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positivlyfocused · 1 year
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Why People Create Tragedies For Themselves And Others
All beliefs create reality. It doesn’t matter if the belief is “true” or “false, “right” or “wrong”. In time, any belief will create reality consistent with it. Which explains the importance of positive focus.
So many examples prove this. It’s amazing so many continue thinking “you create your reality” is wishful thinking. When the world is awash in examples showing how people create their reality exactly this way. How? By focusing on a belief until the belief proves true.
One example sticks in my mind. It sticks for good reasons. One, because of the near-tragedy that could have ensued. And two, because the person involved, Edgar Maddison Welch, believed a preposterous story. A story which he believed so strongly, he acted as though it were true.
Because for him, it was true. Today, Welch regrets taking action on such preposterously false ideas. That didn’t help him though on December 4, 2016.
Pizza…and pedophiles
The idea involved politicians, pizza and a certain taboo. Someone concocted a now widely discredited conspiracy linking prominent democrats and restaurants with human trafficking and child sex. Just to reiterate: so many media outlets have discredited the story. Including Fox News.
Yet, the story quickly went viral. The owner of one restaurant falsely claimed to be involved said he and his employees were constantly threatened:
Again, not one aspect of the conspiracy proved true. And yet, many, many people acted as though they were true. In other words, their beliefs, amplified by several negative emotions, including frustration, insecurity and fear, didn’t allow them to see obvious evidence disproving the conspiracy.
Even false beliefs will occur as true. If the people think the belief long enough, frequently enough, evidence will quickly begin accumulating. The evidence could occur as wildly off base to others. But people thinking the beliefs will discredit the disproving evidence in favor of the [false] evidence. In time, the beliefs will draw so much “proof” the people’s behaviors will align with the beliefs. Then the belief, for practical purposes is “true” to the believer. Then those who get caught up in the created reality suffer tragedies. The belief becomes true for them too in experiential terms.
This is how tragedies happen. And this is how the near-disaster related to Pizzagate happened too. Which brings us back to Welch.
A near mass shooting
For Welch, 24, these false conspiracies were true. So much so, he felt he must act. So he left his home in North Carolina. He headed north to a restaurant purported to be part of the conspiracy. He brought an assault rifle with him. Planning to “investigate the conspiracy,” Welch fired three shots into the restaurant. Luckily, the bullets hit no one.
Later, when police arrested him, Welch saw himself as, in his own words, “…the potential hero of the story—a rescuer of children”, as told to the Skeptical Inquirer. While no one was hurt, the outcome could have been different.
Welch’s experience and so many more illustrate how any belief can become true. Even flawed ones. This explains why it’s so important that people understand how “thoughts become things,” as Abraham puts it.
In fact, a recent email from them makes this very clear:
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^^Abraham once again making it plain.
It can go either way
What’s really great about situations like this is, if flawed premises can create “truth”, what about premises based on the how the Universe actually works?
I mean, if all beliefs will eventually prove true, then it seems it behooves people to focus on beliefs consistent with what they want to experience, right? That’s the premise of the Positively Focused approach. The Charmed Life, the life I write about here constantly, is nothing other than a premise based on how the Universe actually works.
That means, so long as one believes in accordance with how the Universe works and how it’s oriented, they can create any “truth” they like. And that means the world can contain ANY belief. Any belief held long enough will prove true. So why not make your truth something you’d prefer? Rather than a truth you’d not prefer?
That’s what I show my clients every week. How to create “truths” they want to experience. When those truths become overwhelming, then they experience their own version of the Charmed Life. From there, life gets really fun.
Life can go either way. I say, why not make it go the way you want?
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neharautela · 3 years
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samanthakupcaake · 4 years
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Only you
Only you can change your mindset, put in the work that needs to be done and love every inch of you.
Growing up I had the worst mindset. I was privileged enough to have everything I ever needed but it was never enough. I was an entitled little girl who thought she knew everything about life (boy, was I wrong btw).  I hated being me, I hated being alone with my thoughts and I hated the image I had of the world and everyone in it. I filled my nights with booze and drugs so my days would be spent trying to survive rather than actually live.  I gave people access to special parts of me without so much of a second thought, all because I craved the attention and the feeling of fullness.
Now that I have grown, started the work that needs to be done and got sober; my mind finally feels clear enough to see through all the bullshit I was feeding myself on a silver platter.
I work hard, everyday. Whether it be at work for a paycheck so I can pay my bills and barely get by. Or at the gym trying to stay healthy and rid my myself of any negativity. Or at home when I’ve had a bad mental health day and I have to now sit with myself, let myself feel everything that I once used to tuck away into the dark corners of my soul. 
I now know this is a lifelong journey, there is no final destination when it comes to loving yourself and living an honest life.
YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK; & than you’ll see it was all worth it in the end.
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bobi-bigelow · 4 years
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natashachatters · 4 years
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Stay positive! Focus on the outcome you want! Don't get detracted! Stay strong! What do you always see after a bad rainstorm? #staypostive #baddoesntstaybad #focusontheoutcomeyouwant #focusomtheoutcome #thestormclears #rainbowscome #staystrong #yougotthis #liveandlearn #positive #positivity #positiveattractspositive https://www.instagram.com/p/B526-J6BDcK/?igshid=1m9pj22pmr0nu
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katerrh · 5 years
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Change your thoughts and you can change your world.... I changed mine and I’ve never been happier! Sometimes you just need to ask for help even though it might take all your strength to do so. Speak even if your voice shakes. #darkdaysareover#anxiety#lifecanbetough#keeponkeepingon#neverbeenhappier#lawofattraction#thinkpositivebepositive#positiveattractspositive#onwardsandupwards https://www.instagram.com/p/B0nHzJdgruc/?igshid=oqrt7enqiyb3
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tinesife06 · 5 years
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positivlyfocused · 11 months
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What Real Bravery Actually Looks Like And How It Can Change Worlds
I’ve watched recently some videos of police as they face gunmen shooting up schools. Armed and doing their duty, they charge into these situations clear of dangers they face. And while those are brave acts, there’s a higher order of bravery I’d like to discuss: The bravery that looks like living one’s Charmed Life and what that looks like.
Sure, it’s one thing to charge into a building you know a gunman awaits. But is that really brave? Or is that responding to the what-is-ness of life? If we can create any reality we want, why not create a reality in which a person needn’t experience such things?
A while ago, I experienced something which showed me what real bravery looks like. What happened back then forever changed my life. Real bravery looks like living authentically. That means creating a life that looks nothing like what others are doing.
And the most honorable life is one that reflects the pure positive state of All That Is. A state of pure love for everyone and everything. There, a person must enjoy an experience of life that reflects that love back at the person. That’s what I learned a while back when I had the experience I’m about to share.
Anger personified
One day, I was out and about, enjoying life. I walked through downtown, greeting everyone I made eye-contact with with a twinkle in my eye and a smile. Meanwhile my positive focus emanated from me. I felt on top of the world.
I stopped to catch the lightrail and, while I waited, a young man came walking down the platform. It was obvious he was houseless. He walked with slumped shoulders, his eyes cast to the ground. 
But something must have prompted him, because as he got near me, he looked up and caught my eye. I gave him a dose of positive energy and greeted him silently with my smile. What happened next was astounding.
“What you looking at faggot,” He said with hostility. “You wanna die today?”
When he said this, I felt no fear, no threat. I didn’t even have time to think about what he said. Immediately from my lips came a response that, even today, startles me. But what he said in response to that, startled me even more.
“You wanna die today?” he asked.
“Do you?” I asked in return and he turned his hard stare from me back to the ground. As he did so, without missing a beat, he said “Yes”.
Violence is a cry for help
At first, I couldn’t believe my response just as much as I couldn’t believe his. So surprised I was, I did a double-take. I wasn’t sure what just happened. Apparently, the young man wasn’t sure either, because as distance grew between us, he kept looking back towards me, a look of surprise in his own eyes.
I’ve said this many, many times. Rage, seething and violence are all cries for help. A person willing to wage violence on another does so out of their disconnection from their Broader Perspective. So disconnected are they, they see the world around them as frightening, threatening. It’s no wonder they feel the need to wage war against it.
The appropriate response to such people isn’t meeting them with violence. It is meeting them with understanding. Hopefully doing so well before violence becomes their last resort.
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^^Abraham describing how no one connected to All That Is would ever resort to violence.
The trouble with our world today, if there is trouble, is so many of us live our lives so disconnected from All That Is that we perceive the world as scary, random and out of our control. When, in fact, our individual experience is 100 percent our creation. 
Think I’m “victim blaming”? Read this.
And since all of us come into the world through people who came before us, it’s almost a given that we’ll adopt those people’s fears and insecurities as our own.
So real courage, real bravery isn’t about running into an active shooter situation to kill someone who themselves is so disconnected they kill others. Real courage is short circuiting the notions that make people think it’s necessary to arm themselves then shoot up a school in the first place.
The power of invincibility
Invincibility is another matter entirely. Invincibility looks like moving through the world knowing nothing in the world can harm us. Including houseless strangers, school shooters or any other violence.
Indeed, it’s knowing everything in the world reflects back to us our inner state of being. A chronic Positively Focused state reflects back to us only things that nurture and delight and surprise us. There, even a threatening houseless youth or armed attacker reveals who they really are: someone in pain. Someone harmless to us.
These days, I move through the world worried about no one. Instead I see the world and everyone in it as my creation. And the world indeed reflects that knowing to me, in the form of people who express kindness, love and warmth. Those with rage-full hearts can’t find me. Because I’m on a totally different vibrational level.
This is what the Charmed Life creates. In addition to a life one loves, it creates a world that reflects back to us the charmed state of being we nurture internally. Creating that life takes a while. Only because nearly all of us have adopted bogus beliefs from those through whom we came into the world. 
And it is an act of courage to reach beyond those bogus beliefs. To reach for that state of being consistent with what we knew before coming into a body. The courage to go our own way, live authentically, then transform life from what others think it is, to what we want it to be.
It is to be the change we want to see in the world.
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theotherangle-blog · 7 years
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You control your life
You control your life. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like it. Sometimes people will tell you you live in lala land. Sometimes it almost seems as if one bad thing just keeps happening after another and you can’t even control your own emotions never mind what is happening around you.
But you control your own life.
Before I go into this, I want to clarify what I mean by life. I am not saying that any one person can control life in its entirety; I am saying that each individual can control their own independent life. In other words, that person has the ability to take everything that they do and control it in the here and now.
See, there are two kinds of change that will happen in your life - change you initiate and change life initiates.
The first is pretty simple to link to you controlling your life – change you initiate. If you initiate the change, you are taking control of your life. I’m not saying you can control the outcome, the majority of us are not clairvoyants, after all. But what you can control is the decision you make in the here and now.
For example: You break up with your partner – you have initiated this change, you’ve ended the relationship – you could stay in the relationship and see what happens or you could also end the relationship as it stands and open up space in your life for different possibilities
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For example: You move house. You are able to stay where you currently are, but could move elsewhere to save money, to live in a nicer area, to cut down on commuting time, etc. You are initiating this change – you COULD stay where you are, but you COULD ALSO live elsewhere.
These are changes that you make, and generally the luxury of choice comes with a condition should it not work out as planned – “as you make your bed so you lie in it” – these choices are your actions and we must all take responsibility for our actions.
On the flip side, we have the changes that life makes. These are the changes that, when upsetting, those around you will console with a “life’s not always fair”  
For example: Your partner breaks up with you – life has initiated this change, you are not in control of another person’s actions or thoughts, they have made this choice, and yes it impacts you – you can TRY to change it – and you are in total control of whether or not you try – but you cannot control the change. You CAN control is what you choose to do next.
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For example: You are sent a letter through your door to tell you your landlord is selling the property. Life has initiated this change – you pretty much have to move. So you can control what you do next. You can try and fight it, but you cannot control the other person’s decision. You CAN look for a solution.
“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” - Charles R. Swindoll.
"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude." - Maya Angelou
'I don't fix problems. I fix my thinking. Then problems fix themselves.' - Louise Hay
There are two very separate parts to all of these:
What happens and your reaction
Something and you
Problems and the individual’s thinking
The “it” and you.
It’s strange, that when we put ourselves in a situation where things don’t work out it’s our own fault, even though we are unable to see the future, so are almost as accountable for the outcome as you would be in an instance where life turned around and threw a curve ball at your 5 year plan. Just because you are doing things the way that people say you should doesn’t mean it will work out, and vice versa for making a choice that someone else thinks isn’t wise
In the end we are always choosing what to do next - even though we have no control over tomorrow.
So HOW can I control my life it if I can’t control the outcome of my choices?
With the attitude in which you approach your choices.
Our attitude often plays a larger role than we give it credit for, in most things.
When we get too wrapped up in our lives and what’s happening we let it affect us, who and how we are. This is great when things are going well, and we are full of energy and positivity but when something doesn’t go as planned, are you maintaining your spark?
As humans, we are all unique. We have different approaches to what happens in life and different desires for what we want out of life. Some long for the excitement of the unknown and others take comfort in the familiar, with a love of daily routine and consistency. Regardless of where on the scale you fall, we all face challenges that we are not expecting, but what you can control is how you choose to react.
You can choose to look for the positives. To trust your gut and make a choice that you believe will bring you happiness in spite of what others think or say. To understand that sometimes you will feel awful, but that that is okay, and to decide to get up every day and tell yourself today is better, even if you don’t believe it for the first day, week, month or year, one day you may just listen to yourself and believe it.
Eventually we all need to take responsibility for how we feel, as much as we would take responsibility for what we do.
This is your opportunity to control your life. Choose for you, whatever happens. You always have the opportunity to choose again, to play the next move, so do it with a smile, and remember that the longer you play, the more choices you can make and the higher your chances will be that you will get ahead in the game.
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wacogal1210 · 6 years
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It is not happy people who are thankful. It is THANKFUL people who are Happy! #gratitude #blessed #positiveattractspositive #youarewhatyouthink #godisgoodallthetime #love #forgiveness #gratitudenotattitude
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fightsandflights-jm · 6 years
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My goodness. My hope for 2018 is more people see how blessed you actually are. Just the fact that you can SEE this post makes you more well off than others. Roofs over your head, food in your belly, access to running water, heat for your home - and the pure fact you opened your eyes again this morning.......things taken for granted every single day. I vow to help make everyone I can in 2018 see all the things they truly are blessed with, and help all many negative attitudes turn around as possible #grateful #thankful #blessed #YouGetWhatYouPutOut #karma #UniverseDontPlay #NegativeAttractsNegative #PositiveAttractsPositive #TrueScience #facts
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