How do you make new friends in London in your mid-late 20s? Feeling pretty lonely and don’t know where to start!
Oh pal same. London is so hard - when I went to Bermuda it happened so easily and naturally, coming back here has been like a cold shock. But I'm not giving up, I'm taking my Bermuda lessons back with me.
What I'm doing:
- starting with the obvious. Inviting the girl I've always had good chats with to get lunch after tennis drill. Actually properly going to dinner with my secretary. Reconnecting with people from the past who I've fallen out of touch with.
- being more present. Less time with headphones in, more aware of the spaces around me. Hasn't worked yet but who knows, I could meet my next best friend at a bus stop.
- being open. The best thing I learned in Bermuda is that many, many more people can be good friends than just those I would naturally gravitate towards. When options are limited (the entire island is 51k people, and the pool of people around my age without kids was way, way smaller), you're more tolerant and willing to try things out. And I made such a good group of friends out there, with people who I probably wouldn't have said more than two sentences to in London.
- saying yes. To all kinds of things. Another Bermuda lesson: getting out of your comfort zone is a good thing, and it's easy to make fast friends when everyone feels silly.
- making the first move. Anti-British to talk to strangers, I know but I'm not British so fuck that. Compliment that girls earrings, make a joke about how long the line is to the gal next to you in the queue at the bar, ask the cool person at work for coffee. Brits are shy reserved, so if I have to do more work, fine. It's a small price to pay.
- lean on friends of friends. Who has your friend been talking about for years that you haven't met yet? Meet them. Throw a house party and tell people to bring people you don't know. Start telling your friends to bring their friends and colleagues along to drinks. I read this excellent article recently about what life was like before cell phones and man, it sounds pretty good. I'm going to try to establish a standing bar that my friends know I'll be at on a certain night to encourage more unplanned fun.
That's what I've got - anyone else have advice?
+ sleepover saturday
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[First Part] - [second]
Baby (who still has no name) is warming up to Geralt, who also starts to connect some dots. (Like, I think he suspects that he's Jaskiers son, adopted or otherwise, but he won't even humor the idea that he could be the dad.)
That being said - the kid is an angry teenager sometimes. Jaskier tried all he could as a single parent and they have a very loving relationship, but I also think they do argue quite a bit, and there is some tension.
And the more he gets to learn how Geralt truly is the weirder is gets, cause. He's a good guy? And either Jaskier is petty and was too dramatic and kept him from meeting his dad for nothing, or Geralt isn't a good guy AT ALL and has hurt Jaskier really bad, and he doesn't think Geralt has it in him, but some people (and especially alphas) get really weird and archaic around omegas? And he had to witness again and again, with how little respect his unbonded, single father of a bastard child was treated - is Geralt like that too? But Jaskier still only ever talked somewhat kindly about him. And from all he saw... he trusts Geralt. He's a quiet, but witty and honorable man. But is it fair to doubt the parent that was there for him, that raised him, that sacrificed so much for him? The poor kid is so conflicted.
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Meat Marionette 7?? 8????
Thinkin of the lil robins and other kids and just, them trying to build Jarro a meat body maybe. Idk, still rotating Jarro and if he'd have one seeing as they had to build his human form via some different body parts and such...
Anyway did some sleep deprived sketches of each- though I just realized I didn't label Cullen, oh well lol. I like to think the first couple robins are all more flesh and exposed muscle looking as the Tunnels adjust to building bodies that can still, well, grow and develop.
They've only just succeeded in building a body that can move and semi function with Bruce after all, and even then it takes a couple years for that body to shift into something more alive with like, a stomach and such that needs more than time in the Hive and some Lazarus water for food and hydration. And even then it's another year or so of the bodies needing to be fed via IV before everything actually becomes semi functional as well, a body.
But anyway, his eleven children!
Dick's body starts out the most simple, but is also the first that they discover that the meat marionettes can in fact evolve seeing as he starts to grow electricity-producing organs almost akin to something like an eel.
Which is probably very distressing to Bruce because like, this is his baby?? Who can suddenly tase people which is fine, but what if it gets stronger?
Jason's robin body doesn't get a lot of evolution before the Joker Incident, and then it formed a cocoon to become the next form over a year or so. I do feel like his wings were fluffier and had some down still, not enough to prevent flight, but enough to slow down say, take offs.
By the time Tim & Steph comes around, their bodies have started to develop more armor similar to Bruce's. Like the bodies are slowly developing even when the Hive first creates them from the flesh walls as the Tunnels get better at building living moving bodies. Like it's still are mostly soft larva-esque chitin still, but It's still visibly learning.
And then with Cass her body is far darker, more similar to one of the Bats than the rest of the babies. There's still bits of color- bright yellows to warn for venom and poison- but it's such a sudden left turn that they're concerned about what the Tunnels might do next.
It's a relief when it goes back to more colorful designs with the next ones, even if Duke probably has ended up the most armored straight out of the flesh.
Honestly in general I feel like they're actually very soft if someone gets close enough to touch them. Like they look terrifying, especially in night when it's dark out, but compared to their parent & aunt they're like fluffy baby birds.
Something the kids in Gotham are probably familiar with, because the birds will help comfort scared people and victims while Bruce takes care of whatever caused their distress. Sometimes just crouches down and pulls out a small puzzle or something from one of his bags while waiting for the police to arrive while distracting the kids, his own and not.
Jarro if he does have a body like theirs, meat marionette or made by them, I feel like it looks more like some sort of hybrid of whatever the batclan are and some sort of aquatic creature. Like an aquatic (swimming?) xenomorph compared to a runner or a drone.
Visibly the same species, but looks almost like a similar caste or subspecies if that makes sense? But honestly if yall have any ideas I am open to them.
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