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sunsetsandhope · 1 year
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Due to personal reasons I will be loving myself with my whole heart
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motivatedaily · 4 months
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tarendee92 · 5 months
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Something that schools don't teach you but is much needed: how to have a work/life balance that works for you.
As someone who works fulltime and does classes and attempts a social life and hobbies, this gets very hard and stressful. But here are some tips I have for helping:
Learn to say no and not feel guilty. Picking up that extra shift when you had plans? Politely decline. Your friend is begging you to take ANOTHER class when your plate is full so you can have one together? Just be honest and say you can't.
Prioritize your sleep and eating. You can't function well if you don't sleep and eat enough. These are not things you can just push aside and do when you get the time. These are basic things you need to survive. These are literally basic needs. Don't throw them to the side. Your body does its best to take care of you. Make sure you take care of it too.
Have boundaries and be firm with them. If you tell your manager you can only work x, y, and z, don't let them add a or b to it. Respectfully but firmly let them know that you can't take on those things and if they have you do a or b, your work overall is going to majorly decrease in quality. Schedule time for yourself. For studying. For going out. And treat those set aside times just like you would if they were work or school times or appointments. You are the most important part of your life.
Understand that some weeks are going to be absolute hell. You're not going to have enough time. You're going to be exhausted and cry and throw things and want to quit everything. You got this babe. Take breaks and remind yourself how amazing you are and treat yourself after.
Prioritize things and adopt better habits. Wash your dishes right after using them. Get a set bedtime. Get easy breakfast things. Take a walk.
Your friends will understand if you just need time alone. I promise. They love you and don't hate you because you're overwhelmed. I PROMISE. And if they don't, maybe they aren't really your friends.
Not everyone is a friend. Some people are acquaintances. Some people are a 5 minute smoke break at work for your sanity. Some people are drinking buddies. Some people are library study date friends. And that's ok! Not everyone has to be your bestie. And trying to put that much energy into that many people will drain you.
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One day the air is going to smell the same as it did when you were a child.
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positivelypositive · 9 months
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healing is personal...
...and it's a process.
you don't have to share it. you don't have to hide it. you don't have to speak about it. you don't have to do it a particular way.
all you need to do, is acknowledge it from time to time. let yourself feel it. affirm it to your mind, even if it's only 1% better right now.
don't ignore the efforts of your existence ✨
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yinyinggie · 9 months
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things june taught me
loving yourself before loving others will always come in clutch
its okay to restart things you've worked so hard for
sometimes friendship hurts, that's normal
people will walk away from you. don't take it personally
sometimes people will choose to hurt you and that's on them, not you
and sometimes you fuck up a little. that's also fine. part of being human is forgiving yourself
find those who are willing to stick with you through stuff, not just tell you that everything is going to be alright
it's okay to doubt. sometimes we need that extra bit of reassurance and that's totally okay
count your blessings. remember those who were there for you, and pay it forward
people change and its not because of you
sometimes, sucking it up is the best option
no need to force yourself into places which you don't fit into
find that place that you fit into. let it come naturally. you attract things you need.
make the effort for the friendships. yes connection is good, but make the connection last
priorities should be priorities.
you cannot juggle more than 3 things on your plate at any given time. actually you can but you will not get it done well
be patient. good things are coming. better things are coming.
emotional maturity will get you places
delusional hours can be fun, actually
stop reading too much into things, you're hurting yourself
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gedankenrap · 5 months
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"Was einen nachts vom schlafen abhält, sind verschlingender Selbshass, Sorgen und Unglück. Jetzt bin ich müde."
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dumblr · 2 years
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Choose the one who chooses you in a room full of people and not the one who wants you only when the room is empty.
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cosmicstoner · 1 month
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If anyone needs to hear this ✨ stay strong
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sunsetsandhope · 10 months
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decided to become a person i wanted to be so badly when i was younger :
happy, in love with life and my body, doing things I want to do and saying things I want to say, good at taking care of myself and someone who worries less and lives more, watch me
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motivatedaily · 4 months
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tarendee92 · 6 months
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We need to get a little uncomfortable for a minute. But it's ok. You have to be uncomfortable in order to grow.
You're going to fail. You're going to disappoint people and yourself. You're going to have moments where you're so overwhelmed that you're curled in a ball crying and frustrated. You're going to miss important milestones. You're going to drop the ball so many times things seem impossible. You're going to fail. You're going to be mean. You're going to be a bad person at points. It's life. It happens. You just need to understand that it happens. And on those days where you want to dissappear and never be seen again because everything is too much, your brain is going to amplify all these faults and failures and make them seem worse.
Babe. We all go through this. We ALL fail. We ALL make awful choices and fuck people and ourselves over. We ALL will have moments where we are the villains. Where we completely fail a lot of people in our lives due to bad decisions. It will happen. Probably multiple times. What matters is that you recognize these things and make appropriate changes in your life to help make sure that next time isn't as bad. Maybe start learning time management so you're not stressed constantly and blowing up on everyone. Maybe find a healthy outlet like painting or the gym or cooking. Find small, simple joys to make life better. It's going to suck. You're going to be the bad guy. But that's not your entire life.
It's uncomfortable and hard to sit with. Sometimes things are your fault. Sometimes you make bad choices and they fuck your life up and fuck others over at the same time. It happens. You can't change the past, but you have the power to change your future. You can change your future. Talk to people. Find yourself outlets. Learn skills. Things get better, but they only do so if you put the effort for them to do so. I love you. You're trying. And that's all you can do. And one day you'll slip backwards and feel so defeated but when that happens, you'll have many tools to help you get even further. I promise babe everything will be ok.
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