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i-used-to-be-an-anti-feminist · 1 year

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I see so many well intentioned women talking about how modesty is important when it comes to men's objectification of them. Like, they will condemn men's lust, but say, "but we have to do our part too." I just need you guys to understand that there is literally no amount of clothing you can wear to keep men from sexualizing you. It sucks, but it's true.

I dress very modestly by the typical conservative Christian standard... Loose clothing, long dresses/skirts, nothing low cut, etc. Usually the only skin I expose is my forearms, neck, and face... But I am not exempt from being sexualized. I can't tell you how many times I've heard stuff like, "it's so hot when women leave things up to the imagination" and "I love your librarian/teacher vibe, it's so sexy." Men sexualize nuns and muslim women, who are completely covered. No woman is exempt from this.

Why is this important? So you can stop blaming yourself for men treating you like sexual potential instead of a person and hold men accountable for their own willful inability to control themselves.

To the Christian women, you are not responsible for men choosing to lust after you. Lust is a choice. I am same-sex attracted, and when I find myself attracted to a woman, I simply choose not to fantasize and lust after her. Men are capable of the same, they just like to shift blame.

As a Christian, I dress modestly as an act of humility more than anything else, but I know there is nothing I can do to control the sinful actions of men. Please stop blaming yourselves.

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cordahliaa · 10 months

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hey hey! was inspired by @nothingtoseeherebyeexx‘s fem marauders and i decided to draw my own fem sirius <3

#sorry the quality is a bit shit #my drawing program was being a little stinker #however!! she is here #she’s absolutely got a mountain of dress code violations #as she should tbh #lmk if you want to see the other marauders bc i have so many ideas <3 #sirius black #wolfstar #marauders #marauders era #fem marauders #fem sirius black

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danandfuckingjonlmao · 2 months

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just so we’re clear, shit like this is why i would never in a million years willingly go to the phouse

#we’ve all see the health code violations in the phitchen #tops only bar has nothing on dan and phil making cinnamon rolls in their kitchen #dan full wang and ass out #phil throwing the bowls and butter all over the place #dan stuffing the mixing bowls down his dress and then them sliding down his body and onto the floor #them using their hands instead of utensils to mix the dough #they’re so nasty i don’t trust them even a little bit #dan and phil #dnp #phan #dan howell #daniel howell #amazingphil #phil lester #danisnotonfire #yeet my deet #yeet my deenp #danandphilgames

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getting-butterflies · 8 months

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adorable mf concerned about staining his work uniform

#his little bit of panic when its not coming off #baby doesn't want to violate the dress code so bad #venture bros #gary fischer #gary venture bros #the venture bros #henchman 21

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jhsharman · 10 months

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Over-Heated

Apparently the characters in Suzie Comics are interchangeable with Jughead and Betty.

Samm Schwartz mixes up where he shifts to his silhouette standard.

So. Who wears it better?

Not going to give you Jughead's behind.

If you compile some "Bughead canon" I guess you would put this story in, and it has entered Archie Comics's semi-archival "Best of" pile. But working against that is that it is just a rehash of someone else's story -- we are still reading Suzie and Ferdie, or Ferzie if you will. I gather the rehash was made in such quick turn around because the editors of Archie did not to waste this on a then fading character and putting it in Jughead granted it more audience.

Suzie is amused. Betty is forlorn, and she just wants to change the topic. That is one difference, at least.

#Archie Comics #Betty Cooper #Jughead #Suzie #Ferdie #Pop Tate #Uncle Blondie #Heat #Dress code #Public park #Cross dressing #Pop's Chock'litt Shoppe #Lemonade #Samm Schwartz #1950 #1952 #Civil liberties violations

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achilles-left-ankle · 1 year

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shoutout to the episode where klinger almost blows up frank burns

#mash 4077 #corporal klinger #frank burns #frank tried to take his bandana as a dress code violation and klinger beats him up and then later tries to chuck a grenade at him #father mulcahy talks him down from it #its one of the earlier seasons' more serious moments #but its just #kinda buckwild lmao

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very-offkey-kazoo · 10 months

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have to spend a couple hours back in the hallways of my very conservative, very homophobic private christian high school so OBVIOUSLY i'm using the school wifi to beta explicit destiel fic

#like they can see anything anyone does on their wifi #or at least they could with the student wifi #so it's this #hehehe >:)#i am a menace #cw homophobia #cw christianity #destiel #spn fic #fanfiction #also my options were “work on this fic i'm a beta for” and “read merthur fic” soooo #either way it's gay #and i could not be happier about it #i am also blatantly violating the dress code in about every way imaginable btw

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nirvanai · 11 months

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having au thoughts again. mix of a yukuto lives au+ another “but what if bibi and the ryuki twins had known each other” au. in this one bibi was adopted into the ryuki family at a young age (the twins thought she was a superhero bc they saw her run through a wall while on a walk and befriended her like. instantly.) by the time she’s 18 she’s gotten an internship with ABIS thanks to her older brother who works there, and boss is the only person who pauses to wonder why she looks so much like mizuki okiura lmao

also bonus doodle of the kids

#my arts #bibi #bibi kuranushi #aini #aini spoilers #nirvana initiative #nirvanai #nirvana initiative spoilers #nirvanai spoilers #i... am starting to get Fic Ideas so i dont think i'll say too much more on details #but the twins tend to call her zuki or zuzu as nicknames #she also gets constant dress code violation writeups from the school #kuruto doesn't know what to do about it so he's just 'yea i cant stop her. good luck'#tfw oldest brother is a total pushover and other brother encourages it-#she also does know how to act all formal and polite. but she hates it #her and yukuto ditch kuruto whenever there's something formal unless he needs the emotional support lskdjfghsdfg

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bumblingbabooshka · 11 months

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Elieth had a 'secret earring' phase and Varith kept extorting him for candy over it.

#Varith as a kid thought all their older siblings were SO COOL but only felt comfortable acting more jokey with Elieth #(Asil was too cool to even approach and Sek acted more parental and calm towards Varith)#Unexpectedly Elieth never acted like Varith was a hindrance or a bother to hang out with...even though he did tease him a lot v_v #Elieth is 1000% violating his school's dress code - you can't even tell that's a uniform anymore #imagine some ten year old calling you a societal drain - what would you even do? AND you have to read him a secret bedtime story #lest he tell your parents about your secret earring...life is hell <- Elieth loves his siblings <3 #Sek is demonstrating how NOT to get in trouble at school every single day for the same thing no matter what #[REDACTED] family shenanigans #bea art tag

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yw4thevenom · 4 months

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Today I experienced true joy and ultimate bliss

#my friend (in the pic) got them 4 christmas cuz hes like mega rich and everyone was so mesmerized #i love them they make me feel like a cartoon character #also yes he did tell me to wear my pants over them to make them low top cuz we are 2 fashion icons #also my bitch ass vice principal was searching for a way they violated dress code lmao he was so pressed

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burgerspeople · 7 months

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my principal just emailed me and another teacher asking to check a kid for dress code violations tomorrow morning and I… 💀 I literally refuse to dress code kids lol because 1) I don’t care and honestly don’t pay much attention to their clothes which just proves that clothes aren’t that distracting!! and 2) I refuse to say anything to a preteen about their attire because the thought of that talk makes me uncomfortable!!! I’m not doing it lol

#I’ll tell my principal what the problem is and she can take care of it herself if it’s that serious to her #because I refuse #it’s a waste of time dress coding literal kids #if I haven’t noticed the violation then it clearly isn’t that big of a deal!!!#🤦‍♀️

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youngpettyqueen · 7 months

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going to a punk rock flea market today which means I get to finally drag my battle vest out of the closet for the first time in months

#I dont wear my battle vest to work cause like #there's technically nothing about it that violates any sort of dress code #but I feel like they wouldnt like me wearing it #I did also have to fix it up a bit #remove the Alice Cooper patch I had cause he decided to be openly transphobic #no worries there ill just replace the patch with something I get today probably #anyways this market is super fucking cool from the looks of it #ive never been so I was perusing the site and vendors #soooooo excited hehehe

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dilfsuzanneyk · 8 months

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there's technically nothing stopping me from putting a shit ton of patches and pins on my old varsity jacket.

#it's my favourite one though i wear it to school all the time #but then again. how would silly little homemade patches and pins and other assorted things violate dress code.#i'll avoid like profanities i guess.#oh my god did i ever tell you guys the time i got scolded for having a laptop sticker that said “shut up”#good god #vex rambles

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microsuedemouse · 10 months

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I have been wearing my altered jeans at work for like two months without a single word from management - and, in point of fact, with numerous compliments from customers, coworkers, and supervisors - but apparently I’m not allowed to anymore? because I guess yesterday someone from corporate saw them and told my manager they weren’t acceptable for work? my trousers have to be a single solid colour (specifically black or dark blue). I need outta this place so bad lmao

#I explained I don’t have any other pants that fit rn and she said it was fine if I needed some time to shop or had to wait for next payday #which is good at least #but still. I’m ANNOYED.#can head office please concern themselves with larger problems.#instead of literally the least offensive dress code violation possible.#worse ones are happening all over the store all the time btw #not that I really agree w a lot of the dress code stipulations in general but still #like. I get what dress codes are for. and I know some of the rules have safety in mind even #but I don’t think my pants are a problem #unless you’re worried they might remind the customers that cashiers are actual human beings with their own personalities and inner lives.#WHATEVER. I GUESS I HAVE TO GO PANTS SHOPPING. FINE.#personal #grocery grunt

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pollenallergie · 8 months

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Didn’t really study for this calculus test… Oops. Let’s pray I at least get a 60%.

#also my top might violate my work’s dress code so i’m bringing a sweater with me to where over it in case anyone says anything #when you first followed me did you think you’d be getting such a massive amount oversharing & such a minimal amount of actual fics??#this can’t be what you signed up for

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supermarketcrush · 9 months

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we should start wearing fake blood like a casual accessory like necklaces or earrings tbh

#🫀#i still have a little over one bottle of red syrup from halloween 22.........i want to wear it to comic con so bad but i think #it violates the cosplay dress code(?)/rules

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