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itswhatyougive · 9 months

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Still waiting on a heterosexual explanation for this one

#oh that's right #there isn't one!#bisexual steve harrington #bi steve harrington #steve harrington brainrot #hey bro you wanna dial back some of that queer yearning #or make it less obvious perhaps #no? okay nvm #steddie #steddie brainrot #steve x eddie #eddie x steve #steddie thoughts #that's a queer dude

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genderqueerdykes · 3 months

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more than anything else on this planet, trans men need other goofy ass transmasculine people to hang out with and be the dumbass bros you've always wanted to be together with. i need you to know this, this is like the #1 thing

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qandgay · 1 year

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i was talking with a friend and i mentioned the term "pillow princess", and we started talking about like. opposite terms. what i meant by that was more along the lines of "service top", but he took that to mean just like, the boy version.

he just started dropping names: blanket boy, duvet dude, mattress man. fitted sheet fucker. boxspring boy. headboard hunk. he just kept GOING

#mod hollow #funny #queer #pillow princess #service top #duvet dude is my favourite i think #or boxspring boy #man #im laughing so much #q and gay adjacent

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boy-gender · 2 years

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i need all fat people who want top surgery to know you are not too fat for top surgery. a competent surgeon and anesthesiologist team will make things work for you regardless of your size. if one doctor gives you shit about your weight or bmi or outright refuses to operate on you, get a second opinion. go to a second doctor. go to a third doctor. go to a million doctors until you get what you want. the dual combo of fatphobia and transphobia in medicine cannot keep us down. you do not need to be skinny to change your body how you want to change it. you do not need to be skinny for top surgery.

#sincerely a fat dude who went through this shit #trans men #trans man #trans masc #ftm #ftm pride #trans pride #queer #queer pride #transgender #transgender pride #transmasc #trans #trans rights #top surgery #double mastectomy #fat liberation #transblr #og

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hansoeii · 10 months

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Jonathan Sims and Martin Blackwood

#So #I have listened to the entirety of the magnus archives in about 2 weeks and I'm not okay #these two have ruined me #this queer horror podcast has ruined me #jonathan sims (the real dude) you will pay for your crimes #I drew this while listening to the final episodes because I love pain #the magnus archives #the magnus archives fanart #tma #tma jon #tma martin #jonathan sims #martin blackwood #my art #fanart #digital art

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dedusmuln · 6 months

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yeah you support trans people but are you normal about trans men who choose to get pregnant

#i'm not a trans guy who evr wants to get pregnant but #the amount of queer ppl and other trans people i see joke around about like #how weird mpreg or men getting pregnant is #and use it as shock value shit #is really disheartening #like damn dude! it's almost like men CAN get pregnant and there IS a lot of men who choose to get pregnant !#they don't deserve any less respect for that #and their existence shouldn't be made into a joke #ik mpreg doesn't have a great history but like #it just weirds me out to see people treat the idea of men getting pregnant as something baffling #idk normalize it. stop treating it as some weird alien thing #my textbox #a little bit upset. sorry #discourse #pregnancy #<- for filtering

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asteroidc · 12 days

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butch pallas cat

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claypigeonpottery · 27 days

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his mane and hair are pink! I love his fuzzy round tummy

and he’s got some tattoos now too, dandelions on the arms and across his chest, and a bit of clover on his back

I really enjoyed sketching his tattoos. I was loosely inspired by art nouveau style flowers and delft pottery

(and here’s his underside)

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airenfolio · 1 month

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Happy (belated) trans day of visibility!

#god i love to make that dude transgender #hes just like me fr #geralt of rivia #geralt #the witcher #queer art #queer artist #thats my bby #geralt z rivii

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inkskinned · 2 years

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it is hard to explain without sounding vain or stupid - but the more attractive others find you, the more you're allowed to do. the easier your life is.

i have been on both sides of this. i am queer and cuban. i grew up poor. for a long time i didn't know "how" to dress - and i still don't. i make my sister pick out any important outfits. i have adhd in spades: i was never "cool and quiet", i was the weird kid who didn't understand how "normal" people behave. i was bullied so hard that the "social outcasts" wouldn't even talk to me.

i got my teeth straightened. i cut my hair and learned how to style it. i got into makeup. it didn't matter, at first, if i actually liked what i was doing - it mattered how people responded to it. like a magic trick; the right dress and winged eyeliner and suddenly i was no longer too weird for all of it. i could wear the ugly pokemon shirt and it was just "ironic" or a "cute interest."

when i am seen as pretty, people listen. they laugh at my jokes. they allow me to be weird and a little spacey. i can trust that if i need something, people will generally help me. privilege suddenly rushes in: pretty does buy things. pretty people get treated more gently.

i am the same ugly little girl, is the thing. still odd. still not-quite-fitting-in. still scrambling. still angry and afraid and full of bad things. of course it became my obsession. of course i stopped eating. i had seen, in real time, the exact way it could change my life - simply always be perfect, and things can be easy. people will "overlook" all the other things. i used to have panic attacks at the idea others would see me without makeup - what would they think? even for a simple friend hangout, i'd spend a few hours getting ready. after all, it seemed so obvious to me: these people liked me because i was pretty.

i worry about how much i'm being a bad activist: i understand that "pretty" is determined by white, het, cis, able-bodied hegemonies. if i was really an ally, wouldn't i rally against all of this? recently there's been a "clean girl" trend which copies latinx aesthetics: dark slicked-back hair, hoop earrings. i almost never wear my hair like that; i can hear the middle school guidance counsellor advising me that i might fare better if i toned it down on the culture.

the problem is that i can take pretty on and off. that i have seen how different my life is on a day where i try and a day where i don't. i told my therapist i want to believe the difference is confidence, but it's not. and when you have seen it, you can't unsee it. it lives inside your brain. it rots there; taunting. i get rewarded for following the rules. i am punished for breaking them. end of story.

pretty people can get what they want. pretty people can feel confident without others asking where they got their nerve from. pretty people can be weird and different. pretty people get to have emotions; it's different when they get aggressive, it's pretty when they cry with frustration.

of course people care about this. of course it has crawled into you. of course you want to be seen as attractive. it's not vanity: it's self-preservation.

#pretty in this post is a stand in for . literally all forms of normativity #warm up #tbd maybe idk #ps! hi!! i'm queer!!!!!!!!! it is how i identify! if you tag this 'q slur' i will fight you!!!#i am using it here in the EXACT way it is NOT a slur !! i am identifying as a queer person!#this is EXACTLY how people reclaim it !!!#it's like practically ACADEMIC in this usage!!#please do any reading into what the fuck the history of the word ''queer'' is before telling me #as someone identifying as queer #that i'm a slur. that the place i find comfort in is a slur #''well it makes me uncomfortable if people use it for me''#im sorry to hear that dude. that sucks. i hope things get easier for you soon #but you don't get to take it from ME #in case you can't tell by the REST of this piece #i DID hear queer used as slur against me. i DID get bullied with it. i DID hear a lot of shit said #i also heard it about lesbians #about ''being gay''#about pretty much any fucking term that could describe me.#i like queer. i like how it feels. and it's mine.#you don't get to undo the work i've done personally because it makes u uncomfortable #it's ahistoric to pretend like there are ''safe'' ways to identitfy if ur queer.#none exist. it has never been safe to be like this.

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mini-mousey · 5 months

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Dudes who start whining and complaining about how full they are and how they can't finish their food but then they let out a huge burp and realize they can absolutely finish their food

#it's me I'm dudes #mouse posts #queer feedism #belly kink #queer feedee #trans feedee #feeding kink #queer nsft #tummy kink #stuffing kink #burping kink #eructo #eructophilia

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genderqueerdykes · 4 months

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i hope you all understand the reason why men are so messed up is because no one lets us talk about our problems.

#transgender #lgbtqia #lgbt #queer #trans #nonbinary #enby #transmasc #transmasculine #trans men #trans man #ftm #trans boy #trans guy #trans dude #genderqueer #bigender #our writing #about us

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hana-loves-bumblebees · 1 month

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Přednášející na hodině české literatury 19. století o Juliu Zeyerovi: no já tedy věřím, že byl na muže, můžu si to obhájit. Ovšem pan profesor [jméno profesora, co taky na fakultě přednáší] to odmítá, argumentuje, že Julda popisuje i vřelou lásku k ženě

Já: je tu řešení, které nevidíte

#anyway julius zeyer dost možná queer ikona #czech #česky #čumblr #česká literatura #czech literature #amis a amid doslova guys bein dudes #lidičky je teplý zabít svoje děti abyste mohli tělo svého nejlepšího přítele umýt v jejich krvi aby znova ožil?#julius zeyer

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marzipanandminutiae · 9 months

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Had someone get snippy with me (on a queer forum, no less) for asking not to be called “bro” so

Here is your reminder that it’s okay to not like conventionally gendered terms for yourself, even if many other people consider them gender-neutral. It’s okay to politely ask someone not to call you [term]. And if someone makes that request of you, don’t be an ass. Apologize and don’t do it again. Easy as that.

#gender #queer #lgbt #I’m cool with Guys and Dude. but some non-men aren’t and that’s okay!#and some are fine with Bro where it feels too masculine for comfort to me! also okay!

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spoonstrek · 25 days

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House (agreeing to stop manipulating Wilson into living): I made us dinner reservations at 8

Wilson (skeptical): Just dinner?

House (absolutely deranged with love for Wilson): Depends how much I have to drink

Boy, don't make me say a slur

#I've forfeited the idea of this being queerbaiting for queercoding #but now I'm not convinced they DON'T kiss in the last episode #I feel like they're gonna and it's just gonna be queer text #because girl. boy. girl. come on. dude.#hatecrimes md #house md #hilson

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imminent-danger-came · 3 months

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But you are, my love, the astronaut Flying in the face of science I will gladly stay an afterthought Just bring back some nice reminders Yes! You are, my love, the astronaut Crashing in the name of science Just my luck, they sent your upper half It's a very nice reminder

—Astronaut by Amanda Palmer

#*crying* and can you see the means without the ends #in the random frantic action that we take #the Wukong - MK - Macaque 3 way foil fucking kills me dude #whatever #why didn't he just stop. right here? he was already so much stronger than anyone ever needed to be #*ugly sobbing*#lmk #lego monkie kid #lmk edit #lmk MK #lmk Macaque #lmk SWK #my edits #shadowpeach #yes the last one is about wukong's lack of freedom what of it #also I don't think I need to specify this but I hope no one thinks this is me shipping MK & Wukong lol #cause it's not #Really this is just part of my queer platonic shadowpeach agenda

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