Hey, I'm the anon who was feeling bad about lacking experience.

I just wanted to say thank you for your kind words. It's given me a bit to think about and honestly made me feel quite a bit better.

I also discovered the turtle and pond comic from others reposting your answer, and it really put some things into perspective.

Maybe my mental health is a deciding role in my demi aro/ace identity. Maybe it isn't and when I get better I'll be exactly same. I almost feel like if I gained more confidence i would be more than happy to be without romance in my life and that right now I just feel insecure. But, at least now I feel as though I might understand myself a little better.

I hope that wasn't too rambly. Thanks again.

I'm happy to help, and glad you've been figuring things out, anon. Best of luck for your future!

~Mod Jo

It is with deep regret that we must announce that the two of us will be resigning from the mod team of TDFRJ

Over time, we have discovered that our views and opinions do not align with this blog as a whole, and we are not comfortable with continuing to associate with and endorse it

In other words, we have essentially “gone woke”

We would like to thank Mod Alejandro and Mod Sierra for their kindness throughout all of this, despite other circumstances

Joey forever,

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haikyuu characters as bath and body scents

✉︎request: hey! do you mind doing a scents for the haikyuu!! boys? i know you already did one but like maybe a bath and body works candle that would match them? (i’m desperate :,) )

✎a/n: this request is actually very very old and no longer in the inbox, but i found this nearly completed in my google docs so i went ahead and revised and finished it; i thought this would be a good way to get back into the groove of things <3

p.s., this is in honor of the semi annual sale, my most favorite time of year

✰warnings: none!

Asahi: cozy cotton

Daichi: white jasmine

Sugawara: rose water and ivy

Ennoshita: mineral and sea salt

Nishinoya: mango mandarin

Oikawa: eucalyptus and spearmint (it literally just smells like axe body spray)

Iwaizumi: blackberry and basil

Yaku: pumpkin pecan waffles

Kuroo: a thousand wishes (bc why tf not)

Bokuto: blueberry sugar pancakes

Akaashi: cucumber melon

Tsukishima: dark kiss

Yachi: strawberry pound cake <3

Tanaka: sweet whiskey

Yamaguchi: honeycrisp apple

hi! i saw a video of a horse at a sanctuary that had no eyes and i was wondering if the horse can have a good quality of life or is it case by case basis? and is it similar to a horse being blind but still having eyes?

They can definitely have a good quality of life but you're right in that it is a case by case basis. Not all horses that become blind cope well, while others may not act any differently after adjusting. Horses have their eyes removed for medical reasons such as uveitis, ulcers, or infection. Not all blind horses will have their eyes removed. There's very little scientific research in this area but anecdotal evidence shows that blind horses can become very skilled in utilizing their other senses to compensate.

They can still live a successful life outside, as well. They tend to latch on to another animal as a guide, typically another horse or mini. With proper training and a skilled handler, they can also still be ridden! "Endo the blind morgan" is one such example.

I really liked your blog. Thank you for your hard work

Awww thanks so much <3

We love sharing our passion with the world

the completed look of the spider jacket wip i posted last year!!! all handstitched, embroidered, and tailored by me :))) based on argiope aurantia

Missed this rat

Jo and Heather should have been a duo simillar to Mkulia

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Apologies for being quiet recently! Been busy with life.

Please accept Lance showing love to his Dragon in the Pocket Monsters HGSS Jō's Big Adventure manga. 🧡

April and Jo from Lumberjanes are moirails

April and Jo from Lumberjanes are moirails!

no one else sees my vision of ghost/punk vriska and godtier aradia being moirails or at least lighthearted kismesis…

she doesn't want you dead sweetie thats already done

putting flowers on your grave whether you like it or not

also: aradia thinks shes funny. her lil sproingaloing. (vriska is sooooo wound up with that impotent hatecrush it really is kinda cute how much she wants aradia to hate her)

What’s up, losers, it’s Mod Jo!

I’m Mod Zoey’s girlfriend and the biggest repository of Total Drama knowledge and opinions that this blog has ever seen. Ask me anything and I will have an answer. In the absence of Mod Cody, I’ll be taking over as our resident alpha as well, so feel free to ask away!

Currently repping 275, working my way up

-Mod Jo 💪

The incompatibility and fighting were just too much for the new couple, so Jo and Bess broke up

copper bits?

Assuming you're asking our opinion-- copper bits are fine. They have a flavor (if you've ever put keys or a zipper or pennies in your mouth lol) that encourages salivation which helps make the horse more comfortable holding the bit. Every horse has varying preferences for bits or bitless tack, though, so not all horses may like copper bits.

Okay, Total Drama fans. Hear me out.

Brick x Jo x Lightning

PROPAGANDA (under the readmore):

Camilla and Palamedes

They have the most relationship ever. They love each other. They are not complete without each other, necromancer and cavalier. Yet, Palamedes is infatuated with a living corpse who turns out to be a mega death saint that's turning on her god. It's not completely romantic. They've been together their whole lives. Their dynamic. I kind of want it. (if you find this propaganda compelling then feel free to share lol but I will not be checking the box)

You ever so scared of leaving someone that your souls become cosmically entangled and you end up creating a new person?

oh my god. listen. i'm sleepy and it's hard to explain however however. When [SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS] Palamedes dies, Camilla collects pieces of his skull, figures out where his soul is in the ghost river, and then tethers their souls together. And eventually they just collapse into being the same entity (Paul). QPR behavior. Plus they just talk so well to each other, check out their quotes

Jo and Bhaer

in the novel jo talks frequently about how even as an adult she doesn’t understand romance or why people get so weird about it. when laurie proposes to her and goes away to sulk after she rejects him she regrets not saying yes not because she loved him after all, but because she was SO FUCKING LONELY without him. she wouldn’t have married for love at all, she would’ve married her best friend for his company and to keep him close to her. queerplatonic behavior. also in the musical there is NO buildup on jo’s side to her loving bhaer. they are academic equals and they argue frequently, but they love being around each other so they get married. at least how I read the story Jo’s decision comes much more from a place of “if I have to get married and settle down because of the roles I’m prescribed by my society, even though I don’t agree with them, I’d much rather settle down with you than with anyone else. there’s no one I like to banter with more than you,” than it ever did love. jo and bhaers duet at the end of the show is literally not even explicitly romance centered. all of the verses are about how much they’re different. the chorus is just “you make me happy. you make me a better person. I love being around you. I’m lonely when you’re not around” which idk I get like that with my girlfriend yeah but I’m also like that with my other friends. however I get like that ESPECIALLY with my queerplatonic crush so. I diagnose these two queerplatonic. jo march is aromantic I will die on this hill.