stylo-vibes is up
follow my sideblog @stylo-vibes where i post butch style inspo for myself, feel free to submit stuff you think might fit with the vibe (long hair butch trans dyke of color tbc)
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Really hate that the queer community's response to the creation of a gender trinary (girl, boy, and nonbinary, which is still not all-encompassing) was to... reinvent the binary. We just started grouping all genders into "masc/male-aligned" and "fem/female-aligned" and it's so fucking stupid. Even with the occasional allowance of "neutral/unaligned" it still maintains the binary as the standard. And then they don't let you use certain labels if you don't have the "right" gender alignment. The fuck.
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you're allowed to love being trans if you:
just came out
havent transitioned and dont plan to
have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself
don't want surgery or hormones
dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people
dont change your name
never have dysphoria
your transness is tied to your neurodivergence
your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity
dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience
feel like gender isn't really that important
are intersex
are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"
are a person of color
are an afab demigirl
are an amab demiboy
have a complex identity
have a very simple identity
cant figure out your gender for the life of you
cross dress
do drag
present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab
have crushing dysphoria
don't know how to pass
pass effortlessly
are a butch trans woman
are a femme trans man
are demigender
don't like to be reminded you're trans
have a very specific gender
have a gender that's specific to you and you alone
have hated being trans at one point
stopped transition and restarted it at some point
have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times
change presentation a lot
have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words
dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly
are plural/a system
are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck
are xenogender
are a lesbian or gay
are transneutral
are transfemasc/transmascfem
..... are trans.
every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!
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Butch coworker called me a kindred spirit after I told her that her refusal of my help digging her car out (she forgot her snow scraper and shovel at home and it snowed then froze during our work day, and I had mine in my car where they live even in the summer) was the butchest thing I'd ever heard. And then I dug her car out anyway. And she called me a good man 🥺
Butches 🤝 trans men. We're stronger together.
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the lesbian community was built off of the backs of trannies, stone butches, gentlemen dykes, crossdressers & drag kings; no one will ever have the right to tell us we don't rightfully belong in our own home. we built this place, we live here.
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Check Out Leah!!
If you were reunited with your lost love would you pet her? Even if she smelled like wet dog?
Checkout my Novel Sanctuary: Crossing the River here:
pinkkacey.itch.io/sanctuary-crossing-the-river
((The uncensored image is there too, done by Adabear_Bones))
Obviously based on this image you can expect an adult content. Its a romance novel, featuring werewolves, trans bodies, and lesbians.
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i used to be a little girl. and now i’m not. and that’s good. that’s important.
but the thing is. is that i’ll never be her again. can’t, won’t, will never. wouldn’t want to, anyway.
but the other thing is, i keep all her favourite books on my bottom shelf. and i have her stuffed animals on the foot of my bed, still. and i sleep in her room, every night. and i look at the pink walls, at the colour she chose, and i think of repainting and i don’t.
i’ll never be her again, but i am living in the life that she built. waited for. dreamed of. i’ll never be her again, but i try to take good care of her things
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