dating colby headcannon
requested by anonymous: Could you possible write a dating Colby headcannon with the reader? Thank uuu
A/N: even tho i'm not taking requests, i figured i can do this real quick since it's a headcannon and i'm in the middle of finishing up the next chapter of the chosen daughter. so hopefully this holds yall over a bit longer while i finish that up :) and this is all gender neutral so anyone can read it ! lmk what you think and hope you enjoy.
let's start with how you two met: i think you being a friend of a friend would be how it all starts.
maybe this friend in common gets invited to a party that snc are at, and you tag along. you get introduced to colby, and yall hit it off.
colby is very much into vibes and how well he meshes with another person. so for him to be interested, he has to like being around you. that man does not waste his time around people he doesn't care about.
and i think with colby, things would start off PAINSTAKINGLY SLOW. if you're into a slow burn… that's what your life will be like lol
colby hasn't dated in a long time, it's been almost exclusively hook ups and situationships. so i think the beginning stages will be a bit rough (in more ways than one *wink wink nudge nudge*). i think it would take a long time before anything major happened, just because he's not used to being vulnerable with someone.
that being said, i can see him hooking up with you once or twice before anything serious even remotely starts, since that's his usual go-to method. that doesn't have to be all the way - it could be like making out in the club or in a house party bathroom. a little hidden, a bit secretive, but that makes it all the more fun. it's exciting because he makes you feel like you are the sun in his galaxy, even if it's just for a few minutes. that's how intense he can be.
and maybe you realize, "oh shit i got feelings for him…. will this ever turn into something more?" and that's when you start hanging out with him more, or at least making plans to.
and i think as time goes on, he grows attached to you (because he is a clingy person, respectfully). and he enjoys the parts of his day when he gets to see you. and that's when he starts to feel the sparks. but knowing him, he probably won't act on them for a while.
but slowly, you two get really close, and eventually try to start something. once he can feel his walls crumble, and yours are also down, that's when yall truly start to have a wonderful relationship.
so as for dating him, what do i think that would be like?
colby is very busy guy, no surprising to anyone. so it's hard for yall to hang out as often as you want to (which would be like everyday if you could, and same goes for him).
but colby finds ways of seeing you or talking to you at least once a day.
even if it's just to check in on you, or ask you about your day. colby also likes to tell you about the stuff he was up to, give you little heads up on new projects before anyone else. but only when he knows they're happening bc he doesn't like talking about things that might not happen. very earth sign of him lol
i don't see him sending 'good morning' messages, but i could see him sending 'goodnight' ones. definitely with a black heart emoji somewhere thrown in there.
oooh, pet names. i'm seeing him using baby, babe, darling, sweetheart, love, and possibly honey. especially when he's drunk, he's extra affectionate.
when he goes on investigations, he comes back and HAS to tell you everything. he also loves being around you after because you make him feel so comfortable and at home. and he needs that after being paranormally hungover.
if you go with him on trips… omg, he will be protective. for sure. checking in on how you're feeling every couple minutes.
and if you get really scared, he's ready to send you home. he doesn't want to see you hurt or terrified at all. so sometimes he isn't the most favorable towards you going with him (unless you insist).
yall's biggest past time together: cuddling.
that man needs cuddles, AT LEAST, once a day. otherwise, he will be whiny lol (he might not show it at first, but once he's comfortable, he's gonna be a baby about cuddles, guarantee).
he needs to be touching you at all times, whether out in public or not. he doesn't seem like a crazy PDA type, so nothing too ~sexual~, but he will be holding your hand every chance he gets.
unless, of course, he's feeling a bit frisky… then you run the chance of having to go home early or finding a private area to have your fun sksks
i see him being the type to wrap his arms around you from behind, pulling you tight against him. especially if you're waiting in like a long line or something. he just wants you in his arms whenever he can.
like i mentioned before, he is a very busy man. so i see him doing a lot of at home dates. making pizzas together (or just dinners in general), setting up little pillow forts for movie nights, cute vibes all around. omg and of course - LOTS of camping outside and staring at the stars and talking for hours. that's 1000% for sure.
and maybe if you're the type that likes hiking, maybe you guys would go hiking together.
but i do see him also taking you out to exclusive clubs, bars, and restaurants since he has the hookup and the following to get into places that are new.
emotionally, i think you two would be so deeply into each other. i think being understanding and just getting one another is something major he wants in a relationship. so i think always being open and honest would be the main center point of your relationship.
he wants no drama, and wants love to come easy. and most likely you feel the same way, which is why you guys mesh well together.
physically… i mean, cmon. look at the material lol
he's definitely wants to make sure your needs are met. he's a people pleaser after all. and if you're his person, he's making sure you're pleased.
he's a very giving lover, is all i'm gonna say ;)
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your first kiss (ever) with colby headcannon
requested by @lillybearblog: i was wondering if I could request an imagine where Colby gives you your first kiss? If you take requests
A/N: i'm not technically taking request rn, but i was inspired to write this. especially since i haven't done a headcannon in so long. almost a year at this point. hope you guys like it ! you're gettin a two for one with this haha let me know what you think :)
teenage!colby:
you've know of snc for a while since you went to school with them.
plus they were starting to blow up a lot on vine and everyone in school just knew who they were.
whether or not they liked them lol
you always thought colby was cute and had a couple classes with him.
but you were too shy to ever say anything to him.
and on top of that he didn't really talk in school so you didn't really know how to even strike up a convo with him.
and then you found out from a friend of yours that colby had a gf, so you knew things just weren't gonna work out for you.
one night your friend throws a party
and you couldn't believe that she actually invited snc, and that they actually showed up.
you kept looking over at them, and had once or twice caught colby's eye.
but you were way too scared to go talk to him.
later on into the night, you go outside to get some air, and colby is in the backyard.
he hears you come out of the house and looks over at you.
you awkwardly wave at him, he does the same back.
you ask "what are you doing out here?"
you find out that his gf broke up with him the night before, and sam thought this was a nice way to get his mind off of things
but it wasn't helping.
you end up talking with him for an hour, and get to know each other decently well.
even he's surprised at how well he opened up to you.
eventually he asks you "what's one thing you haven't done yet that you want to do?"
you tell him you've never been kissed before. you felt kinda embarrassed admitting it bc you were 17 and felt like you should have had it by now.
(btw if that does apply to anyone reading this, omg you're not weird for not having your first kiss yet. you have SO MUCH TIME)
colby admits to you that he only recently had his first kiss, so you shouldn't feel embarrassed.
you're surprised, "there are so many girls that want to kiss you. especially my friends."
he laughs at you, and asks if that's why sam and him got the invite.
you say sort of.
silence falls over the two of you for a moment.
then colby says "…would you be one of those girls… that wants to kiss me?"
you can't help but blush at his words. you don't know how to respond.
eventually you say yes.
colby hums, and then turns to you.
you lock eyes with him, and even in the dark his eyes are intensely blue.
he leans in and kisses you.
it's sweet, it's warm, and goes by way too fast for your liking.
suddenly there is a commotion in the house
the cops showed up bc of a noise complaint.
a bunch of ppl start running out of the house.
sam appears after a couple seconds, grabs colby and tells him that they need to run.
colby looks at you, gives you a kiss on the cheek, and runs with sam.
you never really got to speak to him again, but in the end you were happy he was your first kiss.
adult!colby:
you've been friends with colby for a couple years.
you met him at some influencer party and have just been casual friends.
you see each other every once in a while and it's always nice.
he's just such a fun person to be around.
eventually at another party, you guys see each other again
and you hang out the whole night.
apparently sam and kat were out on a date and he didn't really have anyone to chill with.
his other friends were around, but he didn't really feel like mingling.
and you were fine with that.
you guys had so much fun dancing, drinking, and just talking about whatever.
when the party was settling down a bit, someone cleared the island in the kitchen
and in the center was a beer bottle.
"let's play some spin the bottle!" someone shouted.
and now here you were, in the middle of a spin the bottle game.
but now with alcohol lol
and basically if the other person didn't want to kiss, they would drink.
you were kinda terrified.
you were in your 20s and had never been kissed.
you felt so out of place but you decided to stay.
while it was embarrassing to think of getting kissed by a stranger at this party, you kinda hoped it would happen with you and colby.
and when that thought popped into your head, you knew you were done for.
not to mention... why did you want to kiss colby all of a sudden??
it was colby's turn, and while originally he tried to say no, he was egged on by some other friends. and so he spun it.
the bottle must have spun for a year. that's how it felt.
and then finally it stopped on you.
you felt your breath hitch, and a bunch of different ppl cheered.
"hey, we don't have to kiss if you don't want to." colby stated.
you think about it. while you did technically want to kiss him, you also didn't.
what if he laughs at your kiss?
what if you suck at it?
what if… he's really good at it?
as you try to think of an answer, ppl around the island start chanting "kiss, kiss, kiss!"
you look around at everyone and finally back up at colby.
he shrugs, and light smile appears on his face. "it's your choice."
you take a deep breath, and tell him to kiss you.
he looks surprised for a split second, but then nods.
he leans in, cupping your face.
his lips press against yours, and honestly you kinda feel like you could black out.
the kiss is really soft and shockingly gentle.
you had heard so many stories of girls hooking up with him and you just expected him to be crazy out the gate.
but in this moment, he was so kind to you.
sadly the kiss ended.
…but let's just say it wouldn't be the last kiss you two had ;)
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