#im very aroace
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Some things I feel like we rarely talk about:
Aces who were pressured to have sex when they were in a relationship even though they didn’t want to do it
Aces who are afraid to get into a relationship because they fear they’d feel pressured to have sex
Aroaces who are scared of being alone their entire life
Aces who read posts saying that them not having sex with their partner is abusive
Aros being surrounded by couples
Aroaces feeling pressured to find great friends and/or passions in life not to feel left out
I feel you all <3
#aroace#aromantic#aromantic asexual#asexual#ace community#ace#im very aroace#aro#I feel like we really are invisible sometimes
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ACES!!! Look at this Scientific American article!!! It makes me genuinely so happy to read. We’re making it!!!!
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/asexuality-is-finally-breaking-free-from-medical-stigma/
#asexual#demisexual#ace pride#queer#lgbtq#aromantic#aroace#GUYS READ IT PLEASE IM SO HAPPY!!!#update y’all check notes for the time traveling! I’m very honored ppl think I’m some ace time traveling god though. just for science article
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as an aroace, im particularly dangerous, because i wont fuck or marry. i only know how to kill.
#aroace#aromantic#asexual#asexuality#ace#aro#im so glad you guys are enjoying this stupid post i made at work#okay i wrote that at 3000 notes but what the FUCK is happening#10000 notes on this no effort fmk post and not one aspec i know irl#dgmw im still very happy that yall are enjoying this post but also like. come hang out with meeeeee :(
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"that character isn't aromantic" actually they are because i'm aromantic and i said that they are. hope this helps
#i dont even engage in fandom very heavily/have aro headcanons#im just a big fan of everything i touch becoming aro#aro#aromantic#arospec#aroace#aspec#1k#5k#6k#7k
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How long do yall think its gonna take the anime only dungeon meshi fans to realize that not only is marcille not the fanservice character, but that several different characters think shes outright ugly/unsettling and that senshi is canonically so hot to half-foots that chilchuck refuses to introduce him to his daughters?
#dungeon meshi#dungeon meshi spoilers#i guess we have to tag this now??#marcille donato#senshi dungeon meshi#i still think laios is very attractive but im aroace and an autistic bio major so…#aroace but would risk it for an earnest biology man
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while teen while goblin while aroace while injured while doing your best
#fantasy high junior year#fhjy#riz gukgak#figueroth faeth#sklonda gukgak#dimension 20#this. mmmmhhh this is so. I did Not know how to draw this really.#I am very normal about riz (<- lying)#it's a brennan-dm d20 campaign the bad guy is always capitalism (I am saying this with clenched teeth)#riz out of all of them being aroace fucks with me SO bad. bc its also established that elmsville specifically and probably the#majority of solace is not. made for goblins. and that becomes sklonda being worked to the bone and pok dying on the job#and riz spending all his time trying to keep his friends together. maybe to the point of it being injurous#like. do u get what I mean. its an economy of time it takes your time it eats up your time#not just the gukgaks but everyone you have to spend time to get to live and you don't have a lot of time left in a day#and you have to spend it carefully. you have to prioritize#you're somewhere without an established community and companionship is bought with your time spent working#this place doesn't take care of you. at the end of the day who do you have who'd prioritize you. do you understand me#the evolved aroace loathing where if your friends and family are granted more time nobody would have to choose. we live in a society#holds ur hand we live in a society. idk if Im making any sense#anyway . uhhh riz is my favourite that's my statement thank you for listening. au revoir
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aro besties, people who think they might be aro, people who used to be aro, cishet aro men, all people who are anywhere on the aro spectrum
i would like to wish you a very good and warm soups for all of time 👍 your worth is not defined by your label, you are queer and we love you
#aro#aromantic#aroace#arospec#im not aro but a very dear friend of mine is#i wish yall nothing but the best
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putting off my angst wips to push an agenda lol
#dungeons and daddies#dndads#sparrow oak garcia#lark oak garcia#rebecca oak swallows garcia#normal oak swallows garcia#get it? swallow like the bird sparrow-weaver like the bird idk it's 5am and i think its fun#this is purely for a target one (me)#sparrow & rebecca feel very 'dated romantically in hs but woke up one day and just stared at each other in the kitchen like huh interesting#im on the aroace spectrum so this is just me claiming both of them bc they amuse me#also for flag context we got greyromantic demiromantic and greysexual (& bi but we all know that one lol)#my artwork
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I feel like sometimes, aro/ace/aroace positivity posts can accidentally exclude us non gold star holders, so reminder:
if you are ace and have had consensual sex in the past but don't want it anymore, you are still ace
if you are aro and have had a romantic relationship in the past but don't want one anymore, you are still aro
yes, even if the "past" was last week, yes, even if these things happened while you were already identifying as ace/aro/aroace, yes, even if you enjoyed them, yes, even if you didn't, yes, even if you're neutral, yes, even if you'd be willing to try again. (and of course, aces/aros/aroaces who still do those things/have those relationships are just as ace/aro/aroace as the rest of us)
and especially
yes, even if you are sex and/or romance repulsed now
#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aspec#arospec#aroacespec#aromantic positivity#asexual positivity#aroace positivity#seren yaps#im not a gold star holder and have had sex and romantic relationships but im sex repulsed and romance neutral now#and sometimes i feel very much like a faker because of it#gold star rhetoric is hurtful and dangerous#so this is as much a positivity post for me as it is for all yall#i love u (platonically)#i appreciate you (for the loveless among us)
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Things that are way better than sex, kissing and romance:
good food
entertaining book
well-made Netflix show
going to bed at 10 pm
music that gives you goosebumps
music you can loudly singalong to while driving
movies you can watch 10 times and they are still great
learning languages
looking at art
wearing comfy clothes
feeling warm, cozy and hyggelig
staying up all night reading
#aroace#aromantic#aromantic asexual#asexual#im very aroace#ace#ace community#aro#aroace community#aro community#things better than sex#hygge#hyggelig#reading#books#movies#tv shows#sleeping#music
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Being ace is an opposite of fuck around and find out:
Fuck nobody and never know for sure
#never knowing is actually a very important part#bc you learn that you dont care and you dont wait for that ✨special someone✨#if something changes: cool#if nothing changes: cool#i dont need to be sure to be okay with my sexuality#and i dont need proof for others if i want to use one label or another#peace and love on planet earth#humans have too short lives for random people telling them they can't live their life how they want#asexual#asexuality#aroace#ater babbling at 2 am#hello new followers time to disappoint you 💖#also im sex repulsed. but if you are not? then fuck and never know for sure ✨#its literally 2am i really should stop and think before posting something. but dis a problem for a future fish#Right now fish wants to post their stupid post
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some of the less nice thoughts about being aroace
extras below the cut
sketch
closeups on my favorite panels
bonus: adios
#doodles#kingdom hearts#roxas#axel#olette#aromantic#asexual#aroace#do i tag pence. hes in the background of one panel#ehhhh sorry pence no tag for you#also not tagging soriku and namixi#i mean by the logic of 'theyre in one panel so i wont tag them' i also shouldnt tag axel but. he has dialogue so#anyways i have a very irrational love of olette whenever i need a random side character in a kh comic? olette#i think she uses webmd. anyways im done talking about olette#so let me clarify about this comic#im aroace. this is all just things ive thought before#im not saying in any way these thoughts are real. theyre just thoughts#thats why it ends with 'but there isnt. its just me.' there IS nothing wrong with being aroace. even if it feels like it sometimes#im not trying to send a message im just trying to express a feeling ive had for a while#anyways. the aroace community is super positive and i like that. but not everything i feel about it is that positive#sometimes it feels like im missing something yknow#this comic seems like its about roxas. but its about me. congrats youve been fooled#drafted something similar to this for aro week but didnt finish it in time so this is spiritually part of asaw 2024#btw sorry im not posting as many drawings lately#schools kinda stressful im pretty tired and busy most the time#i am throwing this drawing to you like a slab of meat to a pack of hungry dogs. take this meager ration in these trying times#alright i think thats it bye now
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*im using "dating" to refer to any kind of romantic relationship, it just fits neater in the boxes! interpret as u see fit
pls leave your thoughts in the tags im genuinely very curious
#look ok yknow how a lot of ace people tend to be sexually active for whatever reason#im kinda wondering if the same principle applies here#my GUESS is that it does but also the two are very different#i feel like most people are more likely to compromise/want to branch out with sex rather than dating#like...sleeping with a partner even tho youre ace? makes sense#dating someone for months even when youre aro? makes less sense#idk im having Thoughts#reblog pls!!!!#aromantic#aromantism#aroace#lgbtqia#polls
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aromantic pride. love loses
#this is so fucking. so fucking funny to me. but im also very tired so#aro#aromantic#arospec#aroace#aspec#1k#2k#3k#4k
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hi tumblr, me again.
i don't think i like being aroace very much. there was a very short 6 months of my life when i did, and took pride in it, then after that i just accepted i had to co-exist with it. now i think i'm finally resenting it.
i'm not like any of my friends, even my only aroace friend who is someone i care about more than anyone else in the whole world... yet i still feel like i'm on a different planet to them because i'm sex-repulsed and they're not.
i'm constantly gonna be behind everyone in my life, this is a truth i've always known, but its as if it's only catching up to me now.
i'm now the weird one. i'm nineteen, i'm an adult... i'm now the weird one that i don't really drink, i've never kissed anyone, i'm not on dating apps, i never want to have sex... i'm no longer acting my age, i'm just acting like a child.
#pov i think im going through heartbreak?#this is a very weird time in my life#no one put on grow up by baby queen around me i will start sobbing#aromantic#asexual#aro#ace#aroace#asexuality#aromanticism#actually asexual#actually aromantic
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>>Trying to find an aroace character in a media that isn't a side character / a character that only showed up once in an episode and never again
>> after years I actually manage to find one that is one of the main characters
>> the fandom ships them with everyone and sexualises the hell out of them
>>oh
>> they use the "but aroace can still date and fuck!" excuse, which is valid as fuck but
>>the character is implied to not want/do that. Because while yes some aroace do have/want relationships, others don't.
>>they still use some kind of excuse to continue it
>>When I, an aroace person with no interest in a relationship, decide to speak up about the discomfort that causes me I get sushed and told that I get too mad over a fictional character
>>yea I do acknowledge they're a fictional character, yea I do acknowledge that I can't just magical make them stop shipping and sexualising them. Cuz they're not real after all. What bothers me is that it's a common and popular thing in the fandom. I wouldn't had minded it if there wasn't so much of it, especially cause they're so many other characters they can sexualise and ship. And that while they're a fictional character, their sexuality isn't. Aroace people exist. Aroace people that don't want relationships or sex exist. By taking this one character with the little rep we have, and sexualising the hell out of them even tho they don't want this kind of stuff. It really gives me a good look that you don't actually think we're real. That everyone has to want sex, that everyone wants to be in a relationship.
>>it gets even worse cause they get pissed when the lesbian character is shipped with a man. Valid as fuck. I do too. But when it's the aroace character... it's suddenly okay?
>>they don't care so why do I even bother
#...this is aimed#VERY specific aimed#of course Im talking about#Alastor#aroace#aromantic#asexual#preying rn#I just know that I'll make a so called 'ally' mad by saying this#whatever#Alastor they don't deserve you I'm gonna steal you away from them
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