The look Mark gives Amy before going for the kiss.
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How to get your crush to like you, step 1
Happy Valentines, everyone! 💞
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when sirius and james reunite after the christmas break, they collide into what others would consider an overbearing hug, but for them, it’s just right. when they pull back from each other, they keep their foreheads touching, and james asks, “are you okay?” and sirius replies with, “better now.” then sirius asks james the same question, and he has the same response.
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Bro i literally love guy and honey so much they literally have my heart they're so silly istg 🤭 anyways i made them a playlist
Link -> https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6j7TxRzYy4UWZXw045tUgL?si=TByVld5HRTK0gxbj48ZdDA&utm_source=copy-link
(they give me summer vibe and i love it.)
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no thoughts just Willa being over protective of A-Spen when it comes to anyone getting too close to them and then A-Spen being oblivious to all her efforts and just willingly getting dragged along by her all day.
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I just found out Bryan and Amelia are having a baby!!! I am so happy for them, they give the vibe that they will be amazing parents!
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britt and daniel got engaged!
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why can’t more shows/movies have relationships like pam and jim’s??
like, there’s no way in hell that so many people prefer watching miscommunication, unhealthy jealousy, cheating storylines, etc over what those two have.
jesus fucking christ. they’re the only straight ship that i’ve ever really cared about. i love them so much. and like, they have conflict, too, but it’s so much better than episodes of romantically involved people screaming at each other and crying and talking bad about each other with their friends. fuck off. give me pb&j-style relationships
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Last night I dreamed that Dynamite was two hours of Britt Baker and Adam Cole's wedding. And it was the most beautiful thing in the entire world!
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Dancing in the Moonlight 🌙
Redraw of a piece from last year :)
Their names are Rikste (left) and Anathema (right)
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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