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flipside-phoebe · 1 month

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So about that thing I mentioned earlier...

As per my previous spoiler-free review of Frozen Empire, I mentioned that the film includes something I never expected, and I have complex feelings about it. Well, here it is. Spoilers below, don't read if you haven't watched (I'm serious).

Alright well first of all, PHOEBE SPENGLER IS GAY!!! PHOEBE IS A FUCKING HOMOSEXUAL!!! A LESBIAB!!! WOMEN!!! THERE WAS NO HETEROSEXUAL EXPLANATION FOR THAT. HOW SHE TALKED WITH MELODY THE GHOST. THAT WAS FLIRTING. EVERYONE SHUT UP. PHEOBE OUT-GAYED YOU ALL. SHE HAS TAKEN HER CROWN AS THE QUEEREST GHOSTBUSTER AND THE SIMPSONS PREDICTED IT.

Ok. Ok. I'm fine. I'm calm now. I'm not. I'm fine I swear.

Joking aside, let me talk about this seriously. Phoebe's relationship with Melody was fascinating and a huge surprise to me. I suspected this movie might delve into the ethics of ghost hunting, and there would be a betrayal involved in the story (based on some very grasping-at-straws observations I made that I won't go into here) I was shocked to be right on both accounts, but not in the way I expected.

I loved the direction they took these two characters, and I loved seeing their interactions that read as awkward flirtations. It was beautiful and bittersweet up until the very end. I'm so happy they were able to make up and help each other. Melody was able to move on and Phoebe discovered a part of herself, along with a newfound appreciation for her family.

That being said, this plot element left me an emotional wreck. Once I got over the high of seeing obvious queer coding in a Ghostbusters movie, I crashed hard. The scene were Phoebe separated her own soul just to be close to Melody was upsetting to me. It's almost as self-destructive as suicide. It's in-character considering what Phoebe was going though at the time but still. That along with what happens after was really scary to witness. Also... Up until now I had been clinging to a personal headcanon that Phoebe was aroace like myself. I can't hold on to that idea anymore. Sitting in the theater dressed up as this character that I related to on a personal level for so long, suddenly watching her experience emotions that I never have or ever will... It broke me. I actually couldn't sleep last night because this + personal stuff made my anxiety come back. I had to call in sick today because I can't eat.

I feel horrible about this. It's selfish to want a character to be exactly like me when she was made by someone else. I don't want to be homophobic and I want to support other LGBTQ+ people in our community that can feel represented by this. I am truly happy for them! Even if this wasn't the perfect romance (it's between a living child and a ghost who can't grow up with her) it's still something special! Hopefully later down the line she can have a girlfriend with a pulse, though.

I do worry about what the fan reaction to this will be. Will people hate Phoebe for the mistake she made in trusting Melody? Is this going to be another "Mabel caused Weirdmageddon"? I'm not strong enough to handle that again. On the other hand, now that She's been strongly hinted at being gay and she's a bit older, is her tag going to become nothing but ships? Will everyone abandon all other headcanons/ideas in favor of "Melody stays" AUs (robbing her story of it's impact) or shipping her with OCs? The main tag is already full of romantic shipping and my sad little aro heart can't take it. I may just have to accept that fandom isn't for me and stay away.

I acknowledge that my feelings on this are deeply personal and do not detract from the film at all. I will be OK, I just need time to process this. I have to be mature about it. I still love Phoebe with all my heart. She's my favorite and nothing will change that, even though we are different for many reasons.

#Mera's rants #spoilers #gbfe #ghostbusters frozen empire #phoebe spengler #ghostbusters frozen empire spoilers #pouring my heart out here #please don't clown on me #not reblogable but you can talk to me about this if you want #just be civil

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blood-gutz-and-chocolate-cake · 9 months

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I’d say I’m a lot more normal about gravity falls than I used to be, but happy to lurk nearby while you spout headcanons

I shall pen down my favorite headcanons for you…

-Mabel doesn’t just collect sweaters and stuffed animals, she also collects dolls!

-Ford has a bunch of tattoos, on his legs, neck (canon in Journal 3!) and back

-Bill has a few hobbies he enjoys, and one of them is interior designing. He loves nice fabrics and decorating his many suites and interdimensional mansions

-Mabel likes to do Dipper’s nails (he doesn’t mind too much!)

-Dipper likes paranormal channels, but also likes reality shows as his guilty pleasure

-Soos can bake pretty well, and he helps Abuelita make cookies and biscuits for the Pines family and the shack

-Wendy and Soos are pretty good friends outside of work, and they get ice cream and hang at the mall together

-Ford is aroace

-Mabel is bi

-Bill is agender and aroace

-Soos is bi curious (thanks to @lilly-the-goblin for this idea, now I have claimed it as well 🫶)

-Dipper is trans (I can write a whole essay supporting this headcanon lol)

Enjoy my headcanons 🫡

#gravity falls #bill cipher #mabel pines #dipper pines #stanley pines #stanford pines #soos #wendy corduroy #headcanons #gravity falls headcanons

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mogai-headcanons · 5 months

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Casey from Dark Canival is a canon lesbian!

Her girlfriend Alex is also a canon lesbian!

Tara Jones from Heartstopper is a canon lesbian!

Her girlfriend Darcy Olsson is also a canon lesbian!

Ghoul from Batman Beyond: Return of the Joker is a transmasculine biromantic gay man!

Elle Argent is a canon trans woman who currently identifies as abrosexual!

Barney Guttman from Dead End: Paranormal Park is a transmasculine gay man!

Uraraka Ochaco from My Hero Academia is a bisexual demigirl!

Denki Kaminari is a polyamorous pansexual person!

Mina Ashido is a questioning panromantic genderfluid demigirl!

Kyle from She-Ra and the Princesses of Power is a gay demiboy!

Perfuma is a transfemme demilesbian!

Rabbid Peach from Mario + Rabbids is a polysexual transfemme rabbid!

Rotor Walrus from Sonic Archie is gender questioning and queer!

Trixie Kitsune from Pirates of the Foggy Waters is a polyamorous bisexual cisfemme person!

Serena from Pokemon is a gender questioning bisexual demigirl!

Silver from Sonic IDW is a panromantic demiboy!

Valentine de Villefort from Gankutsuou is a heteroflexible gender questioning demigirl!

Samson Rodgers from The Mystery in Crimson is an unlabeled panromantic asexual trans guy!

Beth Taylor from Monkart is a transfemme nonbinary aroace trixic spring/bambi lesbian!

Willow Park from The Owl House is a demipansexual demigirl!

Hunter is a bisexual nonbinary person!

Gus Porter is a biromantic moon bi asexual demiboy!

Dick Grayson from The Lego Batman Movie is a gender questioning trans demiboy!

Varian from Rapunzel's Tangled Adventure is a demiromantic bisexual nonbinary demiboy!

Darcy from Amphibia is a nonbinary demirose bi lesbian!

Cody Gizmody from Paw Patrol is a polyamorous pansexual demigirl!

Pakas from Miniforce: New Heroes Rise is an aroflux omnisexual intersex nonbinary transmasculine libraflux xenogender intramasculine demiboy!

Leo from Dinocore is a pansexual intersex nonbinary boy who uses they/them, she/her, and he/him pronouns!

Vee is an unlabeled asexual intersex nonbinary libraflux enby who uses they/them, she/her, and it/its pronouns!

Barbara Gordon/Batgirl from The Batman (2004) is a bisexual cisfeminine person who uses she/her pronouns!

Skara is a questioning demigirl who uses she/her pronouns!

Sous Roas from Dragon Ball Super is a polyamorous demipansexual gyneromantic transfemme lovegender softgender nonbinary genderfae demigirl who uses she/her, they/them, love/loves, and ae/aer pronouns!

Hop is a futch nonbinary intrafeminine genderfluid libraflux bi lesbian who uses she/her, it/its, and claw/claws pronouns!

Mabel Pines from Gravity Falls is a pansexual xenogender demigirl who uses she/her, they/them, and he/him pronouns!

Gia Moran from Power Rangers Super Megaforce is a bisexual cisfeminine person who uses she/her pronouns!

Luka Millfy from Kaizoku Sentai Gokaiger is a pansexual cisfeminine person who uses she/her pronouns!

Tracey Sketchit is a bisexual demiboy who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!

Sophocles is an unlabeled demiboy who uses he/him, volt/volts, it/its, and they/them pronouns!

Lillie is a demirose questioning demigirl who uses they/them and she/her pronouns!

They are all in a friendship group!

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just-a-silly-clownguy · 15 days

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CW: this contains swearing (people sensitive to swearing are on my DNI list due to my tendency to use curse words) and some gifs may be overstimulating or triggering to some people and include bright, colourful and surreal imagery, please don't view if these are in any way harmful to you.

My name is Moth, I named myself after a hyperfixation! :3

I'm still figuring myself out tbh so I'm probably gonna discuss that on my profile.

my pronouns are they/he as well as a long list of neos and variations of that, I am transmasc nonbinary and aroace. when I'm done, I'll add the link to my carrd and pronouns.cc.

I'm a british minor and artist, I am alterhuman/nonhuman (I use the two terms interchangeably but if I shouldn't please tell me) and I don't really categorise myself into any sort of label like spiritual, physical, psychological etc. I just categorise myself as nonhuman and alterhuman, I'm very alternative and consider myself a part of many subcultures but I mostly align myself with punk, I use xenogenders, xenoidentities and neopronouns, I am disabled (chronic pain + a bunch of other symptoms of shite) and I'm neurodivergent.

I like to draw, read, write and listen to music

fandom list

demon slayer

spiderverse

riordanverse (mostly MCGA because MCGA is the best rick riordan series)

sanrio

DDLC

furry

vocaloids

hilda

steven universe

gravity falls

my little pony

avatar the last airbender

hyperfixation/special interest list

psychology

moths

mythology (mostly greek)

criminology

music

vocaloids

spiderverse

demon slayer

riordanverse (mostly MCGA)

possible cladokin/therian

therian(thrope)

otherkin

otherhearted

synpath

Theriotypes

bluepoint ragdoll cat

white's treefrog

carrion crow

clado-fungus (possible)

fox/some other type of canine (possible)

Kintypes

clown

angel

demon

dragon

clado-fungus (possible)

fae (possible)

cryptid (possible)

the star shape (possible)

the colour yellow (possible)

the colour pink (possible)

Hearttypes

moth

cats

minecraft endermen

deerfoxes

Synpaths

most of these are connected to my mental health struggles/trauma in some way

Angel Dust (hazbin hotel)

Husker (hazbin hotel)

Charlie Moringstar (hazbin hotel)

Mitsuri Kanroji (demon slayer)

Shinobu Kochou (demon slayer)

Muichiro Tokito (demon slayer)

Sanemi Shinazugawa (demon slayer)

Inosuke Hashibira (demon slayer)

Nezuko Kamado (demon slayer)

Tanjiro Kamado (demon slayer)

Natsuki (doki doki literature club)

Sayori (doki doki literature club)

Yuri (doki doki literature club)

Hilda (hilda)

Frida (hilda)

Magnus Chase (riordanverse)

Alex Fierro (riordanverse)

Nico Di Angelo (riordanverse)

Will Solace (riordanverse)

Leo Valdez (riordanverse)

Calypso (riordanverse)

Spinnel (steven universe)

Mabel (gravity falls)

Dipper (gravity falls)

rainbowdash (my little pony)

fluttershy (my little pony)

pinkie pie (my little pony)

twilight sparkle (my little pony)

diagnosed/acknowledged things

autism

dyspraxia

hypermobility

chronic pains

anxiety

depression(?)

undiagnosed/possible things

ADHD

hEDS

DPDR or some other type of dissociative disorder.

depression(?)

PTSD

DPD

do not interact: zoos (unless trying to recover), "MAPs"/pedos, groomers, pro/com/darkshippers, loli/shota-con, DDLG/DDLB and similar kinks that sexualise adult/child relationships, anti-xeno/neopronouns, anti-neo/xenogenders, anti-self diagnosis (with heavy research), self diagnosed without any research, anti-LGBT/MOGAI, homophobes, transphobes, FETRAH, racists, fascists, anti-alter/nonhumans, against any religion (includes satanism), anti-athiests, ableists, classists, transid/transx, radqueers, abusers/abusive people, raypissts/seggs offenders (idk if I'll get banned if I don't sensor those words but I wanna be accessible for screen readers), makes fun of/judges others for interests, refuses to use tone indicators, uses slurs that are against communities they aren't a part of, "dark humour" (racist jokes, homophobic jokes, grape jokes, saying slurs, jokes making fun of others' trauma etc. are not dark humour, they are just insensitive), AI "artists", anti-recovery, uses mental conditions/neurodivergency as a joke and/or insult (e.g. "I'm so delulu" without experiencing delusions, "I have so many personalities" without having OSDD-1 or DID, using autistic as an insult, uses the words sociopath and/or psychopath as a way of calling someone a bad person, "I'm so OCD" as a way to describe being tidy without actually having OCD), gatekeepers, fakeclaimers, conservative "punks", bullies and harasses others, TERFs, supports all of the previous things listed, NSFW blogs, only trying to convert others to a religion, sensitive to swearing (I swear a lot and do not censor it or wish to censor it), under 12, only likes characters like Mitsuri for their sexual aspects, Miguel O'Hara (ATSV) focused blogs.

This really makes you see how many shitty people there are in the world, I hate how long this list is.

definitely interact: alter/nonhumans, neurodivergent, disabled, artists, in the same fandoms as me, musicians, objectum, alternative, anarchist, MOGAI/LGBTQIA2S++, mutuals, supports all of the above.

thin ice: over 16, recovering pedos, Miguel O'Hara (ATSV) fans (he reminds me of my dad's more toxic behaviours).

my triggers

if we're mutuals please atleast TW these things.

(key: not always triggering and/or depends on context and situations, constantly triggering)

loud noises

flashing/strobe lights

doors slamming

angry shouting/raised voices (especially if they're male voices)

certain sexual language (especially the word "eat" in a sexual context)

sexual and nude imagery (especially of genitals).

discussions of grooming and pedophillia

depictions, mentions and discussions of self harm

boundaries

do not purposely send or show me any content that portrays the following in any sort of positive light:

Miguel O'Hara from ATSV Elvis Presley anger issues any form of SA weird age gaps (e.g. 14 and 17, 16 and 21 as well as blatantly obvious grooming) minors doing sexual things especially with adults. domestic violence most things related to people listed in my DNI

don't try and push me to share things that I haven't already willingly shared, you can ask questions but if I delete or don't respond to your asks or tell you I'm not comfortable with answering it please don't push me, I probably have a reason, usually I will specify if I'm comfortable with people asking me questions and which ones I'm comfortable with in posts.

don't use the pronouns she/her or similar pronouns while referring to me.

I'm OK with people making sexual jokes with me but I am incredibly uncomfortable with people genuinely discussing sexual subjects with me unless I have said otherwise.

don't debate me on my DNI, triggers and boundaries, I have them for many reasons and a lot of them are in some way related to trauma and mental health.

my music taste

genres

hyperpop

punk

emo

metal

goth

scenecore (I know the difference between scene and scenecore, I do not consider myself to be scene)

vocaloid

grunge

alternative pop

80s pop

artists (any artists that I am aware of doing and saying bad things will be highlighted in red, I do not condone any of these actions or support them, I avoid listening to them on any form of media where they will be decently monetised, I am not saying I like the artists themselves, I'm merely saying I like the music they make. If there are any artists who have done bad things which are not highlighted, please tell me, I mostly just listen to the music and don't really research the artists so I will most likely be unaware of their actions.)

Insane Clown Posse

Pierce the Veil

6arelyhuman

Mindless Self Indulgence

Party Cannon

Metallica

Ramstein

Hatsune Miku

Maretu

Kikuo

DECO*27

GRLwood

Mommy Long Legs

Siouxsie and The Banshees

Bauhaus

Nirvana

Jack Stauber

alex g

The Smiths

TV girl

Melanie Martinez

Conan Grey

Queen

David Bowie

Choking Victim

The Crane Wives

Marina

Mitski

Fish In A Birdcage

Florence + The Machine

Bikini Kill

The Dresden Dolls

Daisy and the Scouts

Slayer

Mother Mother

The Cure

Ado

Rebzyyx

The Living Tombstone

CG5

The Orion Experience

Machine Girl

Odetari

songs

the masochism tango by Tom Lehrer

the stalker's tango by Autoheart

good old fashioned loverboy by Queen

starman by David Bowie

rebel rebel by David Bowie

hold on til may by Pierce the Veil

kind for a day by Pierce the Veil

oogie boogie wu by Insane Clown Posse

faster n harder by 6arelyhuman

salamander by DECO*27

volt tackle by DECO*27

drunk walk home by Mitski

savages by Marina

the garden by The Crane Wives

bird song by Florence + The Machine

Imma Kill U by Insane Clown Posse

duct taped to a flag pole by Party Cannon

molly by Mindless Self Indulgence

world is mine by Hatsune Miku

koinu no carnival by EHAMIC

the vampire by DECO*27

that unwanted animal by The Amazing Devil

this charming man by The Smiths

hayloft II by Mother Mother

pipopipo by Serani Poji

kara kara kara no kara by Kikuo

greedy greedy by KIKUO

dscf by DECO*27

aishite aishite aishite by Ado

daisy 2.0 (featuring Hatsune Miku) by Ashnikko

five nights at freddy's by The Living Tombstone

freakshow by Punkinloveee and H3artcrush

p3t by Femtanyl

kiss me <3 by Vampyx

4 morant (better luck next time) by Jeethz

mind brand by Maretu

links

xenoidentities

genders

carrd (not finished yet)

pronouns.cc (unfinished)

users to support if you can

stevenblogr needs help getting insulin, please donate (dollars) to his linktree if you can, his goal is $300.

type1diabeticqueen needs help getting insulin, please donate (dollars) to her linktree if you can, her goal is $450.

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