More men need to be silly. That's my type is silly men. And with so little silly men and so little gays in my area I'm practically doomed. So to save a life, be a silly man, or convince you local man to be silly.
And if you're on the masc-neutral spectrum,I highly encourage you to also be silly.
this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...