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a-is-healing · 1 month
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What you did to me was not on me!
I did not deserve what you did to me!
What you did to me was entirely on you!
I will never deserve what you did to me!
Fuck you abusers!
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axolotlclown · 2 months
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We need to remember that Shubble stated that Wilbur would manipulate and gaslight friends and family. With this, we must be patient with streamers that were close to Wilbur. This was likely surprising and shocking for them. They may need time to come to terms with what has happened.
I have been vocal about how important it is for men to be critical about abusive behaviors. However, Wilbur had many close friends—some would even consider him family—and now they may feel they hardly knew him at all.
There is a deep stress felt by viewers. It is difficult to think we have given any amount of time or money to an abuser. Could you imagine a close friend right now? The pain and betrayal must sear. They need time to understand what has happened and come to terms with it. Many of them may not be live in the coming days (weeks even).
That being said, as time passes, criticism may be necessary. Complacency is not an option. Men that are willing to ignore abuse to protect an abuser are just as pathetic as the abusers themselves.
Let's give this situation time to breathe. I ask that we give patience and courtesy to those close to Wilbur at this time. But please do not forget that this happened. There may be a few streamers hoping to lay low and then drop a collab in a few months. Do not let them. This is too important.
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waterdeeping · 9 months
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I'm here for Bode Akuna.
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sirmanmister · 1 day
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💥💥💥 BOOM POW GET KILLED GET KILLED GET KILLED!!!!!
This is a redraw from January 6 2023, in honour of it being 1 YEAR since I posted the last chapter of The Father(s) and Son(s)!!!!! A little bit over a year actually because it was April 10th and it took me a little while to draw this lol
So much has changed in the span of a year omg. And for THE BETTER?? Like I’m going to school, I made and lost friends, I’m slowly but surely getting over some social anxiety (still a wip tho!!! 😭😭) and I’ve found so many cool mutuals and artists and just!!!! AAA!! Not to mention my art skills have improved a whole HELL of a lot!! LMAO
I don’t write as much as I did when I wrote my fic initially, and I feel bad for that sometimes, but it’s just a testament to how things have gotten a lot better for me and it’s not bad that I’m busy. I’m still trying to cobble together some more writing to eventually get another fic out, cuz I do genuinely miss it, but we’ll get there when we get there!
Anyway. TYSM TO EVERYBODY THATS STUCK AROUND FOR SO LONG/CAME HERE FROM MY FIC IN THE FIRST PLACE I LOVE YOU ALL AND YOU MADE MY LIFE BETTER!! 🫶🫶🫶🫶
Pspsps closeups/old pic under the cut!!
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archfey-edda · 3 days
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Messing around with screenshot redraws in an effort to experiment with light and color.
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daemon-in-my-head · 7 days
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Ah fuck it. We all know of the theory that Gortash looks and behaves the way he does cuz of grief. But, what if it's not grief? What if it's duty? What if it's guilt but also, dare I say it, affection?
What if the reason he couldn't care less about that grand plan and those horrible ambitions and himself is cuz he's the survivor. Cuz he now has the duty to actually live and not function in his partner's stead?
What if he's trying to rush and put everything to an end simply because his priorities shifted from being a nice little cog in someone else's machine to actually, truly living for the first time because he's still capable of it when others aren't anymore? Others that allowed him to be in that position in the first place? What if it's to honour them, because that was their last wish? What if it's a last desperate act of affection for the person he tried to convince isn't a monster?
They wanted for Gortash to live. At the very least, they wanted for him to live longer than most. So what if he's trying that now that they're gone, and he's cursed with the privilege of being alive? Durges prayer told him to live, so what if he's struggling to do exactly that now? To honour and love whom he's lost, who mattered to him?
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bakedbeanz · 27 days
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January 23'd, 2074 Anchorage Alaska
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theecrybaby · 8 months
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Football season has started again
Which statistically means it also the season of domestic violence cases being on the rise.
Please know it is not your fault, he will not change, you need to get out!
Here are some resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline -
Call: 800-799-7233
Text: START to 88788
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
National Suicide Prevention Hotline -
Call: 988
Text: HOME to 771771
24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones
Please boost and share because you never know who it could help or if you could be the one to need help
Stay safe ❤️
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whatbigotspost · 6 months
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Fuck. Being the child/grandchild of a truly awful, violent person is so complicated. One of the many complex facets of it for me is the act of identifying and rooting out the subconscious kind of self hatred I’ve carried because of who my father is and who my biological grandfather was.
I feel like I don’t often hear a ton about this difficult experience of reconciling the feelings inside you when you really understand that some of the people who have passed along your DNA are among the people you abhor most. People whose actions and behaviors disgust you.
At a subconscious level, and very deliberately, I’ve gone out of my way, nearly constantly, to try to figure out being a Good Person and essentially acting extremely differently than I witnessed/experienced as a kid.
Isn’t this driven by a fear of “badness” in me? Trying to demonstrate kind actions is great. But truly healing takes first recognizing and then acknowledging that in some way, my viewing myself as inherently bad (if not carefully managed) because I “came from them” has been probably hurting me or holding me back in some way. It’s a form of festering self hatred. And like while you KNOW that you are not them and you haven’t done what they did and you’re not responsible for what they did and you’re not doomed to become them… you might “know” it but still not really get it at a deeper level. In how you see yourself as bad or potentially bad.
Basically, I’ve spent a lot of time feeling, acting, and being guilty for things that never had anything to do with me directly.
I’m sure not everyone who shares DNA with bad people will have these feelings but I bet a lot of us do.
Taking this festering self hatred out of the subconscious and into the light where I can understand and therefore counter it is really helpful for me.
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everlastingrandom · 1 year
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Some good news from a few hours ago! In surprise move days after Allen mall shooting, Texas House panel OKs bill raising age to buy semi-automatic rifles. The bill still has a way to go before getting passed, it is now moving up to the Calendars committee.
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I do want to hype this bill up because the ripple effect it could have on the gun control laws in other states if it is codified would be absolutely massive.
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a-is-healing · 1 month
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Poems for Survivors
Hello survivors,
If you are a CSA or SA survivor, I want to write you a poem.
If you want this, send an ask. Either a few words you want me to use. Or your story. Or anything you want.
Poetry is a part of my CSA recovery and I would like to share this with other survivors.
I care about you and I am proud of you, and keep fighting.
Signed, A.
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butch-reidentified · 1 year
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Fucking FINALLY seeing this somewhat talked about
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queerism1969 · 1 year
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startistdoodles · 1 year
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How did Sidia survive the war, and does he feel lonely that he's on his own by himself?
TW: Some blood, violence, injury
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Sidia Knight is a very durable puffball. The stone ability grants him thicker skin which helps his defensive capabilities, but that doesn't mean he didn't survive unscathed. In fact...he just barely survived.
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And yes. He's very lonely.
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The best fever dream
Or maybe CO2 poisoning-induced hallucination
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dragonleighs · 4 months
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Something occured to me just now, and apologies if it's already been said, but the cover for Jedi Survivor is the only instance I can think of where the protagonist is alone.
Like, all the films feature most of the main cast in a big ensemble shot. And Fallen Order does the same thing in classic star wars fashion.
But with Survivor, Cal is alone. Sure he's got BD-1, but even he's on the floor (probably so we can actually see him). And it's not just that he's the only one there either. We can see the landscape around him clearly. He very much isolated from anyone else.
He looks tired, his scars standing out sharply (more than they do in game). He just looks done but he can't stop because what else is there for him but the fight.
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