I am a recently discovered nonbinary human, grown ass adult. My pronouns are she/they. I am an exvangelical with religious trauma that I have been actively seeking to heal for the past 3 years. I am a white bodied femme who has been unlearning years of conditioning, a student of the decolonial movement which includes white savior complex shadow work. I am ultimately seeking to bring less harm to myself, others, and the land - as one of my guides and teachers Dr. Rocio teaches me. I am hoping Tumbler is a safe space for me to explore, share, reblog- things that inspire, bring me hope and joy.

Gender Envy Source

#12

Shiver

@triforce-of-mischief

I'm struggling today; struggling to figure out who I am and become confident in my identity as a disabled person. Struggling to accept myself as I am because, I feel like there is SO much that my body should be able to do that it just can't. Add starting up physical therapy again on top of it, and my will to live is seriously dwindling... I hate the way they look at me, and I hate the way they make me feel. The pity on their faces kills me. Tomorrow we're going to the zoo, and I have to use a wheelchair or I can't go.. and that too hurts me. It shouldn't but, it does. I just wish I could be "that" girl for one day, the healthy girl that I never got to be. #chronicillness #chronicallyillauthor #ChronicPain #ChronicPainLife #ChronicPainAwareness #Insomnia #InvisibleDisability #InvisibleIllness #InvisibleIllnessAwareness #Spoonie #NoSpoons #SickAutoimmuneDisease #sickgirlproblems #sick #wheelchair #BabeWithMobilityAids #TheysWithMobilityAids #emotional #alternativegirl #shethey #Depression #dysphoria #DisabledCreator #disabledbutnotreally #disabledandcute (at Ingleside, Illinois) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ckj-8O5N3MD/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

i'm gonna rant abt smth bc why not? if u choose to read, i appreciate u. if u choose not to, that is understandable since this is going to be quite a bit to read. but this post is in regards to my pronouns bc i always feel like i'm going through this identity crisis and i am so done w having to explain and re-explain myself just for no one to get it or for no one to care.

- she/THEY

when i say that i go by she/they, that does not always mean for u to go and refer to me as she/her 24/7. i think what ppl tend to misunderstand is that not everybody who goes by more than one set of pronouns wants to be referred as just one set of pronouns.

when i bring this up, ppl always tend to think that she/they rly means for them to go and call me she/her. and they instantly tell me, “oh, so u go by she/her, but u go by they/them cuz u don't mind it if ppl don't refer to u as she/her.” no. that's not always the case. it's not that idc if ppl call me they/them bc i WANT to be they/them sometimes. some days, i rly don't feel like a girl. i don't feel like anything.

she/her is what i feel like MOST the time, yes. but there r days where i genuinely do not feel like a specific gender. it's more than just "idc." i do care bc it makes me so happy when someone gives the bare minimum to acknowledge that i go by they/them, too, and they r willing to shine some light on that by referring to me as such. even on the days where i do feel like a girl, i would literally cry tears of joy just to be referred to as a person, they/them.

and it's also pretty disrespectful in my case when i tell ppl my pronouns and they still manage to think that i go by she/her and their only logic behind that is the fact that they think i only go by she/they simply bc "idm if ppl don't refer to me as she/her". “oh, so u go by she/her but u don't mind if ppl misgender u by calling u they/them?” bffr. it's not "misgendering" if i go by both she/her and they/them. i genuinely never knew that the lack of respect for pronouns could be *that* fucking low until i've been told that shit. like.. where do u even get that from? how do u manage to just pull that shit right out of ur ass and tell urself that what u're saying makes total sense? i don't get it. just respect my pronouns and understand what my pronouns mean.

thank u for coming to my painful and long rant of the day. i have probably bored those who've read all 5 paragraphs of this shit, if anyone actually has. if u do relate to this, pls comment. it would make me feel more seen cuz lately i've just been feeling so alone and feeling like nobody rly cares to understand and that maybe the issue is me. once again, thank u

A piece of my gay little heart dies

each time I take “they/them” out of my bios and replace it with “she/her”. Technically I’m a she/they. It’s not really a conversation I want to have in a professional sphere, so I’d rather stay in the closet. Cowards live longer.

One day I dream it won’t be a big deal, and I’ll just be vibing. For now, I’m going to sneak in to all the places queer-looking folks can’t get into, and change people’s minds.

Espionage. 

not much going on so here’s a test run of my #TheyThem pronouns rather than my #SheHer pronouns Oh, and FYI, my name is “Masha” now, but I’ll still be in my “Shizuka” alias 💙 https://pronouny.xyz/u/shizukathefox https://en.pronouns.page/@xXSceneFoxxoXx #SheHerTheyThem #SheThey #nonbinary #nonbinarypride #genderfluid #genderfluidpride #pride #pridecore #scenecore #scene #scenehair #scenekid #scenegirl #scenequeen #emocore #emo #emohair #emokid #emogirl #emoqueen #scemocore #scemo #scemohair #scemokid #scemogirl #scemoqueen (at Dunn Loring, Virginia) https://www.instagram.com/p/Clhxd6mNzWP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

hi ! ✰

my name is dia! (pronounced dee-uh). i’m a sami indigenous writer on here. i’m non-binary and use she/they pronouns, & i like LOTS of different things!

if you like anything listed here, pls interact with what i post!

the umbrella academy

gilmore girls

musical theatre

classical music

literature & linguistsics

video games

analog horror

writing

70s music

japanese city pop music

if any of the following apply to you, with all due disrespect, get off my page:

dsmp fandom 

mha fandom

st fandom

trump supporters

homophobes

racists

abelists

all i do here is talk about what i like. thats it. and sometimes that includes fic writing. don’t ask me how it works i just write the shit i don’t think too hard about it!!!!!

so yeah uhh thats it anyway 

Happy #pridemonth everyone, make sure you’re leaving milk, cookies, and basic human rights out for your friendly neighborhood radioactive queer. (That’s “leave them out” like… so we can have them. Not “leave them out” like take them away because you’re a garbage human. Just to clarify 👍) #lgbt #genderfluid #trans #nonbinary #shethey #theyshe https://www.instagram.com/p/CfSfkgZtbhy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Gender Envy Source

#11

Evie

@triforce-of-mischief

i love being a girls girl

one thing i hate is the struggle of showing diversity in shows/movies. i saw a post on this earlier and it rly had me thinking abt how so many kids' shows try so hard to show them diversity, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, but have this big issue lying in front of them. and that is being prematurely cancelled. parents say that that kind of stuff is not for a kid but then will push some heteronormative show/movie on them and even say smth along the lines of, “she's gonna get all the boys when she's older,” or, “he's gonna be a heartbreaker when he grows up,” and they're literally CHILDREN. if showing a couple on screen who doesn't fit into those norms is all the sudden wrong, then don't be a hypocrite and not say the exact same for a hetero couple.

parents will literally go to stores and buy their toddlers clothes that say shit like "Ladies Man" and everything but yet, showing kids that other types of ppl in the world exist is wrong. i'm not sorry when i say this either, but i've seen more inappropriate content come from hetero kids' shows than any sort of gay show that i've watched growing up. like, shows like Steven Universe, Adventure Time (though that show has some pretty deep and complex content to it), Spongebob (wasn't he confirmed to be fruity?), r more child friendly and have more value.

shows struggle to push these sort of light-hearted topics to the surface bc parents keep restricting what is and isn't appropriate for their children's eyes to see. God forbid the kid sees that on tv and now knows that girls can love girls and boys can love boys. or abt gender inclusiveness where that child now understands that there is more than just girl and boy and man and woman. God forbid that that show turns ur children gay, right?

i feel like parents who think like that genuinely don't understand that keeping ur kids away from that sort of media isn't helping ur case. keeping ur kids away from it for as long as u can won't prevent them from loving who they're gonna love in the future. so why not embrace it and let whatever comes in the future happen in the future?

hiii weno, otro dibujo para hoy :D

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-The End of Everything- @noahcyrus https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=yLgE8Ts2Luk&feature=share ~Everyone you love is gonna die But, darlin', so is everything, don't cry The stars will blink out one by one in time And everyone you love is gonna die... ~Everything you fear is gonna end All your hate and hurt lost to the wind And it's hard, I know the universe could be each other's friend Everything you fear is gonna end... ~And there might not be a sadder thing Than watchin' Saturn lose her rings And black holes slowly dancin' in the dark It's a song that they were born to sing About the end of everything Until it all goes up in one last spark... ~Everyone you love is gonna die But so is everything so wipe your eyes You know nothin' lasts forever, but Lord, I try And everyone you love is gonna die... ~All the saints and sinners are the same We're blessed and we obliterate And that's how it was written from the start It's a song that we were born to sing About the end of everything Until it all goes up in one last spark... ~Everyone you love is gonna die So don't you let the moment pass you by And man, there really ain't no sadder thing There really ain't no sweeter thing... #ootd #noahcyrus #theendofeverything #justhere #justvibing #justexisting #justnow #spontindeci #spontaneousindecisions #shethey #theyshe (at Dancing at the end of time) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm_-d_dr0HZ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Short hair is back BAYBEEEE! I grew my hair ~5 mos and for me it was really long. The amount of effort to manage my hair at the old length really cuts into my daily spoons so here we are again! Happy New Year y'all!! 💜 #haircut #selfcut #nonbinary #shethey #spoonie #spoonielife #newyearseve #newyears (at Rossford, Ohio) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm2wHA7OGuz/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

I'm officially trying out she/they pronouns! #sheher #theythem #shethey #pronouns #feminine #nonbinary #aura #pastel #hyperfeminine #lgbt #iamwhoiam #nb #selflove https://www.instagram.com/p/CiCphNzOhIC/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=