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Nonaby/nonabie (plural: nonabies) or abinec/abynec/abinnec: someone who is not abinary at all in any way, shape, or form, but feels a strong connection to abinarinity/abinarity/abinariness within their gender.
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genderkoolaid · 1 year
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i think "nonbinary" can be useful but a lot of times the way it is being used isn't helpful to actually discussing nonbinary people, especially since it is a HUGE umbrella term with very few boundaries. like there are nonbinary men & women, so positioning "nonbinary" as something intrinsically separate from man/woman isn't accurate. or there are times where it would be more useful to name the specific group (like multigender people, androgynes, abinary/aphorians) rather than a much vaguer term
in general the problem is that our language to describe nonbinary existence is basically some scraps held together with duct tape. there's sooo many ways in which nonbinary people are erased or binaried through language. not just through the lack of gender neutral options but the la of blatantly genderqueer ones.
i kinda feel like as of right now, nonbinary-ness is pretty slapdash & all over the place and it would be helpful to have a large-scale discussion on what terminology would be best for discussing things like exorsexism and it's various aspects, and how to talk about nonbinary people without homogenizing us, while ALSO acknowledging the need for umbrella terms that can cover a range of individual identities, even if people don't personally identify with the umbrella term itself. & on that note we should also probably discuss the issue of. like. perfectionism wrt nonbinary language & the way that potentially useful terms get lost bc of it. I don't think nonbinary people can really achieve meaningful equality and inclusion on the same level until we are able to have equally diverse and useful ways of describing ourselves, and a stronger understanding of how we relate to each other as a community.
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revenant-coining · 1 year
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Occunous Alignments
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In order: Occuabin, Occuera, Occufem, Occuless, Occumasc, Occuneu, Ocuunonbin, Occunull, and Occuvir
Occuabin: a gender that is both Occunous and abinary; experiencing both Occunous and abinary-ness / abinary genders in some way.
Occuera: a gender that is both Occunous and genderera; experiencing both Occunous and genderera / female / female-aligned / female-adjacent genders in some way.
Occufem(inine): a gender that is both Occunous and feminine; experiencing both Occunous and femininty and/or feminine genders in some way.
Occuless / Aoccunous: a gender that is both Occunous and genderless / agender; experiencing both Occunous and genderlessness / agenderness and/or genderless / agender genders in some way.
Occumasc(uline): a gender that is both Occunous and masculine; experiencing both Occunous and masculinity and/or masculine genders in some way.
Occuneu(tral): a gender that is both Occunous and neutral; experiencing both Occunous and neutrality and/or neutral genders in some way.
Occunonbin: a gender that is both Occunous and nonbinary; experiencing both Occunous and nonbinary genders in some way.
Occunull: a gender that is both Occunous and null; experiencing both Occunous and nullity and/or null genders in some way.
Occuvir: a gender that is both Occunous and gendervir; experiencing both Occunous and gendervir / male / male-aligned / male-adjacent genders in some way.
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neopronouns · 7 months
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(Two separate terms/flags)
An omnine gender in which one’s connection to each gender spectrum exists on a hierarchy from most prominent to least prominent (ex: female being most prominent, neutrality coming next, male coming after that, etc)
(This is a sub-label under the term described above) An omnine gender in which one’s connection to each gender spectrum exists on a hierarchy from most prominent to least prominent with neutrality/abinary-ness being most prominent, masculinity/maleness being second, and femininity/femaleness and all other gender spectrums being least prominent
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obnebulant-mogai · 5 months
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how does neobinary work? is this similar to nymbinary?
Hi! The definition of Neobinary (pasted from this post) is as follows:
Neobinary is described as “A gender experience that exists to reshape and redefine the gender binary. An individual who is neobinary or who considers emself to have a neobinary experience may partially or mostly relate to the gender binary but can decide that their connection to the binary is outside of conventional standards of gender categorization. This is genderqueerness and genderfuckery specifically within the scope of the gender binary.”
The definition of Nymbinary (pasted from this post) is as follows:
"Nymbinary (nymby) or abinby (abinbinary): a binary aphorian, a person who identifies as a binary in a way removed entirely from the gender binary system. It is a type of binariness that is abinary in nature (ABIN), and therefore lacks ties to the gender-binary, including a relationship to aptobinary genderedness (aptobinariness/aptobinaryness) or ambinariness/ambinaryness, (fe)maleness, (wo)manhood, boyhood/girlhood/birlhood, (fe)male-alignment, binary masculinity/femininity, and most other widespread connotations of binary-ness. Nymbinaries (nymbies) may even see their binaryhood as anonbinary or something else entirely.
Could be an umbrella for nymboy and nymgirl."
This is the first time I've heard of nymbinary, so take this with a grain of salt, but my understanding is that neobinary is a gender experience that takes the traditional gender binary (male and female) and remains connected to it, but is also fundamentally different in some way, while nymbinary is a gender that is part of a binary, but not the traditional one.
If you are coming from my thresiboy and thresigirl coining post, the definition for neoboy/neogirl is as follows:
Neoboy/neogirl is a gender with a connection to masculinity, but in a way that's largely different from how most boys/men are connected to masculinity. Neoboy/neogirl is a non-binary identity that is mostly separate from being male/female, though it can be described as a gender that is masculine/feminine-aligned, neutral-aligned, min/fingender, and/or mia/fiaspec.
Individuals who identify with neoboy/neogirl may identify with the term because:
They feel like a "new" kind or type of boy/man. They feel like they're fe/male and connected to femininity/masculinity (partially or entirely) but in a "different" way. They feel like a boy, but outside of the gender binary. Individuals who identify with neoboy/girl will also generally feel neutral-aligned in some way or in some extent as well as being masculine/feminine-aligned but this isn't always the case.
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Beside each flag are additional versions with the matching gender symbols drawn on top, in black. The intramasc symbol is the male or mars symbol, with the arrow pointing straight down. The circle has short, straight lines poking out of either side. The intrafem symbol is the female or venus symbol, with the cross pointing straight up. The circle also has small lines on either side of it.The intramascfem symbol is a combination of the previous two, with the cross on top and arrow on the bottom. End image ID.]
Re-coining post for intramasc and intrafem, plus coining for intramascfem!
💙 Intramasc: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of masculine and male genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of masculinity and male-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: male, demiboy, proxvir, libramasc, etc. Intramascs can experience non-MMIN genders, but their masculinity and male-ness is the most important, expansive, constant part of them.
❤️ Intrafem: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of feminine and female genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of femininity and female-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: female, demigirl, juxera, librafem, etc. Intrafems can experience non-FFIN genders, but their femininity and female-ness is the most important, expansive, constant part of them.
💜 Intramascfem: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of masculine, feminine, male, and female genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of masculinity, femininity, male-ness, and female-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: female, demiboy, juxera, libramasc, etc. Intramascfems can experience non-MINN and non-FFINgenders, but their masculinity, femininity, male-ness, and female-ness are the most important, expansive, constant parts of them.
Flags:
💛 Yellow - Abinary gender, the nonbinary nature of the identities.
💙 Blues - MMIN gender. Two different blues are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
❤️ Pinks - FFIN gender. Two different pinks are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
💜 Purples - MMIN and FFIN gender. Two different purples are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
🤍 White - The expansiveness of the identities, and of gender itself.
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epiceneandroid · 2 years
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well, as the creator of the madchen flag and gender itself, i had noticed it’s basically a horrible eyestrainy mess of a flag in it’s original iteration. thus, i had remade it into its current form that you see now.
madchen is defined as a gender that is feminine, but in an entirely off the binary way. it combines femininity with abinary gender-ness, being a feminine gender that is entirely neuter, null, or otherly. although it’s feminine, and indeed kind of almost an equivalent to femme almost as i kind of currently envision it as a feminine role akin to valeo’s masculine nonbinary role, it’s true gender is otherly and apart from masculinity, femininity, or concepts derived from such, at all.
it’s based on the third “maiden” gender of the universe of simoun, and the name of the gender is literally the word “maiden” in german.
so, here’s my updated take on the madchen term as well as it’s flag!
the colors mean something like this:
the coral red represents the inherent “off” femininity to this gender. the white represents the myriad experiences of madchen-hood one can have, blending all together like a prism. and the sunflower yellow represents the inherent abinary, otherly, neuter, or null traits of this gender that are separate from masculinity, femininity, or any combination of the above.
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mesque-culture-is · 2 years
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mesque culture is feeling like an alien because your mesque-ness has nothing to do with being m or f, i'm just abinary who's mspec veldian and lesbian and cenelian at the same time because of historical definitions (of lesbian at leas)
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I feel like making a genderfeels update. Some terms have been eliminated, some have been added, and others thrown into confusion due to conflicting definitions.
It’s basically like this:
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[Image description: A downward-pointing triangle with the top-left corner labeled “F”, the top-right corner labeled “A”, and the bottom corner labeled “N”. A straight line cuts through the triangle from near the “A” corner to near the “N” corner.]
The “F” is for female. (Not feminine, not demigirl, not female-aligned, but female. If I spent all my time here, that would be called cisgender.)
The “N” is for a neutral gender that is not agender. More on this later.
The “A” is for aporagender, though that probably isn’t quite right either. More on this later.
I experience fluidity in nearly the entire space of this triangle, up to the line. I don’t think I’ve ever felt fully neutral or fully aporine, so I put the line there to show that. I always have some connection to female-ness.
Without going into any more detail, it is clear that the term genderfae applies, and indeed exists for exactly this kind of situation: fluidity that is never masculine. This is probably the best term for now.
Details under the cut (cut added 9 July 2019). 
As I go through the issues in question/answer format, it will become obvious that my issue with many of these terms is that they apply but are too broad for my situation.
Can demiwoman be fluid?
There seem to be conflicting views on this; it’s probably fine if I use this term, but the fluidity would not be explicit
Can bigender, trigender, polygender and multigender be fluid?
Gender Wiki says yes to all
The mods at askagenderfluidandgenderflux seem to agree
Bigenderflux seems to explicitly include the case with a gradient from one gender to another
These all work, but they don’t seem to get the situation across
Can lunarian and stellunarian/nebularian be fluid?
According to one of the creators, yes
Though it’s not explicit, and people could use them in different ways
The expanded system includes aurorian for fluid alignment
I’m becoming increasingly uncomfortable with alignment overall (for me, not as a concept)
Does neutrois describe the neutral gender?
It has been used for transneutral, which I am not
It has been used for agender, which I don’t feel comfortable with, except maybe it’s fine because going that direction just means feeling female/aporine less intensely
It can include androgyne, which I’m not comfortable with
Basically I want a neutral (not between-male-and-female) aporagender
Does neugender describe the neutral gender? (conflicting definitions: bmpf, newer blog)
What describes the “A” corner?
This post indicates confusion about whether aporagender is completely unrelated to masculine and feminine
Aporagender can also include neutral genders, but this corner is separate from those
I’m not comfortable with maverique
ilyagender might work, but it’s not well known and I’m not a huge fan of the name
aporagender isn’t well known either, but whaddaya gonna do
abinary works but doesn’t feel descriptive enough, and being “partly abinary” sounds odd to me
xenogenders never felt right to me, but at the same time I would like to get more specific
How many genders do I have?
infinitely many, and they’re all technically demigirl (except for the female corner)
this is like the Dr. Seuss character who had twenty-three sons and named them all Dave
this is femfluidflux but I don’t feel like that covers it
Is calling myself fangender for female-aporine-neutral a really bad idea?
yes
on Tumblr I only found two uses of it, which seem to indicate a gender-neutral form of the word “fangirl”
it’s a German word based on a root meaning “catch”; Google Translate says it means “scavenging”
consider: scavenge-gender
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gender-feels
I want to look at some gender terms I could use. I’m getting super specific here because if I don’t, these thoughts will keep bouncing around in my head.
Some of these terms have “girl” in them. This is uncomfortable to me because I have been an adult for some time and I don’t want to be referred to as a girl (though I don’t mind being referred to as a woman). But replacing “girl” with “woman” in these would make them harder to look up.
Each bolded word technically applies in some way, and most of them have their own flags.
I have felt at least four different ways at different times:
fully female
“weakly” female
nonbinary female-aligned
other nonbinary
There are various words that could be used for each; here I’ll put the ones that have a decent chance of working.
female
By itself, this is just cisgender, because I’m AFAB and not intersex. But because I don’t always feel fully female, cis wouldn’t apply. When I do, I could be called female or a woman.
“weakly” female
There’s the term demigirl, which means being partly female and partly not, without indicating what the rest is, nor whether there’s fluidity or simultaneity.
There are other words for being partly female, including magigirl (mostly female) and nanogirl/pixelgirl (only a little female).
The amount of female I feel can vary over time, so genderflux applies. More specifically, I could use endogirl (flux but always somewhat feminine), girlflux or even demigirlflux.
nonbinary female-aligned
I’ve seen some disagreement on what the alignment concept means. Some would say it refers to having a connection to womanhood due to agab, socialization, or how others perceive you. This would hold in my case. More often, however, I see it used very loosely to mean that the person feels some unspecified connection to femaleness or femininity, which also works in my case, and is what I mean here.
Some words for genders that are nonbinary but female or feminine in some way include gxrl, xirl, lunarian, stellunarian/nebularian, femgender (if I’m allowed to use “fem”), and fingender. Demifeminine may also apply to this part.
other nonbinary
There are times when I just don’t know what gender I feel. Terms that could apply in these times include questioning and gendervague. (Edit: turns out gendervague is a neurogender, so I won’t use it.) Less-than-fully-specified nonbinary terms include genderqueer, nonbinary, and aporagender (”a gender separate from male, female, or anything in between male and female, while having a specific feeling of gender”).
the combination
What would this make me overall? Well, depending on how I divide it up, I could use bigender, trigender or quadgender, but I would probably skip to polygender or multigender.
Since I feel differently gendered at different times, I could use genderfluid. Since the amount of my gendered feelings changes also, I could use fluidflux or multiflux. Since female is pretty prominent, I could use duragender (”one gender is more identifiable, long lasting, and prominent than the other genders”). If I felt that all my genders were feminine, I could use femfluid. Since maleness/masculinity is excluded, I could use genderfae.
I could use demi- with any of these parts (e.g. demifemale, demigenderqueer).
I could also just sum it all up as nonbinary, genderqueer, or q-spec/queeric.
so...
It turns out I can run the gamut from “more or less female” to “genderqueer as in fuck you” to so-called “mogai hell” (e.g. quadgender with female, fingender, stellunarian and aporagender).
What would most easily get the main concept across to people is either nonbinary female-aligned or demifemale.
What I like the most, though, is nebularian. It includes femininity, nonbinary-ness, and vagueness. And look at the pretty muted colors!
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Rejected terms:
those that reject the binary altogether (singularian, abinary)
those that are explicitly feminine-not-female or female-not-feminine or the like (juxera, nonpuella/nonera)
comfeminine (always fully feminine; could be fluid between, say, female and juxera but not demigirl, if I understand correctly)
maverique (just not comfortable with it)
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Nymbinary Pride Flag
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Nymbinary (nymby) or abinby (abinbinary): a binary aphorian, a person who identifies as a binary in a way removed entirely from the gender binary system. It is a type of binariness that is abinary in nature (ABIN), and therefore lacks ties to the gender-binary, including a relationship to aptobinary genderedness (aptobinariness/aptobinaryness) or ambinariness/ambinaryness, (fe)maleness, (wo)manhood, boyhood/girlhood/birlhood, (fe)male-alignment, binary masculinity/femininity, and most other widespread connotations of binary-ness. Nymbinaries (nymbies) may even see their binaryhood as anonbinary or something else entirely.
Could be an umbrella for nymboy and nymgirl.
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[Begin image ID: Four separate flags with vertical stripes, two versions for each term. The first is the intraabin flag. From left to right the stripes are yellow, a light orange thin stripe, a dark orange thin stripe, white, a dark orange stripe,  a light orange stripe, and a yellow stripe. The other flag is the same, only with the color of the thin stripes swapped. The intraneu flag has green stripes.
Beside each flag are additional versions with the  matching gender symbols drawn on top, in black. The intramasc symbol is  the male or mars symbol, with the arrow pointing straight down. The  circle has has short, straight lines poking out either side of the  circle. The intrafem symbol is the female or venus symbol, with the  cross pointing straight up. The circle also has small lines on either  side of its circle.  The intramascfem symbol is a combination of the previous two, with the cross on top and arrow on the bottom. End image ID.]
Coining post for intraabin and intraneu
🧡 Intraabin: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of abenine and abinary genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of abinarity and abinary-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: abinary, demiabinary, genderknown, libramaverique, etc. Intraabins can experience non-ABIN genders, but their abinarity and abinary-ness is the most important, expansive, constant part of them.
💚 Intraneu:  A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of neutral and neutrois genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of neutrality and neutrois-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: neutrois, demineutrois, juxtaneu, libraneutral, etc. Intraneus can experience non-NIN genders, but their neutrality and neutrois-ness is the most  important, expansive, constant part of them.
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💛 Yellow - Abinary gender, the nonbinary nature of the identities.
🧡 Orange - ABIN gender. Two different oranges are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
💚 Green - NIN gender. Two different greens are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
🤍 White - The expansiveness of the identities, and of gender itself.
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[Begin image ID: Six separate flags with vertical stripes, two versions for each term. The first is the intraamb flag. From left to right the stripes are yellow, a light violet thin stripe, a dark violet thin stripe, white, a dark violet stripe, a light violet stripe, and a yellow stripe. The other flags are the same, only with the color of the thin stripes swapped. The intralin flag has magenta stripes, and the intraxen flag has orange, pink, violet, and blue stripes.
Beside each flag are additional versions with the matching gender symbols drawn on top, in black. The intraamb symbol is the ambiguine symbol, with the arrow pointing straight up, the cross at the bottom. The circle has short, straight lines poking out of either side. The intralin symbol is the androgyne symbol, with the crossed arrow pointing straight up. The circle also has small lines on either side of it. The intraxen symbol is the xenogender symbol, with the arcs on the bottom end like normal. The circle also has small lines on either side of it. End image ID.]
Coining post for intraamb and intralin, plus coining for intraxen!
🔮 Intraamb: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of ambiguous and ambiguine genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of ambiguity and ambiguine-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: ambiguine, demiambiguine, femache, libraambiguous, etc. Intraambs can experience non-AMIN genders, but their ambiguity and ambiguine-ness is the most important, expansive, constant part of them.
🦄 Intralin: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of androgynous and androgyne genders. A person might feel different types or amounts of androgyny and androgyne-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: androgyne, demi androgyne, proxangi, libraandrogynous, etc. Intralins can experience non-LIN genders, but their androgyny and androgyne-ness is the most important, expansive, constant part of them
��� Intraxen: A gender identity which encompasses infinite, largely varied feelings of xenine and xenogenders. A person might feel different types or amounts of xeninity and xenogender-ness, and may use varied gendered terms to describe these feelings. Examples include: xenogender, demixenic, aesthetigender, libraxenine, etc. Intraxens can experience non-XIN genders, but their xeninity and xenogender-ness is the most important, expansive, constant part of them
Flags:
💛 Yellow - Abinary gender, the nonbinary nature of the identities.
🔮 Violets - AMIN gender. Two different violets are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
🦄 Magenta - LIN gender. Two different magentas are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
🌈 Xenine Flag Colors - XIN gender. The different colors mirror the xenine flag, and are used to represent different forms of gender, or gendered feelings.
🤍 White - The expansiveness of the identities, and of gender itself.
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Abinary Asexual Pride Flags
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Asexuality o Aceness (ace-ness): experiencing lack of sexual attraction, whether circumstantially, partially, or entirely.
Abinarity, Abinaryness (abinary-ness) or Abinariety: being completely/integrally removed from gender binary; anyone whose genderness is totally unrelated to femaleness, femininity, masculinity, or maleness.
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Cismasc Nonbinary Flag
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Cismasculine: someone who has the gender masculinity associated with their cisgender-ness; a term for masc folks who were assigned as masculine at birth, but identify with masculine gendered or sexed feelings to a greater extent than femininity.
Non-binary an umbrella/standalone term for those who are not integrally/fully/completely nor exclusively/asynchronously/solely male or female; being abinary and/or midbinary.
It’s not about essentially idpol (identity politics) or biopolitics, it’s about self-determination. Not always about gender socialization, could be sexuation/sex traits.
“menbies” is a derogatory term/slur against nonbinary cismascs/cismasx, don’t use it without consent of whom you’re referring to. ;)
-AP
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Mono- experiencing attraction to one gender.
Lesbian: a sapphic and/or wlw folk; a homo-/non-straight woman/non-man..
This is not the same as “vixenamoric” or just “a regular lesbian”, some lesbians aren’t attracted to binary women, other lesbians may be attracted to an abinary gender or another monogender non-binary-ness/identity. This could still be monoflexible, we aren’t delimiting anything here. It’s totally inclusive of trans women and trans lesbians as well (plus GNC/gender non-conforming/butch/futch/femmes).
Not to be confused with monogamous/monogamy or monoamory/monoamorous.
- Ap
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