I get freaked out by so many links on a page, but this is different bc tumblr is like my hub, if that makes sense?]

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tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity · 2 years

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"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤😡"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

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pda-culture-is · 6 months

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About Blog

Welcome to pda-culture-is!

Inspired from other culture blogs such as @autism-culture-is @ndcultureis @cluster-b-culture-is @narcissisticpdcultureis and more!

This blog is for autistics with Pathological Demmand Avoidance to share their experiences.

Examples of starting off an ask:

PDA culture is

Autism PDA culture is

PDA + (other disorders) culture is

Informed self diagnosis is accepted here, even if you don't plan on getting a professional diagnosis

DNI

basic dni (racism, sexism, ableism, queerphobia, fatphobia, ect.)

transmeds, TERFs, exlusionists

anyone who demonizes stigmatized disorders, believes in "narcissistic abuse", participates in "cringe culture", misuse terms such as intrusive thoughts, narcissist, sociopath, ect.

pro-contact/anti-consent harmful paras

NSFW blogs, ED or SH blogs unless they are based on recovery

anti-self-dx

Other things to add:

don't say "going nonverbal/semiverbal" as they are pernament states, what you can use instead is verbal shutdown or speech loss

you can swear in asks but don't use slurs

in the case your ask mentions abuse, ableism, ed, s/h, suicide or anything of the like, please put a warning on top

in case you send an image with text, it is appreaciated if you add an image description if able, otherwise we will so don't worry

you can also add signatures (emojis, names), we'll keep track of them

we're open to questions but it is unsure wether we can answer

hate messages will be ignored and deleted

About Admin

Collective Info: Dave, he/they/it, Transmasc Non-Binary AroAce

We're a DID system with NPD, BPD, and of course Autism hence this blog. We won't be sharing much about us.

Our stance on syscourse doesn't matter on this blog so anyone can send in questions and interact

#asd #autism #pda autism #pda profile #actually autistic #culture is #autistic culture #pathological demand avoidance #neurodivergent

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queer-queries · 1 year

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hello all! welcome to my queer advice blog!

this is my blog where i will do my best to give any advice on queer-related topics to those who need some! i know there are plenty of blogs like this already, but i wanted to make my own because i know that if i had had someone to ask these questions to when i was struggling, it would’ve saved me so much pain, so i want the chance to be for someone the person that i wish i’d had! below is some basic information about me and this blog!

about me-

- my name is reign and my pronouns are she/her

- i am a queer/genderqueer aroace sapphic bi lesbian

- i am autistic and have ADHD, OCD, depression, and NPD

- i am not a minor, but i am not really an adult either. i don’t pretend to be some queer expert, especially since i’m young, but i still have some knowledge and advice and want to put that to good use.

- i love music, writing, poetry, songwriting, queer theory, and queer studies

- i am a staunch inclusionist when it comes to the queer community. i think policing queer terms is the antithesis of queer solidarity and does literally no good. sometimes lesbians are bisexual and/or guys. sometimes trans women use he/him pronouns. sometimes your gender is related to flowers. get over it. i will not tolerate exclusionism on my page.

about this blog-

- you can ask for advice on anything queer-related

- you can vent about negative experiences or share positive experiences

- you can ask respectful questions about queer topics/identities you don’t understand

- i will post about queer validation, queer solidarity, and queer joy

- i will occasionally share my own experiences

- i will not give medical advice (so if you need medical advice in terms of transition, i highly recommend the blogs @genderpunks and @transgenderteensurvivalguide )

boundaries-

- do not use they/them pronouns on me

- do not send me discourse. i will delete it.

- do not interact with me if you are bigoted in any way.

- if you are a queer exclusionist but you still need advice on something, you can send an ask and i will still answer you because all queer people deserve kindness in their questioning. but if you bring your exclusionism into it or try to invalidate me or others, your ask will not be answered.

that’s pretty much it for now! could i get a boost? @justlgbtthings @genderpunks @transgenderteensurvivalguide @trans-mom @stopcannibalizingourown @genderkoolaid @wearequeer-andwearehere @makingqueerhistory @1000lesbians @soft-sapphic-love @kenochoric @neopronouns @sapphicspoonie @sapphic-sprite @intersexfairy @queerasfact @queercutlureis @our-queer-experience @aspecpplarebeautiful @genderqueerpositivity @aroace-people-are-lgtbq @aro-culture-is @aroaceconfessions @transenbyconfessions

#intro post #pinned #pinned post #queer #queer community #lgbt #lgbt community #lgbtq #lgbtq community #queer blog #lgbt blog #lgbtq blog #inclus #inclusionist #inclusionism #queer advice #advice blog

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 26 days

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NPD + Aro Ace culture is thinking everyone is attracted to me, I deserve to be not just loved but obsessed over, I am everyone's romantic and/or sexual dream. . .

But I am absolutely REPULSED and DISGUSTED and UNCOMFORTABLE when someone expresses romantic feelings for me and I PHYSICALLY RECOIL at the thought of being involved in sex

Like, why can't I just be desired without being desired, y'know?

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec

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cluster-b-culture-is · 2 years

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aroace npd culture is having exactly zero interest in a romantic or physical relationship but still fantasizing about people pursuing you for one because you'd be happy with any flavor of Being Admired (and maybe you're still chasing the high of the last time someone was obviously crushing on you)

#cluster b culture is #npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #cluster b #npd #Mod Reef #anonymous #MOOD

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 7 months

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Aroace npd culture is wanting people to have crushes on you because yes please attentions they love me i am so cool but at the same time ???? What would i do with that?????

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aro #ace #aromantic asexual #aromantic #asexual #aspec

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 2 months

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Npd aroace culture is alsster hazbin Hotel is only a narcissist if i say so. Stupid egotypicals with their bullshit "alastor is aroace because he's a narc and thinks he's too good for a relationship." Fucking wild. Alastor is a narcissist because of how he likes to be the most powerful demon in the room and it really frustrates him to not be the best most powerful and also he seems to need the attention for supply and fucking carmine didnt feed into that (? words-) and also i cant really explain it but how important it is to him to seem unshakeable and in control just- rahhh

I'm not saying he's not a narcissist, but i AM saying the next time someone has a bad take, im going to bite them /th

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#real as fuck #npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec #media

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 8 months

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NPD + aroace culture is being reeeeaally tempted to try out a dating app again because last time got you a massive narc high... but also you hate the idea of actually being expected to do, you know, the actual dating part. like no i dont want to meet up because ill get exhausted by being fake as hell trying to mask and get someone to be attracted to me, when im not even gonna be attracted to them. really i just want people to tell me how attractive and amazing i am without any reciprocation on my end but thats not exactly socially acceptable now is it

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aroace #aspec #aro #ace

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 6 months

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aroace npd culture is knowing i don’t need anyone but myself

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #aspec npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aroace #aspec

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 9 months

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Aroace/intimacy repulsed npd culture is watching everyone you know have complex relationship drama and thinking “damn, I’m so right to not deal with that kind of closeness. They should stop falling in love with people.” And having to consciously remind yourself that it doesn’t normally work that way, and I’m just being the weird distant one again.

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#npd culture is #aroace npd culture is #intimacy repulsed npd culture is #aroace intimacy repulsed npd culture is #aspec intimacy repulsed npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #aspec #aroace #asexual #aromantic #aromantic asexual #ace #aro #❓

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