I really need to learn how to mute / block certain tags on AO3, because it always feels like a slog when looking for DC fanfic to have to exclude:
Miraculous Ladybug
Danny Phantom
Neal Caffrey
Like I swear over half the fandom are crossovers, with most of them being some kind of Marinette / Damian thing.
Which honestly?
Good for them, but really? Right in front of my slash fiction with your heteronormative wish fulfillment?
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Does anyone else have issues with tagging? Whenever I tag more than four people in comment they seem to all unlink 🤔
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... and it looks like Tumblr's combined the 'rocketshipping' tag with 'rocketship' and 'rocket' again. So annoying
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Hey guys! 👋👋
I've been noticing some issues in the tag. My post is not showing and there's a couple of sets that plainly disappeared from the tag. Fortunately i queued them before they were gone.
So, please, if you see I'm not reblogging your set, check if it's showing in the giftober2022 tag, bc I'm afraid i could be missing some of your sets. (I'm checking the mentions too, of course)
Send me the link or let me know that I'm missing your post, if that's the case.
Thank you!!
:))
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You know there are a large part of Jensen’s fans who try to dismiss or downright insult Jared everyday right? Like you always mention only hellers but they are not the only ones,even some of the “J2stans” are quick to believe the worst about him,re: the tattoo,it’s just funny you only ever mention hellers as if a big chunk of Jensen’s stans didn’t hate on Jared everyday.I’m aware Jared stand also shit on Jensen now,after prequel gate but you already have a # for antiJaredstans🤔
Since you asked fairly reasonably, I'll reiterate.
In my experience, the vast majority of people who consider themselves Jensen stans who spend a lot of time shitting on Jared? Are also hellers. Who will prioritize being hellers when it comes to defending either their ship or Jensen if it comes down to that, in fact. So I call them what I think they actually are. I'm not saying there are zero non-heller Jensen stans being dicks or echoing heller talking points, but the loudest angriest noises? Hellers, so that's the tag all that bullshit goes under.
Before prequelgate, I generally only used the tag anti actor stans and didn't identify which J's stans I was talking about when I got annoyed by Jared stans or Jensen stans over something that wasn't clearly heller nonsense. Because indubitably, it was something both sides were either doing at that particular moment, or that I had seen from one side before and was seeing from the other now.
Post prequelgate, I have seen - and gotten a lot more asks about - negativity specifically from Jared stans that doesn't have a direct analogue outside of the more banal and petty heller nonsense and even then is usually distinct in the details. Which is the point at which I started regularly using an anti Jared stans tag, so that people who did not want to see those posts could easily block them. That's why it has its own separate tag.
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the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again
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Studying linguistics is actually so wonderful because when you explain youth slang to older professors, instead of complaining about how "your generation can't speak right/ you're butchering the language" they light up and go “really? That’s so wonderful! What an innovative construction! Isn't language wonderful?"
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Apparently this needs to be said so
Forgetting things is morally neutral! Memory issues are morally neutral!
You're not a bad person if you...
forget things quickly
forget people
can't remember entire stages of your life
can't remember important things
can remember some things very well and forget other things all the time
can't remember things (or anything!) about your interests
forget to eat, sleep, go to the bathroom, etc
forget to reply to texts
remember things and immediately forget them again
can't remember birthdays, events, etc
frequently answer 'I forgot' to questions
can't retain new information
forget things you used to know
only remember things when it's too late
have vague, distorted and/or unreliable memories
depend on others to know how an event you were in played out
have other symptoms that are worsened by memory issues and vice versa
... and anything else I might have missed!
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Fnaf fanart 👍
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wikipedia article on human senses for definitions and clarification
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fucking hate it when the stuff everybody says "actually works" does actually work.
hate exercising and realizing i've let go of a lot of anxiety and anger because i've overturned my fight-or-flight response.
hate eating right and eating enough and eating 3 times a day and realizing i'm less anxious and i have more energy
hate journaling in my stupid notebook with my stupid bic ballpoint and realizing that i've actually started healing about something once i'm able to externalize it
hate forgiving myself hate complimenting myself more often hate treating myself with kindness hate taking a gratitude inventory hate having patience hate talking to myself gently
hate turning my little face up to the sun and taking deep breaths and looking at nature and grounding myself and realizing that i feel less burdened and more hopeful, more actually-here, that i am able to see the good sides of myself more clearly, that i am able to see not only how far i have to grow - but also how much growth i have already done & how much of my life i truly fill with light and laughter and love
horrible horrible horrible. hate it but i'm gonna do it tho
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Actually so sick of grown adults not properly tagging their sex work advertising and putting it under LGBTQ+ tags
"intersex" "transgender" "transfem" why can't I look at those without seeing a grown person advertising their genitals? Why do I have to carefully avoid it and block a whole group of accounts, not even run by bots?
All the power to sex workers, it's not my business what you do with your body so you can go ahead and do whatever, but please, please remember that there are minors on Tumblr. Tag your posts with nsfw, tag them 18+, tag them as erotic, tag them as mature. I don't want to see that stuff.
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In my mind palace my tav and Astarion are playing the exact same game of 5D chess and they don't realize it yet
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It’s not “misgendering myself” to point out that people often see me as a woman, that I have experienced and do experience misogyny, and that growing up as a girl affects how I act today. That is just my life. That’s how it is being trans sometimes. People can have different experiences than that but I’m not going to sit here and pretend like I’ve always been treated like a guy to alleviate other people’s dysphoria. And saying transmascs can experience misogyny sure as hell doesn’t mean transfems don’t.
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