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abinitioart · 1 year
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Let the adults handle it!
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bouncinghedgehog · 5 months
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shadowofahope · 1 year
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Tell Me Again
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Warnings: Mentions of sexual relationship and nudity
Pairing: FWB! Jungkook x (f)reader
Premise: You always knew what your relationship was. You always knew he was still in love with his ex. Now she's back, but you won't let him avoid his feelings.
Author’s notes: Hey Babes! I'm sorry I've been gone so long. After a death in the family I found out I was pregnant. So far this pregnancy has been really rough and all I'm really able to do is sleep. I'm hoping now that I'm in my second trimester I'll have more energy and the brain fog will clear. In the mean time here's a little drabble for you! 💜
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“Tell me again why you’re here right now and not running to her hotel begging her to stay?” You chide him, watching his naked form climb out from under your covers. Gathering them around you, you keep yourself comfy in the after glow. But still manage to eye him curiously as he moves around your space collecting his clothes, searching his face for what should be an obvious answer. 
“It’s not that easy y/n” He groans in annoyance, pulling his jeans over his perk butt. The sounds of the metal of his zipper echo his uneasiness. Even after so many conversations about this topic it never seemed to get easier for him.
“Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy our little one on ones.” You throw a pillow at him, shifting his focus back to you. Quick reflexes he catches it before it collides with his still naked back. “But this is the same woman you’ve told me about since we became friends. The one you’ve never been able to forget. Her having to leave the country was the only reason for you breaking up, blah blah blah.” 
“Yes, that one. But…” His fists tighten on the white linen of the pillow. His demeanour morphing into something anxiety ridden. “What about …. This?”
“Jeon, we both agreed what this was, and still is. Nothing has changed on my end, we are still friends.” You smile affectionately at his concern. “Unless you’re inlove with me then i completely get it.”
“HA. HA.” You both burst into laughter. One of the bonus’ of having Jeon as your FWB was that you had agreed right at the beginning to keep an open line of communication. No lines would be crossed behind closed doors, no accidental feelings, no possiblility of heart break or a one-sided loss. And as much fun as you two had together, other than physically you weren’t eachothers type. You fit well in the bedroom, but you regularly annoyed one another. Your personalities were a bit much, so being casual friends that met up only because your friend groups crossed was the best decision to keep you from killing one another. 
“Besides your friend Mingyu looks like he could be fun.”
The smuggness in your voice is not lost on him as you feel the cool thump of a pillow landing on your bare back. “Be nice.”
“Just saying.” You grumble at him, sitting up allowing the sheet to slide off your skin leaving you bare in the chilled air. Neither of you react to it as you gather your hair to put it in a butterfly clip.
“I’ll give him your number then?” His smirk is still there as he rolls his eyes at you.
“You better.” Climbing out of bed you throw on your bra and sweater, sweat pants then glasses.  “Honestly though, if your source is as creditable as you say then not only does she have an 80% chance of staying, but she’s also single. And by what your friend has said, it sounds like she’s still in love with you too.”
He hesitates, “What if I ask her to stay… What if I tell her I still love her and she leaves again?”
“You would have done all you can, it’ll still hurt. But this time you’ll know there was no saving it.” You sigh, you don’t have all the answers he wants to hear. You can’t tell him she’ll stay and they’ll live happily ever after. 
They were both pursuing their careers, and unfortunately that took them away from eachother. But if it has brought her back and she can still grow here, with him…it would be worth the risk, in your opinion. 
You watch him pull his shirt over his head, covering his abs. Standing to the side as he grabs his shoes from where he discarded them on his hasty entrance, he sits on your bed to put them on.
He catches at you staring intently at him. 
“What? You want another round?” His stupid smirk and bunny teeth on full display as he cocks his head towards you. 
“Like you could manage.” You taunt.
“Maybe not after the last two, but I’m sure I could get you there atleast once more before I go.” His cockiness really knows no bounds sometimes. His face may scream innocence, but his sex drive and dirty mouth completely shatter that image. He saunters towards you in an overly sexualized way, making it more comical than if he was actually trying.
“Get out Jeon. We’ve spent too much time together this week, you’re starting to irk me.” You shove him towards your front door, genuine laugh coming from him as he lets you lead him out. 
“Yea yea. Like anyone could stand being with you any longer.” Sarcasm rolling off his lewd tongue, as you reach the door.
“Hey! I am a ball of sunshine. I’ll have you know people love my company!” You play up the hurt in your tone. You both knew you preferred being by yourself then with most company. It was a personality flaw you came to appreciate about yourself.
“Who exactly?” He mocks openly. “Drama characters don’t count.” 
“....…. Go!” You bark. No serious anger in your voice. 
“Bye bye” he scoots out your door, closing it behind him. You lock it, mind already going 100 miles an hour. You’d help him not loose this chance. Not again. 
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Heels clacking against the cement slabs beneath you, the fragrant bouquet increasing your determination every step. Dressed presentably in a nice dress, long coat to give an air of ease, you didn’t want to over dress but then again you didn’t want to show up in sweats. Today would be an important day.
The light breeze feels like it’s pushing you forward. You know exactly where to go, you’ve done your sleuthing from his friends. If he thought you would let this go he was sorely mistaken. You’d never let him pass up this opportunity, after all this time. Never forgetting, never willing to let go. 
Regardless, you weren't’ the type of person who sat by idly while your friend didn’t let himself an attempt at true happiness. 
Marching into the hotel lobby, you don’t slow your pace. Heading straight to the elevator and pushing the button for floor 12. You smile to yourself in the reflection of the mirrored walls. You had a good feeling about this. 
The chime brings you back and you step out onto the carpet, down the long hallway and stopping in front of room 1212.
Rolling your shoulders back you reach out and knock on the door. 
“Delivery!” You call pleasantly.
You hear a sweet voice through the door answer back, “coming!”
Shuffling comes through the wood before the door opens, “Yes?” 
“Special delivery from one Euphoria florists.” You hold out the bouquet of specially chosen flowers. You can see the look fash behind her eyes, the recognition of the name. A past she hadn’t forgotten, regret she still felt.
“There all-” Her voice trails off absently as she take them from you, examining each bulb and leaf.
“Your favourites Miss. This is a custom order for you, along with this card.” The astonishment in her eyes is not lost on you. Nonetheless you hold out the envelope patiently waiting for her to be ready to take it. When she comes back to herself she gently but hastily takes it from you.
“Oh, I’m sorry! Thank you Miss-?” An open ended question. One that you deemed unimportant for right now.
“Don’t worry about it.” You smile even brighter at her, taking a step back you take a step to leave, but you can’t help yourself. 
“Yuri?” You say her first name, you can see the surprise ripple through her. “He named it after you, Euphoria.”
“Who are you?” Her gentle voice taken over by a slight tremor. Panic or excitement, you weren’t too sure. 
“A friend.” 
She takes a moment to stare at the bouquet in her hands, slowly a small careful smile appears. That’s the one you were hoping for.
“Thank you.” She offers you a hopeful smile, her eyes now looking watery from the pooling tears.
You wave to her as you retreat down the hallway back towards the elevators. 
He was either going to grovel at your feet in thanks or you were going to get your ass kicked for the rest of eternity. Meh, you could take Jeon if necessary. 
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monstersmutpeddler · 3 months
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Ragoru
By: S.J. Sanders
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Monster Scale
Level 04: Actual Monster (Physically)
Werewolf men with four arms, eyes, and two dicks.
My Overall Rating For The Book
"I Bought The Book/Series And Want Them Signed Please Holy Shit"
The Ragoru stories continue with a super, super prequel! Hundreds of years in the past from Red (the first story in the series). Humanity has just started loosing access to their technology, but our leading lady is on a mission to help a far off mining town with a mysterious monster problem. On the way she's found by a lone Ragoru, then two more follow along. Adventures ensue.
Keep reading for ‘This Book Has Everything’ and possible Trigger Warnings.
This Book Series Has Everything
[x] Touch them and I’ll kill you vibes
[x] Main character that you want to smack for making some DUMBASS decisions
[x] Big buff love interest
[x] Miscommunication happens between leads at some point
[x] Plot first smut second
[x] Love interest goes on a rampage when main character is either hurt or kidnapped
[x] Girl ends the book pregnant or is pregnant
[x] Reverse Harem or Poly
[x] Couple bonds in a Bear Grylls survival situation
[x] Dude got an interesting dick
There's two!
[x] We’re escaping from the bad guys' prison/lab/etc.
Not really the bad guys, but the Ragoru do get out of a spaceship.
[x] Main character and love interest talk about their problems or tragic pasts and heal together
[x] There is something wrong with the current female population, hence humans
[x] Open communication
[x] The couple has equal power in the relationship
[x] Friends to lovers
[x] Lead or love interest gets injured and the lead or love interests drop everything to take care of them
[x] Happy Ending Guaranteed
[x] Super scary/dangerous but very gentle and sweet with the one they love
Here’s a link/buy the book!
Trigger Warnings
[x] Loss of a loved one
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laruuna · 1 year
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Acommission to draw original character
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starinthebasement · 10 months
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Having a conversation with someone about what to avoid calling or doing to them during sex is a key thing. You're doing this beautiful act to feel great and have a good time with your partner, open communication about those things is not optional. Be considerate of them and their traumas and let them do so for yours.
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erroraceart · 1 year
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Commission slots open for March! Five slots available, check my pinned post for examples and prices! dm me here or on discord (ErrorAce#8841)!
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I went on a date with this girl and she is really nice. We met through mutual friends. This was the first date with a girl I have ever been on (I’m still mostly closeted). We are planning to go out again, but I don’t know if I actually like her like that or if I just like the idea of her. I’m not sure what to do because if it turns out I don’t like her like that I really don’t want to hurt her. Is it bad to keep going out with her and see? I don’t want to use her because she’s been hurt really bad in the past
Hi anon, I'm sorry I couldn't get to this sooner. I know this is super duper late and the circumstances have probably vastly changed by now, but as a rule I try to answer every question anyway just in case the advice can be of any help.
I've definitely fallen in love with the idea of people before, and spent a lot of time daydreaming about the version of them in my head instead of getting to know the actual person. So although this may sound counterintuitive, because you don't want to lead a person on, really the only way to find out if you actually have feelings for a person rather than the idea of them is to spend more time getting to know that person! That's kind of the thing about early stages of dating (regardless of gender), it's just about getting to know each other and seeing if it leads anywhere.
And the best way to avoid hurt, confusion, or anyone getting the wrong idea about anything is to establish and maintain open communication about how you feel so that people know where they stand in a situation. That way, everyone is on the same page and they know where you're coming from. All relationships run the risk of hurt, that's just human nature, but by being honest and clear about your feelings and what you want in your relationships you can minimize that risk.
I hope this makes sense and I wish you the best of luck with wherever you're at now. <3
Take care,
Sappho 💝
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craycraybluejay · 1 year
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I don't believe that pleasure is ever bad but I do believe that hurting others is bad, because other people deserve to feel good and be happy too. The exact line I draw is always "does this hurt someone in a way they don't want it to" (basically; excluding sadomasochism and whatnot). I cannot definitively say what constitutes as harm in every case and know that I can only speak for myself and my own experiences and feelings and others can also only speak for themselves. I think we need to have more open conversations about pleasure and hurt and being ethical and mindful of others in the pursuit of your own happiness. A lot of bad can be prevented by having honest conversations about hurt and fear but unfortunately most people fear honesty. And maybe rightfully so. Fear and a lack of communication and connection turns all of us against each other. This is what authoritarians want. We may think the vulnerability of honesty is dangerous and scary but what's even more dangerous and scary is not being able to turn to anyone when you feel an injustice has happened against you because you're so scared of everyone else and everyone else is so scared of you. I know I ramble a lot but I think it's genuinely important to be willing to put yourself out there and take the first step in repairing mindsets of fear and weaponized ignorance. Talk about sex, talk about culture, talk about neurological differences. I wish when people talked they meant the words coming out of their mouths and never closed off their minds but always kept a sharp wit. Rant over
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jasminumtea · 1 year
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Hello!! ✨COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN ✨
I have 10 slots open rn and will be trying to get these done as soon as I can. Please feel free to reach out via DM or email if you have any questions :D
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the-shouji-kingdom · 2 years
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I have job interviews coming up so fingers crossed, but till then I just need to keep myself afloat.
I’m sorry to ask, but I am running out of options and bills to pay :(
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skipthepreface · 1 year
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absterstuff · 1 month
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this is the most horrifying thing I’ve ever seen jesus fucking christ
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monstersmutpeddler · 3 months
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I Married A Beast (Prime Mating Agency)
By: Regine Abel
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Monster Scale
Level 04: Actual Monster (Physically)
He's got double of everything (eyes, arms, some internal organs, and dicks).
My Overall Rating For The Book
"I Bought The Ebook or Will Read On Kindle Unlimited"
This book was fun. I really enjoy this whole series, and I love seeing background characters from other books appear in their own stories (this guy is a side character in book 02, a hunter). Dude is a bit rough around the edges, and at times is a bit of a dick, but he does redeem himself.
The only thing I'm still miffed about is a scene where Bayron really should've communicated to his bride what was expected at his planet's ceremonies. That's not a diss on the book; just know that Bayron is also a bit of a dumbass that does redeem himself later.
Belle was fine, if not a bit too thirsty and ready to go. XD She isn't my favorite of the female leads, but she's got a fun dynamic with Bayron.
Overly Simplified Summary
Belle is absolutely ECSTATIC to finally find her soul mate and is ready to GET MARRIED. Bayron is basically the man of her dreams, but he's got some growing to do, and needs some redemption from his past that Belle is perfect to assist in.
Keep reading for ‘This Book Has Everything’ and possible Trigger Warnings.
This Book Series Has Everything
[x] Touch them and I’ll kill you vibes
[x] Big buff love interest
[x] Soul mates or fated mates
[x] Miscommunication happens between leads at some point
Cultural differences, but they work them out.
[x] Plot first smut second
[x] Girl ends the book pregnant or is pregnant
[x] Straight
[x] One’s a sunshine and the other is a grump
[x] Dude got an interesting dick
We got too penises.
[x] Open communication
[x] The couple has equal power in the relationship
[x] Kinky af sex
We get some double penetration, etc.
[x] Lead or love interest gets injured and the lead or love interests drop everything to take care of them
[x] Happy Ending Guaranteed
[x] Super scary/dangerous but very gentle and sweet with the one they love
Here’s a link/buy the book!
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As someone who has undergone healthcare training in Washington, DC, you understand the demands of the job and the importance of maintaining a healthy balance. Here are some valuable tips to help you navigate the challenges of balancing work and personal life effectively:
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hsmagazine254 · 24 days
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Resolving Workplace Conflicts: Strategies for Effective Resolution
Resolving Workplace Conflicts: Strategies for Effective Resolution In any workplace, conflicts among employees can arise, leading to tension and decreased productivity. Here are some strategies to effectively resolve disputes:   Strategies for Effective Resolution: Open Communication: Encourage open and honest communication between conflicting parties to understand each other’s perspectives and…
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