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uncanny-tranny · 10 months

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Periodic reminder that unless a person specifically and clearly tells you it is okay to tell others they are trans or queer, you should err on the side of caution and assume they do not want you to tell people (especially random people!) about their transness or queerness.

You have no idea, generally, why somebody doesn't talk openly about their trans or queer status, and you have no idea, truly, how somebody might react to that information. The most progressive person out there is still capable of harbouring incredibly negative thoughts about somebody's queer status.

#lesbian #gay #bi #bisexual #trans #transgender #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #ally advice #inspired after somebody at work outed me (again ×3)#i don't care how 'safe' you assume they will be! you cannot TRULY guarantee their safety!#you are effectively gambling with somebody's safety by assuming you can out them #also even if their safety was somehow 100% guaranteed it is still not your place to dictate what others know about THEM #like it isn't your own information you are giving out. the other person is a real human being with real thoughts...#...and there are real ramifications to your actions! this is like... real life and like... real people #anyway. i'm still fucking horrified at how cool people are (at least wrt me) with outing others 🙃🫠#and it just... further reminds me that others see me as like... a thing to be talked about/over and i'm not seen as an autonomous human #maybe that's not their intentions 9/10 times but that still doesn't justify it nor does it change how i interpret that behaviour 👍#it's just dehumanizing imo to be reminded 'your comfort DOESN'T MATTER. i think you should be talked ABOUT not TO.'#clarification for the first tag: this is the THIRD time somebody has outed me. i NEVER talk about being trans to... pretty much ANYBODY irl #it's shit like this that i have to resist taking the 'doompill' over #because it's scary and dehumanizing every. single. time. i feel so fucking scared each time #because - AGAIN - i know my safety will NEVER be guaranteed because i am trans and queer

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yesokayiknow · 1 month

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human au. some of these guys spend too much time on here and it shows

#don't ask how long this took #doctor who #the doctor #the master #i'm not tagging them all. god #nu who doctors & masters & also 8 is there bc he's just a lil guy (and tbf no one can agree which era he belongs to anyway)#fun fact i started making these so long ago that i had to redo the ones i'd done bc tumblr had changed its layout in the intervening time #i don't know 15 well enough yet to make him one but also he's exclusively an insta girlie lbr #or war and fugitive. but i think war doesn't have social media and fugitive's starting stan wars on twitter #jacobi!master is exclusively linkedin #also 10's a horsegirl argue with the wall. he saw barbie twelve times and came away with the wrong message #is there a bg for this au? not really. in my main human au everyone is pretty wild whereas here they're more normal #they're just hangin out here ig. 9-11+14 are siblings. 12+13 are siblings. the two groups + 8 are cousins #saxon & missy are cousins and missy & spymaster are foster siblings #if anyone likes this i'll make one for the companions too. actually i probably still will bc honestly this was really fun & relaxing to mak #but if you see an error in one of these no you didn't. don't point it out to me i'll scream

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confused-wanderer · 2 months

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All the bats have their own ways of addressing other people.

Dick uses “kid, kiddo, buddy, friend”

Jason is similar, using “hey, kid, fucker”

Tim uses “you, *insert guys name or meme referring to guy*”

Stephanie uses “honey, friend, bud, *insert funny nickname*”

Damian uses “you,*insert what he considers whoever he’s talking to’s biggest flaw*

But Batman?

Batman uses “Love, princess, darling”

That’s how all the thirst traps started.

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freakadr0id · 2 years

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Oh my GOD, I just realized why Donnie acts so weird in Man vs. Sewer. I always thought his behavior was odd in that episode, particularly in his nonchalance towards finding and saving Raph - but I had the most random thought occur to me during work that TOTALLY explains it. I'm sure some people have probably pointed this stuff out already, but I wanted to put this out there anyway.

The episode 'Man-vs-Sewer' is a personal favorite of mine. I love the episodes where the boys are just goofing off, and this episode is that plus some. We see get to see the boys having fun for a bit at the start of the episode, but it also adds a bit more depth to some of the turtles. We see a really surprising side to Raph's character with his fear of being alone, and Leo gets to shine a bit as a leader and hint at his true potential.

However, I was always a bit puzzled by the way Donnie and Mikey were written in this episode. As a rule, Rise is pretty good about keeping its characters, well, in character, so their behavior struck me as kind of strange, particularly Donnie's.

If there is one thing Rise NAILS about Donnie's character is showing that despite struggling with emotions and empathy, he is still NOT AN ASSHOLE. Donnie genuinely and deeply loves his family - he just has a hard time expressing it externally.

'Man-vs-Sewer' kind of stood out to me as an exception to that, however. At this point, Donnie's care for his brothers is an undisputed fact, so why does he seem so unconcerned about finding Raph after being separated? Even for Donnie, this seems like an ooc level of indifference towards the well-being of his brother (at least that's how I saw it).

Except, it isn't. In fact, this episode only reinforces that Donnie does care for his family, it's just a *bit* harder to see here.

One thing many neurodivergent people struggle with is a sudden change in plans. When they expect to do something that day it can be very difficult for some neurodivergent people to deal with it emotionally and can lead to immense frustration or even shutdowns. Since Donnie is confirmed to be, at the very least, autistic coded, this would absolutely apply to him as well.

The turtles planned to have a nice, relaxing day floating along New York's sewers and enjoying a small break from all the stress of finding the Dark Armor. No fighting, no mystic metal, no foot clan. Just a calm day of fun without a care in the world - only for it to be ruined by a bad pass and a lost brother.

I know if my plans were ruined like that, I would be in an absolutely FOUL mood. It can be hard to transition into a different mindset when the expectations for the day change like that, and it can make anyone frustrated, but Donnie doesn't appear to be that way. In fact, he's acting extremely casual.

Even though everything he was going to do today was upended and his brother is now missing in the New York sewers, why does Donnie seem so unconcerned about the whole situation?

Answer: It's a coping mechanism.

It would be very easy for him to be a bit more annoyed and frustrated at the whole situation (I definitely would be), but he isn't. Instead, he avoids getting overwhelmed and emotional by continuing through the day as if nothing has really changed.

The whole time they are finding Raph, Donnie behaves as if they are still on a peaceful, carefree mini-vacation. He makes snide jokes and jabs toward Leo, enjoys the drinks he brought in his shell, and constantly reminds the others that it is his "day off." If he can act as though he's still relaxing, it becomes easier to adjust to unexpected alterations in his day. This isn't Donnie being willfully inconsiderate towards Raph being lost and alone, this is just him trying to manage with the sudden changes the best he can in that moment.

If Donnie really was an uncaring asshole (as some may be inclined to believe given his apparent lack of empathy), he simply would have resumed their original plans, or been more vocally resistant to going after Raph. Instead, he joins his brothers in their search, and although he may not provide the best input for finding Raph because of his coping method (his brain is in "day off" mode which is why he keeps missing clues about Raph), he is still making an effort.

In a way, the episode which I thought portrayed a slightly out-of-character version of Donnie actually provides yet another example of how Donnie really loves his brothers, despite how it may seem on the surface.

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(Actually, depending on the way you interpret his character, the same can be said for Mikey in this episode as well. Mikey is always a bit of a goofball in the show but in this episode, it is dialed up to 11. He also doesn't seem to much care or effort into finding Raph and acts like a child who managed to snag one of their parents' energy drinks. If we consider that maybe he is also struggling to adapt to the changes of the day, this could be him adopting a similar coping method to Donnie, it is just amplified because of his hyperactive behavior and personality.)

#damn I am continually impressed with how well Rise writes Donnie #seriously there are so many ways they could have really butchered his characterization #esp. as an autistic/autistic-coded character #but 9 times out of 10 the writers show that they *get* Donnie #and that they take time to consider how they portray his character in a healthy and positive manner #they have a couple missteps here or there #but overall Donnie is written just brilliantly #I hope I explained this well enough #I'm kind of thought dumping after this came to me in a vision during work #and I HAD to make this after I got home #shit this ended up way longer than I intended #rottmnt #rise of the tmnt #rottmnt donnie #rise donnie #rottmnt donatello #rise donatello #analysis #character analysis #I guess #not my greatest work #but it'll do #let's play the 'will it show up in the tags game?'

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faretheeoscar · 3 months

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Traveling buddies!

I realised I never shared this here, but my two boys came along to my end of 2023 holiday vacations to Italy and let me tell you they had a blast!

#moonknight #lego photography #lego minifigures #steven grant #Marc Spector #mr knight #Italy #traveling #being silly by loving my boys so much #my brother was so sick of me staying in one place trying to get a cute pic of them #cause my camera wouldn’t focus and it was such a pain #photographing Lego is much more complicated than it looks like #also Steven is more on there causeliked to be more photographed than Marc k’? Marc got camera shy (his cape make him fall 9 out of 10 times #also the picture next to the tower? there is no hand holding him to look like he’s up on the building that’s just your imagination #and don’t worry Gus was safe sand sound at home being taken care of by my Lego Poe

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lastoneout · 3 months

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I love having adhd + ocd bcs that combo means I get to unlock "song stuck in your head: evil edition" where I literally want to lay down on the floor and scream bcs I physically cannot stop my brain from endlessly repeating a single catchy verse in a song that I don't even LIKE!!

#I've always been confused by people who say listening to the song will help #9 times out of 10 that just makes it worse for me #there is no escape

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yesmissnyx · 4 months

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For the love of fuck and all things horny, PLEASE just put SOMETHING resembling your age in your bio if you're going to DM people's porn accounts.

It doesn't have to be your actual age. It can be a ballpark. You can even be like "21+" or whatever.

I get that it's not foolproof and people can and will lie, but it's common courtesy. If you're going to be horny at someone in their DMs, at LEAST make it obvious that you're an adult.

#That being said I'm probably just gonna ignore DMs from people who don't list their age 9 times out of 10.#Usually I fire back with “Put your age in your bio and then we'll talk” but at this point I have many more people #who are DMing me who actually respect my boundaries 😜#nyxrambles #(Oh my god someone help; I am only back in OCTOBER with replying to DMs.)

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jeysuso · 4 months

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#the rock #wweedit #wwe raw #mygifs*#jeysuso #wrestling tag #*#Y'ALL ABOUT TO HEAR ME. DO YOU HEAR ME #lilian garcia didn't know what to do with herself 9 times out of 10 bro #and who could blame herrrrrrrr #that first one 🫠🫠🫠🫠

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sillybumblebee · 2 months

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back in my OUAT era, have a crush on half of the cast

i kinda wanted him out of my head so i drew him, but guess what ? it didn't work 😔

also alastor's voice fits his mf i take no criticism, same flavour of character 💅

#i took an hour to process the fact that 20 year old me think he's kind of a smash #his relationships are chaotic but i'm here for it #also i wanna slap him in the face 9 times out of 10 #rumplestiltskin #rumple #ouat rumple #once upon a time #ouat #ouat fanart #rumplestilskin fanart #mr gold #ouat gold

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moonilit · 9 months

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Ok but the entire Dawn winery staff jumping around informing each other that kaeya is here so all of them get a chance to see him was very sweet, like i knew the staff cared about him but it’s nice to get a confirmation and few childhood stories lol

#The DW staff throwing diluc off the stairs to get to see kaeya: MOVE #connor run all the way to get him the wine like buddy #Me running screaming and turning on the floor because i get to listen to Crepus and kaeya stories #I never asked for a perfect Crepus just a good dad Crepus and i GOT IT!#the basterd i actually believed diluc when he said he didn’t like wine for its taste #but apparently his pride was so hurt by his father punishment he just made wine his mortal enemy #Which seeing the fact that it was out of his own actions it checks out #Wow master diluc #Any way i would die for addy #Addy basically said: if they were getting into trouble 10/9 of times it’s somehow Diluc’s doing and she is right #kaeya being the favorite child is making my day ifdvnk #Kaeya #diluc #im not doing the rest i don’t have the energy #Feel free to spoil #genshin impact #Crepus

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dizzybizz · 1 year

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a nighttime teru

#i would tuck him into bed and give him a glass of warm milk. i would laugh while kicking him down the stairs.#i would die for him. i would kill him.#i hate him #he is like 9 times out of 10 what drags me back into tbhk ugh #toilet bound hanako kun #tbhk #jibaku shounen hanako kun #jshk #minamoto teru #my teru to kamisato ayato to shi wudu pipeline #its so real and makes so much sense- source: trust me #fanart #my art #also this is a redraw of a piece i didnt like at any stage of the process and i still dont like it :))))))))))))))

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audino · 23 days

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it actually is really frustrating not being able to understand a lot of wordy academic language but also figurative speech metaphors etc because i see posts on here touching on sociological topics and issues

and it’s just straight up gibberish to me and i feel ashamed and stupid for not getting it. but i won’t ask for help because i don’t want to be shamed or deemed problematic for not understanding

and people on this website keep confusing a lack of reading comprehension with people who legitimately struggle with different facets of language and meaning

like y’all talk about how we need to support autistics/adhd people/those with learning disorders/those who struggle with emotions and empathy etc more but in the same breath say we’re all stupid for not understanding your essay on a tumblr post

#sorry this makes me really mad #this website is far less woke than y’all seem to think lol #not understanding something doesn’t come from a malicious place 9 times out of 10 #bun txt

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glitteratti · 24 days

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tried to tell my dad i will probably be upset about missing the eclipse because it will be cloudy so he was prepared and it wouldn’t be surprised and instead of being understanding he got upset with me and more or less accused me of trying to guilt him into changing plans 😂 fathers will be like “we need to roll with the punches” and then not do that when it is their daughters having emotions

#.txt #like everybody KNOWS this has been bucket list no.1 for me since i was like 9 or 10 #the way i have to ALWAYS tell him when im experiencing an emotion that im not doing it to guilt him. at age 25.#i try to talk to my father about emotions and i feel like i am a teenager again. every time. LOL #he literally said ‘i went out of my way to include you on this trip do NOT make me regret it’ damn okay sorry for having emotions. my bad

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handweavers · 4 months

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it is funny to think that i used to constantly argue with the most annoying people on here abt lgbt discourse back in like 2017 and still see the same people acting just as they did 6+ yrs ago with the same god awful opinions on everything whereas i would literally rather kms than engage in any kind of internet fighting about anything ever again

#the only times i fight w anyone now is when they come onto my own post and 9/10 i dont even respond i just block or ignore them #power to u guys who still do i just dont have it in me anymore. stresses me out too much

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quasi-normalcy · 5 months

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#Just read a disquieting rumour that my ex was faking being indigenous.#Which...#I mean #I didn't see the evidence #All that I know is that this call-out post went up about 9 months ago in indigenous facebook groups #and my ex's entire online presence was apparently immediately scrubbed afterwards #which i'm only learning just now because honestly i've broken off all contact with them and with the rest of their friends #but like...it kinda wouldn't surprise me?#but the thing was they were an extremely militant decolonization activist #like they would go on long angry rants about appropriation and 'pretendians' and how terrible they were #but also like...they didn't really identify as indigenous until i think a year or so into our relationship?#and at the time i just figured ''whatever they're reconnecting with their roots''#(I'm not indigenous; I don't know how these things work)#but then they started speaking sporadically in a fake accent when around other Native people and going on about how 'Rez' they were #and like...'Rez'. Mate.#I know for a fact that you grew up in a $10 million house in Hawaii #(at least I assume it was a fact)#And they were a big fan of using social justice arguments and language as a pretext for abusing me.#And if it was a lie then. Well. It would be very much in character for them let me just say.#Like they lied constantly to other people. I just...I guess I assumed that I was an exception?#Or that they wouldn't lie about the big stuff. Especially when they acted so vociferously angry about it.#But yeah. Trying to assume the absolute most marginalised social identity they can for clout sounds very much like something they would do.

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incoherentbabblings · 3 months

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I understand people joking about unintelligible accents/dialects sometimes I do but there is always something really surreal about seeing one that is either yours or one that you understand perfectly well being made the butt of a joke and you'll sit there like what's the joke they're being perfectly coherent!

There are many many many many examples of this but the one that is relevant for myself is the chap in Brave speaking Doric. He's not even speaking that fast.

If he was a wee bit closer I could lob a caber [tree trunk/log] at him, ken [you know]? and It's just nae fair making us fit [fight] for the hand of the quine [woman], it disnae whet an appetite, ken [you know]?

#just something I was thinking about #to be fair doric is mocked by scots because it does use certain lingo that glasgow and edinburgh don't and it does have a different rhythm #still #he's a nice boy who enjoys caber tossing and saying 'it just doesn't make sense' in the most poetic way possible #also see chicken run but i think the joke is more on the rooster for being ignorant than the hen rolling her rs #i think it's just if you aren't used to the pattern of speaking it can be hard #i have a pretty neutral english accent and when i was in washington dc the blooming concierge didn't understand me and i was so baffled #so... no judgement i know it's more than just being ignorant 9 times out of 10

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