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saffigon · 9 hours

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happy aplatonic visibility day to aplatonics with friends, aplatonics who don’t want friends, aplatonics who don’t like their friends, aplatonics who want friends, aplatonics without friends, aplatonics who love talking about their aplatonicism, aplatonics who are super social, aplatonics with personality disorders, aplatonics with low empathy, mean aplatonics, cruel aplatonics, autistic aplatonics

#aspec #aplatonic #aplspec #apl #actually aplatonic #apl positivity #aplatonic positivity #aplatonic spectrum #aplatonic visibility day

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the-delta-quadrant · 8 months

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i love you sex-repulsed aces

i love you romance-repulsed aros

i love you plato-repulsed apls

i love you sex-averse aces

i love you romance-averse aros

i love you plato-averse apls

i love you sex-ambivalent aces

i love you romance-ambivalent aros

i love you plato-ambivalent apls

if you're aspec and your relationship to sex, romance or platonicity includes repulsion or aversion i love you and my blog will forever be safe for you

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xxcalicofemmexx · 4 months

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aplatonic wallpapers!

Aplatonic: A term used to describe people who do not experience platonic attraction. Specifically, it is most commonly employed by aplatonic people to describe a lack of desire to form friendships with specific people, or difficulty forming friendships in general as a result of neurodivergence or trauma.

#aplatonic #pride #queer #aplatonic wallpaper #aplatonic pride #aplatonic positivity #apl #aspec #aspec pride #apl pride #apl positivity #aspec positivity #my wallpapers #mine

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entropy-sea-system · 1 year

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Shoutout to nonfriending apls!!

#apl positivity #apl #aplatonic #nonfriending positivity #nonfriending #aspec #nonfriending apl #nonfriending aplatonic #aplspec #plato averse #plato aversion #actually nonfriending apl #actually nonfriending #actually apl #As usual exclus and aplphobes and terfs dni #Also if you dont know what these terms mean try looking them up (would probably show up on tumblr search) b4 asking op #aspec positivity #aplatonic positivity #positivity

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apl-culture-is · 2 years

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saw you say "we're just one whole orchard here" in one of the tags and i just want to say that's a great phrase. doesnt imply any relationship just that we all belong here and i appreciate it. idk if that makes sense or if you see that too but

Yess

We all belong.

#ask #not apl culture #apl positivity

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arostellar · 2 years

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is it normal that i feel so uncomfortable when people try so hard to be my friend and being special to me? because there's this one person, i already talked about him here and... he just- he started saying he might be aroace because he resonated with me? kind of? and like i'm happy for him, but at the same time he keep pushing this "i want us to be something in the future" and it makes me.. feel bad, because i don't want that with him and ah, i think i'm too aplatonic for this.

#aplspec #apl #aplatonic #aplatonic spectrum #aplatonic positivity #apl positivity #apl spectrum #struggles of aroace folks #aroace

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lovelessrage · 2 months

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Pro-kink advocacy goes hand in hand with aspec advocacy and if you don't understand this you need to start.

#note: yes this includes advocacy for the sex repulsed and averse! the point is that both communities are villified for living outside norms #both communities are actively hated for not conforming to what society deems the natural way of things #the freedom to be proudly kinky comes with the freedom to proudly not participate #it's about a collective shared goal for relationship freedom and personal choice #if you're pro aspec but anti kink you're not getting it. same if you're pro kink but anti aspec.#we have so much in common. i've never felt more accepted than when i've been around kink positive people #we're valuable allies for each other #we're all freaks to normative society. linking up pulls all of us forward #aromantic #asexual #aplatonic #atertiary #aro #ace #apl #arospec #acespec #aplspec #aspec #scowl corner #you don't have to live the lifestyle of someone else to want to see each other succeed.

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gender-luster · 1 year

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happy apl day!!

#aplatonic #apl #aspec #aplspec #aplatonic visibility day #aplatonic positivity

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lycanr0t · 9 months

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shout out to non-friending aplatonic people!

your worth is not based on whether or not you have/want friends! You hold just as much value in this world as friending people and you add a unique and beautiful perspective to life.

You're not unkind or selfish for not feeling platonic feelings, and if wanting to explore life without friends is what makes you happiest then you deserve to pursue that without judgement!

The world is full of different types of relationships and there are not rules on what attraction is right or wrong to feel or not feel! It's okay for friendship to simply be a relationship type that doesn't work for you!

You can live a full, happy, wonderful life without friends. Friendship is not the core of humanity or at all required to be a good person.

There is a lot of media that demonizes people without friends, that pushes the idea that they're evil BECAUSE they have no friends. but I promise that's not true. Friendship does not determine your morals and ability to be kind to others. Aplatonic people are not evil or bad because we don't feel friendship in the same way non-aplatonic people do. We are not morally corrupt because of the attraction we feel. We are capable of kindness and cruelty just as much as any other group of people on this planet.

So shout out to non-friending aplatonic people! I hope we all find peace and happiness in ourselves and our lives!

#aplatonic #aspec positivity #aspec #its just pretty rough being apl in a world that insists anyone without friends is the peak of evil.#and apl folks deserve some acknowledgment at the VERY least. bc god knows no one else will if we dont speak up for ourselves

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shinekittenace · 1 year

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i love a-specs who experience sexual attraction or like sexual things

i love aroallos i love non-sam aros i love aromids i love allosexual apls i love sex-favorable aces i love gray aces i love aegos i love demisexuals i love orchidsexuals i love every a-spec who is interested in sexual things you are all so cool

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revolutionandcake · 2 years

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i love you demis i love you greys i love you aegos i love you cupios i love you fictos i love your frays i love you fluxes i love you spikes i love you lithos i love you recipros i love you quois i love you any and all aspecs <3

#aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #aplatonic #apl #aspec #aspec positivity #aro positivity #ace positivity #aplatonic positivity #im probably missing a bunch but literally all microlabels are included

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orange-orchard-system · 5 months

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NGL, I'm kind of annoyed with how many posts in the aplatonic tag are about being loveless. Like, if your own aplatonicism and lovelessness are intertwined, that's great, but a lot of these posts are just about lovelessness or group lovelessness and aplatonicism together as if they're the same thing for everyone. At some point it's just incorrect tagging. Stop assuming all aplatonics are loveless and all loveless folks are aplatonic.

(vent but ok to reblog)

#aplatonic #eros.txt #I saw one post that was just a positivity post for loveless folks in the apl tag like excuse me #fgucking hell didn't we learn from when aces were constantly posting in the aro tag #only use the apl tag if your post has smth to do with that topic #and stop forgetting about us apls who feel love!!

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xxcalicofemmexx · 4 months

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anyway

aplatonic people are beautiful and good and deserving. having language to express how they experience the world is not a bad thing, and should Never be framed as such.

if you are aplatonic because of a personality disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of autism, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of trauma, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of a fatigue disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because you're just happier on your own, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of another reason i can't think of rn, you belong.

you are real, and you matter, and you deserve to find pride in being yourself.

- sincerely, an aroacespec

#aplatonic #aplatonic pride #apl pride #apl positivity #aplatonic positivity #aspec #aspec pride #aspec positivity #that person got me riled up #ugh #i speak

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entropy-sea-system · 1 year

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I love being aplatonic!!

#aplatonic #lovelustic apl #apl #apl positivity #aplatonic positivity #aspec #aspec positivity #aplspec

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tesco-finest-aromantics · 1 year

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daily reminder that aplatonicism is a queer identity, and cishet aplatonics can call themselves queer if they want

#blurry/unknown #just saw a post where someone was 'uncomfortable' with the concept of aplatonics becoming more widely known #so fuck them here's some apl positivity #aplatonic #apl #aplspec

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klavierpanda · 1 year

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Shoutout to aplatonic people, especially platonic averse/repulsed apls. I know a lot of aro positivity posts around this time tend to focus on platonic love as something to celebrate instead and that can feel very isolating. You do not need to make up for anything today or ever.

Now, let's go set amatonormativity ablaze

#aplatonic #apl #aplatonic positivity #aplspec #panda's post

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