It becomes very clear when people only consider trans people who are white, skinny, pass perfectly, and are stealth as ‘real trans people’
People talk about trans men and it becomes clear they aren’t counting non-passing trans men, pregnant trans men, fat trans men, and trans men of color.
I see this from other trans guys so much. So many other trans guys will act like they are better because they pass, they are white, they are skinny, and/or they don’t want to get pregnant. So they leave trans men of color, non-passing trans men, fat trans men, and pregnant trans men out of the conversation.
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it kills me how much people love to speculate on the trans male experience. transphobes and even other trans people will conjure up ideas of what it must be like for us to live, how hormones affect us, and especially what society treats us like. they love to tell us how we live our lives; strawman after strawman about fictional trans men who started hormones and became "evil and ugly", completely fabricated stories about about how every trans man they know suddenly "gained male privilege" and never deal with misogyny or transandrophobia.
people who tell you how your transmasculine experience will go have no idea what they are talking about. even if they sound confident, they are not correct- each and every transmasculine person has a different experience in life- we do not automatically gain the societal privilege of cishet white men once we decide to socially transition. they cannot see what your future holds. you don't deserve to have someone telling you how you will experience your own life, it is yours, you are allowed to live your truth, pave your own way and prove that we have varied lives that transcend what transphobes think the trans male experience is.
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shoutouts to lesbians with weird genders!!
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Can I convince you to stroke it for me?
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One of our editors has been having a difficult time post-surgery -- if you're able to share this, it would be much appreciated.
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“Younger people say they want to end their life,” he said of the law. “Their families don’t care about them, and now the government has turned against them.”
I see many people on my dash focus only on trans people in the US and UK. We shouldn’t forget our trans siblings in other countries.
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Danger Days: The True Lives of The Fabulous Killjoys by My Chemical Romance is Transmasc and Bisexual!
requested by @heaven-helpus
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inside you are two wolves, one is wearing equestrian riding shoes and the other is wearing biker boots. you want to be kicked in the balls as a sex thing
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Some one come safe me I’m so bored I need a partner 😢😢
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