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How to stop oversharing?
Slow down: Always pause and think before you speak
Consider anything you share with someone who hasn't earned your complete trust or whom you have a transactional relationship with to be a PSA; Don't trust anything to be confidential with someone you don't fully trust
Reflect on why you overshare in the first place: Do you use it as a tool to soothe social anxiety or pauses in a conversation? Are you lonely or feel like it's a struggle to feel heard/seen/appreciated in your everyday life? Start journaling and/or go to a therapist to work through these very valid emotional wounds
Give yourself a "do's" and "don'ts" list on topics you will and won't discuss at work, different social events, with certain acquaintances, family members, etc., and stick to it
When you feel yourself starting to overshare, take a pause and ask the other person about themselves – it makes you show the other person you're interested in connecting and gives you time to think/reflect on what you should or shouldn't say
Hope this helps xx
#social skills#oversharing#social anxiety#life skills#people skills#meeting new people#work life#social life#new friends#relationship tips#interpersonal skills#interpersonal relationships#self improvement#self reflection#self worth#self awareness#q/a#femmefatalevibe
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Finding and maintaining new adult friendships seem nerve wrecking to me. I overthink and undermine myself then become a nervous mess, while my brain is on a loop - what it they think I don't look good, what if they don't have a positive impression of me, what if they deem I can't mingle with them freely ... and so on 😔
#adulting#adulting is hard#life#friendships#meeting new people#friendship#text#mine#personal#thinking#life updates
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Well i mean if purple guy is already taller than my bean
OFC NIJI WILL BE TALLER??
(The Oc is from @clownpallete :D)
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I think this dog is good and wants to be my friend. I'm too scared.
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A lot of people say that they would never agree to go on a dangerous "choosen one" journey if it happened to them in real life for some reason
Me? I'm so gullible and naive that if a total stranger was just a little bit kind to me and didn't ask for anything suspicious I would totally go on a quest for them.
Reward? No no, the adventure is the reward, the break in routine, the sight of new places and new people, the conversations and connections it would bring me, the adrenaline, leaving your normal life and worries for an temporary objective you can feasibly reach.
I lack all of that being at home all the time so I would gladly interact with any charismatic stranger that might have a mission for me
#I might get kidnapped#stranger danger#going out#sightseeing#meeting new people#talking to myself#chosen one trope#alone at home
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#daily dose of sunshine#kdrama#bar scene#singing#drinking#meeting new people#to be surrounded by people#hotpot
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✧ Now that I finished this post, I can post my first ever Art vs. Artist for 2023! ✧
✧ Sadly, I didn't get to draw as much as I wanted this year, (also considering my files got deleted), but I'm still proud of the art I did manage to get done, and I enjoy seeing my improvement every year. ✧
✧ A lot, and I mean a lot happened this year, but I look forward to what I create next. ❤️🌸 ✧
#art vs artist#my art#digital art#original art#so much happened this year holy moly#i did not accomplish my new years evolution of posting one art piece each month#BUT#i am still proud of what i was able to do with how busy i got#new job#new house#getting proposed too#meeting new people#just...wow#this was the year of the rabbit for me haha#happy new year#face reveal jumpscare ooooh!!!
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Do any of my Tumblr friends or anyone who is female want to message me & get to know me? I want to meet new friends today but have to be consanguinamory & incest friendly & non judgemental
#slide into my dms#slide in the dms#tumblr messaging#message me#tumblr messenger#meet new people#meet friends#meeting new people
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hi! do you know what hobbies would be good for meeting new people and socialising? thank you
Hi love! I would say to consider the following hobbies/activities:
Yoga/Pilates
Dance/Workout classes
Cooking classes
Art/Pottery classes
Language learning classes
Jewelry-making/Perfume-making class
Writers' group/Writing class
Book club
Trivia/Board games
Chess
Any group sports (basketball, soccer, volleyball, etc.)
Group tennis/swimming/boxing classes
Horseback riding/Golf lessons
Ice skating classes
Skiing/Snowboarding classes
Sailing/Rowing/Surfing
Hiking/Running
Volunteering
Wine, beer, & spirits tours/tastings
Open mic/Improv
Bartending/Mixology
Floral arrangement/Gardening
Knitting/embroidery
Woodworking
Bowling
Food Styling
Image Consulting
Caligraphy classes
Podcasting/Photography/Filmmaking
Hope this helps xx
#hobbies#making friends#new friends#friend advice#socializing#social interaction#local events#meeting new people#learn new skills#learn new things#friendship#femmefatalevibe#q/a
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Where about on Kansas ... I have some jeepers in KC area...
I'm thinking about Junction City or Manhattan area, which is why I was looking into the Flint Hills Jeep club. Investigating options and trying to figure out how to meet new people.
I'm open to ideas..
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Nobody asks fun questions anymore. What do you do for work? What's your sign? Are you from this city? You come here a lot?
If someone asked me my favorite star wars villain or my least favorite dinosaur at this point I would be married ALREADYY
I'm talking about when you are like in a social situation and people ask things. Not necessarily a pick up but like a hey... idk.
I need to discuss real stuff LMAO
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trying not to post too much during the strike to keep focus on Everything but I need to get out of my head a lil
#took a gap year because school was killing me#then the year I wanted to go to college covid started and then since then I’ve been rotting in my room becoming more and more disabled#it’s.#going to be scary this year trying to undo all the damage and anxiety#meeting new people#trying to really act like a 23 year old#being a freshman in college at 23 was never my plan but I thought I was going to die at 19#things have changed. I.. left a lot of people behind due to that thinking#and undiagnosed bpd#and it sucks. I keep having dreams abt hs and realizing that I was never alone#and im not alone now even though sometimes it feels like it#im taking my health into my own hands and actually trying to live instead of watching my life go by and it’s weird taking a front seat again#not in the did sense. I’ve had a pretty tight rein on the front for the last few years#but. im trying to be a person again. seeing myself as a person again#I uh. am 99 percent sure I have nerve damage. I have to talk to my pcp about it next time after the next few tests I take#and um wow. it really affects my hands and fingers#and as you all know me and my butch have a comic we’re working on together#I see as you know like ppl r actually gonna read this lmao fhdha well besides you. 👁️👁️#jk sorry it that triggered anyone’s paranoia im just sillay. but yeah I uh#never have worked on something this long and this hard before PAUSE. And uh it means a lot to the both of us. we have so many comic ideas#but so far sys! is the one nearest and dearest to my heart and the idea that I won’t be able to draw it after spending years practicing#to get better and better uh hurts. I’d uh rather be in pain making the comic than live never making it#but it’s not just abt me in the end isn’t it. I miss people I used to know#random thought sorry. accidentally found someone I used to know in the wild and then it clicked after I followed them. felt like it would#be weird to take it back so now im just hoping im not recognized mostly out of. shame I guess. idk. I don’t remember things well#memory problems + bpd lying to me yknow. but uh. idk maybe these dreams and these feelings mean that in order to reach my dreams I have to l#like. honour the weird kid that I was and by doing that#I have to acknowledge that shit I abandoned everyone before they could abandon me. and maybe that’s just how I see it now#maybe no one actually gave a shit and I just faded out of existence for fun but avoiding things is how I ended up perpetually in my bedroom#barely able to stand and very scared of the world. how I ended up not improving at art for years because I was to scared to something difrnt
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Ok y’all getting ready to leave… wish me luck 🍀
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