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sys-polls · 2 days
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- amaranth.
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sysboxes · 3 days
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[Text: This fictive misses their chosen source family.]
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anti-endo-haven · 2 days
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I do find it a little ironic that endos say they remember their trauma then when you ask if they'd like to share they get upset, or when you ask to meet an alter. I asked to meet one and the person blocked me
Never EVER ask someone for their trauma AT ALL. I do not care if they’re an endo or not, that is wrong on so many levels. They do not owe it to you and it doesn’t need to be shared. It is personal. You don’t need to know everything about a person.
You do not even ask systems to meet an alter, that isn’t how it works and accept the person who is in front for being there.
You cannot have behavior like this anywhere. At all.
Do not ask for trauma to be explained or talked about, do not ask to meet an alter. AT ALL.
Do not behave like this to anyone.
It is wrong to even endos, it is wrong to people that have trauma. You DO NOT have this behavior to people.
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rayssyscourse · 19 hours
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Any endogenic system who is truly endogenic and not a traumagenic system in denial doesn't need persecutors or protectors and shouldn't use those terms
Makes sense. That's all I have to say about this one. It makes sense.
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transweird · 1 day
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teacherfucker
a trans/cisid label to refer to people that really wanna fuck their teacher. the distinction between a trans or cis teacherfucker is all up to interpretation — for example, you could consider yourself a transteacherfucker until you complete your transition by fucking your teacher.
this label can also be used by those suffering from grooming trauma, but please note that i (OP) do not condone grooming. this is a self-identifier label only.
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first stripe (cream)
symbolizes the diverse experiences in the teacher crush community. (repeats last stripe)
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second stripe (brown)
symbolizes the desire from the student to be taught, cared for, and nurtured.
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third stripe (peach)
references the romantic/etc. attraction the student has for their teacher.
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fourth stripe (burgundy)
refers to the delicacy and carefulness needed to have a teacher/student relationship.
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fifth stripe (lilac)
symbolizes the romantic/etc. attraction the teacher has for their student.
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sixth stripe (lavender)
symbolizes the desire from the teacher to care for, nurture, and teach their student.
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sophieinwonderland · 2 days
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do you think plurality will become widely accepted any time soon? i fear that my plurality will have to be hidden from most people my whole life. i wish i could tell our parents but i feel like they would immediately take me to a mental hospital..
i wish plural education could move faster lol
Widely accepted? I wouldn't count on it anytime soon. Sorry.
As Ghandi never said: "first they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”
While the quote isn't from Ghandi, it is still a pretty accurate one for how movements tend to go. And the problem is, we're still in the ignoring stage with a side of mockery.
Before we can get widespread acceptance, we need widespread awareness. And when we get widespread awareness, the biggest roadblock we'll encounter is direct opposition. Because then we'll be a threat. We'll be trying to change things. We'll be demanding our headmates be acknowledged as individuals and called by their names, and that's going to make certain people, especially on the Right, extremely uncomfortable. I'm sorry to say that they will lash out.
When Tulpamancers are being smeared not by randos on Tumblr or r/systemscringe, but by Sean Hannity, that's when you can know that the real fight for plural acceptance has started. And everything we've gone through before that has just been a prelude.
And then it will probably drag out for years after that.
But while that prospect is scary, I think it will be necessary for getting to where we need to be.
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But just because society isn't there yet and won't be for a while, that doesn't mean your parents won't be. Plenty of people have come out to their parents successfully. Others came out unsuccessfully, and then their parents warmed up to the idea later.
I would advise waiting until you're an adult if you aren't already, because parents have a lot of power over minors in their care, and things could go very badly. Best not come out, if you think they would react badly, while they have power over you. Additionally, I don't know if your system is traumagenic or not, but if it is, coming out to parents who may have been involved in that is probably a bad idea. Caution is advised.
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One more thing, while that quote wasn't from Gandhi, I really love the speech it's believed to have originated from.
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Plural acceptance may not come quick! It may not come easy! But it will come, and we are all a part of it just by being here and being ourselves!
The future is plural!
No matter how far off that future may seem!
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boxesforsys · 2 days
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This x holds relationship trauma userboxes! Click for quality
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tomcatyowls · 1 day
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“there should be a new face for DID online”
hey so full offence LOL but to choose one person to be the “figurehead/face/image” for DID is so fucking tone deaf my ears are bleeding.
do you really think one person can be the sole representative of this disorder?
do you honestly think one person could entirely portray every experience under the umbrella of “101 ways to fuck a child up” ?
do you really honestly think having one person with DID being the ENTIRE image for OSDD, DID, PF-DID, TBMC DID, P-DID is whats good for everyone?
just one motherfucker we’re all supposed to place extreme guidance in what a system can present as & what healing is supposed to be ? really .
for gods sake . the reason why there isnt a face to autism is because autism can happen to everyone. you know what can also happen to anyone? chronic & repeated childhood abuse. 
there should not be ONE face per community. a community is made up of several bodies who all manage to cover the entire scale of experience. to claim the face of OSDDID should be one person takes this away from ALL OF US.
theres NO reason for there to be one person defining the experiences of OSDDID, bc simply put NO ONE could experience the whole scale of OSDDID and know everything under the sun that can hurt a child.
its not fair to make the face of OSDDID one person. you could not understand the experience everyone holds in their own significant, detailed life.
people need to see people who understand them culturally, ethnically, religiously, and disorder wise- simply because we all have the right to know We are not alone in our lived experiences. that there are people out there who look like us and talk like us and heal like us.
we dont need one face for OSDDID community, we need multiple.
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plural-this-user-is · 7 hours
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"This Users Simply Plural is a mess." -🎴
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Versions for Systems, Collectives and Plurals:
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Requested by No One. These were redone - the original post can be found here: link
Feel free to use! Credit is not necessary, but always appreciated!
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zero-templates · 2 days
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Blended system emoji userboxes !
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-> requested by anon : emojis here, here, (both by @tontoemojis) and here (by @m0dem0n) : read my pinned before interacting
[ Plain text : requested by anon : emojis here (link), here (link), (both by @tontoemojis) and here (link) (by @m0dem0n) : read my pinned (link) before interacting. End PT ]
[ Image ID : Ten userboxes with varying images of system themed emojis on the left and text on the right. The five boxes on the left read "this system is blended" and the five on the left read "these alters are blended". End ID ]
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Absent alter
A term for an alter that rarely if ever fronts. This could be by choice or just because the alter cannot front / isn't needed in front too often / at all.
((term made by us. Flag made by us.))
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zerovr · 20 hours
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alternatives to some system terms!
brainmade - headmade
fictive - fictroject, fictional introject
factive - factroject, non-fiction introject
octive - octroject, oc introject
mixtive - mixtroject, mixed introject
headspace - brainspace, mindspace
made cause ik some systems don't like using these terms, if you have any others that aren't endo coined please tell and I'll add them!
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sysboxes · 12 hours
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[Text: This alter is from a childhood special interest/hyperfixation.]
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anti-endo-haven · 2 days
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to the "all endo neutrals are actually pro endo" anon - i used to say we're endo neutral bcuz i didn't want to get us booted out of some spaces for not feeding into their delusions. and to be a little silly rat that can get some giggles from their idiocy
we're more open on the topic now, firmly answering the question "what do you think about endos" with "they don't exist", but when not asked (and there's usually no need to) we won't say it. cuz honestly, in some spaces it's easier to ghost them until asked rather than actively fight them.
also, once saw an opposite take from someone claiming to be an endogenic system, saying "endo neutral equals anti endo" and compared it to being neutral to transgenderism and other lgbt+ stuff. to me it's funny as shit that they're still asking for pity and insist their tomfuckery should be taken seriously. repeat after me, multiplicity is a disorder, not an identity.
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That’s a lot of fair points!
I don’t entirely know what to say to all of this because, again, good points and you’ve covered things that are amazingly said! :D
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elliebunniiee · 10 hours
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holding the gay people in my head back from saying things that shouldn’t be said in public discord servers
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transweird · 1 day
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y’all pussies if you let a few bad apples in our community change your entire relationship w/ the radqueer label. genuinely grow a back bone or have fun abandoning the rest of ur community ^_^
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