the signs when they start falling in love (men edition)
aries: they start chasing like crazy, they give knight in shining armor vibes, can be a bit too forceful and pushy sometimes, there is a lot of playful fighting and they love to tease but are crazy protective, get bashful and blush a lot too
taurus: they really just start spending all of their energy on their person, buying them gifts, taking them out for dinner/cooking for them, they get really touchy and generally start dressing really well around their special someone
gemini: they call and text you a lot, tell you all about how their day went and they will want you to share your thoughts and feelings too, they will put effort into taking you to all the cool bars and cafes in town, short trips around the country, lots of jokes
cancer: they do what makes you or them feel safe, there is a softness to these people, they will nurture you by asking you how you feel all the time, they will get you your favorite snacks and take you out to nice romantic dates, will look at you with these innocent eyes and charming smiles
leo: they show off, they will garner all the attention in the room but their eyes will always land on you, they compliment you directly but they also make sure that others know how amazing you are too, classic romance tropes of a guy lending his jacket or picking you up when you’re crossing a puddle
virgo: they want to be useful and helpful to you, always being the one that makes your life just that bit more easy, they will always make sure you’re okay, that you ate, that you arent too tired, acts of service is important to them and as you get closer they will do small things like brush your hair, wash your clothes, pick you up from work
libra: they are great at flirting and making you feel beautiful and seen, they compliment you and make sure you know just how special you are to them, they will hold the door open for you, take you out on a romantic candlelight dinner and they will always make time for you and be on your side of any issues you may have
scorpio: they will do anything for you, things they would never do for anyone else, they will remember everything you ever told them, they will look at you as if nobody else exists in the world, they will protect you and always take care of you, their focus is only on you
sagittarius: they will always be happy around you, crack jokes and try and keep you happy, get clumsy around you, laugh really loud when you are in the room, ask for your opinion and really listen to it, they will be great listeners and will give you lots of advice and will expect the same from you, they will want to travel with you and they are very giving and caring of you
capricorn: they will tell you that they want you, they will be generous and kind to you more than anyone else they know, they will treat you well and with a lot of respect, will always pay for everything, they are warm around you but so much colder around others, hand around your shoulder while you walk down the street vibes
aquarius: they will want to know everything about you, they will be very helpful and will give you lots of tips even when you didn’t ask for them, spend the most time with you, always give you the time of day, will cancel plans with others just to have a chance to see you
pisces: they will turn into anything and everything that you wish them to be, they will be gentle and kind, very romantic and soft, they will touch you with how much they understand you, buy you flowers and bring you to your favorite places, they will seem to know things about you without you telling them and they will always text of call at the right time just when you need them
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ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS #1
Venus & Neptune square and aspects in general, especially negative ones - lazy, creative, and inspirational, yet so delusional and preferring their fantasies to the relatity in their relationships and often not even realise they're doing that.
Capricorn and Virgo and Aquarius suns are imo the ones to hate astrology the most, like once they learn there are also bad things about their signs, wow!!!, they immediately hate it and GOOOD, astrology is so TERRIBLE and UNREAL and FAKE... 🙄🙄🙄
Scorpio suns are very hypocritical. Once they say some things but when it's suddenly against them, you're just making it up, it never happened! Also gaslight people and are just generally very proud and irrational when hurt a lot. Blame others a lot. Get all defensive and icky when people actually try to accuse them of something they have done.
Geminis can use fake tears to make you pity them and then act like it's all your fault, anyways.
Also sags use their feelings to try to gaslight people and make them feel sad for them and excuse themselves when they just don't care about them anymore, and just make them seem like it's all the other persons fault, when they'll still go like "its not you, it's me" in the end.
Cancer suns are very quirky in a kind of disgusting way, personally I get very annoyed by them and they still think I think they're oh so cute.
Also cancer men are very manipulative and might want to seem like the prince charming and saviour of all the women. Often matriarchal and want women to have all the power. Also submissive to them in sex and generally want women to be the dominant ones in a relationship. Often grew up in a home without a father, who left them as a child, their mother ruling the household. Might be the youngest sibling. Bullied in school and bullying others, hiding behind the "but I'm a soft boy uwu 😩😣💖💖💖🫀🫀🫀❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💔💔💔👈👈👈" excuse and trauma that have happened to them. Either metalheads or soft boys uwu discord kittens. Often joke about furries and cringe weird communities and their obsessions. Very chronically online and may have grew up as a YouTube creepy pasta or smth else child.
Also Cancer men - Will pretend to listen to a girl because they know this is what they want --- because of that mother relationship they grew up with. But seriously just not give a fuck for real in their heads, they just know how to be smart and manipulate women. Don't feel comfortable around men BCS of their too-much-comfortable being they happen to switch on when are with women. Often put on a mask in front of men and pretend to be someone who they aren't. Men might think they're cool then, which j really don't understand. Like what???
Also cancer men and women - mommy issues, if it wasn't obvious. Can be very backstabbing and distrustful and think of themselves as mega hot and the best. Often boring texters and talkers. Rant a lot and talk about their hyperfixations and how the world is cruel and shit towards them, but really sometimes you can't help but wonder if they don't deserve it.
Saturn in 7th - Abusive relationships, getting married later in life, husband/wife popular and maybe rich, so if they abuse you, nobody might believe you and everybody will be on their side because they might be just more charismstic than you.
My parents both have this placement and it is HELL.
Lilith in 10th, 1th - Women envy you, hate you and sabotage you, men think you're too dark and edgy for them. People thinking you think you're better then them, this hating you. Being too charismatic for your own good.
Leo Venus - again, as it is with the Saturn in 7th. Could be more popular and overall likeable so if they do terrible things to you, nobody will believe you. Might just be nobody believing me cuz of crazy people around me tho.
Neptune in 1st - people might find you very attractive and ethereal, but also project on you A LOT. Meaning connections and relationships with you are just really difficult to even happen BCS people are always so judging and mean towards you.
Chiron in 1st - Body image issues, partners might abuse you and body shame you, people thinking less of you and in childhood parents often telling you you look ugly. I'm sorry people, I have this placement too tho so its not like I'm shaming you too, just I can feel your pain.
Scorpio ascendant - Too assertive and proud of your uniqueness and too opinionated for your own good. You guys are so clear with your speaking and always speak your mind and aren't fearful to express yourself how you feel and how your think and are always so like colorful with the things you say if you know what I mean. People will despise you for that and try to shut you up. And as somebody who did this to my scorp rising friend before subconsciously,,, yep. It happens even from your trusted friends.
If your moon is in the same sign as your friends/anyone's ascendant... You might feel instantly understood by them. Like I have this with my friend and it's an absolutely great and fantastic relationship, I love her. She absolutely understands me and gets me on a spiritual level - maybe caused by the fact that we have this with Scorpio - like no one else. It's a great relationship, savour this.
If you have a moon sign same as somebody's sun sign, you might enjoy their cooking.
If you have a sun sign same as somebody else's rising, you might try to be more like them and adore them for no reason.
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Astrology and the Sexes: Cancer Men
Cancer Man:
Title: "The Player"
For simplicity's sake, I will use the pronouns “he/him” for the male versions of the signs and “she/her” for the female versions of the signs. This is not to say that the people who identify with the male or female versions of each sign identify with those pronouns. This post is focusing on the different sexes (male vs female) not gender. Gender is fluid and I am in no way labeling people with these posts. Also, these posts are focusing solely on the Sun signs of each zodiac, other birth chart placements may cause someone to not fit into everything I have described.
Masterlist
Mind (how they think):
The Cancer Man is the zodiac’s prince charming.
He is a self-professed perfect gentleman who is clean-cut, polite, coolly composed, and seemingly tailor-made to the specifications of a traditionally-minded person.
The Cancer Man is the embodiment of the female gaze.
He personifies the male role in what he sees as a matriarchal world. He recognizes women as the authority.
Out of all the zodiac signs, he is the most likely to save himself for marriage.
He plays the role of the savior in his relationships.
He wants to be the ‘provider’ in his relationships which tends to make him career-minded.
He is the best at understanding the female mind.
He has a unique ability to empathize with women and view life from their perspective.
He is generally a pretty cool and collected character so he looks to the women in his life to provide outpourings of emotions and when they do, he sucks it up like a sponge.
He surrounds himself with women because he feels the most comfortable around them. It is women with whom he takes most of his life advice.
He is very guarded around men.
He is scared of being judged by other men so he learns at an early age to wear a mask around men. He masks his thoughts and disguises his emotions in an attempt to go along with the guys.
During his sexual development, he is intensely apprehensive of being ridiculed for his inherently sensitive side. As a result, he ends up becoming the most shut down instead of the most sensitive in the zodiac.
He is a born romantic. However, he may be well into his twenties before breaking through his adopted nonchalant exterior, letting his softer side show.
It isn’t until he “secures” a steady relationship that he will feel comfortable revealing his more delicate sensibilities.
Like actual crabs who can live on both land and water, the Cancer guy inhabits two worlds at once, presenting himself as a concrete, down-to-earth type while possessing a murky and mysterious sensuality.
He was brought up in a household with a paradoxical image of mothering. His mom was vaguely emotional but incredibly passive and needy. She portrayed herself as a victim most of the time which takes the entire household emotionally hostage.
Most of the time he is raised in a female-dominated household where he takes on the motherly role to his siblings and even to his own mother.
He has more of a brotherly relationship with his dad who he views as lovable but weak.
His dad could even be missing altogether, or be so detached that he makes little impact on his son.
Body + Soul (what they look like inside and out):
He prefers to look like he is rich even when he is not. So, he almost always has the perfect watch, a classy car, a tasteful wardrobe, etc.
He tends to look more like a Mr. Nice Guy more than any other male in the zodiac.
He is the type of guy that someone would feel comfortable bringing home to their mother.
He tends to downplay his appearance and will oftentimes escape notice.
He usually will hide behind an overgrown haircut, glasses, and/or inconspicuous clothing.
When he is with his friends he will huddle in close circles, typically only addressing those within earshot. He may even prefer to have his back to the crowd so people won’t notice him.
Usually he will be around five-nine or five-ten.
His face is moon-shaped, or oval.
His chest and stomach are not very toned, more on the soft side.
His nipples are highly sensitive. They may be a source of great pleasure for him.
He may have an hourglass figure in some way.
He is usually less hairy than the other men in his family. However, his stomach will be the area on his body that has the most hair.
He has an average sized penis.
His penis may bend/curve slightly with a bulbous mushroom head.
He is very animated while talking to people. He will nod along, throw his head back, talk with his hands, etc.
He is very quick-witted.
There is something goofy about him and the way he expresses himself that many find endearing.
He usually has lighter eyes than the other members of his family. For example he may have hazel eyes while everyone else in his family has brown eyes, or he may have pale blue eyes while others have deep blue.
He has a somewhat beaky nose and a pinched upper lip.
Cancer man much like an Aries man likes to focus much of his grooming efforts on having freshly cut hair.
He has very nice hands. Strong but gentle, artistic, graceful, and capable.
Overall, his appearance is one of utter sweetness.
Sex + Sexuality (what they are like in bed and what they look for in a mate):
Cancer Man Interested in Women:
He is made whole by the flood of feelings he invokes in his lover, not pure romantic love or lust, but such sentiment combined with a sense of mothering protection and, and dash, of pity.
He looks for a motherly figure in a lover—someone who will take care of him and lead him to his true potential.
He looks to attract a powerful alpha woman, one who he can breed with and who will provide a nourishing, motivational environment where he can feel psychologically whole.
This is where many stereotypes get it wrong. In no way is the Cancer Man looking for a coddling mommy to make his life easier; rather he seeks a home environment that’ll challenge him into accessing latent greatness, and with a woman who’ll put him through his paces.
He wants to be “adopted” by his partner's family. Preferably a family filled with powerful women.
He wants a wife or partner that will do everything for him. He wants a life where he will show up and just do what he is told.
He prefers to never have to cook, clean, or plan anything. He wants his partner to do it all for him.
He wants to be the breadwinner in his partnerships. Typically he will go after creative careers that allow him to tap into his sensitive side and communicate with a large array of people. He would prefer his career having to do with his humor.
However, if his partner is the breadwinner in their relationship he will take on the role of the stay at home husband and take over all of the duties I mentioned above.
To the Cancer man there is no such thing as sharing these roles. One person has to be the breadwinner and the other will take on the more domestic roles.
His partner will become his mentor shaping his character, providing the appropriate all-important healthy and motivating environment in which he can grow and achieve his goals; so long, that is , as he puts himself, completely, into her capable hands.
In most of his relationships his partner will become the ‘boss’ while he is her ‘slave’.
He will play prince-charming in order to get exactly what he wants out of a woman. Which usually is offspring.
He grooms himself according to what he thinks women like.
He makes women feel secure. He wants her to feel as though he will be eternally by her side, because once he decides on a partner he will never leave their side.
Women often find themselves opening up much more than they ever would have around a cancer man. However, if they really look they will notice that he is only half listening to them, he will just be pretending he is listening because he knows that's what a woman wants.
He is very good at making a woman feel that she is endlessly interesting, which works like a charm in paving the way for the relationship to progress-quickly-to the next level.
He is not very dominant in bed. This is because he would much rather be told what to do rather than be the one who is doing the telling.
At some point he will leave behind his ‘grateful-little-boy routine’ and embrace the role of ‘big daddy’ (his actual dream).
His biggest turn on is the assertion of female power.
Pressure to perform makes him nervous, and he risks losing his erection or cumming too soon if he is in a more dominant role.
He needs to have emotions involved in sex in order to get off.
He loves to kiss, hug, spoon, etc.
He wants his partner to be on top so he can watch her get off on him while simultaneously barking orders at him.
He may have urolagnia (urine kink) because Cancer rules pee.
He is not opposed to anal sex but if his partner does not want it he will not mention it again.
He dreams of being a woman's slave in sex.
However most Cancer men do not explore their kinkier side because they fear they may lose their partner if they do so.
They have a breeding kink and wish to impregnate their partner.
Cancer men tend to marry pretty early and have very few sexual partners in their life.
He is not opposed to period sex.
He also will want to have sex constantly when his partner is pregnant.
He likes morning sex and sleep sex.
Once his partner gives birth his new obsession will be her breast milk.
There is very little a woman can do to turn the Cancer man off.
Cancer Man Interested in Men:
Cancer men who are interested in men may still be sexually aroused by women. Or simply the sight of a man fucking a woman with his main focus on the man rather than the woman. This is why he will typically reach for bi porn.
In his lifetime at least one of his friendships with a woman may cross the line into sexual territory.
He prefers to be friends with younger women who share his desire to land ‘Mr.Right’.
He goes on many dates but will rarely go on second dates. Until he finds his ideal partner who is a ‘daddy’. They will be connected, cultured, and hopefully brimming with cash.
He looks for a man who will provide him comfort, security, and the means by which he’ll be able to concentrate solely on his creative or intellectual pursuit without having to concern himself with a temp job.
He will usually want a separate room from the one he shares with his lover that will be filled with things that reflect his true self. This is because he may have grown up in an environment that required him to share with his siblings constantly and may have never had a space to himself.
He’s often attracted to straight men. Or men who have been with women in the past. Or simply just ultra masculine men.
He sees himself as the better-looking, more pleasingly put together, or generally youthfully spirited one between him and his partner.
This attitude comes out in sex as well. He would prefer his partner to do all the work while he is the subject of their adoration.
He is pretty much into anything when it comes to sex. However, he will typically draw the line at anything to do with pain.
He loves love and all things that come with romance. He is once for tender romance, loving scented candles, champagne, and taking bubble baths together.
He wants to be of service to his partner. Preferring to get his partner off rather than himself.
He is one of the most romantic gay men of all the zodiac.
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