guys is it normal to literally only update your friends on your romantic life or are my friends just so allo it hurts?
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Aspec representation is important because kids are still told in health class that everyone feels attraction
Aspec representation is important because somewhere in the world there’s a 12 year old crying because they feel broken
Aspec representation is important because I still get told “that’s not real” when I come out
Aspec representation is important because people still think the A in LGBTQIA+ stands for ally
Aspec representation is important because everyone deserves to see someone like them on screen
Aspec representation is important because people still think that asexual and aromantic are the same thing
Aspec representation is important
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Being aroace is so cool, but so, so hard sometimes. Watching all the persons you hold dear finding *their* person. Grieving the idea of an allo relationship. Realizing that, maybe, somehow, you're the second choice fo everyone. Because friends are great, but **lovers** are the goal in our society.
Most of the time, i am sooo happy to be aroace. And then, when im alone in bed, at 3 am, i find myself crying by fear of being alone.
And I think it's normal. It's grieving a certain way of thinking. And it's hard, especially when you were raised this way, and that everyone keeps doubting your identity.
So yeah. Shout-out to all the aroace people, wanting a deeper connection, without wanting romantic love.
I love y'all
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shoutout to aroace people who survived their relatives' invasive questions about boyfriends and girlfriends i'm proud of you
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Be careful what you ask for dad,
Happy ace week!
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Aro/ace people when they remember the aro/ace character who is cured with the "power of love" from some shit 2000's show:
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“College is about SEX and DRUGS and PARTIES” it’s been a month and the majority of people I’ve met have been asexual
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The little moment when Isaac grabbed the copy of Ace and held it to his chest 🥺🖤🩶🤍💜
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okay, as someone on both the ace and aro spectrums, there is nothing wrong with shipping aroace characters.
it is a Spectrum, and just like there are sex favorable aces, sex neutral ones, and sex averse ones (or people like myself who are somewhere in between!), there is more than one way to identify as aro. for fucks sake, please stop harassing people in fandom for shipping things because it doesn't fit your definition of what being aroace means.
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me whenever a character doesn't show interest in dating or sex because i crave representation:
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Everything would be 10x better if people stopped assuming blushing is strictly and always romantic (or just assumes it means attraction of any kind).
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