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I'm autistic. Why are neurotypicals allowed to hurt my feelings, but when I retaliate everyone defends them?
Yeah I can relate. The underlying issue is that there are “socially acceptable” ways to hurt people which NTs know the codes to do. If you do the same thing but “too directly” it’s then considered “you’re a bad person”. There’s also this completely pointless system of implicitly defined social power structure. So depending on where you are, they are also cleared by others to do some terrible things. I think it’s because most NTs are not as observant about what’s actually happening, so they just follow whoever was able to make them feel good/trusts regardless of what actually is happening. I’ve seen at least 2 literal sociopaths executing those things but when I tried to protect others from them, I ended up being the one “punished”. It’s really weird and not fair, but that’s unfortunately how it works in majority NT environments. Unless you can outwit them, I’d advise just stay away. End ID]
I know this is quora but uh... It makes so much sense literally it all clicked together. This person cracked the code and this is soothing to know I'm not alone in this. Why I'm immediately jumped while everyone else gets coddled when they're absolutely horrible to me. If I retaliate I'm automatically the bad guy and the villain and an awful person but NTs are just poor little babies who did nothing wrong even when they do everything to hurt me lol guess I don't fucking want to know the code because I'm not a lying piece of shit like them.
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Can we agree that the "Thats two things" line from Mike was autistic as shit
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My punk ass cannot stand it when people call characters who kill or abuse or often both tons of innocent people and actively further corrupt whatever society they exist in 'revolutionaries' because they have sad backstories.My siblings in christ,that's not a revolutionary,that's a fascist😭💀
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'Argumentative,antiethical dreamgirl' is a REAL Taylor Swift lyric??????
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reread the rest thus far of lackadaisy and there's the both v easy & difficult task of gathering a shit ton but only a shit ton of excerpts (like every single page is a highlight i'm not exaggerating)
and every single element is superlative and the way it all only becomes More So....already mentioned the way the like smooth gradient shading made the successful evocation of 3D Shapes more noticeable, along w/the consistent geometries of character design & details in fabric folds; the way Lighting & Coloring only goes on to become more prominent elements only enhances that further. the compositions, backgrounds, pacing, angles....everything is so dynamic & expressive, such as including the expressions which you know i also Love / absorbed
going "hell yes for people to discover this superlative comic" then having to occasionally refresh past site traffic overloaded server errors like "nooo" but actually yes
whilest clapping & cheering for the fun of everyone who's been here a minute. My God the invigorating reward when again i started reading in '07 & the concept of rocky & freckle on a "proper" run had only manifested via fun official bonus art, then a literal decade later as it was actually happening in the comic like screeeeaammm i can feel it coming in the air tonight oh lord etc....i've loved following it, again, if i see another new comic page. i am going to be Enriched
i also really was right on the ball myself this time around like okay okay yep i have picked up on Everything, at least to the degree i can lmao. i love the mysteries. i love how Character Focused it is too ofc and there's no characters i'm uniterested in / dislike. you gotta point to one of them, truly, and i have been a [pointing at freckle] enjoyer these fifteen years but fr i am a connoisseur of everyone, i love that so many characters are a weird mysterious chaos element story driver in their own right. i considered mordecai more intently than ever, love his like ultra mystery (and that we leave off on him doing some detectiving even) and truly fun that like, the source of the more Immediate problems he keeps having in every damn interaction isn't the like [wow mordecai with the just diving into the hatchet murdering] factor so much as it's that he's generally like "i am just standing here" and is not nt in any way that matters and people insist on fucking with him on that front. the peak tragedy of him in a bonus comic getting bullied into having to dance with someone to Be Polite like i'm so sorry i wish you could be that ficus too. anyways intrigued with the marigold &/or mordecai mysteries including that it's like, how coincidental is it that he talks about marigold having a thorn in its side & the savoys' nickname for him is peekon = thorn. there is so much to consider, love that for us truly. and i'm rooting for mordecai & nicodeme's dynamic out here, is another conclusion....very enriched by comparing & contrasting that serafine nicodeme mordecai triumvirate with the rocky ivy freckle one, to be sure. im enriched
i'm also enriched by every footnote that's got like historical facts / research notes / [this is inaccurate for xyz prioritization but here's the disclaimer] explanations. i Love information. and everything else like i loooove this comic it's Soooo Fucking putting my hands to my temples and inhaling at length through my teeth
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support group for psychotic/paranoid kids who had to watch end of the world climate change videos in school and never recovered quite right
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do u ever just wanna
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is there anything you wanna say before you leave us, frank?
(Not a "response" to this ask so much as the last one. Not a serious response, anyway)
I must go to my fruition. I must be with my conjoined one. I must be free, and I must join with the other.
Farewell.
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Bitches will see an abusive mother in fiction and make every excuse in the world for her; meanwhile, they’ll see a flawed father in fiction and decide that he’s actually abusive and the fucking Devil himself. 🙄
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hey in case you come across this post and don't know/are not fluent in spanish there's actually a dozen tweets explaining how the netherlands players disrespected the fuck out of argentina tonight to get that reaction from them after the match ended💙💙💙
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Kieran didn’t say on his instagram what prompted this and that game was far to boring to pay close attention to.
HOWEVER maybe they are looking at Harry Kane - who is on my shit list for giving the captains band to Harry Maguire and not Kerian when he and Henderson went off - giving the captain’s arm band to Harry.
The swapping of the arm band, normally the most romantic and softly sensual of all the football activities (Declan and Mark, Martin and Granit, Kieran and Callum), ugh Maguire. The man who challenges even my attraction to basic white dudes who happen to be tall.
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i’m sorry, but i’m really fucking confused as to why Southgate keeps giving Ben call up’s to not even list him as a sub? He had to deal with this shit during the Euros and it lead to a drop in his confidence and mental health issues…. He was good enough for WCQ but not the last window before the WC??? make it make sense🤦🏻♀️
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i… literally just learned about the existence of "transautistic"
so assuming this isn't just a transphobic troll scheme...
if using chewelry or communication cards brings you comfort just?? do it?? if you feel you are or should be autistic just??? be autistic then??!!?!!! so what if you don't have the strongest textbook symptoms, you almost certainly are some variety of neurodivergent at least. (maybe consider identifying as neurodivergent rather than autistic if unsure)
besides, it's not like anyone selling assistive tools is gonna be mad about extra sales. it's a common topic in disability circles that it's generally a net positive when assistive tools and shit become normalised, bc more demand leads to more supply.
whether you're autistic or not, you can just buy the things you want, use the coping mechanisms, whatever helps you. you don't need the damn dx to be allowed.
... just maybe don't appropriate trans terminology while at it, lol.
as for the dx'd autistics outrageposting and maybe even bullying these transautistics... seems kinda cringe. either you're giving trolls the attention and outrage they want -> being their lolcow. or you're being mean to misguided fellow neurodivergents. so like. chill. leave them to their own merit.
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My hate on Ronaldo is on the higher level ever. Hello, how can someone watch Portugal play and think that Ronaldo should still play??
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tell them
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