Here’s some positivity for identity-less headmates!
For many system members, having a solid or even partial sense of self can feel nearly impossible. Whether traits and interests fail to stick, dissociation-related issues complicate the process of forging an identity, or anything else causes difficulties with having an identity, many headmates may find that they can’t or don’t want to have much of an identity at all. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this! And this post is for those headmates with little to no sense of identity!
🌫 Shoutout to headmates without names, who can’t ever settle on a name, or who have a name that they really don’t like, connect, or identify with!
☁️ Shoutout to headmates who struggle to find hobbies and interests that hold their attention!
💨 Shoutout to headmates without passions, who often feel empty, unmotivated, or uninspired!
🌫 Shoutout to headmates who desperately want a more rounded out identity, but who haven’t been able to learn anything about themselves!
☁️ Shoutout to headmates whose trauma history has left them feeling like they have no identity or sense of self!
💨 Shoutout to headmates who have no appearance or physical characteristics!
🌫 Shoutout to headmates who are void, mist, fog, static, or whose identities are grounded in the fact that they have no identity!
☁️ Shoutout to headmates who are content with having no identity or sense of self!
💨 Shoutout to headmates who mask as other system members or others outside their system in order to give themselves temporary identities!
🌫 Shoutout to headmates who are symptom holders for dissociation, or for whom dissociation is so bad that they just don’t have an identity at all!
While not having an identity at all may feel confusing, frightening, or disheartening, we want to let you know that it’s okay to just exist as you are. You don’t have to have a well-rounded, steady sense of self in order to be loved, cherished, and cared for! You are a valid and important member of your system just the way you are, and you don’t have to change or adopt any sort of identity in order to be deserving of kindness and respect!
We truly hope you can find that kindness from the headmates in your system and others around you, and can in turn show that kindness to yourself! Know that it’s okay to not want any sort of identity, this doesn’t make you a bad person or less of a member of your system! And if you do wish your identity was more solid, we have full faith that you will be able to achieve this in the future. We hope you can take care of yourselves, and have a great day!
Hey guys, it's been a month or two that I've been noticing of you guys are fans of anime to Demon Slayer, so I have a question for you to have.
Do you want me to create an yandere hashira's x female hashira reader, yes or no??
If you want to, then what type of a hashira do you want me to pick, we already have hashira of fire 🔥, sound 🔊, serpent 🐍, water 💦, bug/insect 🐛, wind 🍃, ground 🪨, mist 🌫, and love 😍 from the anime series, but I want you to pick from the list.
What type of hashira do you want Y/n to, will it be??:
Ice ❄
Plants 🌿
Darkness 🌑
Light ☀️
Flying ✈
Psychic 👁
Chaos
Melody 🎶
Or something else like those.
Vote in the comments and don't forget to send me your choice.
A gender connected to the song Dream Sweet in Sea Major by Miracle Musical, specifically the lyric "Believe me darling, the stars were made for falling~!"
This gender feels nostalgic and sounds like wind through an old tape recorder. It has a dreamy feeling, where you can't quite grasp it; Every time you try to remember it slips from your memory, leaving you with this soft nostalgic feeling.
It also encompasses a connection to classical music and space.
Okay, I have 2 here. For comedy value I've got Redwillow. Trash talked Blackstar only to IMMEDIATELY get his shit rocked by the "elder growing old over and over".
For genuine value?
Tigerstar's death. Iconic scene, 10 outta 10. Still holds weight today. Only complaint is the immediate "oouughhh he was still a strong warrior he didn't deserve that" because the writers are cowards.
Worst death?
Firestar. Jesus Christ on a Fortnite Bike that could not have written that scene in a more confusing way if they had TRIED. If a character imagines something and suddenly "snaps back to reality", yeah, it needs gravity. You need to SHOW what actually did happen. You know it's bad when the writers have to make a post explaining what happened in the culminating scene for their OWN BOOK. Everything about it is so messy.
Since I had 2 for best, I'll give the other worst to his wife, Sandstorm. What a complete and utter fucking waste. Complete lack of knowing who your own character is. What story does her death tell? Why does she not get a proper send-off like Dustpelt got? Or Ravenpaw? Or Graystripe? Why does our Arc 1 girl get such a pathetic ass-pull of a death? So they wouldn't find out something was wrong with Skyclan? Darktail could do this cool thing called LYING. Tell the patrol that Skyclan has moved out. It's not that hard. Have her die fighting for Skyclan. Have HER be a Light In The Mist in TBC instead of more firegray "bait" ffs...
Stole Swiss' credit card so I can buy Phantom bat plushies and a bunch of shark stuff for Rain. Anybody else want anything? Also, Phantom called me mom 🥺