anyway 10am just waking up me came up with this poem and i really wanted to share itr

"he said thou shall not commit adultery, though when she kissed the lips of another, it was not he who cried."

homosexual transphobes make me wanna rip my hair out 😭😭 "lgb" sooo close! did you mean LG, the electronics company? 💗💗

like we're all in the same community why dont you support your own community im confused babes

can someone tell me what it is with radfems and hating mentally ill people. also they all type the same. what is up with that. im convinced they arent real at this point tbh

guys im crying a radqueer reblogged my post what do i do now i have to delete my blog

im arguing w/ a terf about people with npd being abusive 💀💀 pick a struggle do u hate trans people or the mentally ill

Just a reminder that no matter what you have done, lie you have told, or what PD you have, you will always be morally superior to any Billionaire or U.S politician.

Pro tip: if you know a narcissist who tends to oscillate between “I’m upset, why the hell isn’t everyone rushing to my side?” and “I don’t want to talk to you, I’m upset” a good solution to this is to talk to us, but as if we’re not upset.

Ignoring us while in a fragile state is narc language for “look how much fun I’m having while you’re busy crying. Look at me being so not concerned about you at all. You don’t even affect your surroundings, because if you did the world would stop until you felt better, but you’re basically nothing and everything is moving on without you.”

Trying to help or comfort us is narc language for “I think I understand what’s going on better than you do, and I’m making it your problem. My advice is to stop being upset immediately and do whatever I think you should. I’m now going to explain things you already know about the situation as if you’ve never known a damn thing in your life.”

So please for the love of god, just come over and talk to us like you wanna hang out. Don’t ignore us. Don’t attempt to solve or even acknowledge our emotions. Just say hi and ask if we want to hear a song or something. Make a joke or a compliment. Talk to us like everything’s going normally, and we’ll more than likely start to go along until we feel fine.

Nine times out of ten, what we actually need is just some basic company and supply.

That whole discussion about whether or not mass likes/rbs are okay or not has just never existed to me, and I could never relate to anyone who'd get annoyed at people checking out their entire page and interacting with many posts.

Are you trying to tell me you are irritated by attention coming your way? Then step aside and let someone who knows how to handle it take the lead.

npd possessiveness has me like omg. i MUST have these people. they are so so special and interesting i MUST have them. i can share but they must be MINE as well. mine mine mine mine

cute date idea; couples therapy!!!

you dont need to be fixed, you need to be loved.

people say that one of the ways narcissists abuse is love bombing, but ive seen more narcissists be the victims of love bombing than the narc abuse advocates

you shouldnt have to wait for someone who isnt coming. what doesnt make you happy now, wont make you happy later.

dude i just got cut off so yk there goes any hope i ever had lmao

It sickens me how you people silence us abuse victims with the whole "Ohhhh using narcissistic abuse is an ableist term", you don't realize that you're silencing us. You will never even BEGIN to understand the abuse and pain we all went through, all you care about is your political correctness and "ableism". You will never understand the pain of me being abused by my narcissistic mom, narcissistic dad, narcissistic sister, narcissistic brother, narcissistic grandma, narcissistic dog, narcissistic cats, narcissistic postman, narcissistic Silent Billy who lives in an apartment two blocks from me, narcissistic pigeons, narcissistic mosquitoes, narcissistic wasps, narcissistic houseplants, narcissistic construction site, narcissistic pavement, narcissistic clouds, narcissti

anyway heres why narc abuse support groups are harmful

main point ; there would be aloooott less abusive narcissists if there were resources and ways for us to seek help, however, when you search up "npd recovery" you get shit like "HOW TO KILL A NARCISSIST!", "recovering from narc abuse". not "how to cope with npd symptoms". there are resources for you. there are only resources for you. not for us. and, if there are any resources for us, our mental state is fucking destroyed looking for them. if you see that millions of people want you dead, while trying to get help, its not gonna fucking end well for you.

therapy is an option ; but not always. infact, there are alot of therapists who refuse to even see you because of the whole "narcs are abusive!!!!" thing. but, not only that, therapy may not be an option for alot of reasons. have you considered the fact that it costs money? what about people that are still in a toxic environment, and cant go? people who cant find a therapist nearby, or for a reasonable cost, or a therapist they feel works well for them? people with busy schedules and cant plan sit down appointments? not everyone can seek help, or have the energy to. sometimes your only option is the internet.

if you want narcissists to be less abusive, change the fucking word you use to describe your abuse and stop acting like we're all demons. this is a lose lose situation we're still "abusive" towards you and we cant fucking get help.

um first of all....... breathes in

"demonize all abuse victims" abuse victims can be disabled, however being abused does not mean youll 100% end up with some form of disorder. you cannot be ableist to someone who was ONLY abused, as being abused is not a disability or a disorder.

on top of that, you are not correct. this ahem.... very amazing individual is NOT demonizing all abuse victims, only "narc abuse" victims [psst thats called covert/manipulative/emotional abuse<3] with ur logic right here ur being a bitch to ppl who experienced any other kind of abuse. r u saying their abuse wasnt real??? r u??? r u saying narc abuse is the only valid type of abuse???????

"maybe u shouldnt be such a bad person??" u genuinely cannot assume if someone is a bad person or not unless u know them personally. u are not in their personal life, u do not know them personally. u cannot assume. do not act like ur their therapist or second cousin twice removed

"have u considered actually trying to get better instead of just being a whiny anti-recovery bitch" heres a fun fact that alot of people dont like to hear! my body my choice also means my disorder my choice. my body my choice also means my freedom my choice. my body my choice also means my brain my choice. i hope this helps!

FUNNY that you claim were the ableists when ur literally trying to demonise all abuse victims LOL. maybe u shouldnt be such a bad person?? have u considered actually trying to get better instead of just being a whiny anti-recovery bitch

i need you so bad oh my god