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drchucktingle · 5 months
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i have copied this comment without name because i think it is very kind and respectful and i do not want buckaroos interpreting it the wrong way. PLEASE UNDERSTAND this buckaroo is very sincere and has important points and please respect their way. i am going to answer in a way that is counter to their point and i do not want buds to go after them IN ANY WAY. THEY ARE PROVING LOVE AND THEY HAVE GOOD POINTS
okay here is what i have to say:
i have not transitioned and in this lifetime i do not expect to. i think you have a good point of 'how can you know?' and honestly i cannot know that is just how timelines and reality and perception work
HOWEVER i must caution against this train of thought slightly because what works for one buckaroos MAY NOT WORK for another. every time i talk about my non-dysphoric way there are plenty of well meaning buds, particularly fellow trans buds, who show up with posts in the tone of 'its only matter of time.' like i just do not understand yet.
this reminds me of bisexual buckaroos who are told 'you just do not know you are gay yet'. as difficult as it is to step out of our own dang minds, i implore buckaroos to accept that there VERY JOYFUL AND FULFILLED NON-DYSPHORIC TRANS BUCKAROOS who do not need to transition and never will and are healthy and happy without that. just like there are bisexual buckaroos who are not just on their way to being gay
a good way to look at it is like this: I LOVE MY MALE BODY. i think i am a very handsome buckaroo. i have masculine features in my muscle and height and frame. as far as how fate could have placed me on this timeline I WON MY OWN PERSONAL FOOTRACE. i am up on the podium and i am standing here with a medal around my neck. GOOD JOB CHUCK
HOWEVER when i look down i see that medal is silver. i am not going to lie and say it is gold. it is silver.
YES my gold medal is a female body. that is an objective truth to my trot. i believe my gender way is that of a women, but there is no part of me that is upset about where i have placed.
I GOT SILVER. i am not upset. there is no tragedy. in fact i am OVERWHLEMED WITH JOY not just to be on the podium but to be in this race in the first place. HECK YEAH I DID IT AND I GOT A MEDAL
of course this is not to dismiss the difficult journey of others. many do not feel the way i do and their trot is VALID. a dysphoric way matters and is important and these voices are important. they should be elevated and supported. i understand some do not share this podium imagery, and they feel PAINED by trappings of their body.
i feel so much for this. i understand and care for my dysphoric buds, but the simple truth is that is not my story. i cant just lie and say that it is.
it will never be my story. i cannot say this enough: i love my body. however i STILL believe my truest way is that of a ladybuck. if it was a simple button push to change me, then i would push it without hesitation.
but it is not a simple button push.
talk to almost any buckaroo who has transitioned and they will say 'transitioning is hard'. it takes time and work and money and emotional support. i am in awe of the bravery of buckaroos who trot this path, but all of that is not worth it for something that i already feel good about. SCRATCH THAT, i feel GREAT ABOUT. i feel overwhelmed with joy every day over just existing in this male body that i have been blessed with. YES buckaroo, i feel joy existing in a male body that i know is ladybuck on the inside. it feels interesting a cool and exciting.
but my truest way is STILL a ladybuck trot
i guess i am just trying to say that i love second place. im happy to celebrate it. i think my male body is really dang cool. it is not a 'perfect me' but it is really dang awesome, and i never really bothered with trying to be perfect
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sirenium · 9 months
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You're allowed to like being trans.
You're allowed to hate being trans.
You're allowed to not feel strongly about your trans identity.
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graytheory · 2 years
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One of the arguments of transmeds against non-dysphoric folks transitioning is "well, if you don't have dysphoria now, you WILL have it if you transition"
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No? That's not how this works?
If that were the case, I would've felt dysphoria the moment I put on men's clothes before I even got on T, but wearing men's clothes causes me euphoria.
If that were the case, I would've felt dysphoria when my voice dropped on T - but I didn't. I love it.
If that were the case, I would've felt dysphoria upon realizing I was growing stomach hair, but I didn't - the realization made me even more euphoric.
If that were the case, bottom growth should've made me horrified and disgusted - but it absolutely doesn't, and I love my tdick.
So anyway, suck it, transmeds. I'm a non-dysphoric transmasc taking testosterone and I'm just getting happier and happier.
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btw i love non-dysphorics. Any transmed that tries to claim that “real trans people don’t support non-dysphorics!!1!” is dead wrong. I have dysphoria so bad that I’ve had days where I can’t even get up to eat bc of it, and I know perfectly well that a non-dysphoric is just as trans as I am.
Stop trying to measure “transness” by how much a person suffers. We’re all suffering right now, dysphoric or not. I hold nothing but love and respect for all my non-dysphoric trans siblings out there <3
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fixing-bad-posts · 1 year
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[ID: A Tumblr post edited in blackout poetry style. The text once transcribed reads:
Hi all you lovely people!
Here's some positivity to those who need it:
To all nondysphoric trans boys! ❤️
To all nondysphoric trans girls! 🧡
To all nondysphoric nonbinary people! 💛
To all demi girls! 💚
To all demi boys! 💙
To all otherkin oriented genders! 💜
To all genderfluid people! 🖤
To all people who are nondysphoric who don't I didn't mention! 💖
You're all 🌈
Each and every one of you!! 🌸
trans people
huge positivity to all the people I just mentioned!! 🌼
kings of the trans community 🌻
/end ID]
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Submitted by @luzter
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genderstarbucks · 7 months
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can you make a
Non-Dysphoric transwomanflag
Non-Dysphoric transman flag
Non-Dysphoric nonbinary flag
Non-Dysphoric trans flag
Non-dysphoric Nonbinary / Trans Man / Trans Woman!!
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Non-dysphoric Transgender
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Non-dysphoric Nonbinary | Non-dysphoric Trans Man | Non-dysphoric Trans Woman
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Call me all sorts of nasty things but I don’t think a person NEEDS dysphoria to be trans
To me gender is a matter of self perception and a pursuit of comfort and happiness. Do you perceive yourself as a gender different from the one you were assigned at birth? Does it make you more comfortable and happy to be perceived this gender and to identify with this gender? If yes than that’s enough to make you trans
Being trans isn’t about suffering or hating your body, it’s about identifying yourself as a gender different from your birth and finding happiness in that. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
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Hello fellow non-dysphorics! You’re looking very pretty/handsome/beautiful today.
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mogaiundead · 10 months
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New term just dropped
Dysphoriapunk
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A movement focused around complex gender dysphoria experiences and radical inclusion.
Dysphoriapunk supports:
Non-dysphoric trans people
Dysphoric cis people
Xenogenders and neopronouns
Gender nonconformity and pronoun nonconformity
Other “contradictory” labels
Dysphoriapunk does not support:
Transmedicalism
Transid/transx
Radqueers
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nightfallsystem · 2 years
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if the thought of you "faking it" makes you anxious or scared, and you didnt just decide to fake it, then you arent faking.
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joestarkisser · 4 months
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tw// gender dysphoria mention.
Are you a transfem/transmasc selfshipper who doesn't have dysphoria?
No genital dysphoria?
No chest dysphoria?
No hip dysphoria?
No body dysphoria at all?
No voice dysphoria?
No behavior dysphoria?
No social dysphoria?
No dysphoria at all?
Are you a transfem/transmasc selfshipper who has a 'bad' identity?
Bi/pan/ply/omni/etc lesbian?
Bi/pan/ply/omni etc gay?
Straight lesbian?
Straight gay?
Trans man lesbian?
Trans woman gay?
Neopronouns?
Use pronouns aligning with your AGAB?
Anything considered 'atypical'?
Are you a transfem/transmasc selfshipper who's more comfortable being trans then they would be cis?
Who's still comfortable with being called a man or woman?
Are you a transmasc selfshipper who wants surgeries like breast augmentation, yet still are trans men?
Are you a transfem/transmasc selfshipper who has no desire to pass?
Are you a transfem/transmasc selfshipper who has no desire to transition, be it medically or otherwise?
Everything about you is valid.
Your F/Os love you.
Your gender, your identity, is a personal and unique experience.
No matter if you're 'bad' for all this, or if people blame oppression on you...
Your F/Os know you. They understand you. You are loved.
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draconic-absurdism · 1 year
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MANLIKER MONDAY, T4T TUESDAY, WET WENESDAY, TDICK THURSDAY, FRUITY FRIDAY, SEXY SATURDAY, SULTRY SUNDAY
(he/him for all characters)
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sirenium · 6 months
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'You need dysphoria to be trans' motherfuckers when they realize the 'trender' they 'called out' for having xenogenders is a dysphoric trans person: erm actually you're still not trans cuz I don't understand you! >:(
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404shcats · 11 months
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Can I just say that I hate that in most places a dysphoria diagnosis is required for medical transition, like bro just let me transition I just want to be more comfortable in my body. Why do you care that I don’t have gender dysphoria, it’s my body let me do what I want. On another note, y’know what would be kinda poggers? If we didn’t get death threats from other trans people when we express our want to medically transition. (/passive aggressive for that last one)
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pickle-the-lad · 2 years
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I've been having a pretty bad dysphoria week, but that reminded me of something that pisses me off...
So I'm going to take this chance to distract myself and do a little PSA.
I'm not trans because of dysphoria
And I'm not transitioning because of dysphoria!
I'm not transitioning because I'm uncomfortable with my face shape. I'm transitioning because I've been dreaming about facial hair since I was eight!
I'm not transitioning because I hate my voice! I love my voice! it's adorable!! but it doesn't match the one in my head; My Deep, Gravelly, Masculine voice.
I'm not transitioning because some days my chest dysphoria is so bad I have to hold my breath, for the possibility to just tame it a little bit. I'm transitioning because the idea of having a flat chest with scars following my pec line makes me feel sexy~
I'm not transitioning because not having a phallic like object in my pants, makes me act like a dick! Not because my period makes me want to end it all! I'm transitioning because it feels like I should have something dangling between my legs!
I'm not a man because of dysphoria, I'm a man because I am.
It doesn't matter my biology, how I transition, the clothes I wear, the pronouns I use: I'm a man because I say I am.
You can apply this to any gender, because it's an emotion!
My doctor would've gettin into a shit ton of trouble if I told them I was depressed and they responded "No you're not, I know what depressed looks and you're not it"
The same thing should go for any gender modality! Because if you fully transition and then realize it wasn't for you, then you had to go through the whole thing to find that out!
There is no shame in that because emotions are fucking complicated! if it wasn't, anyone could be a psychologist!!
You're FUCKING TRANS ENOUGH and DON'T LET THAT LITTLE BASTARD inside your head or anyone else TELL YOU OTHERWISE!
You are worthy of love! and you deserve a body you feel at home in!!
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genderstarbucks · 6 months
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Trendervember Day 5: Nondysphoric!!
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