"there is no way to define "woman" without leaving out some cis women" so how do you define "cis woman" then? if you're so sure about who is and who isn't a cis woman, your definition of "cis woman" is my definition of "woman" :)

✨Words of encouragement✨

Proof of life for TDOV. I am visible!!!

I have this fear I’m not capable of handling emotional and romantic intimacy. I have really great friends but adding attraction and romance to all that sounds impossible. The entire dating ‘game’ is socializing on hard mode, and thats of course assuming you even have a chance to begin with. Not to mention my just absolutely minuscule dating pool, considering I’m a lesbian and I most likely would need my partner to be ND for it to ever work. It also just sounds like such a huge amount of work and time, especially becasye it’s very likely all of that investment and emotional openness will end in heartbreak.

It makes me sad because I do really want to experience that though. I do long for romantic connection. But I’m afraid if the opportunity were to present itself- and I suppose it sort of has, a few times, although it was never with anyone I really felt interested in- I wouldn’t be able to do it.

I love giving problem on reddit. Making women delete their post is really fun

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FUCK IT

I was in the "actuallesbians" sub on reddit and made a comment about a lesbian who said that she couldn't have sex with a trans woman, because she really doesn't like penis, she even tried with one that got the surgery, but it was still different from a vulva.

Boom! I was banned, their reason? "Considering OP's vulva as a penis". I never talked about the OP's genitals, i don't care, because it had nothing to do with our conversation. I just talked about what someone told me and the mod called me transphobic to ban me using this lie of reasoning.

Also, not even the lesbian i was talking about was being transphobic, she just have a preference when it comes to sex, no one can force her to like penis, and this whole conversation started when someone commented about some trans women calling people like the one i mentioned as transphobics, because they don't like penis. Aren't trans women just fighting for their rights? Why someone not liking penis have to do with it? You can't force every lesbian to like penis just so you can feel accepted.

there are three ways the term "woman" is commonly defined as:

circular (a woman is someone who identifies as a woman)

sexist (as seen above)

and by biology, phenotype and material reality

TRAs have realized that people don't fall for their circular reasoning anymore, and because they want to avoid biology and material reality by all cost, they have to define "woman" as every sexist stereotype.

If you strip a woman from every patriarchal concern and every sexist expectation, from all of her restrictive clothing and let her be just herself, she is not more than an adult female person. just as an adult female horse is a mare, or an an adult female chicken is a hen.

but TRAs would literally define a woman as anything before talking about biology.

ITS LESBIAN DAYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its October 8th so Happy International Lesbian day!

Top pic: Gelphie

Bottom pic: Lumity

I spent 6 hours today having my hair coloured so now everyone has to say nice things about it

You know what we should just start doing outside of Tumblr and online gay spaces? Calling our community what it originally was, “the gay community”

Next time anyone mentions the “queer” community or things that “affect the lgbtq community” in a conversation, just stop them real quick and ask them to confirm; “wait, the gay community, or the queer community?”

Sure, they’ll say “I thought they were the same thing.”

Then, be honest; “actually, despite some gay people still identifying and backing them, the queer TQIA+ community is pretty homophobic and a lot of us want nothing to do with them and actively disagree with their ideology. They seem pretty keen on wanting this too as they call lesbians and gay men bigots, deny homosexuality exists, and even protest actual gay people and groups being at pride.”

To which, the person will then specify which they are talking about. And next time they make mention of anything, maybe they’ll remember to separate them. And maybe people will realize where most of the ridiculous demands and pseudoscience are coming from. That it has nothing to do with being gay, but people who call themselves “queer”.

And hopefully it just takes on.

LGB’s who wanna drop the T, start actually doing it.

Dolls

The fact when i was younger i would strip my Barbie doll and lick their tits and pussy. And make them scissor.

These action says a lot now

Embarrassing

Edit: Let's get more specific: What is your experience on the app Her?

Someone: why are you crying?

Me who's been looking at lesbian pagan wedding photos all day on Pinterest: just life you know