I see people saying having a lot of introjects is an endo thing. It is NOT.
Being an introject heavy system is normal and it has nothing to do with "endogenic systems".
It's not because some endos think being a system is all about having your favorite characters as alters to hang out with that you have to invalidate actual systems who happen to have many introjects.
They don't control it. If they have those introjects, it means they need it.
It's not because you don't share the same experience that theirs is invalid.
This is not a criteria to fakeclaim systems.
It's just another proof of how harmful endos can be.
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PRIVATE SYSTEM SERVER.
Hello. As a show of my ability, I have created a private system server template for you to use. While "private" is in the name, I have included two access roles (Friend and Trusted Friend)—however I have not done any permissions for them. There is a Bot role that has permissions for them, like access to the System Setup category.
And, like the last template, only traumagenic systems can interact with this blog and use my templates. Endogenic systems and their supporters get blocked.
Note that not every single channel is in this gif, just the ones I deemed the most important to show.
Use the template here, however do note that the announcement channel and all of the forums channels will not copy over, and you will have to add them yourself: Private System Server Template
I am okay with you editing my template for your own use. Do not redistribute as your own.
If you need any help, you can leave an ask in my inbox.
Explanations for channels under the cut. LONG, BUT PRETTY DAMN IMPORTANT TO READ.
All forum channels are marked with a speech bubble emoji 💬 in front of them; those are channels that you will miss. The single announcement channel that also will be missing is marked with a mega emoji 📢.
#welcome - When someone joins the server, they will not see any channels, and you must give them a role so they can access this the server. You can see their welcome message here so you know someone's joined.
📢 update-status-fronting - If a switch happens, you put up a DNI, or want to otherwise warn people about your current state, you can update it here.
🔇 layout by 1 800 pain on tumblr - Feel free to delete this.
Text channels:
#bot - This is the only channel that has "Use application commands" permissions on it. If you would like to set it on other channels, you'd have to do it manually—or you can add it to the @everyone tag.
💬 dms - In the title, I put "[DM/GC] Channel name" under the post, then write the participants. I have a tag system for this channel (see below).
💬 thoughts - Headmates' thinking time. I also have a tag system for this channel (see below).
💬 mailbox - Essentially, I create a channel with a headmate's name and there are two tags: Read and Unread. Read means they've read the messages people leave for them, and Unread means they have yet to read them. It's a simple way to communicate with headmates who are not fronting.
System Setup:
All servers here are unable to be chatted in; only any member with the Bot role can do that. I enjoy setting up my PluralKit work into a few separate categories:
#resources - Easy access to Simply Plural, Notion, Evernote, or various places I get PNGs to set up PluralKit profiles—things of that nature and related to it.
#pk-setup - For descriptions and things.
#pk-pfps (not in gif) - To add profile pictures and banners. I put it in its own space because it's a different type of spam, image-based spam, than pk-setup, which is mostly text-based spam.
#new-arrivals - For showing people who made their PluralKit account, mainly for documentation.
#pk-spam - Just general things that don't quite relate to the ones above; typically things like pk;r.
💬 image-resources - If you change your icons or banners a lot, this can help. I put icons/banners here with credits to the original artist, the original art, and the edited version we use in our profiles. It's tagged by Icon, Faceclaim, Banners, etc.
#pk-log (hidden, not in gif) - To store PluralKit messages. If you also would like, you can add a more general moderation bot (such as Carl-bot) to also store non-PK messages.
System-centric:
#to-do: Self-explanatory; got any plans? Put them here.
#sys-chat: More general system chatter.
#sys-work: Talk about... system work.
#headmate-observations: If you notice something about your headmate—such as a positive/negative trigger, a various quirk they have, or any idea how their role works—share it here.
💬 headspace: A headspace forum to talk about headspace. More information in the image below.
The collection of the channels that you will miss, check the images above for extended information:
📢 update-status-fronting (uncategorized)
💬 dms (in general category)
💬 thoughts (in general category)
💬 mailbox (in general category)
💬 image-resources (in System Setup category)
💬 headspace (in System-centric category)
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I saw a post somewhere once posted by a pro-endo where they said endo systems '''paved the way''' for CDD system acceptance.
First of all, what acceptance LMAO. Like be so fr, it's still a heavily stigmatized disorder, and I have not known a single singlet who isn't weird about being a system. It's either "oh, can I ask x to front?" or "is it like the movie split" [all the people around me are singlets and not, idk, chronically online like most endos].
Second of all, endos have NO place 'paving the way' for CDD systems. CDD systems should be allowed to pave the path for THEIR acceptance. Like? Duh, no shit. You don't have the disorder so you don't SPEAK OVER US.
On top of that, I have such a fucking issue with Endos using the term 'system'. Like I know you can't language police others, but the term system was A MEDICAL TERM. IT IS A MEDICAL TERM. It's not something Endos should even fucking use for that reason alone
Endo systems only paved the way for stuff like this to be even more demonized and have no resources because of things like this.
Endos aren’t shit. They cause so much more harm than good and don’t do anything to help anyone.
Endos and pro-endos are so… ew.
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System emoji userboxes !
-> emojis here, made by @tontoemojis : read my pinned before interacting
[ Plain text : emojis here (link), made by @tontoemojis : read my pinned (link) before interacting. End PT ]
[ Image ID : Eight userboxes with varying images of system themed emojis on the left and text on the right.
From top left to bottom right, these boxes read : this system is often blurry, this fronter is who?, this system is often blurry, this alter doesn't know who they are, this system's alters front together, this system's alters are often co-con, this system is currently splitting, this alter just split. End ID ]
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So what were scientific facts you claimed were proven by brain scans in this?
"Wow, thanks for being a gatekeeping exclusionist when thats literally what you call us for believing and telling people actual scientific facts proven by brain scans"
I assumed this was about endogenic systems not being real considering the context, but maybe you were referring to something else.
The scientific facts are: DID is real. It has its own brain structure. The hippocampus and sometimes even the amygdala are smaller in people with DID. There are differences in the brain when alters switch that were spotted on brain imaging. There is literal proof DID exists.
Now on endos being real, I don't know if they are or not. There's never been any brain scans to prove it. Lack of proof doesn't mean something doesn't exist. But we've seen many ex-endos find out they had DID, OSDD, or weren't plural at all.
And most endos believe and even tell people that DID/OSDD can develop without trauma, just a higher ability to dissociate is all you need when that's misinformation. Endos also use clauses in the DSM and studies to prove their existence and even serve it as proof they exist (when the DSM said DID can't be diagnosed in the case of the symptoms being due to a cultural phenomenon or imaginary play, that did not mean "hey, its possible to be plural without trauma and DID/OSDD! Endos are real!" It means that possession experiences, hearing voices and acting out different sides to yourself, or roleplay, or making imaginary friends consciously, are not DID/OSDD.) And those experiences aren't plural, there cultural or entirely consciously done, something the creation of alters isn't.
And as far as endos being exclusionist, not all of them are. But most of them exclude valid neurodivergent and trauma survivors from spaces we belong in just because some are anti endo.
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