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konishirrr · 1 year

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Yes, we’re back :)

The orders insane but we’re okay I swear

Wait this one’s actually right :0 <- proud

and others that I absolutely adore <33

Yea and there’s more than just enfp x intj bc im falling in love w an enfj <33

#enfp #estp #istp #intj #enfp x intj #intj x enfp #enfj #infj #esfp #isfp #intp #entp #enfj x enfp #estp x enfp #enfp x enfj #enfp x estp #infj x enfp #infj x intj #intj x infj #mbti #🧡

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typing-mbti · 1 year

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About MBTI romantic compatibility

In this post I want to talk about my personal thoughts based on what I observe about MBTI romantic compatibility or romantic compatibility in general.

Because remember, MBTI isn't enough when looking for a partner; there can be:

Very different people of the same type

Similar people of very different types

It also depends on what similitarities and differences mean for you.

MBTI: COMPATIBLE, SIMILIAR, DIFFERENT

Think at colors: there are colours which matches armonically to you but maybe you still preferer a "very similar" colour that accompany you or "very different" one that make you natural color stands up

1) COMPATIBLE if you look for an armonical balance between your differences (dichotomies) and similarities (same primary function but inverted and same process thoughts of the other two functions)

E/I + P/J difference or also F/T or N/S depending on what is the primary function (change the other). F/T or N/S lead to apparently more differences but deeply same way to process some thoughts (exactly same middle cognitive functions)

Example: INTJ x ENFP or ENTP

Example: ISFP x ESFJ or ENFJ

2) SIMILIAR: same type or similiar in many things (but not having the same primary function and thinking process can still lead to a not so small difference): you prefer having more similitarities with your partner (e.g. both introverted)

Change just a letter (be conscious that usually the S/N difference alone could still lead to a strong difference)

Example: INTJ x INTJ or ENTJ or INFJ or INTP (or also ISTJ)

ABOUT changing only the last 2 dichotomies: it will lead to a more complex mix between similarities and differences, usually it can be great at times but can also lead to many misunderstandings, for this reason I see more friendships than romantic partners on these.

Example: INTJ x INFP

Example: ESTP x ESFJ

3) DIFFERENT: very different type or opposite type: you feel safe with a companion that can do the things you can't do.

Example: INTJ x ESFP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ,...

Is it immature?

If all you look for is just a personality type yes, but if you consider many things among which a specifically personality type... no. People choose their partner based on physical appearance, interests, sympathy, familiarity, style of life... and choosing based on the way a person perceive and process reality that affect every part of their daily life is nothing but deep.

"BUT if you both are willing to make it work..."

I will be honest here on my opinion. We are not talking about getting along with colleagues or in family or something forced, but with romantic relationships. It's so natural to look for a "compatible" friendship, why not with romance? Friends can be many while a romantic partner is hopefully just one and for every day of our life; and every relationship is already difficult by itself without us making it more complicated. We will live and share everything with our partner, make decisions with them, see and talk to them everyday: for this reason I personally don't see why we can't be selective.

So... is MBTI compatibility important? Depends

My personal opinion is that compatibility in general is very important, but not each couple needs MBTI compatibility to work well.

Your perfect match depends on who you are and what you look for in a partner.

-> Some thoughts to consider for wishing to have MBTI compatibility or not:

If your MBTI type is a huge part of who you are and your mental process - choose YES

Passions, interests, character and other things have a huge impact of who or your partner are more than MBTI - choose NO

You are selective and look for deep understanding of who you are to feel completely gotten - choose YES

You get along easily with others and feeling get is not your primary need (or not by a partner), you enjoy and look for other things - choose NO

Your process thoughts deeply, analyse others and observe a lot - choose YES

You are in tune with the ambience more than focusing too deeply on the others, you are more practical and a doer - choose NO

IMPORTANT CONSIDERATIONS

Your answer can be different of the one of your partner. For example an INFJ chooses her ENFP for MBTI compatibility because she wants to have long conversations and feel mentally connected with him while ENFP chooses her for the way she treats him and prefers spending time doing some hobbies together. So their relationship's will won't match.

If you wish for MBTI compatibility:

I will repeat it another time: MBTI isn't enough! There are always other things that defines us as values, humour, interests, style of life, mentality. So your life partner will be one of the personalities you get along with: not all will work perfectly with you!

MBTI isn't a guarantee! There is no perfect balance and every couple needs work.

If you wish for other kind of compatibilities:

Still be conscious about your personalities! Sometimes feelings cover our differences and you are ok with how are some things now but maybe in the future you or your partner will look for other things.

Be aware! Not thinking about it doesn't remove their type and your similarities/differences, the best is knowing your MBTI types and still be sure it's the best for you! MBTI knowledge in any case could always help in your journey.

Some example of couples I know:

MBTI compatible couples:

ISFP x ENFJ: natural match and they also share the same way to see life - worked

ESFP x ISFJ: compatible but the mental disorders of one destroyed their relationships and also their interests didn't match - didn't work

Not MBTI compatible couples:

INFP x ISTJ: they have the same values of family and both looked for a companion that can do what they couldn't, and feel safe in the differences of the other - worked

INFP x ESTJ: they loved the differences because they made them feel safe, during life they realized they needed to feel understood by the other and suffered for the lack of similitarities - didn't work

FINAL THOUGHTS

Be careful and choose what is best for YOU depending on what you and your partner look for in a relationship. Because at the end knowing what you want in your love life and waiting until you find it is the most important thing! If you want read this last part by thinking at different characteristics other than MBTI.

Different partner: more work to to but they can help you with doing the things you can't do. Always looking for an opposite partner can be sometimes linked to low self esteem, or positively to a strong adaptation ability.

Similiar partner: less work to do but you will have the same limits and face the same problems. Always looking for a very similar partner can be sometimes a sign of immaturity, or positively of a sensitive trait.

I'll say it again:

I talked about MBTI compatibility but remember that MBTI doesn't describe us totally so choose wisely considering that person completely!

And work with your defects and mental disorders, with them every relationship is destined to fail or be unhealthy or toxic.

Maybe you are thinking "love is blind"... to our mind maybe yes, but unconsciously is linked to how we see ourselves deeply.

Feelings may last some time but having a partner hopefully will last a life.

I wish you all the best love life :)

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calixcasual · 1 year

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Friends & Roommates

Capricorn ☀️ Cancer 🌙 [INFJ 1w2]

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Aquarius ☀️ Taurus 🌙 [ENFP 2w1]

#aquarius female #capricorn female #capricorn x aquarius #aquarius x capricorn #infj 1w2 #1w2 infj #infj #enfp 2w1 #2w1 enfp #enfp #friends #roommates #enfp x infj #infj x enfp #enfp and infj #infj and enfp #2w1 x 1w2 #1w2 x 2w1

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noahtvhead · 2 years

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IMPORTANT POST

so uh-

i(enfp-t) like a girl

i dont know how to confess, and im afraid she(infj-t)will reject me(im non binary) and uhhh

sorry i cant really express my emotions well im so sorry

can u guys give subtle ways of confessing and tip to know if they like you back

please it's urgent

#lgbtq #mbti #infj x enfp #non biney

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incorrectinfpquotes · 8 months

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INFP: I am straight up depressed. ENFP’s been doing their best to cheer me up. They gave me this sticker this morning just for waking up.

INFJ: Ew, it’s like you’re dating your teacher.

INFP: I know, it’s so hot.

#source: brooklyn nine nine #incorrect mbti quotes #16 personality types #mbti #mbti types #infp #mbti infp #enfp #mbti enfp #infp x enfp #enfp x infp #infj #infj mbti #meyers briggs #mbti personalities #I do not condone student/teacher relationships #ew

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shika000 · 2 years

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Entp x Infj

Entp’s love language = Debate XD💜💚

#anime #manga #mbti art #mbti #mbti personalities #mbti stuff #infj mbti #infj #entp #entp x infj #infj x entp #entj #intj #intp #enfj #infp #enfp #isfp #esfp #estj #esfj #istj #isfj #estp #fanart

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sashaart · 2 years

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MBTI duos (◕‿◕✿)

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#mbti #16 personality types #16 Types #intj #enfp #myers briggs #mbti couples #MBTI memes #mbti comic #digital art #estp personality #isfj personality #infp x enfj #intp #istp #entp x infj

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moondustinfj · 2 years

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Golden pairings of mbti as stranger things duos :

And last but not least :

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honey-hannie · 2 years

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This INFP is looking for an ENFJ or ENFP friend.

Please contact me if you know one.

Thank you.

[It doesn’t mean you HAVE to be either of those. It’s fine if you’re any type, as far or as close to those types, feel free to contact me. It’d be fun to go through a mind of a certain type.] [Also, message me if you want to talk, don't wanna force anyone into this.]

#INFP #ENFJ #infp x enfj #enfj x infp #intp #intj #infj #estj #entj #enfp #esfj #istj #isfj #estp #esfp #entp #istp #isfp #mbti #mbti types #16 personalities #myers briggs

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robcognitivepersonality · 1 year

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Ne being the bouncing-off-the-walls function is a misconception, Ne by itself doesn't do that, considering its definition as the holistic perception of external reality. Ne is a single point overseeing the context of what's collectively happening...

Ne users vibe! They pick up the wave and flow with it, keeping a pulse on the big picture. That's the opposite of someone chasing flying unicorns and vomiting rainbows. Many Ne users are very laidback, and are *very* much in touch with reality...

It's reality at the abstract level where all of the moving parts happening around them are blended into a singular idea. Like a coach leading the team, a conductor guiding the orchestra, a nurse navigating thru the healthcare system, a journalist covering the state of economy...

They all stand in a position of perceiving a synergistic image produced by all the moving parts around them. That's what Ne sees!

So where does this whole bouncing-off-the-walls thing comes from? To change the collective idea, we need to create momentum shifts... One impact or two isn't enough. We need to approach this relentlessly at the right angles!

If you're asking "isn't making impact Se? So we need a lot of Se?" You'd be right! Ne users dip into their Se. An idea can be concretely realized in so many ways...

Many things have to happen to get an idea off the ground. Seeing possibilities is byproduct of this. They're multi-tasking, paying attention in all of the things, dipping into Se making impact wherever they can. They're trying to be in many places doing many things at once!

And with their respective codec function, ESxJs build and rely on structures to tune the moving parts to shape their ideas at large scale. ENxPs who'd rather bask in the flow wear many hats building up a swiss-army knife variety of skills.

#extroverted intuition #16 personality types #mbti #myers briggs #jungian #cognitive functions #carl jung #personality types #intp x entp #intj x entp #infj x entp #enfp personality #enfp #intj x enfp #estj #mbti estj #estj personality #esfj #esfj mbti

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white-poppie · 2 years

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Swingset

Sanzu: Remember Y/N, that time you dared me to lick the swingset?

Y/N:

Y/N: Haruchiyo I clearly remember that I said, “Sanzu don’t lick the swingset!” and you replied with, “DON’T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!”

#sanzu #infj #enfp #tokyo revengers incorrect quotes #sanzu incorrect quotes #sanzu x y/n #sanzu x reader #sanzu haruchiyo

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konishirrr · 1 year

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Mbti ships!!! esfp x istj is rlly cute. Stan

#mbti ships #estj x isfp #entj x intp #enfp x intj #esfp x istj #estp x isfj #enfj x infp #entp x infj #esfj x istp #🧡

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lunarxcity · 2 years

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being an enfp and finding out that enfps and infjs are the most compatible mbti combination romantically feels like a joke because infjs are the rarest type. it feel like the forces of the universe are conspiring different ways to make sure that i remain chronically single.

#enfp #infj #enfp struggles #no but seriously #why is the universe like this #mbti personality types #mbti things #i can feel the fates cackling at me #relatable #enfp life #enfp x infj #where are the infjs??

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shadoowwwc · 2 years

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