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suckmyarschkarte · 11 months

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he's just like me

#lfc #liverpool fc #andy robertson #james milner #and they were roommates tag #aka not coping #do you need a hug? 😭

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 7 months

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anyone else have multiple traumatic memories associated specifically with holidays/family vacations? because that is a topic I never see discussed in all the So You Had A Shitty Childhood, Now What? self-help books i've been reading. but for me, it was a significant thing. and the more i think about it the more it seems like this would be an (unfortunately) common experience. would be grateful to hear if this matches other peoples' experiences...

#not a shitpost #serious post #ask to tag #tw trauma #cptsd #c-ptsd #and if so we should TALK about it #because it means there are a whole group of survivors out there whose mental health regularly worsens during holidays #like i know i am most certainly not the only person who feels an undefined Dread hanging over christmas/my birthday/july 4 etc #bc too many shitty things happened during those times and now my brain is hypervigilant bc traditionally these are the Danger Times #and this seems like it would be particularly common for survivors of abusive/dysfunctional households (aka most people with c-ptsd)#because holidays/vacations typically mean 1) the whole family is together/being forced to interact #2) and undergoing external stressors e.g. travel/relatives aka 'outsiders' visiting/routines & coping mechanisms being interrupted etc #3) there is social pressure for this to be a Fun Family Bonding Experience which only highlights the cracks in the foundation #and exposes the common Everything Is Fine/We Are A Happy Family lie #4) the cognitive dissonance of feeling tired/anxious/stressed/afraid during a time when you are 'supposed' to be Making Good Memories #and then everyone is angry/tired/anxious/triggered and things boil over and something or someone goes Very Wrong #weird that i'm posting this in october when halloween is...sort of the ONLY holiday i have only good and happy feelings towards #i got lucky there #also i have positive feelings towards Labor Day but that's for socialist reasons

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verc0pa · 21 days

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blew up his own domicile i cant believe him

#in which tech wakes up from the brainwashing and returns to pabu and realizes what he's done #aka silly drawing to mask the gutwrenching despair i feel about it all #this is how i cope #rip havoc marauder #fly high #but not really bc uh. you know #the bad batch #the bad batch fanart #tbb s3 spoilers #tbb tech #star wars #doodles #my art

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kyouka-supremacy · 2 months

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Pov my brain one day after the new chapter has come out

#Aka me coping with the lack of Akutagawa with insane Akutagawa connections #New header #ryūnosuke akutagawa #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bsd ch 113 #bsd memes #mine #Why do I always spend hours making the silliest stuff ajchayswcfblaswufb

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mamawasatesttube · 5 months

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when superboy isnt home... *slams oven door*

#rimi talks #i was originally gonna just edit the og with kons name and be done but then i was like. well why NOT overcommit to the bit?#anyway um. me also tbh #<- coping mechanism: editing dumb memes #also yeah tim's the only one not verified on twitter because does robin REALLY exist?#also also yeah theyre tweets from the ninth of june... aka 6/9...#core four #tim #bart #cassie #kon

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moonverc3x · 17 days

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Agnosthesia

n. the state of not knowing how you really feel about something, which forces you to sift through clues hidden in your behavior, as if you were some other person—noticing a twist of acid in your voice, an obscene amount of effort put into something trifling, or an inexplicable weight on your shoulders that makes it difficult to get out of bed.

#Galacta knight #Galacta #JAU Galacta #JAU #verc3x art #swallow tailed Galacta Knight #hhmmmm I would have liked a slightly different pose for his bottom left wing so the canvas would have less white space but AUGH #I will cope 😂#eyestrain #aka etterath two point O #I KNOW theyre very similar artworks but SHHHH I like drawing his wings.

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chirpsythismorning · 3 months

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“Mike said his life started the day he found El in the woods, which was technically the following night. What he said had nothing to do with offending Will because he went missing the day before.”

#byler #ignore the logistics of it #mike’s brain thinks of Nov 6th as the day Will went missing aka the day his life stopped #he met El after a whole day of worrying about will #its the day they had to see etched on will’s tombstone #Nov 7th is just an extension of him finding out and doing everything to get him back #nov 7th evening is a whole 24 hrs later #so yes not the same day #but it doesn’t make it any less incriminating #it’s not that Mike didn’t exist until he found el #it’s that it stopped that day #and then started again when he got hope will was alive #so many lines in mike’s monologue felt like lies mixed with a dose of truth #friends don’t lie co-founder and his loopholes 🙄#I think it’s interesting also that we never really get Mike and Will talking about his time in the UD #the one time they do it’s brief and mostly about uncovering what’s happening to Will in that moment in s2 #but like we never see them talk outright about what happened or how the party all coped #so the prospects of him finding out how Mike truly felt back then…#in a scene where mike explains the ‘i feel like my life started-‘ line to Will #(and even more importantly the audience who has to buy into this)#that could be quite something…

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devilcatdarling · 2 days

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If there was no one else who would make the vessel atone for its sins, then it would do so itself

#hollow knight #hollow knight fanart #hollow knight art #the hollow knight #more doodles for that one au I've had rotating in my brain the past few weeks #The Echo AU #aka #unhealthy coping mechanisms: the fic

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mueritos · 8 months

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its my bday today so heres a new meet the artist :3

#muertodraws #finished my first day of grad school #i would have enjoyed it more if this fuck ass heat wave wasnt happening #but it wasnt too bad im excited to get to workin #also this mta is the first one where i felt like i didnt have to try hard #im allowing myself to exist as i am #and it feels nice #that includes the questioning of autism #aka i am probably autistic #i just struggle with gaslighting myself #but im learnig that autistic coping skills really work for me #like stimming and paying attention to my sensory and social needs #so that has been interesting #anyway #i am super tired but kind of hopeful :)#so thats nice #trans artist #queer artist #meet the artist

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ricky-olson · 2 months

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Damien Haas as Son Goku on Game Bang (2017) or, Babygirl bends it backwards dressed as the Babygirl of Shonen

#smosh #damien haas #smoshedit #youtubeedit #smoshcentral #usermaguire #angeledits #damien girls who are also goku girls come get your DINNER #aka me i made dinner for myself #angel how are you coping with toriyama's passing? well-

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jonahmagnus · 1 month

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Horses<3

Notes under cut 👇

#the hollow #the hollow netflix #the hollow adam #the hollow reeve #the hollow mira #the hollow kai #the hollow skeet #the hollow vanessa #mlp #my little pony #LOL !<3 #Yes Skeet aka quickstep is femme here she is transfem to me ANYWAYS....#my unfortunate art #:3 #design #Yes this has a golden filter on it.... cope. it makes jt look more cohesive <3 #erased Kais notes on acident. OH WELL!!

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lycheesandnuts · 8 months

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albatrio sillies

#chip is 100% pathetic wet cat in his poster #he’s such a drama queen #aka this is my way of coping after feywilde #jrwi riptide #jrwi albatrio #jrwi chip #jay ferin #gillion tidestrider #just roll with it #lycheesart

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vivelarevolution13 · 1 month

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I do my thing so let's touch the sky, brother touch the sky, touch the sky

#my cousins are at a black pumas concert without me :( i'm coping in the only way i know how aka listening to their music on repeat #anyway got an earworm and now there's this!#sam wilson #sam wilson edit #captain america #captain america edit #tfatws edit #my edits #graphics #q

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mushroomymoss · 1 year

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Danny trying to freak someone out: I can detach any part of my body and still move it

Dick: ... That's so cool. Is it Monster High Frankie Stein style detach or Incredibles Elastigirl style detach?

Danny: yah know, I've never tried the Frankie Stein style

This was brought on by this post

#dc x dp #my brain rot went down the drain #danny phantom #dp x dc #dick grayson #this was brought on by my unhealthy coping mechanisms #aka all danny and dick interactions

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occasionallyprosie · 1 month

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Here's a snippet from that child fic...

He latched onto Wind. Something about him--it wasn’t even that he was the Hero of Winds--was just… more familiar than anyone else. It was like... like they were brothers in their cores, like he had taken every step of his life with him, like their hearts and minds aligned, like they shared stories and lives. It was like they'd always known each other. It was hard to explain, how his spirit sang in familiarity to Wind's, but it was something he couldn’t help but latch onto.

Take it as you will

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muggle-born-princess · 8 months

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Thomas Astruc: "Chloé never cared about saving people! She only used the Bee Miraculous to get what she wanted!"

Chloé: "Ladybug, I fucked up so badly! I want to save my father and tell him I'm sorry!"

#miraculous ladybug #mlb salt #chloe bourgeois #chloe deserves better #queen bee #thomas astruc #thomas astruc salt #chloe sugar #queen bee sugar #and no if you say that she only used her dad to get what she wanted: fuck you and fuck off #yes there were times where she used him to get what she wanted but at the same time #-ahem- SHE ALSO FUCKED PROVED THAT SHE LOVED HIM!#she literally ran up to him and hugged him after she was saved from Stoneheart!#she also FUCKING APOLOGIZED for causing his akumatization!#she DID care about him!#don't argue with me that she didn't #she clearly did #s4 and s5 just decided to fuck it all up because Astruc is a big ass baby who can't take criticism and would rather forgive mass murderers #(aka félix) and world wide terrorists (aka gabriel) than a damn abused child who used abused as a way to cope because NO ONE TAUGHT HER #HOW TO BREAK THE GODDAMN CYCLE OF ABUSE!#okay im done #rant over

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