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theirloveisgross Ā· 15 days
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#My friend said something to me a while ago and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it#In the moment I snorted on the inside#And now I could laugh out loud about it#So. They were in a long-term relationship that had issues and ended last year#She met someone right after and were friendly and whatnot and a few months later were dating them already#Which... Great. They seem way happier and I'm genuinely happy for them (although in my selfish aromantic way)#And so she was commenting the other way that they'd been talking about how they jumped into the relationship so fast#Even after both of them had been in long ones before blah blah#And my friend told me 'but you know I think it's fine. I told them that it felt good and why wouldn't we do this if it felt good...#Even IF SOCIETY IS TELLING ME NOT TO JUMP INTO IT TOO FAST we shouldn't care about it and just go for it'#And I swear I internalized that shit friends. Hajshajshja.#What the fuck do you mean society is telling you not be in a relationship? Hasjhahss. Who is this society?#Literally. You can do whatever you want that makes you feel good but don't tell me you were feeling pressured by society hajsha.#In a sense I DO GET IT because some people might be 'wait weren't you with someone else a few months ago' sure.#But like. Literally. Lhahsahs. Sorry. I just needed to write it down somewhere because my brain couldn't let it go.#Especially me. An aromantic in a literal amatonormative society.#Anyway... šŸ™ƒ#(This friend does get a bit defensive when I want to talk about how most people prioritize romantic relationships over friendships and stuff#I tried once and it felt very frustrating because they were like 'well but they're different' and I was like 'yes but my point is that#romantic relationships always end up as top priority' and I could just see they didn't agree because they have lots of friends but yeah#my dude we get relegated when you're with someone romantically. Anyway. They'll never get it. It's fine. I'm used to it)
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bbyteach Ā· 5 months
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Rhysā€™s recent interviews are killing me(x)
Stede totally powered through with the earnest whimsy and Iā€™m sure thatā€™s what Ed loved most šŸ„ŗ
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uncanny-tranny Ā· 10 months
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Periodic reminder that unless a person specifically and clearly tells you it is okay to tell others they are trans or queer, you should err on the side of caution and assume they do not want you to tell people (especially random people!) about their transness or queerness.
You have no idea, generally, why somebody doesn't talk openly about their trans or queer status, and you have no idea, truly, how somebody might react to that information. The most progressive person out there is still capable of harbouring incredibly negative thoughts about somebody's queer status.
#lesbian#gay#bi#bisexual#trans#transgender#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#ally advice#inspired after somebody at work outed me (again Ɨ3)#i don't care how 'safe' you assume they will be! you cannot TRULY guarantee their safety!#you are effectively gambling with somebody's safety by assuming you can out them#also even if their safety was somehow 100% guaranteed it is still not your place to dictate what others know about THEM#like it isn't your own information you are giving out. the other person is a real human being with real thoughts...#...and there are real ramifications to your actions! this is like... real life and like... real people#anyway. i'm still fucking horrified at how cool people are (at least wrt me) with outing others šŸ™ƒšŸ« #and it just... further reminds me that others see me as like... a thing to be talked about/over and i'm not seen as an autonomous human#maybe that's not their intentions 9/10 times but that still doesn't justify it nor does it change how i interpret that behaviour šŸ‘#it's just dehumanizing imo to be reminded 'your comfort DOESN'T MATTER. i think you should be talked ABOUT not TO.'#clarification for the first tag: this is the THIRD time somebody has outed me. i NEVER talk about being trans to... pretty much ANYBODY irl#it's shit like this that i have to resist taking the 'doompill' over#because it's scary and dehumanizing every. single. time. i feel so fucking scared each time#because - AGAIN - i know my safety will NEVER be guaranteed because i am trans and queer
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mobius-m-mobius Ā· 5 months
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Happy Birthday Owen Wilson! ā™” (November 18th, 1968)
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flickering-nightfall Ā· 6 months
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lands on the moon
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particlewaveform Ā· 7 months
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janetsnakehole02 Ā· 2 years
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This is probably my last post on the whole ā€œLiz is deadā€ situation but I want to talk about my great grandmother, who is currently 92 years old. When I was growing up, hell even now, sheā€™d tell me a lot about her own stories, mostly about how terrifying life was under both the British Raj and Nizam rule (her side of my family is from Hyderabad - Google the Nizams and the Razakars if youā€™ve never heard about them, thatā€™s a whole other thing of its own).
Something I remember very clearly is her telling me about this one song she was forced to sing in her school - she went to a Christian convent school - and the song was about the greatness of ā€œGeorge Prabhu and Mary Rani,ā€ aka George V, Elizabeth IIā€™s grandfather. Recently my mom was able to film her singing this song so that we could listen to the lyrics, which are originally in Telugu, and roughly translated it means ā€œweā€™re singing in honor of George and Mary, who are the rulers of India and have brought great fortune to India, and we see them as our father and mother.ā€
This is just a really difficult reminder that when weā€™re talking about why Elizabeth II and the royal family donā€™t deserve our respect or condolences, many of us have very personal stories that run deep through our families. ā€œBut she was a mother, a grandmother, a personā€ and I donā€™t care because she and her family were in the business of dehumanizing and erasing the identities of millions of other mothers, other grandmothers, other PEOPLE. Why else would my great grandmother be forced to sing a song in their honor? ā€œBut she wasnā€™t responsible for Indiaā€ fair enough, her darling grandfather had a great time doing that, but how about you go and talk to Kenya? Or anyone in Africa? Or the Caribbean? Iā€™m sick and tired of being told to ā€œnot speak ill of the deadā€ when REALLY I and millions of others should be getting an apology from anyone who wants to ā€œpraise her legacyā€ and talk about how ā€œrevolutionaryā€ she was.
edit: i got the georgeā€™s mixed up before. george v is elizabeth iiā€™s grandfather. george vi is her father.
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v1-kisser Ā· 2 months
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Proship dni for my comfort thanks.
I feel like everyone portrays F/Os as these romantic, perfect all around lovers, and while that's all well and good! I prefer F/Os who are flawed, who don't always say the right things. Who can sometimes be petty or selfish. F/Os who have a habit of seeing conflict as a contest on who can talk the loudest, instead of a conversation. F/Os who run out of patience sometimes and have to go cool off mid-conversation, even if they're right. F/Os who struggle to communicate their emotions.
I find comfort in the idea of a relationship where mistakes like that are allowed and given room to breathe. A relationship where, no matter what the conflict is, the walls eventually come down. Maybe it takes hours, maybe days until you're both calm enough to work it out. Maybe it takes several conversations to solve it, but each end in Hey. I love you. I'll talk to you tomorrow.
You're not perfect, and neither is your F/O. That's okay. That can be beautiful, too. There's not a hug that's more comforting than the firm, tearful one after reaching mutual understanding. Knowing that you didn't mess it up too much, you didn't break things permanently. You couldn't if you tried. They missed you... and you've got some serious affection to catch up on.
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daeyumi Ā· 7 months
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All for a moment of peace šŸŒ·šŸ“šŸƒ
[Linktober 5: Species/Race]
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sarangganggg Ā· 1 month
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Most Wanted Tour šŸ‘¢
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doctorsiren Ā· 5 months
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Felt like some simple painting today
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evermoredeluxe Ā· 8 months
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mobius-m-mobius Ā· 6 months
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#a man who DESERVES A SLICE OF PIE
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dollsome-does-tumblr Ā· 7 months
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You know what you are? What am I?
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genuinely so unwell thinking about how thereā€™s such an emphasis placed on vax being the one who needs his sister, who asks her to not go far from him, who is nothing without her. vex is the one whoā€™s always been more independent, vax says it himself: she doesnā€™t need him. but in the end, vax is the one who leaves. and vex doesnā€™t realize just how much she needed her brother until itā€™s too late.
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egophiliac Ā· 23 minutes
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hiii im sure youā€™ve answered this before but in regards to your twst x PokĆ©mon, how do you choose which PokĆ©mon go give to the cast?? really curious since your choices are unique :O
unique in a good way, I hope? šŸ˜… (jk jk I haven't come across too many pokemon AUs, so I was going in without preconceptions, I guess!) I was sorta aiming somewhere between doing, like, a full AU with internal consistency and everything, and just picking entirely based on theme/character, so maybe that's why! basically I just set some arbitrary rules (no legendaries/no repeats/evo stages based on year) and then went on ~vibes~. a couple were also suggestions (thank you guys!) and last-minute decisions, so it was a bit of a delightful mess of ideas!
my one regret is that I should have given Riddle a Togedemaru after all. ...you know what, he can have one now, why not
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