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lovely-abeille · 10 months
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glass, irony and good, anne carson // margaret atwood // enough, suzanne buffam // linnea paskow // in conversation: kathleen turner, david marchese // haunted womanhood, heather havrilesky // where to begin, sue zhao // the stream of life, clarice lisepector
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fuckingwhateverdude · 4 months
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i've polished this anger and now it's a knife
rubyetc.com / unknown / @/rbhvleo (tumblr) / Venetta Octavia The Burning / David Lynch The Angriest Dog in the World / Japanese Breakfast Boyish / unknown / @/jovialtorchlight (tumblr)
i. rubyetc
[ Messy drawing of two hands holding a bird. "HOLD ME, / NICELY, / I'M UNLOVELY" ]
ii. unknown
[ Black and white background image of people fighting. A man kneels down holding his head with his right hand in front of the audience. Right behind him is another man raising his fist in a punch. People lay on top of each other in the background. "WHY ARE YOU FULL OF RAGE?" ]
iii. @/rbhvleo
[ "TELL ME WHERE TO PUT THE ANGER / TELL ME WHERE TO PUT THE ANGER / TELL ME WHERE TO PUT THE ANGER" ]
iv. Venetta Octavia, The Burning
[ "You are shaking fists & trembling teeth. I know: You did not mean to be cruel. That does not eman you were kind." ]
v. David Lynch, The Angriest Dog in the World
[ Stylized drawing of a tied up dog in the backyard of a house. "The dog who is so angry he cannot move. He cannot eat. He cannot sleep. He can just barely growl. / ...Bound so tightly with tension and anger, he approaches the state of rigor mortis." ]
vi. Japanese Breakfast, Boyish
[ "And all of my devotion turns violent" ]
vii. unknown
[ "You are / a better knife / than you are / a person." ]
vii. @/jovialtorchlight
[ "once you understand the form kill it / once you understand the form kill it / once you understand the form kill it / once the form is dead hold it and weep / once the form is dead hold it and weep / once the form is dead hold it and weep / once the form is dead hold it and weep / once the form is dead hold it and weep / once the form is dead hold it and weep / once you have wept for the dead whatever / once you have wept for the dead whatever / once you have wept for the dead whatever / once you have wept for the dead whatever / once you have wept for the dead whatever / once you have wept for the dead whatever / HOLD THE LAST LIGHT AND MOLD IT / HOLD THE LAST LIGHT AND MOLD IT / HOLD THE LAST LIGHT AND MOLD IT / HOLD THE LAST LIGHT AND MOLD IT" ]
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yeetiestofyoots · 1 year
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On Jameson and rage
K.C. Cramm // anger I’m good at // White Oleander by Janet Fitch // Audre Lorde // Richney Edwards // Warsan Shire 
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rueyam · 11 months
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— scriptures on anger part two
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a-study-in-bullshit · 8 months
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pikslasrce · 2 years
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[transcript: 1. "I feel it's my anger that has helped keep me alive,"
2. "I've polished this anger and now its a knife."
3. "If only I could sustain my anger
Feel it grow stronger and stronger
It sharpens to a point and sheds my skin
Shakes off the weight of my sins
And takes me to heaven"
4. "TELL ME WHERE TO PUT MY ANGER
TELL ME WHERE TO PUT MY ANGER
TELL ME WHERE TO PUT MY ANGER"
5. "Rage, maybe rage would lift me up, make me stand, make me walk —"
6. "Isn't all that rage so ugly?
And isn't it mine, still? Good God, isn't it mine?"/end transcript]
Audre Lorde, Sister Love: The Letters of Audre Lorde & Pat Parker // Cathy Linh Che, Go Forget Your Father // The Ballad of the Costa Concordia, Car Seat Headrest // @/rbhvleo (x) // Marlon James, Black Leopard, Red Wolf // Ashe Vernon, "Buried", Not a Girl
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lttledog · 24 days
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Preface to Grief Lessons by Euripides, translated by Anne Carson.
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theprofoundcosmos · 1 year
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cruelty makes rage.
pinterest / grievng-deactivated20201219 on tumblr / Audre Lorde, "Sister Love: The Letters Of Audre Lorde and Pat Parker" / Warshan Shire / source unknown / Richey Edwards / Emily Brontê / pinterest
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system-of-a-feather · 9 months
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An important thing that I feel (at least in my experience) is often reinforced growing up in an abusive environment is that anger is only expressed and shown in one very loud and aggressive manner and that the only way it can exist and be expressed is in that very loud and aggressive manner when it is very much not the truth
Anger is not inherently an emotion that is unteathered, aggressive, or loud
Anger is not inherently anything beyond a feeling that stands to tell you that something is seen as unfair, unjust, or hurtful to you in some way or form. It can be hard to control, it can be very loud, it can be all consuming and it can be aggressive; but it can also be very very powerful and that in itself can be a good or bad thing depending on how well you can control and hone it
Growing up, either if you have been gaslit / emotionally abused / neglected to where only loud, uncontrollable anger was the only form / expression of anger that was acknowledge or if you were only exposed to forms of aggressive and loud anger and never exposed to any other versions, it can be easy to draw a false dichotomy between "hiding and silencing your anger" and "letting it free to go wild"
But both ends, more often than not, result in unhealthy and harmful results. Your anger is valid and still exists regardless of how or when it is expressed. It does not have to be loud, aggressive, and uncontrolled to be acknowledged and to be True Anger.
Learning to understand, listen, and communicate and compromise with your anger to get it to work WITH you rather than FOR you is a really important and fruitfull skill to develop as not only will it keep you from unintentionally hurting yourself and others in blinded fury, but you can also properly direct that powerful and intense anger into things that actually matter to you and build you and those around you up.
Anger doesn't have to be destructive to be anger. Anger can build the foundation for necessary change and be a mechanism of creation, but only when you are able to work with it rather than let it work you / work for you.
Make anger your friend and establish healthy communication with it, and it will take you far.
For the systems out there reading this, take it as an IFS approach or a literal system dynamics talk, it applies both ways.
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mdemn · 10 months
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“you’re just a fucking pawn, vito. when are you going to see that?”
ask polly- heather havrilesky, mafia 2: definitive edition (hangar 13), between aging and old - jack gilbert, all our futures - jody chan, ruin and rising - leigh bardugo, grief lessons - anne carson, a coworker asks me if i am sad, still - brenna twohy, mafia 2: definitive edition (hangar 13), angels - willi carlisle
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lovely-abeille · 10 months
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how'd your parents die again?, fatimah asghar // anna kamienska // mabel, becca del la rosa // ? // heather havrilesky // maya angelou // the fall of the house of usher, steven beroff
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fuckingwhateverdude · 1 month
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everything i've ever let go of has claw marks on it
Frank Bidart The Third Hour of the Night / Ashe Vernon IT'S A CIRCUS AND WE ALL PAID TO BE HERE / unknown / Rachel Swirsky A Memory of Wind / unknown / unknown / @borzoidaily
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rueyam · 1 year
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scriptures on anger
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llovelymoonn · 11 months
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Hello lovely. Can i ask about a webweaving/pieces about anger (with no actual reason. Just something within one’s self) ?
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audre lorde sister love: the letters of audre lorde & pat parker \\ gary wilson \\ mitski a burning hill \\ philip pullman the book of dust: "the secret commonwealth" \\ gary wilson \\ patricia smith black, poured directly in the wound
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