What I learned from my therapist is that there are 2 steps to fully letting go of emotions:
expression and action.
Expression can be like speaking or journaling your true thoughts and not letting any judgment cloud what you should and shouldn’t write; just do it even if it’s shameful and not you (also take note of your reactions to those thoughts you want to write bad or good). You are only expressing what doesn’t deserve to be trapped within! This is the time to also show compassion to yourself even if what your feeling is “wrong” that does not matter because those feelings are still VALID.
Then action is the second step to letting your body let go of these intense/traumatic emotions, physical activity is letting your body know you are moving out of the stress or intense emotion and releasing chemicals that will help you feel better if not just give you an activity to focus on. For me I exercise (mainly running) and think of the things that have left me feeling like crap (edit: if you don’t want to think of the pain as you take action that’s ok the expression part already acknowledges it) and just go for it!
Other ways of expression are: any vent art form like painting, writing, speaking/talking to a friend; you can incorporate action within expression such as dance, singing edit: writing/ playing music.
Other ways of taking action: running, hiking, get outside in nature, breaking inanimate objects (please make sure you are safe and do not hurt yourself or others while doing this, I ripped apart a mattress with friends and it was awesome!) again you can incorporate expression into action like the examples above: singing, dancing, edit: instrument strumming, playing your favorite music on your instrument or creating music.
Letting go is one of the things I don’t see many spiritualists explain how to do and this is not a one and done deal if you need multiple sessions for yourself to express please go for it!! Healing is an up and down journey and I want to keep sharing what I have learned so you may transform into the butterflies I know you all are 😊
(I’m not claiming this will work right away or for everyone, it does take time and patience for self, it also depends on how deep the pain is and how long your body may have held onto the stress, be gentle my friends)
-ShiningMystic 💕
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Minor Reprogrammed CH 11 Spoilers!
Captured the brief moment when everything was genuinely okay <3
Sorry for shitty backgrounds... I really hate drawing backgrounds....
look at this old man... he looks like he's about to bring a pot of chili to the church function
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i just wanna say... shuta ang pogi ni izana sa style mo 😭🥹
ladies with gentle hands i present to u, izana 'crush ng bayan' kurokawa
[also btw ty po ahuhuhuhuhuhuh 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭]
+ bonus chifuyu bc ik hes ur fave :]]]
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